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| Subject | Date Asked |
| Sexual Urges | 4/9/2010 |
| Q: I'm 15 in the US, and I've had a girlfriend for over 3 months now. I've never really had any sexual ... A: This is not unheard of. DO NOT HAVE INTERCOURSE AT YOUR AGE. Second, you need to talk to your doctor ... | |
| ugliness | 3/26/2010 |
| Q: Well I'm 15, never had a girlfriend, and am probably the ugliest guy in my school. I'm short, only ... A: I doubt you are ugly. Most 15 year olds do not date. I recommend you talk to a trusted teacher and ... | |
| C'mon... Is dating in high school really that important? | 2/3/2010 |
| Q: I'm a freshman in high school. I've spent some time online and I've found that many adults say that ... A: I have heard of a few cases where one dates in high school and marries and lives happily ever after. ... | |
| Son's behaviour concerns us... | 1/29/2010 |
| Q: My 16-year-old son was suspended from school for a week yesterday due to what his teacher called ... A: As always I recommend to start with the school and his doctor. I am not sure if he needs a ... | |
| C'mon... Is dating in high school really that important? | 1/21/2010 |
| Q: I'm a freshman in high school. I've spent some time online and I've found that many adults say that ... A: Good question. In my psychology class we learned that dating in high school is about learning how to ... | |
| Communication | 1/5/2010 |
| Q: Hey there, I am a 17 year old guy and I recently met a girl who I was instantly drawn to. She is ... A: This is very tricky for me to answer. Each case is special. In general I don't recommend texting. I ... | |
| Heavy Make-Out...? | 12/28/2009 |
| Q: First off, hi. I'm Kyle and my girlfriend and I (we're both 15# have been together for almost 4 ... A: I am not a lawyer and cannot give legal advice, but my understanding is making out is illegal in ... | |
| Heavy Make-Out...? | 12/27/2009 |
| Q: First off, hi. I'm Kyle and my girlfriend and I (we're both 15# have been together for almost ... A: Legally I can't answer this. What you are asking me to do is most likely illegal in your location. I ... | |
| Help! Scared/ confused | 11/18/2009 |
| Q: okay. well this is kinda of a weird but true story. me and my friend were bored one day and went to ... A: I had a number of cyber predator cases and really I am very worried how you are meeting this person ... | |
| Afraid of Change | 11/15/2009 |
| Q: I am 16 years old, and currently am in my first relationship. My boyfriend and I love eachother ... A: This is a very complex question. It would be good if you talk to our psychology experts about ... | |
| young lady friend | 11/12/2009 |
| Q: there is this young girl that i have been dating for a while now. she is 17 and i am 25 we have ... A: This is a good legal question and it varies. I recommend you to ask a lawyer locally. I think there ... | |
| Bridging the gap | 11/11/2009 |
| Q: Hey, Im 18 and the girl of interest is 18 as well. We both go to the same college and are in the ... A: Let me understand, you got the label of "boyfriend and girlfriend" but you have not went further ... | |
| Is it cheating? | 11/8/2009 |
| Q: I am 17 and I asked a girl out for the first time a week ago. I am wondering if that means that we ... A: You ask a lot of questions and many of them I cannot answer with just the facts above. I also ... | |
| dating age differences. | 11/3/2009 |
| Q: What are your thoughts on a 18 year old boy, dating a 15 year old girl? and please give ... A: This is a good question. I am against this. I spoke to a lawyer a while back and it turns out such ... | |
| She cheated but I still love | 10/25/2009 |
| Q: My girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago. Apparently, she cheated on me several times within ... A: I understand. I deny stuff a lot until I see it put down on paper. For the third party hotline here ... | |
| She cheated but I still love | 10/20/2009 |
| Q: My girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago. Apparently, she cheated on me several times within ... A: I recommend your doctor. You should talk to your doctor about the above as they can help you move ... | |
| Asking a girl out... | 10/7/2009 |
| Q: If you answer this question I will be really grateful. My girlfriend just broke up with me 5 days ... A: Can I do a "depression"(this does not replace your doctor's test) screening test with you? It's a 10 ... | |
| Getting my girlfriend back | 10/6/2009 |
| Q: My girlfriend just dumped me 3 days ago. We had been going out for 4 months and thing were ... A: Haven't heard back from you and want to make sure you are OK. I can give you some tips to try to get ... | |
| could use a little help | 10/5/2009 |
| Q: me and my ex broke up about two months ago. I treated her like a princess the whole time but one ... A: Are you going to college? Same as her's? I have to ask is it worthwhile to repair the relationship ... | |
| 8 months, going too fast? | 9/19/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. We had a few 'fights' here and there, but resovled ... A: I understand what you are saying, however both of you have different goals and you need to work on ... | |
| Relatioship vs God | 9/18/2009 |
| Q: I met a girl. We started hanging out. Shes one month in to being 17 and I am 18. We automatically ... A: Sorry very busy over here. Just had the holiday. Ok let's go from my view, OK? I am Jewish. Jews are ... | |
| 8 months, going too fast? | 9/18/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. We had a few 'fights' here and there, but resovled ... A: It seems like you want just a relationship and nothing more, which is fine. He wants someone he can ... | |
| 8 months, going too fast? | 9/15/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. We had a few 'fights' here and there, but resovled ... A: I can't answer all of those questions, but I do have some good comments. First answer those ... | |
| 1st year anniversary | 9/11/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a year. We love each other so much and he ... A: Oh geez, I am sorry, but you are rushing into marriage. Proposal at that time, geez I've seen ... | |
| my girlfriends mom hates me... | 9/1/2009 |
| Q: i read your thing that you posted to years ago lol and my jaw droped becuse its the EXACT same ... A: I don't remember that post you speak of. Did you try James Windell Parenting Teen expert? Can you ... | |
| Too Many Followups | 8/20/2009 |
| Q: Here was our previous conversation...So, here's the thing. I'm in a near-10-month relationship with ... A: I don't recommend rushing into kissing. This will take time. Also I don't want to change the way you ... | |
| First Kiss | 8/16/2009 |
| Q: So, here's the thing. I'm in a near-10-month relationship with the guy of my dreams, and we're ... A: I don't know if I endorse your relationship, but that's another story. Maybe the way to get one kiss ... | |
| I cant stop thinking about this girl | 8/11/2009 |
| Q: I might have asked you before, sorry if I did. This girl is all I can think about. I could not ... A: Sorry about the delay. Let me give you the example in this way: A friend, named Bob get a promotion ... | |
| I cant stop thinking about this girl | 8/10/2009 |
| Q: I might have asked you before, sorry if I did. This girl is all I can think about. I could not ... A: Legally and ethically I have to warn you about sex risks. 2 out of every 5 teens have an STI. Even ... | |
| self-estem | 8/8/2009 |
| Q: im about to become a sophmore in High school. My 6th grade year changed my life when i started ... A: Girls with low self esteem may pick up on some mean guys. However I think it's good to be kind to ... | |
| hey its me again | 8/3/2009 |
| Q: Hey its me 17 year old guy with the girl problem. I don't know why the computer told me to many ... A: So he does art to keep his mind off of stuff? I do art to keep my mind off of stuff too. Of course I ... | |
| how to forget | 8/2/2009 |
| Q: I'm a 17 yrs old. Well, I having beeing having. A lot of problems lately with this girl I love so ... A: How often do you play video games on the computer? Too much is unhealthy. I don't want you to ... | |
| I cant stop thinking about this girl | 8/1/2009 |
| Q: I might have asked you before, sorry if I did. This girl is all I can think about. I could not ... A: How old are you and how old is she? Has anyone tried to help you with this question here? Have you ... | |
| how to forget | 8/1/2009 |
| Q: I'm a 17 yrs old. Well, I having beeing having. A lot of problems lately with this girl I love so ... A: First I want to say I do not replace a psychologist and I highly recommend one. If you do not see ... | |
| how to forget | 7/28/2009 |
| Q: I'm a 17 yrs old. Well, I having beeing having. A lot of problems lately with this girl I love so ... A: Ah no expert here is like me. However my problem is this question is very complex and could take ... | |
| My boyfriend is trying to pressure me! | 7/22/2009 |
| Q: I've liked Zach(18) for almost a year now. We dated one time before but I broke up with him for my ... A: If this person loves you and cares about you they would respect your wish not to have sex at this ... | |
| Afraid of Relationships! | 7/22/2009 |
| Q: I've been this way for a while which is odd because I'm only 16. My bestfriend even told me I'm ... A: I don't know if anything is wrong with you just based on the above. I can ping you with some ... | |
| race | 6/29/2009 |
| Q: would race play a role in the way that a girl decides who she wants to go out with? im 16 and i go ... A: It could, or maybe it could cause her to have an issue with family members. It's an odd thing race. ... | |
| Internet? | 2/8/2009 |
| Q: I have a serious question.Okay there is this older guy,He's 50 (I'm 13) that I talk to over the ... A: Where does he work on this site? He needs to be reported. Contact the police and our site's boss. ... | |
| son | 11/23/2008 |
| Q: My son is almost 11 and in 6th grade. He told me that he thinks that he's gay. Being gay doesn't ... A: Talk to James Windell Parenting Teen expert here. I rather not get into this subject right now. He's ... | |
| age | 10/10/2008 |
| Q: Heya, Im kelsey im 16 but I will be 17 in february. Im into this guy who I will call james. Well ... A: There is something a law against dating certain age groups. I would check into that to see if your ... | |
| Sex | 7/26/2008 |
| Q: I am 19 years old, a senior in college and have been dating my boyfriend, who is 21, for almost 8 ... A: By you asking this question you know the answer. You know it's wrong and yet you want me to tell you ... | |
| age difference/ long distance relationships | 6/18/2008 |
| Q: I met this guy a year or year and a half back online (same country), and we've been great friends ... A: I don't recommend online relationships. The age difference is big and also I've seen a lot of ... | |
| is he just using me?? | 4/29/2008 |
| Q: well ive been knowin this guy for a month or two..we went out last month for only 3 weeks..i liked ... A: You didn't say your ages, yet I question if you had a right to have sex with him under the law. If ... | |
| sex ? | 4/29/2008 |
| Q: Is it legal or illegal for my boyfriend and I too have sex in the state of indiana if he is twenty ... A: I would like to answer this question, however I am not a lawyer and do not know the laws in your ... | |
| Violating Laws? | 4/29/2008 |
| Q: I am 15 and i am dating a guy who is 17, and i live in Nevada. -Is this currently illegal if we do ... A: I would like to answer this question, however I am not a lawyer and do not know the laws in your ... | |
| Older guy... Does he like me/Should I make a move?? | 4/29/2008 |
| Q: So, I'm 15, and I REALLY like this guy. Well, he's 19. He's a freshman in college and I'm a ... A: I cannot answer the liking question as it's the wrong area. I will say I recommend to speak to our ... | |
| Does he like me? | 3/29/2008 |
| Q: for five years now, I've had my sights set on a guy named Cody. He and I have been friends since we ... A: This is not my area of help. I do want to say I don't recommend Facebook for safety reasons. Talk to ... | |
| I just want someone to love and be loved by | 3/26/2008 |
| Q: I am 14 years old, I have ADHD, bipolar, and mild autism, but I am a very well mannered teen. alot ... A: At 14 I do not recommend people to be dating. I understand how you feel and for this I feel if you ... | |
| legal dating age | 3/15/2008 |
| Q: okay me an my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 months now i wouldn't let him meet my family ... A: I am so sorry, yet I cannot give legal advice on the internet as I am not a lawyer and I am not from ... | |
| friend's mom | 3/7/2008 |
| Q: My friend has a mom that I think is really hot. I know that she's alot older than me, but I am ... A: Chad how old are you? You really should talk to a doctor about this feeling. You cannot have ... | |
| dating/law | 3/5/2008 |
| Q: i got a ?. my friend, soon to be my gf (hopefully) is getting kicked out of her house when she is ... A: As I am not a lawyer I cannot give you legal advice. The below does not replace legal advice. I ... | |
| dating | 3/3/2008 |
| Q: umm ok i got a question, me and this girl like each other.. she is 16 and her mom is making her ... A: Todd about moving out it all depends on the location. You would need to ask a lawyer for legal ... | |
| younger | 2/24/2008 |
| Q: okay i really don know what to do . there is this guy and he is younger... and he supposedly likes ... A: Public boards should not have last names(you should contact to have the last name removed). Talk to ... | |
| dating problems | 2/17/2008 |
| Q: i like this girl and she likes me.. but she dont want to break up with her boyfriend cuz she is ... A: I cannot give you legal advice, yet I will say that if someone threatens you, you should probably ... | |
| I love a girl who only likes me as a friend | 2/15/2008 |
| Q: MY name is Dan, and i am from Bulgaria, and i am 20 years old. So, i am at this university, at a ... A: Taking it slow is super important. Don't rush into dating with this person. I recommend our "How to ... | |
| dating if its legal or illegal | 2/7/2008 |
| Q: I am 19 soon to be 20 next month. I want date this 16 year old that i like. She would like to date ... A: Eric it is my policy not to give legal advice as I'm not a lawyer. I'm not a lawyer period, yet even ... | |
| How to say 'no' without hurting feelings...? | 2/3/2008 |
| Q: Okay... the guys that ask me out aren't my type.I'm a girl (age 15) and the guys that ask me out or ... A: I'm not a lawyer Dori, yet I know in some locations in the world it's illegal to date at age 15. I ... | |
| She is way to young | 2/2/2008 |
| Q: I am 18 years old and there is a girl at my school who is obsessed with me. The problem is that she ... A: Your school councilor should be able to help you. Yes, there is a law issue and this is where it ... | |
| same girl... how to get over her | 1/27/2008 |
| Q: hey dan i dont know if you remember my last emails. i really liked your analagy with the sports ... A: Justin I think I remember your posts. Talking it through to help handle those feelings can be done ... | |
| She is way to young | 1/25/2008 |
| Q: I am 18 years old and there is a girl at my school who is obsessed with me. The problem is that she ... A: I recommend to speak to your parents and a trusted teacher about this. She sounds like she has a ... | |
| teen dating | 1/21/2008 |
| Q: we have been dating for over a year and we are totally in love but we don't know if we can still ... A: This all depends on the location you are located in. I am not a lawyer and cannot give you legal ... | |
| What do I say? | 1/21/2008 |
| Q: I am 14 and in the 8th grade and the girl I like is 13 and in the 8th grade. The girl I like is ... A: I must recommend you do not date at age 14 as this is a taboo in some areas and a violation of a law ... | |
| Prom Date Problem | 1/20/2008 |
| Q: I've been pretty down recently because I don't have a boyfriend (never have. never even been asked ... A: A lot of people do not date at your age. In fact in my religion they say you should not date at ... | |
| long distance relationship | 1/19/2008 |
| Q: at the begining of last year i meet the girl of me dreams and everything was and is still going ... A: David I don't recommend a 15 year old to be dating for the psychological problems that can come at ... | |
| HEllpp:( | 1/16/2008 |
| Q: Haii ok im a 17 yyear old girl who is ubberly stessing bc theres this guy who ive been seeing ... A: It sounds like he wants to control you. You have a right to have other friends and you have a right ... | |
| confused about him.... | 12/7/2007 |
| Q: I'm a college student and this is my first year, and i am 18 years old.i have been in college since ... A: It sounds like you are his girl friend, yet he is cheating on you. He's using you by having ... | |
| was it an act ?? | 12/4/2007 |
| Q: and had no friends so when the chance to have some came around he did everything to be like them or ... A: No ages. Talk to a doctor about sex risks. Get tested Onto the other point it sounds like your ... | |
| teen dating adult | 11/25/2007 |
| Q: I'm am 17 years old girl and i am dating a 27 year old man. I am turning 18 in less than a month and ... A: Legal questions need to be asked to a lawyer in your area. As a general rule I don't give legal ... | |
| Relationships | 11/23/2007 |
| Q: Hey i'm 16 years old There's is this guy who i had a cruch on earlier but we were just really good ... A: I am sorry about the delay(overloaded here). The relationship did it end hard on both of you? Do you ... | |
| Could a 18 love a 14 | 11/15/2007 |
| Q: I love this boy for 3 months now nd i always call him and he does to, he said he loves me to but he ... A: It may be illegal for you to be in a relationship with a 14 year old. Sorry, Dan P.S. How did you ... | |
| Do girls like boys who try hard or not ? | 11/4/2007 |
| Q: In school there is a gorgeous girl who is very shy but gets all the attention from guys (mainly boy ... A: I tell people to be them selves. But, you can ask in our psychology more about your above question. ... | |
| Gift | 11/2/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I's 1-year anniversary is coming up on Nov. 25. I am trying to think of a good ... A: Preprints are copies of autographs. Now, to some it looks like a real hand written autograph if ... | |
| Friends | 10/30/2007 |
| Q: Okay so I have two qustions: I have a friend who I totaly love and all but he makes fun of me alot ... A: Can I ask your state and your ages? I can probably offer some help if you are in the US. Please post ... | |
| Am i a whore? | 10/29/2007 |
| Q: I Have been doing the friends with benefits thing with a guy (that i truly have now fallen for) for ... A: My job here is not to judge people. I don't use the term whore and won't label people this. I ... | |
| shes a little bit older... | 10/29/2007 |
| Q: Im 14 and the youngest person in the Freshman class at my highschool. Me and this girl,also a ... A: I am sorry to see that you left such poor feedback. I try very hard to give great advice. Understand ... | |
| Teen Dating | 10/28/2007 |
| Q: So here it is, I am 15 and I have been hanging out with and have been sexually active with a guy who ... A: I don't have a law degree, yet I do believe that having intercourse at 15 with a 21 year old in ... | |
| age difference and acceptable activity | 10/27/2007 |
| Q: Dan. My name is Lance, I'm 18, and my girlfriend is 15, almost 16. We started dating not too long ... A: If you attempt to have sex with her, at age 15, in MOST places last time I checked this is illegal. ... | |
| A little older, a lot more baggage | 10/25/2007 |
| Q: Okay, heres the scoop. I'm dating a slightly older guy (I'm going to be eighteen next month, and ... A: You may want to talk to our army area for advice about army relationships. Also you may want to try ... | |
| Help for Teenage Son | 10/24/2007 |
| Q: Tyler, I need the advice of a teen boy...my son (16) has a "friend" that is constantly in ... A: Fighting is never the answer. Can I ask have you spoke to his parents about this? Can I recommend ... | |
| hi | 10/24/2007 |
| Q: this is mandy from the other question, on how i had the problem wit my bf being punished. i had to ... A: I understand. I noticed this flaw with asking follow ups due to another poster. I have mentioned ... | |
| cheating | 10/24/2007 |
| Q: my boyfriend and me have been going out for a year and a couple of days now. i cheated on him in ... A: Hear say from someone who likes that person and has a semi reason to lie is hard to go by, yet you ... | |
| Im in love n dont kno wut to do.... | 10/23/2007 |
| Q: Okay so Im Amber,Im 14 n have more problems then a math book.First off,things you might need to kno ... A: You know you can do better than this person you speak of. I would like to talk to you about the ... | |
| Unsure of what to do in situation | 10/22/2007 |
| Q: Alright, first I would like to thank you for taking my question. Here's my situation: I'm 16 years ... A: I would become better friends with her before dating. On a side note, it may be illegal to date her ... | |
| Im just confused | 10/22/2007 |
| Q: Ok well let first off say that im 18 and iv never been in a serious relatonship. and if your ... A: Sex is something that shouldn't be rushed into. If you think a relationship is about sex, you are ... | |
| hey | 10/21/2007 |
| Q: hey! ok this is my situation. ok well my boyfriend, recently got punished for the rest of the 9 ... A: I haven't seen a reply email yet. Do you want to talk more about this breakup? Please email me off ... | |
| hey | 10/21/2007 |
| Q: hey! ok this is my situation. ok well my boyfriend, recently got punished for the rest of the 9 ... A: Louisiana is such a nice state. I contacted you before and asked if you would like my email address ... | |
| hey | 10/20/2007 |
| Q: hey! ok this is my situation. ok well my boyfriend, recently got punished for the rest of the 9 ... A: You shouldn't promote him to disrespect and break his parents rules. Talk to your parents about what ... | |
| age difference, sex, dating? | 10/20/2007 |
| Q: ! im 17, but there is these girl that likes me and i feel attracted to her, but shes 13, and im not ... A: If you want to create this question to be private and post an email address I can email you what I ... | |
| friends | 10/20/2007 |
| Q: do you think i should go back to a friendship where friends underestimate you because you are a soft ... A: You answered your own question. According to you, they don't respect you and for this they shouldn't ... | |
| Boyfriend Putting me down | 10/20/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I of almost a year has been treating me really different latly he talks to me so ... A: I recommend Parenting Teen expert James Windell. 17 could point towards bipolar, yet I have a ... | |
| break up | 10/20/2007 |
| Q: ok. so i was dating a guy since 7th grade.. we were always fine.. everything seemed perfect. now we ... A: Why do you like him so much? It's probably too young for him to get married, and many teenage ... | |
| Why is this girl being mean / cheeky to me ? | 10/20/2007 |
| Q: In my lesson, there is this girl who lately ALWAYS teases me, get rly cheeky with me and can be so ... A: I really need to know more facts. These are not limited to: 1. Ages(yes both of your ages) 2. Do ... | |
| Relationship advice | 10/19/2007 |
| Q: Follow up( i couldn't last time because of my e-mail was spelled wrong) Okay I am Turing 16 in two ... A: Sorry about the delay. I am in RI. When you talk about done stuff with other men, you mean sex ... | |
| pregnant | 10/19/2007 |
| Q: i am 19 and my gf is 17 and she is pregnant and we're staying together, can the law do anything ... A: When did she become pregnant? At what age did she start having intercourse with you? And also what ... | |
| I NEED HELP REAL BAD... | 10/19/2007 |
| Q: I'm 18 and I've been with my boyfriend, my first true love, for 2 and a half years, we've a had a ... A: If you deny the truth, you are having a lie in your relationship. The thing is if your relationship ... | |
| Relationship advice | 10/19/2007 |
| Q: im a 15 year old boy and i know this girl really likes me and i think shes pretty cool and enjoy to ... A: Cool name by the way. Having sex at 15 is illegal in ALMOST all areas and also among the dumbest ... | |
| im so clueless on first relationships... | 10/18/2007 |
| Q: He is 19 years old, out of high school and I'm a senior in high school. i heard from my other ... A: The thing is I don't recommend rushing into dating and also I don't recommend dating a coworker. ... | |
| Minor dating | 10/18/2007 |
| Q: I have a question and it's been bugging me. I live in Fargo, North Dakota. I'm 18 and i'm dating a ... A: Without checking up the exact laws, my theory is that you could be charged with raping someone ... | |
| Me and my ex girfriend still tell eachother we love eacother... | 10/17/2007 |
| Q: So this is my story. in june of last year, i got with the most beautiful girl in the world. we were ... A: You can ask follow ups if you want. I'm not annoyed at those posts. I'm annoyed that you raped a 15 ... | |
| Me and my ex girfriend still tell eachother we love eacother... | 10/17/2007 |
| Q: So this is my story. in june of last year, i got with the most beautiful girl in the world. we were ... A: STI's are not FALSE. They are real and I have proof on this. Condoms are NOT 100 percent protection. ... | |
| age difference, sex, dating? | 10/16/2007 |
| Q: ! im 17, but there is these girl that likes me and i feel attracted to her, but shes 13, and im not ... A: I know if you have sex with her, it's illegal. In some areas it's the male that will get in trouble ... | |
| My boyfriend broke up with me....a month ago!! | 10/16/2007 |
| Q: My name is Priscila and I live in Tucson Arizona. I had a friend named Ashley and she introduced me ... A: How come you both liked eachother? Have you talked to your parents about this? I have to tell you ... | |
| Me and my ex girfriend still tell eachother we love eacother... | 10/15/2007 |
| Q: So this is my story. in june of last year, i got with the most beautiful girl in the world. we were ... A: It sounds like she doesn't want a public relationship. She also may be entering into depression. ... | |
| She has messed up my head | 10/14/2007 |
| Q: The other day I went to her 16th birthday party it was great fun. The thing is we were in the ... A: This is not love. How come you would want to date her? How come you like her? Please understand ... | |
| boring | 10/14/2007 |
| Q: Hey Dan. I'm 16 and so is my boyfriend. We've been dating for about 13 months, which is legal where ... A: How come you dated him in the first place? How come he dated you? What do you expect from a ... | |
| Legal age differnece for having sex | 10/13/2007 |
| Q: Is it illegal for a 15 1/2 year old and a 17(almost 18 year old) to have sex? There is a 2 1/2 year ... A: I contacted the police down there to double check my understanding of the law and they agreed to do ... | |
| Younger girlfriend | 10/13/2007 |
| Q: Hey i am seventeen and my girlfriend turn 14 in 30 days, my parents are freaking out and saying that ... A: If you have intercourse with her, it may be illegal. Even if it's not the picture of a "pervert" ... | |
| how to get closer to the girl that i like | 10/12/2007 |
| Q: i came in this country years ago,i have no close friends i talk to everybody in school,i've been in ... A: I guess you would like to work on self esteem issues. Where do you believe this issue has come from? ... | |
| how to get closer to the girl that i like | 10/11/2007 |
| Q: i came in this country years ago,i have no close friends i talk to everybody in school,i've been in ... A: SORRY this is posted in the wrong area. "How to make the right move" "Increasing self esteem" You ... | |
| HELP im just a friend? | 10/10/2007 |
| Q: I have know this girl for a few years weve been friends for a while, she is a grade above me. She ... A: Sorry about the delay. Overloaded here. Have you asked in our: "How to make the right move area" ... | |
| is my boyfriend abussive | 10/9/2007 |
| Q: this guy and i started dating and he is so great .... he always say nice things to me, he draws and ... A: I sense a bigger problem at hand. I sense that your boyfriend has issues. However I only have ... | |
| what has he given me. | 10/8/2007 |
| Q: well im 18 years old and am currently going out with this 28 year old. i really think i love him i ... A: If he cared about you, he would have told you about this. And than not done that stuff. In my state ... | |
| Please Help | 10/8/2007 |
| Q: Me and this guy really like eachother, and he wants to "move furthur". I don't want this to sound ... A: You want to move "further". Can you explain what this means? If he touches you in the privates this ... | |
| How do i get over him? | 10/8/2007 |
| Q: at the end of sophomore year, he got arrested and went through a really bad break up with a girl he ... A: I have to recommend a psychologist for this. However we can talk about why you like him. From what ... | |
| confused | 10/6/2007 |
| Q: Ok, theres this girl I met at camp last summer and whenever there was time we would usually talk to ... A: If she enters college, this will add a LOT of stress onto your relationship. Help her as a friend ... | |
| ready or not | 10/4/2007 |
| Q: im 17 and ive been out with this guy a couple times, he's nice and everyting and i like him, but ... A: Just because others do something does not mean you NEED to follow. I think you aren't ready for the ... | |
| He loves me as a sister? | 10/3/2007 |
| Q: Okay.. well my name is Theresa..and i have liked this boy (James) since June. I told him during the ... A: You didn't include ages here and all I can post are theories based on the facts above. It's ... | |
| I don't get it... | 10/3/2007 |
| Q: How come girls always go for the jerks and assholes that treat them like crap and reject the nice ... A: First I would like to say I don't promote 15 year olds to be dating and to date at this age MAY be ... | |
| Boy troubles | 10/2/2007 |
| Q: I'm having really bad boy troubles, and I hope you can help! My name is Remy and I am fourteen ad ... A: Why can't you just be a friend? It may be illegal for you to date if below 16(some areas older). ... | |
| teen dating | 10/2/2007 |
| Q: I am a parent of a 18 year old boy. He is dating a 15 year old girl for about 6 months now. She is ... A: The legal laws vary per each state. I will tell you that having intercourse or any type of sexual ... | |
| ready or not | 10/2/2007 |
| Q: im 17 and ive been out with this guy a couple times, he's nice and everyting and i like him, but ... A: It's very common for a 17 year old to not feel ready for dating. Can I ask why you want to date so ... | |
| dateing someone younger | 10/1/2007 |
| Q: first off im from Newzealand and the legal sex age is 16 if you did not already know that... ok so i ... A: BE EXTRA CAREFUL WITH ONLINE RELATIONSHIPS. I don't promote them. Check into online safety. About ... | |
| confused | 10/1/2007 |
| Q: Ok, theres this girl I met at camp last summer and whenever there was time we would usually talk to ... A: Can you tell me why you like her? The BIGGER issue I see is the time of travel. Also she may be ... | |
| me and my Girlfriend | 9/30/2007 |
| Q: Me and my Girlfriend have been dating for a few months now, and in a month i will be turning 18, ... A: You are asking for your state's dating laws. Can I ask exactly what city you are in? You should talk ... | |
| dating | 9/30/2007 |
| Q: Since u was in grade 5, lots of guys were attracted to me. I'll flirt back and just wasn't too ... A: How old are you and what do you want in a relationship and why? Is the problem you? NO. It doesn't ... | |
| pressure | 9/30/2007 |
| Q: melaney, One of my friends, whenever he is with anyone will brag about him going out with 12 girls ... A: You should date one women for a longer time than one person per week. He is a "user" or as I call ... | |
| reply asap | 9/29/2007 |
| Q: ) Rachel " wat should i do i feel so hurt i just wanna cry and its my fault i read it i dont ... A: Using someone's Myspace account without them knowing is illegal. Be careful with Myspace due to the ... | |
| keep going or move on? | 9/27/2007 |
| Q: yo, i'm 16 and a junior and the girl i like is 15 and a soph. She's my sister's friend so that's ... A: You shouldn't rush into dating with her because of the breakup. Also it may be illegal to date her ... | |
| parent issues | 9/24/2007 |
| Q: First off I'm a muslim, but the interesting thing here will be is I know as a fact Islam is false. I ... A: I don't promote Facebook for safety issues. Dating in some locations is illegal at certain ages. The ... | |
| Older guys. | 9/22/2007 |
| Q: I'm 15 years old, and i can't stop getting crushes on older guys. It is driving me nuts. At the ... A: Due to the ages it may be illegal to date. I am here if you want to talk about why you are getting ... | |
| my girlfriend has changed... | 9/22/2007 |
| Q: I'm 18yr old guy who's spending the last yr of my high school. I must say I'm very relieved to c ... A: This is Exper Dan. I received your question in the Question Pool area. Let me review your question. ... | |
| One Year Anniversary | 9/21/2007 |
| Q: My name is Ben, I am 16 years old and my girlfriend Devan is 16 also, I was wonder if you would be ... A: Ben dating in some areas is illegal at certain ages. At 15 it may have violated policies. Be ... | |
| Break up | 9/17/2007 |
| Q: I am 15 and my ex boyfriend is 15. Everything was fine on Sunday he said at the end of our ... A: It may be illegal to date at this age. But, because of certain facts you mentioned I don't think ... | |
| Age difference | 9/14/2007 |
| Q: Hey Dan, Im currently a 17 year old senior and interested in a 14 year old freshmen at my ... A: I understand you want to date her, yet should you? Is it healthy for her to date someone who is now ... | |
| Age difference | 9/13/2007 |
| Q: Hey Dan, Im currently a 17 year old senior and interested in a 14 year old freshmen at my ... A: Ok I'm not a lawyer so I can't give you any legal advice. I'm not sure if the above is true ... | |
| Car? | 9/10/2007 |
| Q: Ok so theres this guy that I really like and yes he is a little older then me but i dont mind and ... A: YOU are rushing into this making out thing. Understand TWO out or every 5 teens have an STI. You ... | |
| Parent Issue | 9/4/2007 |
| Q: I'm going into my senior year in High School and my Girlfriend and I have been dating for about 10 ... A: MANY HIGH SCHOOLERS don't drink. Only the fools drink. You should talk to a doctor about sex, and ... | |
| How Do I Know? | 8/29/2007 |
| Q: Ok so I'm 14 about to turn 15 in December. There is this guy that I like && he is 19 about to be 20. ... A: Happy Birthday. Having sex at your age could be illegal. I would report him to the police. Please be ... | |
| blaming myself for my g-friend leaving | 8/26/2007 |
| Q: when my girlfreind broke up with me, i couldn't help but think that it was all my fault and that i ... A: Can I ask your age and hers? I recommend to talk to a psychologist due to what you said. I also ... | |
| Asking | 8/25/2007 |
| Q: im a 17 yr old guy. I am extremely shy. I get nervous (clammy hands , a bit shaky) when i start ... A: Ok how about you join some local clubs that are for your age group or how about you help teach ... | |
| Asking | 8/25/2007 |
| Q: im a 17 yr old guy. I am extremely shy. I get nervous (clammy hands , a bit shaky) when i start ... A: Happy Birthday Hi, Lets instead of using the term love at your age, use like. Lets start off as ... | |
| Asking | 8/24/2007 |
| Q: im a 17 yr old guy. I am extremely shy. I get nervous (clammy hands , a bit shaky) when i start ... A: Hobbies What you want in a relationship and why A drop about your history that can cause this ... | |
| He left for college. | 8/23/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend(age:18) just left for college 5 hours away. I'm a year younger and still have a year of ... A: I would love to answer this question. First off I will tell you I don't believe this is love. I ... | |
| Asking | 8/22/2007 |
| Q: im a 17 yr old guy. I am extremely shy. I get nervous (clammy hands , a bit shaky) when i start ... A: Mike this is not an uncommon problem. I recommend our "expressing your self to others" experts. If ... | |
| my boyfriend lies | 8/21/2007 |
| Q: my boyfriend lies about a bunch of stuff...like one day i called his house and his mom said he was ... A: You are a very smart women. If it will make you mad, he should not do such. It looks to me like this ... | |
| Me and Jake | 8/15/2007 |
| Q: i was hoping for some useful advice.. My friend sophie introduced me to her friend Jake who shes ... A: Hannah this is a complex problem. In simple I do not think you should rush into dating when you show ... | |
| Sex... help! | 8/12/2007 |
| Q: I have also had intercourse with a couple of other people before my current boyfriend. The thing is ... A: My advice is don't have sex if you don't like it. It's not uncommon to not like sex. You may feel ... | |
| plz help | 8/10/2007 |
| Q: hey,i dont know how to tell you this!,but am 18 years old and i had never been in a relationship,i ... A: It's not uncommon to not date at age 18. I know a lot of people like this. In fact some religions do ... | |
| my girlfriend | 8/10/2007 |
| Q: im 13 and my girlfriend is 11 is that to young because she is not aloud to go to alot of stuff i ... A: The law that I must go by as an advice giver states that 11 and 13 year olds should not be dating. ... | |
| confused.. cant choose | 8/7/2007 |
| Q: alright i am 16 i have a girlfriend who is 5 months younger then me and we have been dating for 3 ... A: Based on the above facts, I think you need to take a break from dating altogether. I do recommend a ... | |
| SEXUAL URGES | 7/31/2007 |
| Q: SHE CONFESSED TO ME WHAT SHOULD I TELL HER?IM 16 AND MI BOYFRIEND WANTS TO HAVE SEX AND I AM A ... A: I'm Expert Dan. I noticed this question on the question pool. Can you retype your question and ... | |
| my boyfriend lies | 7/31/2007 |
| Q: my boyfriend lies about a bunch of stuff...like one day i called his house and his mom said he was ... A: How old are you all? What does a relationship need? Ask your self this question. My answer is: ... | |
| Dating with different ages | 7/30/2007 |
| Q: .I'm 16 birthday 05/26/91 and my boyfriend is 18 b-day 12/03/89 (i think) and my parents think it is ... A: You may want to ask Paul in our Legal ethics area. He of course cannot really give legal advice, so ... | |
| Its About My Friend.. | 7/20/2007 |
| Q: Well my best friend is going out with an 18 year old guy.. but she is 13 :S is that ok? + i live in ... A: I don't know about NZ law, yet I know over here dating is not allowed for a 13 year old. I cannot ... | |
| Virgin or not? | 7/18/2007 |
| Q: Hey Leah, I'm probably one of your youngest question askers as I'm only 13... I've known my bf for ... A: You didn't state exactly what he did, yet in many states this is against the law. I would report him ... | |
| Boyfriend hasn't kissed me yet | 7/17/2007 |
| Q: Subject Boyfriend hasn't kissed me yet Question Hey Dan I thought i would get a guys ... A: I may say the last sentence in an indirect way. But, anyways being honest is important. How you say ... | |
| Boyfriend hasn't kissed me yet | 7/14/2007 |
| Q: Subject Boyfriend hasn't kissed me yet Question Hey Dan I thought i would get a guys ... A: I do not promote Myspace for safety reasons. I have to say this. Anyways his first girl friend is ... | |
| His sister doesn't like me | 7/6/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend, Dan, and I got back together about two months ago after being broken up for about a ... A: "I'm starting to worry now that if my parents find out, they will not take kindly to that and soon I ... | |
| His sister doesn't like me | 7/6/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend, Dan, and I got back together about two months ago after being broken up for about a ... A: My brother is dating someone that my whole family dislikes. It's not only because of religious ... | |
| hurt | 7/6/2007 |
| Q: I'm sixteen years old and my girlfriend just broke up with me. she said we fought to much and we ... A: How old is your girlfriend? Why did she like you? Were you friends before dating? I think you and ... | |
| Not Able to hang out | 7/4/2007 |
| Q: my name is dan and i was talking to matt about my question and he refered me to you so i was hoping ... A: Cool name by the way. Matt told me he was going to refer a question over to me, and I remember that ... | |
| cant get her off my mind | 7/2/2007 |
| Q: Ok well i have been talking to this girl for the past 5 months and i like her alot she all i think ... A: People love to deny truth. Ever wondered why people who are drunk sometimes say they are not drunk? ... | |
| In doubt. | 7/2/2007 |
| Q: Hey Chris, ok well I'm sort of in a limbo in my life. I'm 17 and I moved to a new neighborhood that ... A: How old is he? Why does he like you? Why do you like him? Talk to a doctor about sex risks. I think ... | |
| cant get her off my mind | 7/2/2007 |
| Q: Ok well i have been talking to this girl for the past 5 months and i like her alot she all i think ... A: Maybe you will find someone better than her. Yes, good things usually come to people who wait. But, ... | |
| crushed...and still fighting pt2 | 6/30/2007 |
| Q: You had suggested talking to a doctor, and I am pleased to tell you that I am. I tried to get her ... A: WOW. Long long question. I am getting a lot of those this week. Big delays are expected because of ... | |
| should i be mad? | 6/30/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend of 7 months is Andy. Andy's best friend is Luc, and Luc's dad died recently, almost 2 ... A: How old are you? When someone dies, their friends and family should support the person until they ... | |
| crushed...and still fighting pt2 | 6/29/2007 |
| Q: You had suggested talking to a doctor, and I am pleased to tell you that I am. I tried to get her ... A: I hope Matt can help you out. Let me know what you think of him(for this helps me with recommending ... | |
| crushed...and still fighting pt2 | 6/29/2007 |
| Q: You had suggested talking to a doctor, and I am pleased to tell you that I am. I tried to get her ... A: What worked for me? I am held to a very very very high standard by others. Also my religion is super ... | |
| His age may be a problem... | 6/29/2007 |
| Q: Im 15, turning 16 in December. My boyfriend of 7 months has just turned 21. He respects me, and my ... A: Ok age wise I wouldn't recommend a 15 or 16 year old to date a 21 year old. In fact in some ... | |
| Trying again | 6/29/2007 |
| Q: My name is Jeff and I am a 17 year old guy. There is a girl, Chelsea, who I have fallen for ... A: Ok I feel you are rushing to find someone to replace her in theory. Is this correct? You're ... | |
| can a person have 2 high school sweethearts? | 6/29/2007 |
| Q: hey, here is my story.. my ex-boyfriend and i got together february of my senior year after months ... A: You mentioned "Yom Kippur". Can I ask if you are Jewish? If you are: Shalom Shmee Dan Ok I want to ... | |
| cant get her off my mind | 6/28/2007 |
| Q: Ok well i have been talking to this girl for the past 5 months and i like her alot she all i think ... A: There is no reason to rush into dating. She is 15 and should not be dating. My advice is just be her ... | |
| crushed...and still fighting pt2 | 6/28/2007 |
| Q: You had suggested talking to a doctor, and I am pleased to tell you that I am. I tried to get her ... A: I handle a lot of questions here, so when people ask me a follow up, please include past questions. ... | |
| help i dunno what to do about my heartbreak | 6/27/2007 |
| Q: hey dan, how r u. well i hope u can help me with this. iv been dating this boy (well was) for 10 ... A: He sounds like someone you shouldn't date. By the way this is not love. I do recommend to talk to a ... | |
| help i dunno what to do about my heartbreak | 6/26/2007 |
| Q: hey dan, how r u. well i hope u can help me with this. iv been dating this boy (well was) for 10 ... A: I am fine. Thanks for asking. How come you would stay with someone who treats you like trash? You ... | |
| gaming boyfriend. | 6/26/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and a half. Were both 15 and this year he has ... A: I recommend to talk to our psychology experts and also the experts I recommended before on this ... | |
| gaming boyfriend. | 6/26/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and a half. Were both 15 and this year he has ... A: Ok because it appears according to you he is addicted he may be in denial if it's true(I cannot ... | |
| Hey | 6/25/2007 |
| Q: ok..well heres my problem..I work at a summer camp with my ex (we dated last summer) and I had ... A: If you want to include ages and how you met(was it the camp?) as well as a drop more information ... | |
| Dealing With A BreakUp | 6/25/2007 |
| Q: Okay, so here's the deal, I was dating this guy Justin for two months, and i honestly thought that ... A: One way to repair the damage done from a relationship is to talk about it. Now, I'm not a ... | |
| me and her | 6/23/2007 |
| Q: me and my girlfriend are in a serious relationship its about a year now but we are serious we ... A: Why do you like her? Where do you live? Why were you kicked out? Why sex? Talk to a doctor about sex ... | |
| pre-dating, post-friends if you know what i mean | 6/23/2007 |
| Q: There is this girl that i asked to our school's formal event and has gone with me once or twice on ... A: There is no need to rush into dating. I should ask for your ages. Dating should not be rushed into. ... | |
| What should I do? | 6/22/2007 |
| Q: Hey gypsy girl!!! Okay, so here's the thing, I like this guy and he likes me. And I am even ... A: This is expert Dan here. Besides getting from your school the handbooks about drinking and smoking. ... | |
| Teen Dating | 6/22/2007 |
| Q: There is this girl who I have known for 10 years and we have always had an interesting relationship. ... A: It sounds like you want to rush into dating. There is no need to rush. Remember most teen dating ... | |
| My Relationship | 6/21/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend and i love eachother very much and i jus wanted 2 kno could he get in2 trouble being ... A: It depends on the state/country. I recommend asking a lawyer in your area the law. I also recommend ... | |
| getting her back | 6/19/2007 |
| Q: my names Mike. I'm 15 and in highschool. One morning on the way into school, I bumped into one of my ... A: How old is she? Why do you say you love her? Why do you like her? What do you want in a ... | |
| girl asking a guy | 6/17/2007 |
| Q: So I want to ask this guy out, but I'm not really sure how to go about it. He's really shy so I know ... A: "Adrienne " is open right now on that part of the site. I think they don't accept many questions ... | |
| Last resort | 6/16/2007 |
| Q: Hey i've lost my girlfriend about 6 weeks ago she called it a day and said she didn't feel the same ... A: I feel you should talk to a doctor about sex risks and be tested. Next, I would like to help you ... | |
| A Long Story | 6/16/2007 |
| Q: this will take a while, so I'll thank you right now for just reading this: Okay, there's this girl, ... A: " she's depressed about her last boyfriend since he harassed her."<--- She may need to see a ... | |
| Problem | 6/15/2007 |
| Q: My girlfriend smokes pot and I told her that I didn't like it. So, she got mad and said that I ... A: I recommend talking to your parents, a trusted teacher, your doctor, and our drug area, as well as ... | |
| i dont know what to do | 6/11/2007 |
| Q: im 17 and my boyfriend is 18. a couple of days ago my boyfriend of 2 and a half years sent my friend ... A: Is your boyfriend depressed? Did he threaten someone? Did he hack your account? First off if your ... | |
| sooo confused | 6/10/2007 |
| Q: i am 15 years old. a freshman. i never had a boyfriend, yet most of my friends are guys. but the ... A: SOME PEOPLE WOULD RECOMMEND YOU TO WARN THEM ONCE BEFORE REPORTING THEM WITH CERTAIN TOUCHES AND ... | |
| Hey Chris... please help | 6/7/2007 |
| Q: Okay.... for one, this is odd coming from me. It sounds like my girlfriend should be asking this ... A: How old are you all? You knew this friend only from the internet? Be careful online? Made out? Talk ... | |
| How Do I Know When He's Ready? | 6/6/2007 |
| Q: I've known this guy for about nine years, and we've been really great friends. At the end of ... A: Talk to your friends, trusted teacher, and your parents whenever needed. Friends however do not ... | |
| How Do I Know When He's Ready? | 6/6/2007 |
| Q: I've known this guy for about nine years, and we've been really great friends. At the end of ... A: If this is effecting you so much, talk to a trusted teacher and your parents about this. I am also ... | |
| Parents Hate Boyfriend | 6/6/2007 |
| Q: Matt, referred me to you, he said that you are his good friend. I am 23 and he is 26 years old. ... A: Matt is a good friend of mine. Also a good coworker. I hope I can help you out with the below ... | |
| How Do I Know When He's Ready? | 6/5/2007 |
| Q: I've known this guy for about nine years, and we've been really great friends. At the end of ... A: Ok you mentioned his age, yet not yours. You should not rush into dating. Some people date at 16, ... | |
| i think she likes me but shes not talking to me | 6/4/2007 |
| Q: i really like this girl i know her through a hobbie i do and she seems to like me. it all started ... A: Love? This isn't love. Please don't abuse that word. How old are you all? You cannot nor should not ... | |
| size | 6/4/2007 |
| Q: this is kind of emmbarrising but is there any way to increase the size of my penis without taking ... A: I am told those creams and such do not really work. Penis size is really not as important as some ... | |
| exgirlfriend trouble | 6/1/2007 |
| Q: How do i get my exgirlfriend back? I really miss her a lot. She's in every thought, ... A: How did you meet her? Ages? How long did you date(3 years)? Why like her? Why did she like you? What ... | |
| So confused!!! | 6/1/2007 |
| Q: Lately i have been feeling like no friend and or boyfriend can understand me.As much as my friends ... A: Please in the future before leaving feedback, ask a follow up with the included information. I ... | |
| I NEED HELP | 5/30/2007 |
| Q: I live in Ireland. I am 16 years old. In my school there is a girl in my technology class who i talk ... A: I recommend to ask her for her screen name and email address online and start off talking to her ... | |
| break up | 5/30/2007 |
| Q: my bf broke up with me about 3 months ago and he hasnt talked to me at all since...he said he broke ... A: I cannot say if I would keep attempting to be his friend or if I would leave. I will say that you ... | |
| Girl i am into doesn't want to hurt our friend by going for it. | 5/24/2007 |
| Q: I have been friends with this girl for a few months. I always fancied her but knew nothing could ... A: The fact of the matter is she gets to choose who she wants to date. Not you, not her family, her. ... | |
| dating ages | 5/22/2007 |
| Q: REV Tim, i'm in a relationship and the girl i'm dating is in 7th gr. and i'm in 9th. idk wat the ... A: This information does not replace a lawyer. There is not enough information for me to state any ... | |
| Hello! | 5/19/2007 |
| Q: my name is Tiffany and I'm currently 17 yrs. of age and I really just need some answers to some ... A: Please let me know how to improve my advice. Thanks "sure I'll ever be able to undo them"<--- ... | |
| Is it a test. | 5/19/2007 |
| Q: Well I have a great girlfriend who I love very much. We have been dating for about 5 years and now ... A: I should add, I don't know if you should marry her. Understand friends sometimes last for a long ... | |
| she loves me, her parents don't | 5/15/2007 |
| Q: i feel kind of pathetic doing this, i've never been the type of guy to seek out advice over the ... A: This is Expert Dan. I saw your question on the question pool. I cannot promote a 15 year old to date ... | |
| am I not good enough? | 5/14/2007 |
| Q: Okay so, I met this girl online a few months ago (just to make it clear, I am a bisexual girl ... A: " I met this girl online a few months ago"<--- I do not promote online dating due to safety issues. ... | |
| DIFFICLTY | 5/13/2007 |
| Q: I'm 14 years old, and I live in India. My brother Shorie is 20 years old. One evening, he had gone ... A: This is a big topic that I do not like to get into. Do you talk to him about this? Probably not, for ... | |
| Getting over him | 5/11/2007 |
| Q: "I have this one guy who I like so much. He knows that I like him. We have known each other for ... A: Benefits? What do you mean?"He was my First also"<--- First girlfriend or what? How old are you and ... | |
| Some help, please! | 5/10/2007 |
| Q: ok, my g/f and i broke up because she was confused..but she said she still loves me n stuff and we ... A: There is a topic in psychology where "People will get a girl friend just to cover up their true ... | |
| Some help, please! | 5/9/2007 |
| Q: ok, my g/f and i broke up because she was confused..but she said she still loves me n stuff and we ... A: Sorry I didn't know you were home schooled. I am going to recommend a third party website with a ... | |
| Does he love me too? | 5/9/2007 |
| Q: My names Tina, Im 16 yrs old & Im in love with my best friend Gary. I met him 3 years ago and we ... A: Why do you like him? Why does he like you? Where did you meet? Why do you claim this is love? This ... | |
| Some help, please! | 5/9/2007 |
| Q: ok, my g/f and i broke up because she was confused..but she said she still loves me n stuff and we ... A: "she made out with this kid on friday"<--- This is not the type of person you should date. I ... | |
| GUYS!! | 5/8/2007 |
| Q: I really like this guy. I only see him every two weeks but...well we both like each other and we ... A: Why do you like him? Ages? Why does he like you? Where do you see him? Where did you meet?"wanted to ... | |
| Older men | 5/7/2007 |
| Q: i recently went to church and i met this guy who's 34 yrs old. he's like, 16 yrs older than me. he's ... A: You should not and cannot date a 34 year old at the age of 18. Guys who date such young girls are ... | |
| my feelings replied | 5/7/2007 |
| Q: Hey. My name is Simone and I have a boyfriend named Davo and we have been going out for 2 months. I ... A: It's OK having long questions, yet understand it does take me longer to reply to them. ALSO and I ... | |
| my feelings replied | 5/7/2007 |
| Q: Hey. My name is Simone and I have a boyfriend named Davo and we have been going out for 2 months. I ... A: WOW big question. Lets see where do I start? This is your main question, right? "I just want to be ... | |
| Feelings | 5/7/2007 |
| Q: Hey. My name is Simone and I have a boyfriend named Davo and we have been going out for 2 months. I ... A: My name is Dan. You ask a lot of questions. My job here is not to give you a one word reply. I'm ... | |
| Please, help my friend. | 5/7/2007 |
| Q: She's 16. He's 21. Please help me! Look, I'm keeping my identity as well as my friend's secret. My ... A: Ok I want to help you out. The first posting said "tramatic near-suicide experience"<--- In any of ... | |
| I am so losts right now (answer asap) | 5/7/2007 |
| Q: Well my name is Tommy, I'm 15, and I have like this girl since i was in 6th grade and I'm in 9th ... A: How come you feel a 15 year old should be dating? How come you want to date? Why like this person? ... | |
| help plz | 5/5/2007 |
| Q: Alrighty! I'm 14, I met a really cool girl(Danielle) we get along famously and I really like her, ... A: I feel 14 is too young to be dating. In fact is is illegal in some areas for you to be dating. I ... | |
| Age difference. | 5/5/2007 |
| Q: Is 15 and 18 year olds Illegal to be dating when its only 3 years apart? A: One last thing that I wanted to add is that I cannot promote 15 year olds to be dating(as a general ... | |
| Please, help my friend. | 5/4/2007 |
| Q: She's 16. He's 21. Please help me! Look, I'm keeping my identity as well as my friend's secret. My ... A: You were better off the meds? This can happen. You like Pokemon? What do you look for in a ... | |
| Please, help my friend. | 5/4/2007 |
| Q: She's 16. He's 21. Please help me! Look, I'm keeping my identity as well as my friend's secret. My ... A: Depression treatment sometimes makes it worse before it makes it better. Talking to your doctor, and ... | |
| HELP | 5/3/2007 |
| Q: Alrighty! I'm 14, I met a really cool girl(Danielle) we get along famously and I really like her, ... A: Kissing in most US areas is illegal below a certain age. Because I cannot give legal laws for your ... | |
| Please, help my friend. | 5/3/2007 |
| Q: She's 16. He's 21. Please help me! Look, I'm keeping my identity as well as my friend's secret. My ... A: It appears that she wants an older man for power. That's one theory that sometimes comes up in cases ... | |
| How to Deal/What to do? | 5/2/2007 |
| Q: While I was dating a guy, a friend of mine told me that I didn't need to be with him because he ... A: I admitted in the posting that your area question is not my area of help. I however felt that you ... | |
| Me and my girlfriend argue, and need to way to settle them healthier | 4/30/2007 |
| Q: My names Cory, and ive been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months. and i would say im actually in ... A: Is this really love? "How to Know if You`re Really in Love"<--- Include ages "How to Make the ... | |
| My boyfriend and his mom | 4/30/2007 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a week, and it's going good. But his mom said he ... A: I think 14 is a too young age to be dating. I just recommend to be his friend. Talk to James Windell ... | |
| What's going on? | 4/30/2007 |
| Q: Alright, here's the deal. For the last 3 weeks I was talking to a girl on MySpace that I had met on ... A: You think you should date someone who is so immature and not ready to date? Really? Be careful with ... | |
| can in my butt | 4/28/2007 |
| Q: I hope you can help me with this. Im 12 and my boyfriend (17) and i had very interesting sex. First ... A: All it takes is one good sperm to make you pregnant. Also putting things inside of you can hurt you. ... | |
| Dreams | 4/27/2007 |
| Q: i am 16 years old and i dont have a boyfriend but i keep dream of this boy. i dont know who he is ... A: You're asking what does your dream mean? I recommend our psychology section. Please understand many ... | |
| i was just wondering | 4/25/2007 |
| Q: well i am 15 and i ahve been dating this guy for about 4 months and we decided that we wanna have ... A: You have to know the risks with sex at your age. In most areas you are doing something illegal. If ... | |
| Boyfriend in the navy | 4/25/2007 |
| Q: I have been dating the same guy for a year now. He is an amazing guy! Before we dated we were ... A: It's Ok. Take your time to get back to me. It's your choice if you want to contact me. Most of the ... | |
| Ugh God The Ex Boyfriend | 4/25/2007 |
| Q: Hey, Im 16 and my frist boyfriend which was a couple months ago he and i broke up after new ... A: How did he hurt you last time? Why like him? Age of him? I need more information. "he has a new ... | |
| don't want to end up getting burnt | 4/24/2007 |
| Q: Alright theres this girl, I've been home sick the last few days...& well i texted her & stuff while ... A: "been home sick the last few days...& "<--- Hope you are feeling better. Include ages."We've had sex ... | |
| women advice | 4/24/2007 |
| Q: well i have a freind that i like and at a point she liked me, but i ruined it. I think. well we ... A: Policy rule is "True friend can see through an act". You don't need to speak, when it's known. But, ... | |
| Boyfriend in the navy | 4/24/2007 |
| Q: I have been dating the same guy for a year now. He is an amazing guy! Before we dated we were ... A: Suicide is when you commit the act. It's a "want to commit suicide". Not to get too into the word, ... | |
| Boyfriend in the navy | 4/24/2007 |
| Q: I have been dating the same guy for a year now. He is an amazing guy! Before we dated we were ... A: My statement with the family, kingdom, and such in science is not in the correct order as you know. ... | |
| i need help | 4/23/2007 |
| Q: ok,this girl...she is 16 and she drives im 14...she thinks im 15 and i really like her. we have gone ... A: Be careful with Myspace. I cannot promote it. 14 years old are too young to date. Ask in our "How to ... | |
| Boyfriend in the navy | 4/23/2007 |
| Q: I have been dating the same guy for a year now. He is an amazing guy! Before we dated we were ... A: I am fine today. Thanks for asking. " My family isn't bothered by the religion thing at all"<--- ... | |
| Whats happening?!?!?!? | 4/23/2007 |
| Q: Hey, Well i've been with this boy for almost a month now and things were going great the first two ... A: "CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME BECAUSE I DONT WANT TO LOOSE HIM!!!!!!"<--- It sounds to me like you ... | |
| Boyfriend in the navy | 4/22/2007 |
| Q: I have been dating the same guy for a year now. He is an amazing guy! Before we dated we were ... A: "So many questions where to begin? Well religion is always a great place to start. To avoid an ... | |
| Boyfriend in the navy | 4/22/2007 |
| Q: I have been dating the same guy for a year now. He is an amazing guy! Before we dated we were ... A: "I'm sorry your meeting was boring"<--- It's OK. It was not required, yet I went because I am part ... | |
| Boyfriend in the navy | 4/21/2007 |
| Q: I have been dating the same guy for a year now. He is an amazing guy! Before we dated we were ... A: Is it selfish to care about someone and to protect someone? That's one question we can raise. Your ... | |
| Boyfriend in the navy | 4/21/2007 |
| Q: I have been dating the same guy for a year now. He is an amazing guy! Before we dated we were ... A: Sometimes I am right with the drug theory and other times wrong. I guess this just shows I am not ... | |
| liking a older guy | 4/21/2007 |
| Q: Is it bad if i am 15 and i really like this 23 year old? he really likes me too. my parents are not ... A: Jenny I use a term every now and than called "the need to belong". I also should start using a term ... | |
| Boyfriend in the navy | 4/21/2007 |
| Q: I have been dating the same guy for a year now. He is an amazing guy! Before we dated we were ... A: Do you want to talk to me about the family issues or not? If we hold in this stress, it hurts us ... | |
| Boyfriend in the navy | 4/21/2007 |
| Q: I have been dating the same guy for a year now. He is an amazing guy! Before we dated we were ... A: I try to be fast with answers. I sometimes however am overloaded. I am working on a number of things ... | |
| Boyfriend in the navy | 4/21/2007 |
| Q: I have been dating the same guy for a year now. He is an amazing guy! Before we dated we were ... A: Ok legally I am not allowed to promote dating below the age of 16. The thing here is the navy can ... | |
| break up | 4/21/2007 |
| Q: im 16 and so is my ex boyfriend..we dated for a year and a half and we were eachother's first love ... A: Is this love?" i always have dreams about us getting back together and idk if they mean ... | |
| TEENS | 4/18/2007 |
| Q: WHY DO TEENS FEEL LIKE THEY NEED TO HAVE SEX? A: Not all teens do. Is this for a school project this question? A lot of teens do not want sex. The TV ... | |
| sex | 4/14/2007 |
| Q: ok so I have a few personal/embarrassing questions, so if you could help me at all i would really ... A: Legally I am not allowed to give legal advice per se online, so I cannot say if it's legal for you ... | |
| sex | 4/14/2007 |
| Q: ok so I have a few personal/embarrassing questions, so if you could help me at all i would really ... A: I thought I would include some laws for your area in this. Note, because this is Wikipedia laws do ... | |
| sex | 4/14/2007 |
| Q: ok so I have a few personal/embarrassing questions, so if you could help me at all i would really ... A: Handjobs and such may be illegal under the Florida law for your age. It's important you wait with ... | |
| im confused | 4/12/2007 |
| Q: well i like this dude who one time carried me to the nurses office after i passed out in school and ... A: Each case is different. Sometimes people do not want others to touch them. Touching someone could be ... | |
| Can't figure out this guy... | 4/12/2007 |
| Q: Hey, I'm 16 and a Junior in highschool. There's this guy i really, really like named Wren. He ... A: That's a common error. I understand. It's the "How to Know if He/She Really Likes You". I do not ... | |
| Falling Apart | 4/12/2007 |
| Q: Ok so I'm 15 she's 15, we've been dating for about 3 months, we're going to have sex for the first ... A: Ok I really cannot under the law talk about dating to a 15 year old. This is because 15 year olds in ... | |
| Can't figure out this guy... | 4/12/2007 |
| Q: Hey, I'm 16 and a Junior in highschool. There's this guy i really, really like named Wren. He ... A: You are 16, yet how old is he? I do not study actions online for you are telling me one sided facts. ... | |
| Uncertian | 4/12/2007 |
| Q: I am 13 and live in Stoney Creek ON, Canada. My girlfriend lives 45 minutes away from me in Niagara ... A: Ben Carlos emailed me. Can I ask how you know him? Does he live near you? I want to help him out. I ... | |
| I feel so used | 4/11/2007 |
| Q: I went out with a boy from about 3 months and then we broke up. At the time we only kissed as he was ... A: You are better than him. He's a jerk. Loser. You are special and someone that does this to you, they ... | |
| Alone Time | 4/10/2007 |
| Q: Well I'm in kind of a delima. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for some time now, she is we ... A: Can you tell me your state? How long were you dating for? Why do you want sex? Please ask follow ups ... | |
| parents | 4/8/2007 |
| Q: Hey, First of all I really appreciate you taking the time to try to help me out with my situation. ... A: I have not heard from again. I am wondering if everything is OK. If you need anymore advice please ... | |
| Parents | 4/8/2007 |
| Q: Hey, First of all I really appreciate you taking the time to try to help me out with my situation. ... A: How old is she? If she is below 16 I cannot promote dating under the law. But lets get onto your ... | |
| dating | 4/8/2007 |
| Q: i asked this ? to another person but i just want a second opinion. hi im in 9th grade and i like ... A: You I feel are too young to be dating. We cannot promote dating below the age of 16. Also because ... | |
| break up | 4/7/2007 |
| Q: about a month ago my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me because we always broke up over ... A: This is not love. Love is in a different area. If you keep breaking up with him, history repeats it ... | |
| What's Happening? | 4/6/2007 |
| Q: (I'm 15, my boy is 16) Hello, I've been datin' my boy for just over two weeks, and we haven't done ... A: It's not simple per se with dating laws. In the US a 12 year old cannot kiss another 12 year old. ... | |
| What's Happening? | 4/6/2007 |
| Q: (I'm 15, my boy is 16) Hello, I've been datin' my boy for just over two weeks, and we haven't done ... A: I cannot promote dating at age 15 under the law. It is a culture norm not to have people date below ... | |
| What's Happening? | 4/6/2007 |
| Q: (I'm 15, my boy is 16) Hello, I've been datin' my boy for just over two weeks, and we haven't done ... A: I will tell you this, it's not uncommon for people not to know what love is. And people abuse the ... | |
| What's Happening? | 4/6/2007 |
| Q: (I'm 15, my boy is 16) Hello, I've been datin' my boy for just over two weeks, and we haven't done ... A: I never heard of Bebo before. I recommend to be extra careful with online friends. I do not ... | |
| How do I meet people outside of school | 4/1/2007 |
| Q: So here it is. i go to this private school and I don't think any of these girls are for me. I did ... A: Can you tell me a drop more about your self and location. Thanks Please note we cannot promote ... | |
| where can i find teen guys | 4/1/2007 |
| Q: ok i am 13 (dont say that i am to young to date) and i live in alaska...there really arent many ... A: Why do you want to date? What part of Alaska can I ask this? Please post this question as private ... | |
| im confused | 4/1/2007 |
| Q: well i like this dude who one time carried me to the nurses office after i passed out in school and ... A: Our "How to know if he or she likes you area" can answer the liking questions. I do not recommend ... | |
| Confused please help | 3/26/2007 |
| Q: I am contacting you to ask your advice about a girl. I am not sure how to proceed in our ... A: " I think she liked me first."<--- Please ask in our "How to know if he or she likes you" area. ... | |
| Drugs | 3/23/2007 |
| Q: I don't know if you can answer this because I couldn't find an exact category to go under. But ... A: You do not state your ages. You do state you love him, yet I know you do not love him. In a ... | |
| Uncertian | 3/21/2007 |
| Q: I am 13 and live in Stoney Creek ON, Canada. My girlfriend lives 45 minutes away from me in Niagara ... A: First I cannot promote dating at your age for some areas it's against the law. I am worried about ... | |
| Bi-crush on friend,please help?? | 3/21/2007 |
| Q: Hey i think ur advice section is really nifty! im hoping u can please help. here's some background ... A: If you have suggestions to improve this site please feel free to recommend them to me. There is ... | |
| Trust | 3/19/2007 |
| Q: How can i learn to trust my longdistance boyfriend that i only see on weekends? ANSWER: You asked ... A: You need to talk to him about how distance relationships are new to you. How you feel this will be ... | |
| Trust | 3/19/2007 |
| Q: How can i learn to trust my longdistance boyfriend that i only see on weekends? ANSWER: You asked ... A: You need to sit down with him and have a talk about distance relationships. You also need to have a ... | |
| Trust | 3/19/2007 |
| Q: How can i learn to trust my longdistance boyfriend that i only see on weekends? A: You asked this in the teen area. The question is should teens have long distance boyfriends? That ... | |
| helppp!! | 3/14/2007 |
| Q: ohh i am 13 years old. yeah i just figured that thing out about friends today actually cause people ... A: You only need one friend to give you another good friend. It takes time to find true friends. ... | |
| Moments dont last forever..... | 3/14/2007 |
| Q: Well im going to ask 2 different experts to try and see both opinions if that is acceptable. I'm ... A: He cheated on you? You cheated on him? Are you ready to be dating? Just because he cheated does not ... | |
| wat to do | 3/14/2007 |
| Q: ok me and my gf have been haveing intercouse for about a year without condums because were both our ... A: Having unprotected sex is among the dumbest thing anyone can do. I highly recommend talking to a ... | |
| He's clingy1 | 3/14/2007 |
| Q: There is this guy I saw for the 1st time a month ago. And then my friend hooked me up with him and I ... A: How old are you? I am going to tell you this right now, it's your choice who you want to date and ... | |
| I really need help | 3/13/2007 |
| Q: Inmy college i started talking to this guy named dany. he is 19. Dany and i were introduced through ... A: He doesn't know what love is. Using this term like what he did was wrong. Calling you sick, and ... | |
| im stuck | 3/13/2007 |
| Q: i have a problem i dont know what to do. i have been messing with this girl that have been in my ... A: You're asking should you try to date someone who is dating someone else? You do not want to make her ... | |
| does work effect anything? | 3/10/2007 |
| Q: Hey Dan, just wondering, do you know if work effects a boyfriend or girlfriends time with one ... A: Because work takes time, your relationship may change. However, you are not the first to have a girl ... | |
| im confused | 3/8/2007 |
| Q: well i like this dude who one time carried me to the nurses office after i passed out in school and ... A: I need more information about why you like him. Can you tell me about him? Also a feedback is not a ... | |
| IDK WHAT TO DO!!!!HELP ME!!!!!! | 3/6/2007 |
| Q: Im 17 yrs old and so Is the girl. We’ve known each other for 3yrs. We meet our freshman man and we ... A: I am going to paste one of your statements here: "I started to have feeling for her. During January ... | |
| should i try again? | 3/4/2007 |
| Q: Ok, i need help. You see their is this boy and i REALLY like him and i made a big mistake by sending ... A: Ok he gets to choose who he wants to date, right? Not your friends. Now when a friend like someone ... | |
| a break from dating | 3/3/2007 |
| Q: hey ok well my girlfriend of a year and a half thought i broke up with her because she was going to ... A: How old are you both? It sounds to me like she doesn't want to date. Maybe she was just using this ... | |
| .. | 3/2/2007 |
| Q: i am in a real weird situation.. there was this guy with whom i like went around for 6 months...it ... A: You said right here "p.s seriioiusly need help.. ". It's not uncommon for one to have feelings for ... | |
| Why? | 2/26/2007 |
| Q: i'm 16 and my last relationship was when i was 13 and since then no guy has been interested in me, ... A: I don't promote dating at age 13. I also don't think you need to act like a slut to get a guy. I ... | |
| My Pregnant girlfriend wants a break.... | 2/25/2007 |
| Q: Okay here is the situation...My girlfirend and I have been together for about 4 months. We started ... A: You shouldn't have had sex like this with her. Now there is a child in the picture and you may not ... | |
| Regret over brokeup | 2/23/2007 |
| Q: Im 24 and he is 25.I dont know why i've like him so much.Maybe its the persistence he has for our ... A: The question is should you date him? You keep breaking up because of the small things. History ... | |
| I sent him a message! | 2/22/2007 |
| Q: About 4 hours ago I sent him a message on MySpac*, to make up for not talking to him today, in a ... A: I need past question with answers to really help people. I recommend you to be careful with Myspace. ... | |
| feelings | 2/22/2007 |
| Q: My girlfreind is 15 as well as my self. But she hand her freinds hang out with bucnhc of older guys ... A: Should she be friends with jerks? Now someone needs to talk to her about the sex risks. I recommend ... | |
| is my boyfriend cheating on me? | 2/17/2007 |
| Q: Before I met Jason he was dating a fourteen year old online and now i'm not so sure hes kicked the ... A: Were you legally allowed to go on his account? That's my question. How old are you? I am a drop ... | |
| ... | 1/29/2007 |
| Q: Well his friends are 16,16,and 15 (or at least the ones that have a problem with me... Yes, we were ... A: I don't promote dating before age 16, so be careful. My advice with his friends is try to find out ... | |
| help please? | 1/24/2007 |
| Q: hey Dan, well, there is this girl i really like and i really want to be with her, but i wasn't sure ... A: How old are you all? Does she like you questions should be asked in our" How to know if he or she ... | |
| gift. | 1/17/2007 |
| Q: What do guys like getting as a gift. My bf is 17, and valentines day and our anniversary is coming ... A: Ok from the psychology view any gift that is worth money is a bad idea. It could be looked at as ... | |
| eh... | 1/15/2007 |
| Q: well he said that he has social anxiety disorder.. and I looked it up, because I didn't know what it ... A: Some psychologists use the term SAD, yet most probably do not, for it confuses people. SAD is really ... | |
| eh... | 1/15/2007 |
| Q: he IMed me first because for job I said I was a hooker..( I was joking !!!!) and he said he always ... A: I am sorry, yet you said SAD is a social disorder(social anxiety disorder). My psychology states SAD ... | |
| eh... | 1/15/2007 |
| Q: he doesn't have a profile, and I can tell you anything you want to know about him.I met him in a ... A: Ok, can you send me over one of your chats with him. I will study this chat and get back to you with ... | |
| eh... | 1/15/2007 |
| Q: I met him in a chatroom, on one of those yahoo chatrooms.. I'm 17 and hes 18I know that this will ... A: FYI--- Create this question private with posting his screen name. Ok before I answer your question, ... | |
| this guy really likes me. | 1/8/2007 |
| Q: The text above is a follow-up to ... -----Question-----I've never used this questions things but I ... A: It could be this: You're looking at him differently maybe for your own feelings or feelings you ... | |
| this guy really likes me. | 1/7/2007 |
| Q: I've never used this questions things but I hope you can give me some advice. First off, a girl I ... A: Welcome back. If you like him you may be looking at the signs that he is showing you wrong and ... | |
| this guy really likes me. | 1/6/2007 |
| Q: I've never used this questions things but I hope you can give me some advice. First off, a girl I ... A: Let me review your question... Ok your age is important with questions here. Is the feeling that ... | |
| help | 12/30/2006 |
| Q: This is going to be a big question, just warning you now. Please. I need help. I suppose its best ... A: "This is going to be a big question, just warning you now. "<--- Thanks. :(. Nah, I am OK with long ... | |
| I can't stop thinking about this girl | 12/25/2006 |
| Q: I am 16 years old and have recently got a part time job and I go to school. I work on the weekends, ... A: Happy Holidays. I joke with people when I tell them I work on this holiday. I try never to take a ... | |
| Hi again.I REALLY need you're help with this Long-question | 12/23/2006 |
| Q: I'm not sure if you remember me, so I'll give you some refreshing. I'm not sure if you're going to ... A: This is your friend Dan. Your question is on the question pool and taking up space. The question ... | |
| How do I get the girl of my dreams | 12/20/2006 |
| Q: I really don't know much about him because I barely knew him and I really never liked him, but I ... A: Ok I recommend you to stay her friend for a while. Become her best friend. And when she sees you are ... | |
| ... | 12/19/2006 |
| Q: Hey, I need a lot of help. Im trying to find a girlfriend, not for some show off reason, cause I ... A: 15 is not old enough to date in my mind. My advice is become friends with girls before dating. Now, ... | |
| me or coincidence? | 12/14/2006 |
| Q: i'm sorry, i wanted to give feedback, but i forgot your name and it isn't anywhere on here. what is ... A: My name is Dan in the "Teen Dating Issues" area. You left Feedback on my profile I see. Thanks. I ... | |
| me or coincidence? | 12/14/2006 |
| Q: well i definetly knew the second guy way before myspace, so i didnt meet him on there or anything. ... A: There is one thing that I can recommend that I have heard is good. It's a body reading tool that ... | |
| me or coincidence? | 12/13/2006 |
| Q: they were going to be relationships. i am 16 and they are 17 and 15. the first one was a boy who ... A: "they were going to be relationships. i am 16 and they are 17 and 15."<---- First thing that came up ... | |
| me or coincidence? | 12/13/2006 |
| Q: i have had 2 possible relationships with guys, but never a bf. both possibles was where we both ... A: Relationships? Friendships? How old are you? How old are they? "do most guys do this? "<--- No most ... | |
| Dating a 30 year old? | 12/6/2006 |
| Q: I'm 17 and I've been talking to this guy for a long long time, and I want to know what you think ... A: I don't endorse someone who is 17 dating a 30 year old. In most cases it is a bad type of a ... | |
| girl problems | 12/3/2006 |
| Q: so i was dating this girl for almost a year and a month. She just turned 18 this weekend and I am ... A: "She was very abusive and known for creating drama.. "<--- This sign shows to me she has a mental ... | |
| Should i Do it | 12/1/2006 |
| Q: "Hey ok so I have a problem I am 17 and my boyfriend is 21 and we have been dating now for about ... A: "Hey ok so I have a problem I am 17 and my boyfriend is 21 and we have been dating now for about ... | |
| Hi, it's matt. I have a question. | 11/30/2006 |
| Q: I have to make this very quick because i'm in a very-big rush this time.. So here's a couple ... A: While I thank you for the feedback, for it will help create more people who come to me for advice, ... | |
| HELP!! | 11/27/2006 |
| Q: wonder if you can help. Im a 15 year old guy, and at the moment, im kind of having a fling with ... A: Before handling your problem: "Im a 15 year old guy, and at the moment, im kind of having a fling ... | |
| is it too late? | 11/27/2006 |
| Q: my names josh and im 17. there is this girl that goes to my church that I have know and like for ... A: Good question, is it too late? It's never too late to do the right thing I am told. I recommend to ... | |
| girl in my class | 11/25/2006 |
| Q: hey, we are both 15, both single and both christian but not extremely religious in out daily life.i ... A: Ok thank you for your follow up. I asked those questions for a number of reasons. Age: Tells me if ... | |
| It's Me again.I hope you're not too tired of me. | 11/21/2006 |
| Q: Well if the replies get slower it's fine. as long as they're replied to. I might look into it ... A: "I pledge my head to clearer thinking, my heart to greater loyalty, my hands to larger service, and ... | |
| I am doing a research paper | 11/20/2006 |
| Q: well sounds like you got a good online site. The only problem with one of your statments is that my ... A: "well sounds like you got a good online site"<--- Thank you. I feel this is one of the best sites ... | |
| I am doing a research paper | 11/20/2006 |
| Q: I owuld like to thank who ever helped me on answering my problem but I would like to know as much as ... A: One more thing: I've mentioned a lot of question topics that I receive online and most of those are ... | |
| I am doing a research paper | 11/20/2006 |
| Q: I am doing a research paper on how teen relationships affect how we act at school and what are some ... A: Teen relationships Peer pressure can be good and bad. There is good peer pressure like good grades ... | |
| penis | 11/19/2006 |
| Q: hey im a 15 year old guy and i was curious if my development is ok because my penis is 8 inches long ... A: Jeff I am not an expert on the penis. I recommend our Teen health area or Men's health. I do not ... | |
| a boy in my street! | 11/17/2006 |
| Q: well this boy just sent a christmas card at my door. my dad answered and he said it was that boy i ... A: How old are you all? I think without anymore information, he may like you as a friend. I am not an ... | |
| boys | 11/17/2006 |
| Q: I'm only 16 and i was going out with a 26 year old and we loved each other but it didn't work out so ... A: You didn't love him. You liked him if anything. Now, I would not recommend to date a 26 year old ... | |
| What do I do?! | 11/16/2006 |
| Q: OK so here is the deal. I am 19 years old, and I had a bf when I was 14. We were together for 3 ... A: "We went on a few dates, and because neither of us wanted long distance relationships he moved in ... | |
| So Complicated! | 11/16/2006 |
| Q: Hey, my name is Dan and I'm a senior in high school. For the past few months, I've started to ... A: If possible I do recommend to be her friend if you cannot date her, yet I know how hard it is to do ... | |
| 1 month anniversry gift?? | 11/15/2006 |
| Q: i have a boyfrined and this is both our longest realtionship. Sunday will be our 1 month but i do ... A: The downside with personal gifts is some people think they are cheap. In the psychology world, price ... | |
| It's Me again.I hope you're not too tired of me. | 11/14/2006 |
| Q: Ahh. Well I guess i'll just send in a quick letter and try my luck for you to be Guru. You've done ... A: Here's the website with the word: ... | |
| It's Me again.I hope you're not too tired of me. | 11/14/2006 |
| Q: I think you'd be a good "Guru",if I can find out how,I'll most likely vote for you. History I find ... A: You cannot vote for an expert here. That's the sad part of it. You can send in a letter to my boss. ... | |
| Girlfriend's 16th Birthday | 11/13/2006 |
| Q: I'm wondering if you have any suggestions on what I should do for my girlfriends 16th birthday. ... A: Good name by the way. Ok lets get onto your question. The best gifts I have learned are from the ... | |
| It's Me again.I hope you're not too tired of me. | 11/12/2006 |
| Q: Ok,Hello again.Excuse me if i get off-track or subject or lose my focus tonight..I have other stuff ... A: I've been giving advice online for really a long time. And while I sometimes feel I heard ... | |
| It's Me again.I hope you're not too tired of me. | 11/11/2006 |
| Q: I've noticed that feedback is usually good actually, so I can understand where you're coming from by ... A: "Well that always works, you seem like you know what you're talking about with good and quick ... | |
| It's Me again.I hope you're not too tired of me. | 11/10/2006 |
| Q: I'm glad to hear you're good. Yea, you probably should recommend him if needed. His answers are ... A: I don't ask for feedback usually on the basics that I don't do this for feedback, however, I noticed ... | |
| It's Me again.I hope you're not too tired of me. | 11/10/2006 |
| Q: Hey Dan.How are you?Fairly good here.I've been talking to another person in this same catagory.He's ... A: One of the areas I can maybe recommend on our site for you is former questions to certain experts: ... | |
| It's Me again.I hope you're not too tired of me. | 11/7/2006 |
| Q: Ok.. So I wrote Nicole a note last night and gave it to her.. She wrote back saying she wasn't mad ... A: If you want to say friends with this person a break would be a good idea. I am just wondering what ... | |
| hey | 10/31/2006 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have been on a break for a couple of weeks now... last night we talked and she ... A: She doesn't know what love is, so be careful. She meant like when she used that term. Common error. ... | |
| my girlfriend | 10/31/2006 |
| Q: Hey. I've been with my girlfriend for about a year now and we truly do love eachother. Only there's ... A: You do not know what love is. You mean like. Please review this word."When we started dating, she ... | |
| hey | 10/30/2006 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I are thinking about getting back together.... I want to keep the spark alive if ... A: About the spark in your relationship? Big topic. I can maybe recommend some books, yet a friend of ... | |
| my ex-boyfriend | 10/27/2006 |
| Q: About a month ago my boyfriend and I of three months broke up somewhat mutually. Mainly he wasn't ... A: You hug him and kiss him and you are his friend. My theory is you are dating him, yet without the ... | |
| help | 10/26/2006 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I recently took a break in our relationship... A few days ago things were going ... A: She shouldn't rush to get back to together with you right now in my mind due to a number of factors. ... | |
| should i or should i not? | 10/23/2006 |
| Q: i want to return the ring back to my ex which he gave me on valentine's day.i know that many of my ... A: Talk to him in a public place. About the ring it was a gift and usually a gift means you can have it ... | |
| girl i like | 10/22/2006 |
| Q: ------------------------------------------- Well I want to major in biology and become a zoologist. ... A: Good choice. Biology is a neat subject. I have a friend who works at the local zoo who is a ... | |
| New guy in my life? | 10/22/2006 |
| Q: i need advise, there is this guy from the internet i talk to on yahoo and he stays around my way hes ... A: I do not promote online dating. You are putting your self in risk. I have handled predator cases ... | |
| girl i like | 10/20/2006 |
| Q: Well I need your help sorry for being so long this girl that I like in my college class, I know lots ... A: Jewelry doesn't always tell if one is dating or single. It varies. I cannot tell about that diamond ... | |
| Dating questions, an age question. | 10/18/2006 |
| Q: Hey. I'm not on too often during the weekends sometimes, so it's taken me a few days to get back to ... A: By the way most experts do not give out names of former questioners. So she could be free to send as ... | |
| yeah... another one of those do they like me... | 10/17/2006 |
| Q: Yeah well, I'll be turning 16 within a month... nov.8 is my b-day... you said you can't really ... A: Happy Birthday first of all. I can try to explain why people acted certain ways, yet I am not an ... | |
| yeah... another one of those do they like me... | 10/17/2006 |
| Q: there is this guy i like and i am 15 and he is 16... Last I could tell he like me.. a lot.. but ... A: I don't recommend dating at age 15. I recommend dating at age 16 if anything. Now, I cannot tell you ... | |
| Dating questions, an age question. | 10/13/2006 |
| Q: Hey. The guy i asked last night before i had to go to bed about the age thing was from Legal area.. ... A: Paul is pretty good whenever I talk to him. Many legal experts here are good. Legal advice on the ... | |
| messing my chances | 10/12/2006 |
| Q: Problem is I don't know a friend to introduce me to her. This is the problem I would have to ... A: I don't fully promote Facebook or Myspace yet they help out sometimes in cases like this. My problem ... | |
| About dating.. Well, a girl mainly. | 10/12/2006 |
| Q: . I've been talking with another guy on here, and he said to ask another expert besides him, so i ... A: This question is on the question pool. If still valid ask a follow up with more information. Thank ... | |
| Dating questions, an age question. | 10/12/2006 |
| Q: Ah.. well thanks for the case example, but i diddn't plan on doing anything like that., but still ... A: Your job as a friend is to protect your friends. However if they do not listen to you and try to ... | |
| Dating questions, an age question. | 10/11/2006 |
| Q: . So basically all i should really do is just be friends with both of them and thats that?. If thats ... A: I should note this: There have been cases where the parents of a teen refuse to allow the teen to go ... | |
| messing my chances | 10/11/2006 |
| Q: Im 18 and am a quiet guy. However I've yet to have a serious relationship with a girl. I've never ... A: It's not rare for guys not to date at age 18. However with TV more and more people think it is rare. ... | |
| Dating questions, an age question. | 10/11/2006 |
| Q: turning 18 in February of next year, and theres this girl in my math class that one day just ... A: I do not promote Myspace for safety reasons. Talk to your parents about online safety and dating. I ... | |
| Relationships | 10/9/2006 |
| Q: Okay...i've been faithful the whole time...he's lied to me and cheated on me over and over...I broke ... A: You should talk to a psychologist. Your problem is not abnormal. Now, he cheated on you. He's a ... | |
| Where to start. | 10/9/2006 |
| Q: im 19 and a very shy guy with some self confidence issues, ive recently talked to a few girls etc, ... A: You should be proud you never had sex yet. I am proud of you.I can give you some sites that help shy ... | |
| my boyfriend and me | 10/8/2006 |
| Q: ..im 16 and i have a b/f of 10 months...i love him to death but some ppl say hes controlling....he ... A: He does sound controlling and you know this, otherwise why would you ask? You're friends know this ... | |
| Answer | 10/6/2006 |
| Q: my name is paul and i fell in love with a girl named april. We were each others life. Then we got ... A: Does your best friend know about how you once liked her? You should talk to your best friend about ... | |
| A Dating Question, and i need advice..Mostly about ages. | 10/6/2006 |
| Q: I'm a 17 year old, turning 18 in February of next year, and theres this girl in my math class that ... A: "she drank and smoked"<--- Shouldn't date her. "And i sorta started liking this girl that added me ... | |
| My ex is pregnant, but I am in a wonderful relatinship until now. What should I do? | 10/5/2006 |
| Q: My ex(17) who I (19) was with for about a year is 4 months pregnant from me, but have been in a ... A: Everyone who has sex needs to see a doctor and be tested. You may want to check into the law with ... | |
| confused | 10/4/2006 |
| Q: hey, my names Gemma and i'm 16. i've recently entered the whole 'guy/dating' scene, a bit late i ... A: Dating at age 16 is still young. I recommend people to wait until at least age 16. You may feel you ... | |
| Is my Boyfriend cheating on me? | 9/30/2006 |
| Q: See I am 13 almost 14 and I am going out with this 14 yr old boy named Dakota, Just a few minutes ... A: You are too young to be dating. You can base the cheating information with your friends words, yet ... | |
| Girls | 9/28/2006 |
| Q: I am 16 and I have started going out with this girl. At school we see each other in the hallway but ... A: There is nothing wrong with being shy. It's normal to be shy at certain times of your life. I would ... | |
| Getting My Dream Girl. | 9/25/2006 |
| Q: At My School Theres A Girl Who I REALY LIKE ! She Considers Me `Just A Friend` But Wenever She Talks ... A: How old are you? How old is she? I recommend to stay her friend for a drop longer. And I recommend ... | |
| breaking up | 9/22/2006 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. We had/have this amazing relationship, although i ... A: You don't love him. You don't understand what love is. Now, about his depression, is he getting help ... | |
| HeLp mE.. | 9/16/2006 |
| Q: alright ummm how do I start...I have this friend melissa shes like my sister and she has a brother ... A: Please ask follow ups if you need advice on the above problem still. Please talk to your parents ... | |
| what to do | 9/13/2006 |
| Q: "i know a girl for 10 years now we used to always hangout and have a good time and now she really ... A: Please understand this question was posted on the question pool. Knowing this I need to ask if this ... | |
| what to do | 9/12/2006 |
| Q: I am 16 years old and have just asked out a girl, and was shocked that she said yes (i asked her out ... A: E-mail to ask them out? 10 years ago this wasn't a great idea. Now they fire people with email. Have ... | |
| age? | 9/8/2006 |
| Q: i'm almost 15 and i've never had a boyf. but the thing is i'm not really bothered!i don't want to ... A: Please ask follow ups if you need advice on the above problem still. Please talk to your parents ... | |
| Does he or doesn't he? | 9/7/2006 |
| Q: Here it goes, Last year towards the end of the school yera there was this kid John that I met at ... A: The question is does he like you? Sadly one online cannot answer this with those facts. I can make ... | |
| boy | 8/27/2006 |
| Q: and me and my bf have broken up a month ago, it was a mutual decision so we decided to stay friends, ... A: I think you are too young to date, yet that's another story. It's fine not kissing. Lets get onto ... | |
| do i take him back? | 8/15/2006 |
| Q: i(19) dated this guy(22)for about a year and because of his tendency to want to run my life for me - ... A: You think you still love him? I think you may like him, yet love him? Not yet. Now, do you date him? ... | |
| Parent of a teen daughter | 8/13/2006 |
| Q: I need some advice with my daughter and her boyfriend. What worries me is they are together all the ... A: I can give you some advice, yet I have an expert on this site who I feel would be better for you. He ... | |
| Crushed | 8/11/2006 |
| Q: Well me and my boyfriend have had an awesome relationship...He got really upset the other night and ... A: He should see a psychologist. I am not sure the law in your area, yet family members cannot marry in ... | |
| instructor issues | 8/10/2006 |
| Q: Im an instructor, and am in high school. there is a girl that i teach who is roughly 3 years ... A: You are the teacher and she is the student.It is very important for you not to date her. It may cost ... | |
| what can i do? please help | 8/10/2006 |
| Q: ..im 16 years old and have a boyfriend who is 18. we have been together for 7 months now. i love him ... A: Your problem is he wants sex and yet he doesn't want sex. You are 16 years old. You do not know the ... | |
| love | 8/4/2006 |
| Q: There is this boy and I'm not sure if he likes me as a friend or more than a friend. We hang out ... A: Please understand I was not the person you asked at the beginning. I answered from the question pool ... | |
| boy | 8/2/2006 |
| Q: im lisa and 15.Me and my bf decided to split up, because we don’t see each other that much. I so ... A: I feel you are too young to have a boyfriend. Now, because you are his friend now, you can call him ... | |
| Am I normal? | 7/31/2006 |
| Q: I am a 13 year old girl.I am independent and smart and care about education.But the problem is,I ... A: I receive this question every once in a while. The fact is when I grew up, and my parents grew up, ... | |
| crush | 7/24/2006 |
| Q: my names Tim, and I'm 18. I am really in love with this girl,Alisha. She's the best, only she dosent ... A: No tips off the top of my head for French Kissing, sorry. However about your friend, your job is to ... | |
| wat to do but her | 7/9/2006 |
| Q: my g.f is very sweet ....i know tht for my self...she loves me a lot....tht aslo i know...but the ... A: You don't know what love is. So use the term like instead. Same advice as before is what I am going ... | |
| what should i do? | 7/8/2006 |
| Q: Anyway i started talking to a girl i really liked about a month ago. We where just friends back then ... A: Your dating but not in public? First off you I feel are young to date, yet that's because I ... | |
| girls! lol | 6/27/2006 |
| Q: we are both 14, well im going on 15! the relationship broke up by her i think, she wont talk about ... A: Because I don't have past questions or answers, I'm going to say this: If you are her friend, your ... | |
| girls! lol | 6/25/2006 |
| Q: there is this girl i really like that i havnt talked to in 3 years! i have just recently texted her ... A: You don't give me a lot to work on. Ages? I recommend becoming her friend again. Talk to her more. ... | |
| My First Date Advice | 6/25/2006 |
| Q: I am fourteen. I guess asking all of this would be too "not me" on the date. I have to let things ... A: Psychology is a theory based science. This means that one thing is not always true for everyone ... | |
| my x, my m8, and the unloved | 6/20/2006 |
| Q: i am james, i went out with my gf for about 5 months, the longst i had ever been out with ny1, but ... A: You want your friend to date her, yet you like her because of this. You see you know she likes your ... | |
| What can I do? | 6/18/2006 |
| Q: I have absolutly no self confidence at all. I think im ugly and my grades are slipping a lot so ... A: I recommend a couple of things: School psychologist--- I recommend talking to one Your doctor ... | |
| How can i get her back? | 6/6/2006 |
| Q: Hey Dan, My Name is John, and im turning 17, I Met this girl at one of my friends parties who is ... A: She pushed you away how long ago? It sounds like she needs a break because of your friends. Is there ... | |
| What should I do now? | 6/3/2006 |
| Q: There is this girl who I have known for a long time, but never really knew very well. I started to ... A: Ok lets get somethings down first hand: You are her friend--- Very good friend of hers You are a ... | |
| going to fast? | 6/3/2006 |
| Q: okay so i met this amazing guy. i love him, honestly i do. he's extremly sweet and nice and funny ... A: I'm going to be honest. I think your moving too fast. You should slow down and ask your self what ... | |
| getting started | 6/2/2006 |
| Q: hey dan. im 16. anyways, theres this cute blone girl whos been riding my bus this year. i noticed ... A: The second you stopped and asked "am I going to fast", you know something may be wrong. Your 16. 16 ... | |
| Follow up: Confused about my feelings | 6/2/2006 |
| Q: and in such timely manner! You told me to be friends with her until I'm ready to date her. This is ... A: Your right it assumes she will say yes. Sometimes they won't. The thing to note here is you are her ... | |
| Follow up: Confused about my feelings | 6/2/2006 |
| Q: In response to your questions, she's not dating anyone else right now and I don't think she likes ... A: If she has a different religion than yours it may hurt your chances dating her. <---- This is ... | |
| Confused about my feelings | 6/2/2006 |
| Q: My name is Nick and I'm 17 years old. I only have a few days left of junior year, but this past ... A: Dating at your age is to learn about dating. I assume this is your first time you want to date ... | |
| Help! I cant talk! | 5/24/2006 |
| Q: Hey Dan... i hope u dont mind this is kinda a long story... Last year i went out with my first ... A: Are you shy to other people or just him? Your afraid of liking him? Your not sure what to talk ... | |
| Moved on and confused | 4/19/2006 |
| Q: Hey Dan, I have been dating my ex-boyfriend for a 1 year and 5 months. We were totally inseperable ... A: I question why he dumped you: Other women? Depression? School stress? ETC I think he misses you ... | |
| Dating and Talking | 3/26/2006 |
| Q: I am currently 19, dating a girl my age and I was just wondering if it is healthy to talk with your ... A: There are a couple of things I want to say. I talk to people every day online. I talk to my friends ... | |
| should i make a move | 3/20/2006 |
| Q: sorry but i got a long one for ya. about two years ago i went out with a girl my age for a ... A: We have an area on this site called "How to know if someone likes you". You should ask there. The ... | |
| After the break up | 3/19/2006 |
| Q: It's a really long and complicated story. So i'll try to keep it short. I just want to let out all ... A: "I'm a 14 year old boy but i dont know who i am... " At your age this is normal not to know who you ... | |
| im a 15yr old boy in the 8th... | 3/15/2006 |
| Q: im a 15yr old boy in the 8th grade.i played football this year.a was kind of poular.i would say i ... A: Looks aren't everything. Understand Jay Leno was known by many people when he was at his school. I ... | |
| ------------------------- ... | 3/11/2006 |
| Q: Followup To Question - im a 15yr old boy and is in the 8th grade.i like this girl and she is in ... A: If anyone pushes someone else in any school in the United States, the teacher is suppose to act on ... | |
| im a 15yr old boy and is in... | 3/11/2006 |
| Q: im a 15yr old boy and is in the 8th grade.i like this girl and she is in the 8th grade and is 14yr ... A: Tip number one never push a girl. She could get you in trouble in school. Tip number two, if you ... | |
| Parents won't leyt me date! | 3/7/2006 |
| Q: We both recieve good grades and both do not do drugs or anything else. He is the same age as we as ... A: Tell James I sent you. With parent problems, sometimes you need to go and ask someone who is a ... | |
| Get him back? | 3/6/2006 |
| Q: Well I wanted to know on a guys point of view. I went out with this guy that was really loved me, he ... A: I will tell you what I told someone when I started off working her. Wife marries husband. Wife ... | |
| Parents won't leyt me date! | 3/6/2006 |
| Q: I recently began dating this guy who has been a friend of mine for a couple years. These past few ... A: You will need to tell them sooner or later. And in my mind it's important to talk about it sooner. ... | |
| Relationship Dilemma | 3/6/2006 |
| Q: okay well your a guy so i think you'd be the best person to answer this...me and my boyfriend have ... A: Your rushing into sex. You need to step back. Learn the risks of sex. Wait on sex. Get tested for ... | |
| hi i'm 15 almost 16 and... | 3/5/2006 |
| Q: i'm 15 almost 16 and i have never asked a date to a girl and i never had a girlfriend so a few weeks ... A: You are in my mind a drop young for dating, yet a lot of people do date at your age. If you want to ... | |
| Wants as oppossed to possibilities | 2/25/2006 |
| Q: This is quite a predicament I'm in so if you could...bear with me. OK. So there's this girl. ... A: For the drinking problem, please ask in "Addiction to Alcohol". Now, how do you date without having ... | |
| Giving her the right amount of time.... | 2/24/2006 |
| Q: I've known this girl for almost 8 months. We met during the summer and have kept in really good ... A: Don't rush into dating. And respect her. Don't rush into sex. Now, you said you are her friend. ... | |
| my daughter is torn between 2 boys | 2/14/2006 |
| Q: she is 15 and she understands sex. These other relationships have not been sexual, neither has this ... A: Where is the past question? Please include the past question with the follow up. Thanks How are ... | |
| How Do I Ask? | 2/12/2006 |
| Q: Well Im her friend aright now I like her for her ok sorry i did not make it clear befor but I do not ... A: When you answer the above questions, you can ask her out if you want. How, in a relationship of any ... | |
| Hi there, I am about to... | 2/6/2006 |
| Q: I am about to go out on my very first valentines date. Although i am not sure where to go, wot to ... A: If you got through the first step of asking her out, you know she likes you. Now, knowing this, why ... | |
| Hi there, I have a problem.... | 2/2/2006 |
| Q: I have a problem. You see, there is this amazing girl but the problem is she is goin out with my ... A: I do not know why you said no to her last time, yet this time you are going to have to keep your ... | |
| age different, is it illegal? | 2/1/2006 |
| Q: I'm 14 (real age is 16, I relocate to the US several years ago and my mom changed my age for some ... A: Each state varies with the laws. Just dating him in many states is not a crime from what I am told, ... | |
| A girl who i can't stop thinking about her | 1/31/2006 |
| Q: Well, my story goes like this, I'm senior and this year is the last year of high school and actually ... A: I recommend talking about school, life, or the news. Start off as her friend. If she doesn't give ... | |
| my friend and i | 1/27/2006 |
| Q: My friend (Henry) told me that he likes this girl (we are all 15). Just recently, i've started to ... A: You may like this girl because of your friend. I assume you however are her friend, am I correct? ... | |
| Who To Trust | 1/26/2006 |
| Q: I am 15 years old and so is evry1 else in this story. basicly a while ago there was an incident ... A: Find the truth. And remember a friend is not suppose to attack you in the back. If they are hurting ... | |
| Frustrated | 1/24/2006 |
| Q: I am a 15 year old male high-school student. (Alot of people find that hard to believe.) Many ... A: I am glad you don't want to just have a relationship for the wrong reasons. You are more grown up ... | |
| unprotected sex | 1/20/2006 |
| Q: well me and my gf jus recently had sex we both were virgins but we didnt use any condums,we hasd sex ... A: Please don't rush into sex without knowing the risks. Yes, 2 out of every 5 American teens in like ... | |
| Im kinda having problems | 1/8/2006 |
| Q: Hey, I was wondering if you could help me with a little problem. I'm 13 and so is my boyfriend. We ... A: You are kind of young to date, yet what happens is girls sometimes want to date before boys. This I ... | |
| seriously heartbroken | 1/7/2006 |
| Q: ok well a while back i met this guy mike after recently getting out of a really bad relationship and ... A: You are too young for sex. You need to learn the risks of sex at your age. Talk to your doctor. Get ... | |
| falling apart | 1/5/2006 |
| Q: i am 15 so is she she is really pretty and smart and funny and i love her loads. i see at least once ... A: Don't just like her for her looks. Please don't. Make her know why you like her. For what's inside ... | |
| Dating... | 1/4/2006 |
| Q: Okay, here it is. I'm 18 and I have never, I repeat, never, been on a date. I'm a freshman in ... A: Looks do not matter to many guys. What's on the inside counts. You should make friends with guys ... | |
| Best Location for the First Time | 1/2/2006 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have decided we are ready to have sex. Our parents are really religious and we ... A: It's not only about religion that sex should wait until you are older, yet it's because of how many ... | |
| kissing | 1/2/2006 |
| Q: i realy like the girl im going out with and we both want are first kiss but im like a nurvus reck ... A: There are no written rules about kisses. There are fancy terms and people wrote down how to do them, ... | |
| please help my daughter | 1/1/2006 |
| Q: My daughter, Danielle is 17.She met Jason, a 19 year old about 2 months ago. He started out right ... A: I know you said they almost were going to get married, boy they are young for this, yet that's ... | |
| First time in a while | 12/31/2005 |
| Q: i basicly almost got here in my grasp lol. Well i'v been having a problem, know people how talk ... A: About talking, sometimes it's wise not to abuse talking. Too much talking is not good. Just be you ... | |
| Forgetting | 12/22/2005 |
| Q: This may be a bit long so get comfortable. I am a mixed(Race), 15 year old, male. Back when i was ... A: Your story reminds me of a friend of mine. What I told him was what I will tell you. First loves are ... | |
| Older Girlfriend | 12/22/2005 |
| Q: My girlfriend is 18 and I am 16 the relationship got started while we worked together which I knew ... A: It's really your choice. I wouldn't without a good reason. The thing is you may not know what love ... | |
| First time in a while | 12/16/2005 |
| Q: Ok so basicly what i was trying to tell is that She doesnt know me what so ever. I dought she even ... A: Is she part of any clubs? Join a club she is in. Find out her email address or screen name online. ... | |
| inexperienced boyfriend | 12/16/2005 |
| Q: I am a boy who is 15 years old and i have NEVER been kissed. I hate lying to my friends saying that ... A: First Happy Holidays. Second many guys do not date until they are older. Being with their girlfriend ... | |
| Dating | 12/13/2005 |
| Q: I'm 14 and i'm in 9th grade. I like this girl and she likes me. (she told me she likes me, i did not ... A: While I am not for dating at age 14, kissing just happens. So you shouldn't not date her because you ... | |
| First time in a while | 12/11/2005 |
| Q: My name is Alex(male), and im am 15 yours old. I dont have much experence with girls and i am a ... A: I usually recommend people to become friends before dating. This helps remove a drop of the stress. ... | |
| wats wrong with me? | 12/3/2005 |
| Q: im 13 in 7th grd and all my friends have bfs.i dont.it seems like all the guys i like DONT EVER LIKE ... A: Many people do not date at age 13. Most people wait later. Now, why is it changing to a point some ... | |
| what should i do? | 11/30/2005 |
| Q: last year i asked for a phone number and she shot me down (i have liked her from 1st or 2nd grade) ... A: I will tell you what I told someone else. My dad got a no from my mom 50 times before getting one ... | |
| Probably common, but advice on moving it forward | 11/29/2005 |
| Q: This is probably one of the most frequent questions you get, and I apologize for waisting your time ... A: Good question. An answer is easier than an action, meaning I can give you an answer, yet it's not ... | |
| Not sure what to do... | 11/26/2005 |
| Q: Okay, I'm 16 and my boyfriend, Scott, is 20. I'm a junior in high school and he's into his second ... A: Peer pressure is a big thing. Rushing with sex is a bad peer pressure. I see Scott has respected ... | |
| How to end a destructive relationship | 11/24/2005 |
| Q: I am a 69 yr old stepfather. My son is l6. He has been interned with the club chivas, a ... A: Good question. Education is very important. There are a number of factors to think about. If he is ... | |
| Is He Interested In Me | 11/24/2005 |
| Q: except he has been there longer than I have. The first day that I met him we were introduced and ... A: The problem here is when I give advice online I like to hear both sides of the story, because people ... | |
| Plz help! | 11/1/2005 |
| Q: Hey I really hope you can help me.Im in a hard spot right now between guys.Theres this guy named ... A: I wouldn't date either of them. Jason you don't have feelings for, which means you are only his ... | |
| Strengthening Lost love | 10/9/2005 |
| Q: I really need your help, I have no one else to turn, I am really sad. I just want to start from the ... A: It is okay you were black.Let's not get into this psychology topic. The thing is online ... | |
| Virginity | 10/5/2005 |
| Q: My name is Igor, i'm 23 and i'm from Russia (sorry, if my english is not perfect) :) A couple of ... A: There is an old saying that answers the following question. You can open a gift before it is ... | |
| I don't get guys. | 10/2/2005 |
| Q: Followup To Question -Ok... this may sound conceited, but I would say I'm pretty hawt. Well, I'm in ... A: To be popular does not mean you are popular. I mean you could be popular, yet they may not be good ... | |
| I don't get guys. | 10/1/2005 |
| Q: Ok... this may sound conceited, but I would say I'm pretty hawt. Well, I'm in 10th grade. The only ... A: It should have given me a clue to tell you where you may find guys that you may like. Do they have a ... | |
| I don't get guys. | 10/1/2005 |
| Q: Ok... this may sound conceited, but I would say I'm pretty hawt. Well, I'm in 10th grade. The only ... A: I'm sure many more guys in real life could like you, yet you are not looking in the right places. It ... | |
| does he love me? | 9/18/2005 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and he just told me a week ago that he feels like i ... A: At around well this age people question what is love. He doesn't know what love is and for this he ... | |
| Getting rid of guys | 9/16/2005 |
| Q: I'm Angelina, 17 (almost 18 in less than two months). I'm having a kinda serious problem. For the ... A: First off Happy Birthday. To be honest truth sometimes hurt. There however are ways to say it in a ... | |
| Does she like me? | 9/12/2005 |
| Q: Hey my question is that does this girl at my work likes me? Heres how it goes. I just started ... A: Like you like a friend or more? It's hard to say, for I don't see you or her. And I can tell you ... | |
| This guy.... | 9/4/2005 |
| Q: Alright, so my grandpa (wally) repairs and sells lawnmowers in our backyard. My dad and I live with ... A: First let me say I cannot tell you if someone likes you or does not like you. I can say what you ... | |
| help!!! | 8/30/2005 |
| Q: I'm sorry if this email is a bit lengthy. I've had so many problems that I need to start from the ... A: Good question. First let me say I understand your parents may be hard with rules, yet there are ... | |
| Ex Boyfriend | 8/23/2005 |
| Q: People Involed Myself: 16 Danny, ex boyfriend.: 16 Ok, I was dating this guy Danny for a very long ... A: Because of his drinking problem, your job is first to protect your self(I wouldn't go near him ... | |
| girl | 8/9/2005 |
| Q: I like this girl who I see in youth group but does not know how to approach her. HOw shall I ask her ... A: How old are you? Depending on your age, you may just want to start off as friends. If you are ... | |
| I AM SO CONFUSED | 7/23/2005 |
| Q: I am writing this to you because I need your advice because you are a guy. I am in love with ... A: I don't know if he is just busy or what, yet I wouldn't waste my time with him. However because of ... | |
| try to get him back | 7/13/2005 |
| Q: ok me and my ex had this big fight like last night and i said i never want to talk to you again to ... A: It's important to know what the fight was about. People say bad things during a fight. I think you ... | |
| Me and my boyfriend have been... | 7/6/2005 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 5 months and this couple of weeks he has started ... A: Does he have some new friends? A lot of stress in his life right now could be causing this. How ... | |
| Does he like me? | 7/6/2005 |
| Q: I really need some help with my situation. I'm a 17 year old waitress at a restaurant, and have a ... A: The one year age difference shouldn't be a problem. Someone else liking you could cause a problem in ... | |
| i just want platonic relationship | 6/25/2005 |
| Q: why do girls assume that there is “something” in the actions the guy had shown well in fact there is ... A: Good question. You should ask this question in the psychology area. You see your actions speak ... | |
| what to do? | 6/21/2005 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been going out for four months.He lives in a different city and i cant see ... A: He may be ashamed of his dad for that and may not want to talk about that. Just because his dad is a ... | |
| When to break up? | 6/20/2005 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been going out for 6 months. My parents are really strict and want me to ... A: It's a hard call. All I can say is if you think there is any chance of working it out, wait a drop ... | |
| dating | 6/8/2005 |
| Q: ok well i have this friend who is a year older than me i liked him a while back i liked him for a ... A: I think from the information you gave me he likes you, however I am sure your leaving out ... | |
| hello... i hope you can help... | 6/4/2005 |
| Q: .. i hope you can help me... see me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and seven months, ... A: It seems to me like your having a problem with him. I don't know how this new feeling started, yet ... | |
| Should I ask him out? | 6/3/2005 |
| Q: I'm graduating from high school in a week...and my question is that if I should ask this guy I like ... A: Good job on passing high school. I am very proud you passed high school. I am glad too. Now, should ... | |
| help | 5/30/2005 |
| Q: theres a girl that me and my friend but shes got a boyfriend, she doesnt really like her boyfriend ... A: First off you are too young to have intercourse with her and you admit you are not ready. But, if ... | |
| ok so ive known this guy for... | 5/23/2005 |
| Q: ok so ive known this guy for almost a year now and we started seeing each other and hooking up about ... A: You basically show signs of already having a long distance dating relationship, yet this means he ... | |
| Hello | 5/20/2005 |
| Q: Hey, This school year I met a girl named Estella she was in my 6th period class "high school" ... A: Without going much into the problems she had in the past, was it depression or abuse? If it was ... | |
| please help!!! | 5/15/2005 |
| Q: well lately i keep questioning the relationship between my boyfriend and i. i analyze every little ... A: Maybe you feel he is not good enough for you. I recommend asking in the psychology area on this ... | |
| waht do i do | 5/14/2005 |
| Q: ok i like this guy and ever thing but i really dont know if he like me like i like him. any way i ... A: You should at your age be looking for a friendship type of person. Chances are you will not marry ... | |
| yes or no | 5/10/2005 |
| Q: I'm 15 and this girl is 15 too. i've tried about every thing I can think of to go out with her. I've ... A: I wouldn't buy her presents like that. The answer why she couldn't say yes or no was because while ... | |
| girl help | 5/9/2005 |
| Q: ok...i dont know what to do...lol.i have liked this girl for along time(Jenette)...i asked her out ... A: I recommend people to become friends with people before dating because it usually works out better ... | |
| Ok tell me what you think... | 5/5/2005 |
| Q: Ok tell me what you think of this? This girl i like well i think she likes me back, lately she has ... A: Your telling me your one sided review and that shows bias. I assume you like her and for this that's ... | |
| Twot things | 5/5/2005 |
| Q: hows it going? I'm 15 years old and this girl I like is 15 too. I know she likes me too because she ... A: It's hard to know when to ask someone out. The perfect time I mean. This is why I recommend you to ... | |
| hey dan im 15 and this girl... | 4/27/2005 |
| Q: hey dan im 15 and this girl i really like well i think she likes me back, and i got a specific ... A: You ask a good question, however without seeing this, I cannot answer your question. I however can ... | |
| kissin | 4/12/2005 |
| Q: I Have had a girlfriend for about 3 weeks. we like...actually love eachother very much.but...im ... A: This is a common question. I don't know how to answer this however. I guess the best kisses are ... | |
| Classic situation, but i NEED help | 4/10/2005 |
| Q: Hey, I'm Jose Luis from Mexico; I'll try to make this short. I'm 16, she's 15, I love her, she ... A: Why do you love her? Why does she not like you? Do you even know what love is? You mean like her. ... | |
| dating . | 4/8/2005 |
| Q: ive been dating this guy for about 15 months. we are great together , but the only reason i think ... A: If he controls you when dating, think about marriage? He will do the same. Because your a teen, you ... | |
| long distence relationship | 4/5/2005 |
| Q: my name is Shaina. I am 17 and have been going out with my boyfriend ,who is 18, for almost 2 years. ... A: You feel he is leaving you. It's not abnormal. Do you have a trusted teacher in your school that you ... | |
| Tell me... | 3/18/2005 |
| Q: I've been asking a lot of questions around here lately, sorry for that. I've got one last ... A: One of my favorite courses I ever taken was a women studies course. It taught people what women ... | |
| Domestic Violence(Emotional) | 3/17/2005 |
| Q: Dan, I have just sent this same question to Colleen but a mans opinion is much different from a ... A: It is ok your question is long. I understand why it is. You do explain "Domestic Violence" very ... | |
| sex | 3/5/2005 |
| Q: .. me a nd my boyfriend have now been together for 3 months. we have discussed having sex before and ... A: You as well as me know your not ready for sex. He is trying to peer him into this and than when you ... | |
| Changing a negative image. | 2/27/2005 |
| Q: I really need help now and it involves my whole life. PLease help me. I am a senior in High School, ... A: A long time ago when I was young I was known as a trouble maker. The school where I went to which ... | |
| crush? | 2/21/2005 |
| Q: all right well theirs this boy @ my school. My friend thought something >was goin to happen between ... A: It's normal for a 17 year old to date. Sometimes I tell them however to wait. Your case it's your ... | |
| Changing a negative image. | 2/20/2005 |
| Q: I really need help now and it involves my whole life. PLease help me. I am a senior in High School, ... A: I will be glad to offer advice, yet your question is a question more for a school psychologist. ... | |
| Relationship or not? | 2/17/2005 |
| Q: Do you think it is a bad idea for me (an 18 year old male attending college) to stay out of a ... A: People think of this question in a lot of different forms. I stayed clear of dating during my ... | |
| going to college | 2/6/2005 |
| Q: me and my girlfriend and both 16. we live in NJ. I go to college in 2 years. she goes in 3. we've ... A: Basically what she is saying is she wants to still date you, yet cheat on you at the same time. ... | |
| not sure what to do | 2/5/2005 |
| Q: Okay, there's a problem I have involving two guys. I'm 15. One guy, Tyler, is 15 and the other, ... A: Your problem is not abnormal. Sometimes guys will become depressed because of losing a loved one. ... | |
| Asking out a girl who is already a "friend" | 1/30/2005 |
| Q: I was wondering how to ask out a girl who is a friend. I don't want to ruin the friendship we ... A: Nick I tell people to become friends before asking them out. Good job your her friend. Now, you have ... | |
| Does he like me? please help!! | 1/25/2005 |
| Q: My name is Kitty and i am 14 I have a really big crush on this guy in my drama group named Andrew, ... A: Sometimes you want a guy to like you and than you see signs that they like you, yet signs to tell if ... | |
| lap dance | 1/4/2005 |
| Q: well your a guy so maybe you can help me out...well i have a lil problem its not really a problem ... A: If he wanted you to jump off a building, would you? Don't always do what he asks. This is because ... | |
| HELP i love him! | 1/3/2005 |
| Q: Dan, ok here it goes i have been with this guy for 3 years and 5 months. I have known him for ... A: Your smart enough in my mind to go to Harvard. All it takes is someone to try. Now he looks as ... | |
| Hi I'm in desperate need... | 12/28/2004 |
| Q: I'm in desperate need of help! Earlier this year i met this totally wonderful - or i thought he was ... A: Move on. Don't be his friend. A friend doesn't do things like this to you. I see your very mad about ... | |
| What do I do? | 12/18/2004 |
| Q: I still like my ex-boyfriend and I broke up with him because he was 17 and I'm only 15. I like him ... A: Most men are older than females when you look at the marriage of people. For an example look at your ... | |
| the cat got out of the bag :( | 11/19/2004 |
| Q: I really like this guy. And I havn't told anyone. Except for my one friend. Well she asked him ... A: Maybe he is dating someone or maybe he is not ready for dating or maybe he wants you to talk to him ... | |
| dating issues | 11/8/2004 |
| Q: See, I'm in what you call a pickle. I've been dating this boy for about 3 months now. Nothing too ... A: It is in my theory if love was meant to be it will be. I think you love him. I think he loves you. ... | |
| exs best friend | 11/7/2004 |
| Q: My ex boyfriend's best friend has been acting a little strange latley around me. He had a ... A: It's hard to say. My advice is really no more than to ask him. And if he shows signs of a lie or a ... | |
| How to let him know I don't want a boyfriend | 11/7/2004 |
| Q: I'm a freshman in college, and since my parents wouldn't let me date in high school, I want at least ... A: To be honest be careful who you date. Drunk people are usually not the right person for a girl like ... | |
| spanish class is my favorite part of the day..... | 10/14/2004 |
| Q: Theres this guy in my spanish class. He is SO unbelievably cute, its undescribable. Now, very rarley ... A: We have an old saying that may help. "It is better to try and fail than to have never tried at all." ... | |
| confused | 10/10/2004 |
| Q: Me(15) and my boyfriend(16) broke up about a month ago, and at first I hated his guts so bad that I ... A: It is somewhat normal sometimes for people to date to question their love. This is probably what ... | |
| how to stop "screwing" up | 9/20/2004 |
| Q: I just started college. I'm a young one, I'm 17 and I don't turn 18 until December. I've been here 4 ... A: Stupid your right. Drinking is a serious problem on colleges and it's sad. It's dumb. I am ... | |
| lost the "spark"..... | 9/9/2004 |
| Q: Ok, well, for about 4 months I've been going out with this boy. Hes nice.....but....I don't know, I ... A: Because so many guys go for girls who are so nice, they made one of my favorite quotes for this. ... | |
| Maturing in a relationship | 8/13/2004 |
| Q: Hey Dan, i have a problem that i just wish i could solve overnight. I've had a great boyfriend for a ... A: People tell me all the time "you are what you eat." I like to tell people " you are who you are by ... | |
| is he using me? | 8/4/2004 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been going out for over 2 months. I'm 15 next week, and he wants to take ... A: Your gut feeling is a warning. The thing is that's all I can say. I don't know enough to say ... | |
| relationship problems.... | 7/23/2004 |
| Q: Ok, I actully have a few questions... My 2 month anniversery just passed with my boyfriend. ... A: I like my famous joke about someone asking why an anniversary is every year. The joke goes like this ... | |
| Confused about signals he is sending | 7/16/2004 |
| Q: Ok, so i like this guy and we i have known him for about a year now. We go to school together and ... A: He is your friend. That is no question. Yet more than a friend? Not yet. He may in the future ask ... | |
| This guy, he wont leave my head! | 7/8/2004 |
| Q: Well, this guy, i like him alot and he is giving me the signals that he like me ALOT. Like in one ... A: In this day and age it is not uncommon for a female to ask out a male. But be careful some males ... | |
| what to do!? | 6/19/2004 |
| Q: Ok well I just got back from a week long church camp. Wail I was there I met a really cool boy named ... A: First off a friend doesn't attack you from the back. Your friend Sommer, I question if she is a ... | |
| im 16, i realy like this guy... | 4/10/2004 |
| Q: im 16, i realy like this guy but he went out with my friend and now that they've broken up i wanna ... A: You must talk to your friend first. Why and who broke up? This is important because if you date him ... | |
| Help | 4/3/2004 |
| Q: Hi...Recently, (like this past week), my boyfriend of seven months and I broke up. Corbin and I were ... A: The reason why you miss him is probably because you had intercourse with him and you knew it was a ... | |
| Dating Issues | 3/21/2004 |
| Q: I'm 18 years old and I'm a Senior in High School. I've started to hang out with some college kids ... A: One of your friends has to many girlfriends and is not right for her. The other would lie to her and ... | |
| what to do | 2/11/2004 |
| Q: I asked a girl I absolutley love to the turnabout dance, I needed to ask as it was the only way to ... A: First off a women will love you for you or otherwise it is not right. Second off, I like to say ... | |
Teen Dating Issues
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