| Subject | Date Asked |
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| Am i frigid? | 10/29/2009 |
Q: Im 15 years old and i have never had a boyfriend, but there's a boy that i liked for a few monthes, ...
A: First dates are often times awkward, especially if you don't have much experiencing dating. Go out ...
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| Girlfriend's best friend | 10/26/2009 |
Q: Heyy... My name is Conor,i'm fourteen and from Dublin, Ireland. Recently I met a new girl at a youth ...
A: So, you want to break up with your current girlfriend in an agreeable manner- ONLY because you hope ...
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| dating | 10/21/2009 |
Q: sorry to bother you. i dont really have a question on dating, but it's a type of situation you might ...
A: Both women AND men make the same mistakes when it comes to dating jerks. They are confusing 'love' ...
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| How do I get this older guy to like me ? | 10/20/2009 |
Q: This guy is sorta my brothers friend, (4 years older than me) And ive had a huge crush on him ever ...
A: When you are a few years older, three years won't make a big difference. But right now there is just ...
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| why cant I find a girlfriend? | 10/20/2009 |
Q: Iam the type of guy that goes to parties and Iam fun loving. Iam a "redneck" to be vague and I ...
A: You need to stop focusing on the things you have no control over. You can't control how other women ...
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| am i in a healthy relationship? | 10/19/2009 |
Q: Hey, I'm James. I'm not really used to asking people from the internet for help about my ...
A: Based on what you have told me, it sounds like you are in a very mature, caring, and strong ...
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| Why??? | 10/19/2009 |
Q: Im a sophomore girl (15) in high school. Im in marching band, and were all pretty much close ...
A: There's a very easy way to find out why he is acting this way: go up and ask him. Not when you're in ...
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| tired of waiting. | 10/18/2009 |
Q: okay so i need a guys opinion. I dated this guy a few years back and we promised each other that no ...
A: You don't 'need' a guy's opinion on this, but that's besides the point. You need to sit him down ...
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| Unrequited love | 10/18/2009 |
Q: (I am 17 she's 16) Because I loved a friend of mine and she didn't tell me that she only wanted to ...
A: You have made your feelings known to her and she has let you down gently. Pushing the matter further ...
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| bad first impression | 10/17/2009 |
Q: Im a 20 year old college sophomore. Theres a girl I Ive seen around campus a lot, but never really ...
A: Have you told your guy pal that you are interested in this girl? If you haven't, then you should ...
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| what am i | 10/17/2009 |
Q: my name is becca i have been having a lot of trouble lately in regards to my sexualality i am afraid ...
A: You should go to a teen therapist who specializes in dealing with these sorts of issues. You ...
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| First real girl friend, and she wants to take it slow | 10/16/2009 |
Q: I'm 16, in high. I met this girl last year i didn't talk to her much until about august of this ...
A: As far as defining boundaries go, talk to your girlfriend about this. Tell her you are more than ...
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| Dating a Separated Woman | 10/16/2009 |
Q: I could not locate a general dating section of the site, and saying as I still feel young, I'm ...
A: This is the "General dating area" http://www.allexperts.com/el/General-Dating-Questions/ I ...
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| Question | 10/16/2009 |
Q: My boyfriends inability to cry bothers me. He's had a strict father, and friends that taught him to ...
A: Just because a person does not cry for you DOES NOT mean that they don't care for you. Whoever told ...
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| my boyfriend | 10/15/2009 |
Q: so my boyfreind is said to be a sneaky playa im in love with him i see him hug gurls but he says ...
A: It depends on if you trust your guy or not. Has he cheated on past girlfriends? Has he ever lied to ...
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| Getting An Ex Back | 10/14/2009 |
Q: I don't know if you remember me, but I'm 17 years old who has been dating a girl I've been close ...
A: I am often asked for ways to 'win back' an ex, and my question is always the same: Do you really ...
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| What to say | 10/13/2009 |
Q: What exactly do i say to a girl i want to propose. As a lady, would you give me some questions girls ...
A: I thought that's what you meant, but I didn't want to assume anything. There's really no 'golden' ...
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| How can I tell if he is serious or not? | 10/12/2009 |
Q: Ages are helpful, I am 16 and he is 17. So, me and boyfriend dated once for 6 months then we broke ...
A: There's no way to tell for certain if someone loves you or not, which is why many people get hurt. ...
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| Parents and dating | 10/12/2009 |
Q: I am a 17 year old senior in high school. I have an amazing boyfriend, but the problem is, my ...
A: You situation hits very close to home for me. My parents were also very overbearing, extremely ...
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| Taking a Break in a Relationship | 10/11/2009 |
Q: Ok, I've been dating this amazing girl for 5 months now. We're really happy together; however, I ...
A: You say that you are both fighting a lot now, what do you fight about? This other guy? I am all for ...
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| What do i say | 10/11/2009 |
Q: I want to approach a lady i never met before, please teach me what to say in order to make friend ...
A: it's always hard to approach someone new, but the best way is also the most direct. Simply go up to ...
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| Hello | 10/11/2009 |
Q: I am 17. This is my first experience of this situation. There is this girl who was my classmate when ...
A: It sounds like you are already on the right path. Be patient and continue to build your friendship ...
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| Does this shy girl like me? | 10/10/2009 |
Q: There is this shy girl, who is the sister of one of my best friends, who lately seems to be showing ...
A: You can analyze every interaction you have had with this girl, but there is ONLY one way to find out ...
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| What to say | 10/10/2009 |
Q: What exactly do i say to a girl i want to propose. As a lady, would you give me some questions girls ...
A: Neyo, I already answered this question for you, and I'm not sure what you mean when you say "would ...
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| Older "friend" problems | 10/9/2009 |
Q: i need some help on figuring out some things about my friend. Hes 5 years older than me and hes ...
A: It doesn't matter how 'mature' you are, the FACT is that you are still ONLY 14 years old. No one 18 ...
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| How can I make an online relationship work? | 10/8/2009 |
Q: I really like this boy, but he lives like 2000 km away from me. We met on a game, and now we talk on ...
A: The truth is, no matter how much you talk, or instant message each other- you REALLY can't get to ...
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| I'm so confused | 10/8/2009 |
Q: Every time I find a girl I like. I'll introduce myself, and have a decent conversation with them. ...
A: All this means is that you haven't found the right girl yet. Don't get down on yourself, OR give up. ...
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| i need your opinion. | 10/7/2009 |
Q: well, hi! i am 15 years old, and i went to a new high school, where i know no one.i know it is ...
A: I don't know if this boy likes you are not, but if you want to know you should simply ask him. If ...
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| Why is he playing those mind tricks with me and what do they mean? | 10/7/2009 |
Q: It was around May and I went to a friend's birthday. There I met her brother, let's call him V, ...
A: Nothing about your interactions with this guy were/are healthy. You are not in love with him, you ...
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| Is he a player? | 10/7/2009 |
Q: I am really confused right now and would appreciate your help... Basically I am 18 years old and I ...
A: I don't know what is going on through his head, but your suspicions tell me that you DO believe that ...
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| Is he a player? | 10/6/2009 |
Q: I am really confused right now and would appreciate your help... Basically I am 18 years old and I ...
A: The answer to your question is simple, though you probably won't like it. As of right now, he is ...
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| Does he like me? | 10/6/2009 |
Q: There's this guy (let's call him Steve) who I became really good friends with in a play about seven ...
A: You can dissect every conversation you have with Steve, look at every look he has ever given you... ...
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| How do i toast a girl | 10/6/2009 |
Q: What type of conversation do i make with a girl i intend to toast. Kindly send to my email examples ...
A: When you say 'toast' do you mean that you are actually going to make a formal toast at a planned ...
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| relationship | 10/5/2009 |
Q: is it ok to go out with a girl that is 3 years younger than U. I'm turning 15 an she's 12. THANK U
A: When you are older, three years is not a big deal. When you are younger though, it can make all the ...
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| Why would my parents suddenly not like my boyfriend anymore? | 10/2/2009 |
Q: So I am 20 years old, my boyfriend is 21. We've been going out for a under over a year now, and for ...
A: 1. Ask your bf if he actually sent the card, and if so, how long ago he mailed it. 2. (assuming he ...
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| Why would my parents suddenly not like my boyfriend anymore? | 10/1/2009 |
Q: So I am 20 years old, my boyfriend is 21. We've been going out for a under over a year now, and for ...
A: There's a lot going on here, and unfortunately everyone involved believes that THEY are right and ...
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| help with ex | 10/1/2009 |
Q: Me and my ex broke up about two months ago. I treated her like a princesses and made many fun ...
A: If you want to repair this relationship, then you are going to have to start from square one. All ...
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| What should I do about this? | 9/30/2009 |
Q: Theres this girl that I have worked with over the summer but she later quit once school started. I ...
A: She has your number, and she knows how to get in touch with you if she wants to chat/hang out. She's ...
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| Long-term Relationship, sex, etc. | 9/30/2009 |
Q: Ok, I've been dating this amazing girl for 5 months now. We're really happy together; however, I ...
A: I asked you those questions so I could get a better sense of who you are, and the sort of dynamic ...
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| what should i do after sex? | 9/29/2009 |
Q: So i've been dating this guy since May. IT's been over 4 months. Last saturday, we went over to his ...
A: You saw/spoke to him on sunday, and you're worried cause you haven't talked to him since? You need ...
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| teenage long distance | 9/29/2009 |
Q: hey, im a 16 year old girl, and i have an 18 year old boyfriend. I live in Sydney and he lives in ...
A: Is he travelling around the world by himself? Or with a friend/parent? Does he have a cell phone? ...
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| Confusion | 9/28/2009 |
Q: I am 14-year-old girl and I have liked a 20-year-old guy for a long time. He seemed to like me too ...
A: There is no way a 20 year old should be interested in a 14 year old. In some places, it's not even ...
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| clueless | 9/28/2009 |
Q: Hey, Northstar! I'm a Freshman in High School and am totally clueless about a guy(I think he's a ...
A: You don't need to, as you put it, "flirt your butt off" with this guy. And when I said ask him out ...
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| parents dont understand | 9/28/2009 |
Q: i will start from the beginning... i met my girlfriend through a friend in basic training he told me ...
A: This is a crappy situation, but your options are limited. How old are you? And what exactly, was ...
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| Confusion | 9/27/2009 |
Q: I am 14-year-old girl and I have liked a 20-year-old guy for a long time. He seemed to like me too ...
A: Susana, I already answered this question and gave you my advice. You are merely looking for someone ...
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| A follow up for my last question | 9/27/2009 |
Q: Well, thank you northstar... but I think I missed out one crucial information for you... He says he ...
A: I'm not mad at you. I was merely answering your question to the best of my abilities with the ...
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| When is the best time to have oral sex when you are dating? | 9/26/2009 |
Q: I am a girl of 23 years and had several breakups in the past few years. The last one was the hardest ...
A: I find it very hard to believe that his confession is sincere. Especially in light of the fact that ...
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| what to do... | 9/25/2009 |
Q: I'm 20, the girl i like is 20. Ok basically I really like this girl and i've gotten to know her ...
A: The best thing to do is to give her space. If you wanted to take it slow with her, then you ...
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| When is the best time to have oral sex when you are dating? | 9/25/2009 |
Q: I am a girl of 23 years and had several breakups in the past few years. The last one was the hardest ...
A: So are you two dating officially now? If not, I would be very suspicious of his sudden confession of ...
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| talking to girls and dating | 9/25/2009 |
Q: What do I do im 17 years old and have never hade a girl friend and i am cluless of the whole ...
A: You're still very young, don't worry about not having a girlfriend (or the fact that you've never ...
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| Help! | 9/25/2009 |
Q: "I had my first boyfriend at the age of 16. I wanted to wait for the right one. Not the one that ...
A: Be polite and don't bring up the incident unless they do. Act normally, it's not a big deal since ...
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| Long Distance | 9/24/2009 |
Q: Hey, im in a long distance relationship and we have nearly been together for a year now but only ...
A: How did you meet her? Did you know her as a friend, and then your family moved away? How long have ...
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| confused... | 9/23/2009 |
Q: Hey I'm a 15 yr old girl and i'm dating a 17 yr old guy. I'll start off at the begining of the story ...
A: I'm glad you are thinking about this and that you are asking questions. You're very conflicted about ...
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| How and when do I ask this girl out? | 9/23/2009 |
Q: There's this girl that I worked with over the summer, I had a huge crush on her. Luckily, I was ...
A: It sounds like she might be interested in you, or at the very least she values your friendship ...
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| Kissing leading to break ups? | 9/22/2009 |
Q: This is something I've noticed a lot, when kissing starts is when so many couples break up. A friend ...
A: It's definitely a maturity, incompatibility issue. Kissing doesn't lead to breaking up. You're ...
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| Dating My Friends Sister | 9/21/2009 |
Q: Alright so told my friend I like his sister, I been out with her before talkin to him a few times ...
A: This changes things. If you were were 18, and his sister was 16 or younger- I could understand your ...
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| Grinding with some other guys... | 9/21/2009 |
Q: I've been in a long-distance relationship for about 3 months with this girl I've known for 4 years. ...
A: I can see why this makes you uncomfortable, but you should look at it another way: your girlfriend ...
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| Please help me ; ( | 9/20/2009 |
Q: Okay, when i was in 8th grade i met this guy who was a junior. He asked for my number and i gave it ...
A: This guy is a flirt, and he's playing mind games with you. He says he likes you, yet he is DATING ...
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| clueless | 9/20/2009 |
Q: Hey, Northstar! I'm a Freshman in High School and am totally clueless about a guy(I think he's a ...
A: He sounds like he may like you, and he just isn't sure how to show it. Ask if he would like to have ...
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| When is the best time to have oral sex when you are dating? | 9/20/2009 |
Q: I am a girl of 23 years and had several breakups in the past few years. The last one was the ...
A: The best way to figure out if he wants to be with you, or if her just wants your body is to make him ...
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| long distance relatonships | 9/19/2009 |
Q: The thing is since he moved i don't do anything i do my home school and watch TV it not his fault i ...
A: First of all, congratulations on kicking your drug habit, that's not easy to do and you should be ...
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| Long distance relationship problem | 9/18/2009 |
Q: I was going out with a guy for almost a year before he decided that our relationship was bothering ...
A: You're friends... but you still say you love each other... that has to stop immediately. You aren't ...
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| annoying friend | 9/18/2009 |
Q: ). My name’s Jerry, Im a sophomore in college and love every minute of it. Got a lot of friends (a ...
A: Hey Jerry! First of all, I completely sympathize with what you are dealing with. I recently ...
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| Boy issue | 9/17/2009 |
Q: I sent you an email afew days ago about the boy that i liked and how so many things have happened ...
A: It's always hard to forget about someone, it takes strong will power and a great deal of ...
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| Dating My Friends Sister | 9/17/2009 |
Q: Alright so told my friend I like his sister, I been out with her before talkin to him a few times ...
A: How old are you? How old is your friend? And how old is his sister? You should have talked to your ...
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| Boy issue | 9/17/2009 |
Q: I sent you an email afew days ago about the boy that i liked and how so many things have happened ...
A: Sorry, I've had a lot of questions in the past few days and I'm having a hard time remembering your ...
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| Going too fast? | 9/15/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. We had a few 'fights' here and there, but resovled ...
A: You've answered your own question. When you have a negative thought, wait before speaking, and say ...
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| Going too fast? | 9/15/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. We had a few 'fights' here and there, but resovled ...
A: I did not mean for my answer to sound harsh, only honest and factual. If it came off as harsh, I ...
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| Going too fast? | 9/15/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. We had a few 'fights' here and there, but resovled ...
A: Yeah, you guys are moving WAY too fast. You aren't even in college yet, you don't know if you have ...
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| Dating | 9/14/2009 |
Q: i think i need to end this relationship. think it would be the best for me and my heart. thank you ...
A: No worries, I realize that this is a very difficult situation for you to be facing. Have faith in ...
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| breaking the truth | 9/14/2009 |
Q: My name is natalie I am 13 I have been dating matt for 6 months he is 15 my mom is cool with us ...
A: Your brother sexually abused you and raped you. You were 12 years old and he was 16. The ...
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| Dating | 9/14/2009 |
Q: Last year I movied to a different school and I had one boyfriend and we didnt work out he cheated on ...
A: The loss of a parent is always difficult. That said, he can't use it as an excuse whenever he does ...
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| is he really into me? | 9/13/2009 |
Q: So i been dating this guy since the beginning of may. We would normally see each other on weekends. ...
A: Does this guy like you? Do me a favor and read everything you wrote in your question. Then sit back ...
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| How do I find this out? | 9/13/2009 |
Q: How can you find out if a girl's taken without making them think you want to be with her? I don't ...
A: Just casually ask her if she's going out with someone. If she asks why, tell her you were simply ...
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| My boyfriend | 9/12/2009 |
Q: well my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 weeks and we are really happy toghether. but ...
A: You tell them to respect your relationsip. If you have 'friends' trying to break you up and ...
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| Affection at 14 | 9/12/2009 |
Q: Hey Kayleigh, I have a boyfriend for about 5 months and we really like each other. We are both ...
A: This is very common. You have left the honeymoon stage and now you are comfortable with each other. ...
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| I can't get over him.... | 9/12/2009 |
Q: Okay so I had this online boyfriend from Spain, we've known each other for like 2 years. He was ...
A: First of all, don't feel stupid or bad about this. You have gone through a very difficult situation, ...
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| Long distance relationship | 9/11/2009 |
Q: I'm in a LDR which worked out well till last month.We both are 16 & our only means of ...
A: Could you write letters to another neighbor? This is a difficult situation, and I honestly don't ...
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| Long distance relationship | 9/11/2009 |
Q: I'm in a LDR which worked out well till last month.We both are 16 & our only means of ...
A: I'm not sure I understand... you can only talk to your significant other through your aunt? You ...
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| Should i try to work this out? | 9/9/2009 |
Q: Six or seven months ago (April), I met this guy S with my really good friend V at the movie theater. ...
A: Well, I managed to read your message and I'm going to answer your question (although you probably ...
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| Dating | 9/2/2009 |
Q: Last year I movied to a different school and I had one boyfriend and we didnt work out he cheated on ...
A: I am going to do my best to help you through this difficult time. I believe that the best way I can ...
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