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| Subject | Date Asked |
| I'm lost | 10/17/2009 |
| Q: I'm 16, and at my new school, I have come to hang out with two guys, who are good friends. They've ... A: I think you should tell him how you're feeling. If he really likes you, he would understand. It's ... | |
| What's his problem????? | 10/17/2009 |
| Q: Well there's this guy, and we were never lovers although it has felt like it. We were friends a long ... A: I personally think you should just leave this guy alone, falling into cycles isn't healthy and will ... | |
| Question | 10/16/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriends inability to cry bothers me. He's had a strict father, and friends that taught him to ... A: I apologize for taking so long. I just got over a cold. Just because he doesn't cry around you, ... | |
| I love him, But.... | 10/13/2009 |
| Q: I have this guy who I'm falling quite hard for.... And he is quite fond of me as well. We have ... A: I think you should follow what your heart is telling you to do. Ask yourself if you can stand to ... | |
| Please Help | 10/12/2009 |
| Q: Ok, me and my ex-boyfriend has been broke up for a little more that 6months. He has had a girlfriend ... A: It would only be a problem if your ex doesn't like it and tries to ruin the whole thing for you. It ... | |
| General advice | 10/12/2009 |
| Q: I just need some advice about approaching girls I'm 16 and well, i have trouble talking, approaching ... A: Sorry for taking so long to answer. I'm shy too. I normally find a guy I like, and find a way to get ... | |
| Hi | 10/11/2009 |
| Q: Although i am shy and doesnt talk much with girls cos i grew up with male friends. There is this ... A: if you don't want your image to get messed up then take it slow. Don't try to act like these other ... | |
| relationship | 10/10/2009 |
| Q: I'm 16 and at the start of the year I met a guy online. I suffer from depression and anxiety for ... A: He may know how you are, but that won't stop him from getting tired of dealing with how you act. I'm ... | |
| more of him? | 10/10/2009 |
| Q: Hey Bianca, My names Jessica, I'm dating a boy named Daniel. We recently got back together, and ... A: I have the same problem myself. I only get to see my boyfriend on Fridays, when I was use to seeing ... | |
| say i love you | 10/10/2009 |
| Q: My names Jessica, I'm dating this guy Daniel (were both 18)and last time i wrote to you it was about ... A: My boyfriend has the same problem because I'm not a very emotional person. You can just tell him you ... | |
| Hi | 10/9/2009 |
| Q: Although i am shy and doesnt talk much with girls cos i grew up with male friends. There is this ... A: I don't really know how this girl is, but I'll try to help you. Since it's only been 2 weeks, you ... | |
| how to start a conversation with a girl, whilst walking to college | 9/28/2009 |
| Q: I'm Alistair, or Ali is easier, I live in the south of england, (but am actually scottish lol). ... A: You could start gradually instead of just jumping into her face lol. Try smiling at her and saying ... | |
| she gives me signs that she likes me but doesn't want a boyfriend. | 9/28/2009 |
| Q: I am almost certain she is flirting with me. I have been reading on the internet about all sorts of ... A: She could be afraid of commitment, or something happened with her last boyfriend that makes her just ... | |
| Dateing my friends sister. | 9/27/2009 |
| Q: I want to know how I can date my friends sister. I am 17 and his sister is 15. I never wanted to get ... A: You might want to take a step back and wonder if asking her out is worth getting into it with a ... | |
| what do to... | 9/25/2009 |
| Q: I'm 20, the girl i like is 20. Ok basically I really like this girl and i've gotten to know her ... A: You could talk to her sister to see how she really feels. (Us girls tell our sisters everything) You ... | |
| Does he want to break-up? | 9/25/2009 |
| Q: Well. I've been dating this guy for about 6 months now, and lately he's been really distant. We have ... A: It could be either. He could really be busy, or he could be over the relationship. You won't really ... | |
| Question | 9/25/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I love eachother very much, and we are happy living in the moment,and have a very ... A: To be honest, it's not that great of a chance, unless the love you two have is SUPER strong, and ... | |
| Why does he do this to me?Does he like me at all? | 9/24/2009 |
| Q: Hey Biance, I'm 17 years old and I have this issue with a boy. He's my best friend and has been my ... A: Whew. He sounds really confused and young minded. If you still want to be friends with him, you're ... | |
| Relationships! | 9/24/2009 |
| Q: Ok so... I'm 19 and have just started seeing this guy of the same age. I've known him since I was ... A: I know how you feel. I've always been awkward in every relationship I've been in until now. You just ... | |
| I've loved her for so long... | 9/24/2009 |
| Q: Hey, I'm Matt and I'm 16, a junior in high school. Alright, so let me just get right down to it. ... A: This would be the perfect opportunity to make your move. Just don't jump right into the girlfriend ... | |
| Which boy? | 9/23/2009 |
| Q: I just turned 17, and I've been with a boy for several months who is only 14. However, he's not ... A: Hm..my personal opinion, I think you should try the older gentleman out. Seeing that he's older, I'm ... | |
| my boyfriend is prude. | 9/22/2009 |
| Q: i have been dating this boy for about a month now but we have been talking or "scheming" for about a ... A: Does he seems like he wants to go there? The two of you have to be in the "mood" to make any of this ... | |
| I have a boyfriend and a crush... | 9/22/2009 |
| Q: Things have been going pretty well except I barely ever see him during the school day, we have no ... A: Sorry for taking forever! I'm a little sick. You're not bothering me at all, this is what I'm here ... | |
| I need help with my ex and these other guys | 9/21/2009 |
| Q: Ok well my ex broke up with me a few weeks ago because his mom blocked my number from his phone and ... A: If you aren't interested in any of these guys, then don't bother. Dating them just because you like ... | |
| I have a boyfriend and a crush... | 9/21/2009 |
| Q: Things have been going pretty well except I barely ever see him during the school day, we have no ... A: This situation might take some thought, although I will say this. Before you make a big decision and ... | |
| Really need some help... | 9/20/2009 |
| Q: Ok..here' the thing...I have a friend...I really love him like my best friend,but he has ... A: It's going to be tough, but you're going to have to be upfront about how you feel about this whole ... | |
| Does he really like me? | 9/20/2009 |
| Q: Okay, when i was in 8th grade i met this guy who was a junior. He asked for my number and i gave it ... A: Honestly, it might be the age/grade difference. He might like you, but that's putting him off even ... | |
| I really like this boy, But .. | 9/20/2009 |
| Q: 13 female. Hello Bianca. Im not dating this guy but we're just really good friends.. or just good ... A: You're welcome. I'm sure he doesn't "hate" you. It might just be a little awkward for him because he ... | |
| I really like this boy, But .. | 9/20/2009 |
| Q: 13 female. Hello Bianca. Im not dating this guy but we're just really good friends.. or just good ... A: Are you wanting to say goodbye to get a reaction out of him? I don't think that's a good idea. ... | |
| I have a boyfriend and a crush... | 9/20/2009 |
| Q: Things have been going pretty well except I barely ever see him during the school day, we have no ... A: I think you should pick the one you could see lasting the longest, the one you have the most in ... | |
| When is the right time? | 9/19/2009 |
| Q: Well recently I met this girl and she's definitely interested in me. It was just a couple of days ... A: You might want to give her a little more time, otherwise if you take her on a date, you'll just hear ... | |
| Does He Like Me or What .?! | 9/18/2009 |
| Q: Hey Bianca, Well theres this guy that I go to school with, & we've only known each other for 2 days ... A: I apologize for taking so long! :( He definitely likes you lol He's showing all the signs and he's ... | |
| i love you... not | 9/18/2009 |
| Q: Hey Bianca, my name is Jessica. (if you recall i asked you a question called 'move on? or get him ... A: I can honestly say I know why you're so upset. I did the same thing to my boyfriend. I loved him ... | |
| Love...? | 9/18/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for about 7 months now and we are the first real relationship ... A: It's possible that he loves you, but he's still young and has a lot of growing up to do apparently. ... | |
| girls part 3 | 9/17/2009 |
| Q: it has been just over a week since my first day of high school and i met this girl and i really like ... A: Follow what your heart is telling you to do. Which one can you see yourself dating in the long run? ... | |
| Which Boy Do I Choose? | 9/17/2009 |
| Q: i have a real dilemma. I have been talking to a boy i met online for quite some time now, and we ... A: It all depends on what your heart tells you to do. You could meet the online boy first and THEN make ... | |
| Boy Trouble | 9/17/2009 |
| Q: Hey, my name's amber and i'm 14. I've used to date this guy, andrew. During the summer we've decided ... A: If you still want to talk to him or be friends, you need to get him alone so the two of you can talk ... | |
| confused in my own thoughts | 9/17/2009 |
| Q: i can to you in need of help for many ive listened 2 never rly could help me . well my name is isis ... A: In order to really love someone, one needs to love themselves first. You're only 14, love will come ... | |
| Confused . . What To Do .?! | 9/16/2009 |
| Q: Hey Bianca, I'll get straight to the point . My ex broke up with me by the end of August over ... A: You can't say yes because the reason you two broke up isn't completely solved. Before you even say ... | |
| He introduced me to his mother! Does that mean he likes me? | 9/16/2009 |
| Q: There's this guy (let's call him Steve) who I became really good friends with in a play about seven ... A: The signs are all there :) He's def. developing a crush on you. He came to see your play TWICE, ... | |
| How to make it stop hurting? | 9/15/2009 |
| Q: I have known this girl for 3 years now and everyday i see her because she sits right next to me in ... A: The only thing you can do at this point is just be her friend and respect that she has a boyfriend. ... | |
| Why is he treating me like this? | 9/15/2009 |
| Q: ! I'm in the same class with my crush. Last year he was really sweet to me, he was teasing me and ... A: It could be possible that he likes you, but you may have did or said something that made him think ... | |
| another question about ex. sorry if i seem needy | 9/15/2009 |
| Q: So I wasn't allowed anymore follow ups. But this one is when I feel like she is more calm and open ... A: Take the initiative and talk to her more, if you just sit back and wait, she'll take it as you not ... | |
| Again | 9/14/2009 |
| Q: Don't think the last one went through, so here it is again. It's Tyler again and I've got a few ... A: Hey Tyler, Go above and beyond. Let her know you're a guy that likes to do things for the girl he ... | |
| Beyond Love Triangle, Love Pentagon | 9/14/2009 |
| Q: So I'm stuck in a rather confusing situation involving 2 other of my girlfriends ("Katie" and ... A: Ah, a love triangle indeed!! Well, in my opinion, if you really like Tom, you should admit your ... | |
| Girlfriend getting sick of me? | 9/14/2009 |
| Q: I'm 17 and my girlfriend i'll be talking about is 16. She recently came to my school and doesn't ... A: Some people need space. I don't like to be around my guy 24/7, although I love him to death, it ... | |
| How do i get this guy to notice me at school? | 9/13/2009 |
| Q: I'm 13 and i recently noticed this guy at my school that i kind of like. The only problem is he ... A: Bumping people into the hallway could be a good thing, but if you don't really know that person, you ... | |
| is he really into me? | 9/13/2009 |
| Q: So i been dating this guy since the beginning of may. We would normally see each other on weekends. ... A: I'm one of the people that believe that drunken words are what that person is truly feeling. Being ... | |
| Hi again | 9/13/2009 |
| Q: Couldn't reply to the last question anymore:I asked this question yesterday:"I met this girl when I ... A: Hey again Tyler, No it wasn't a bad idea to call at all! It was actually a very sweet gesture and ... | |
| girls part 2 | 9/13/2009 |
| Q: it has been just over a week since my first day of high school and i met this girl and i really like ... A: ) I think after a month or two is a great time to ask her out, by then she will be comfortable ... | |
| Ingore it? | 9/12/2009 |
| Q: Hey Bianca, my names Jessica (age 18), about a week or so (it feels like forever ago) Daniel(age ... A: :) I'm so happy for you, and I'm glad you two talked about it and worked it out. It shows that you ... | |
| How can I find a girl after another blew it for me? | 9/12/2009 |
| Q: Some harpy who promised me love never gave it to me. We met in 2004. She told me to never date other ... A: I'm sorry to hear about your situation, but don't let it get you down. Are there any malls, or other ... | |
| move on? or get him back? | 9/11/2009 |
| Q: Hey Bianca, my names Jessica (age 18), about a week or so (it feels like forever ago) Daniel(age ... A: It seems like he regrets his decision but his pride is stopping him from asking you back out. But if ... | |
| boy i like | 9/11/2009 |
| Q: okay im 14 and i like this boy whos my friend hes really nice and his girl friend broke up with him ... A: Does he seem like he might be ready for a relationship? You might want to give him a couple of more ... | |
| datin | 9/10/2009 |
| Q: hey, i dated my best friends ex-boyfriend and i feel extremely fake for it. i felt fake while i was ... A: Well, honestly, you came clean and you admitted that you feel like you're a fake friend, so you're ... | |
| How do I make boys notice me? | 9/9/2009 |
| Q: I just got over my ex boyfriend.. He was kind of an online one, so I've never really been good with ... A: Is there a movie theater or somewhere where teens hang out in your town? You can try there, or if ... | |
| How do I make boys notice me? | 9/9/2009 |
| Q: I just got over my ex boyfriend.. He was kind of an online one, so I've never really been good with ... A: If you're bringing yourself down over your weight, then the FIRST thing you should do is build up ... | |
| I don't know what she's feeling | 9/9/2009 |
| Q: Im 17 my girlfriend is 15, we have been dating for a year and I am 1000000% in love with this girl ... A: You picked the right person for this. :) My ex hurt me really badly, to the point I hated every guy ... | |
| Does she like me? | 9/9/2009 |
| Q: There’s this girl that I like at work, she started working there a 2 months ago and it turns out ... A: To be honest, if she liked you, she would actually come to work instead of calling in all the time. ... | |
| im still in love with my ex boyfreind what should i do?? | 9/8/2009 |
| Q: hey bianca im paris and i broke up with my boyfriend a couples of weeks ago we were togethter for ... A: )] It all depends on what broke you guys up in the first place. If it wasn't anything major that ... | |
| well.. does he still like me | 9/8/2009 |
| Q: hey. uhm. me n my bf had been together since october 2008 up to may 2009, we've been on and off. he ... A: It's quite obvious he still likes you. There might be days when he wants to talk to you and give you ... | |
| Friendship | 9/7/2009 |
| Q: I've known my best friend for about 7 months now, and he and I were closer then most people. We ... A: If you tell him you're not happy for him anymore, then you're just gonna push him further away. Some ... | |
| let go? | 9/7/2009 |
| Q: Ok I am seriously at a loss about what to do. Last spring I started dating my best guy friend. We ... A: Just because you love someone, doesn't mean that you have to wait for them. College is a time where ... | |
| Friendship | 9/7/2009 |
| Q: I've known my best friend for about 7 months now, and he and I were closer then most people. We ... A: I'm not understanding. Do you still want to be his friend? He has to learn on his own if she's ... | |
| Teen dating | 9/7/2009 |
| Q: I asked this question yesterday:"I met this girl when I was a freshman in high school. I'm pretty ... A: Touching during a conversation can be another form of flirting, it depends on how she did it and ... | |
| y gfs mother | 9/6/2009 |
| Q: i am 17. my gf is 14. her mom will not let me see her unless we are in church. we had something ... A: There's no real way you can change her mind, other than letting her do this on her own time. No ... | |
| Teen dating | 9/6/2009 |
| Q: I asked this question yesterday:"I met this girl when I was a freshman in high school. I'm pretty ... A: Hey Tyler! :) If you want to ask her out again, bring up a movie that just came out. "Hey, [insert ... | |
| y gfs mother | 9/5/2009 |
| Q: i am 17. my gf is 14. her mom will not let me see her unless we are in church. we had something ... A: ) I don't think she wants you to see her daughter for the fact that she's 14 and you're about to be ... | |
| call him? | 9/3/2009 |
| Q: Sooo I moved into an apartment, and eventually met the guy who's room I was taking over. We got to ... A: ) He might be waiting for YOU to call, but I don't really know the timeframe between you giving him ... | |
| How do I get this skater guy to notice me at school? | 9/2/2009 |
| Q: So i just started the 8th grade and there's this new kid. he's a skater and i'm kind of ... A: ) Do you know any of his skater friends? If you do, maybe you can get one of them to introduce you ... | |
| Why don't girls like me? | 9/2/2009 |
| Q: I've had 6 girlfriends by now, and I got them all presents, but none of them really wanted to kiss ... A: Girls don't want slaves. You just need to be yourself and stay cool, calm, and collected when you're ... | |
| Teen dating | 9/1/2009 |
| Q: I asked this question yesterday:"I met this girl when I was a freshman in high school. I'm pretty ... A: ) I think you should wait a while until she opens up a little bit more. If you keep asking, it will ... | |
| Only friends? | 9/1/2009 |
| Q: Over the past few months, me and this girl have become fairly close friends. We text and talk to ... A: You're more than welcome. That's what I'm here for. If it helps, my boyfriend was actually in the ... | |
| Teen dating | 8/31/2009 |
| Q: I met this girl when I was a freshman in high school. I'm pretty sure now that she liked me. We were ... A: To be perfectly honest, she liked you, but after the first year, she might have took it as you just ... | |
| I just don't know if he likes me..... | 8/27/2009 |
| Q: I'm 14 and I have a dilemma. I like this guy A, who happens to be a total jerk. A couple days ago we ... A: Hey! I'm glad you're gonna talk to him. If you're more comfortable doing it on msn, that's just as ... | |
| Only friends? | 8/27/2009 |
| Q: Over the past few months, me and this girl have become fairly close friends. We text and talk to ... A: Once a girl puts you in the "friend zone", it's kinda hard to get out of sadly. But you could turn ... | |
| I just don't know if he likes me..... | 8/25/2009 |
| Q: I'm 14 and I have a dilemma. I like this guy A, who happens to be a total jerk. A couple days ago we ... A: Hm..well personally, I would move on. It's no use wasting time on a guy that's not into you when you ... | |
| I just don't know if he likes me..... | 8/24/2009 |
| Q: I'm 14 and I have a dilemma. I like this guy A, who happens to be a total jerk. A couple days ago we ... A: It seems like he likes you. A lot. But with these other guys around he might be a little insecure ... | |
| Why Does He Do This .?! | 8/10/2009 |
| Q: Okay, so my now EX boyfriend broke up with me about 2 weeks ago & the day after he broke up with me, ... A: He's making you jealous that way because he wants you to hurry up and say yes! :) He figures that if ... | |
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Bianca
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Expertise
Does he like me? Why does she act that way? I can pretty much answer every question that's related to dealing with teen relationships and dating. I know how to deal with falling in love, break ups, how to get over an ex, how to tell if a guy/girl likes you, how to get that special someone to notice you, and everything in between. Try me, I have an answer for everything, and if I don't, then we'll work through it together. :) I don't judge, so you can ask me anything. I'm just like you, I don't try to be anything else.
Experience
I've been through it all. I've fallen in love. I've had more break ups than I'd like to count. I've had many crushes, and I know how it feels when that crush doesn't feel the same way. I have a little sister in her teens now and she's going through what the typical teen goes through. She asks me for help, and I just want to help other teens as well. I know all about being rejected, and how to get someone to notice me if I like them in "that way". I'm just your typical girl, trying to help others make it in this tough thing we call life.
Education/Credentials
I'm currently working on my Bachelor's in Psychology. I'm also working on a book about Teen Dating.
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