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| My girlfriend doesnt seem to care as much as she says. | 8/22/2008 |
Q: Hey, Okay well my girlfriend tells me she loves me more than anything and I'm so important, but ...
A: trust is very important in any relationship. if you cant trust her then you should probably move on. ...
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| Help | 8/17/2008 |
Q: Ok well I have two questions. I'm a sophomore in high school and I've never had a boyfriend before. ...
A: no its not weird that you havent had a bf yet. think about what you want to say to him before ...
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| relationship | 8/13/2008 |
Q: uhm i need to ask and tell you somethinq . could sex really mess up your relationship ? kuhs im 13 ...
A: no i dont think sex can mess up a relationship. i think maybe he just wants to date other people. i ...
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| does a condom stop pregnacy? | 8/11/2008 |
Q: Well me and my girlfriend want to have sex but were not sure about the chances of her getting ...
A: condoms are not 100% proof she wont get pregnant. not having sex is the only way to know for sure :) ...
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| 1st time asking someone out ... help me | 8/8/2008 |
Q: Sandi, First, I will say that I am a senior in high school. My high school is so small that all ...
A: you dont need to go in and buy something from the store? :) you didnt leave something behind the ...
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| me my best friend and her bf | 8/6/2008 |
Q: Hey im molly 13 and single. now my Friend Liz has this bf, he use to be mine but broke up wif me ...
A: this guys really doesnt sound like someone either one of you should be going out with. to be so ...
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| How can i speak to girls if i have low self steem ? | 8/5/2008 |
Q: I'm 18 male teen and i am have sooo low self esteem that it's killing my chances of meeting girls. ...
A: how about instead of talking yourself "out" of these things why not talk yourself "IN" these things? ...
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| The Sweet Guy or the Jerk? | 8/2/2008 |
Q: I'm sort of seeing this guy who's younger than me (2 months). I'm 17 and he is 15..It did take me a ...
A: i think you should start going out and doing things to see how he really feels about you. if he ...
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| So Confused | 8/1/2008 |
Q: This is the issue I've been in a relationship with this girl for about a month and one day we ...
A: let her know you think this is a big issue and you dont like her sending pics of herself to other ...
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| bf around friends? | 7/31/2008 |
Q: I'm 14 and my boyfriend (he's 13) and I have been going out for 6 months. He is amazing and respects ...
A: hmm..not sure but i would definantly ask him about it. maybe find a time when its just the two of ...
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| Can't get over ex girlfriend | 7/30/2008 |
Q: Hey I'm 18 and about a month ago me and my girlfriend of 1 and a half years broke up. We broke up ...
A: she sounds confused. i would give her some time to figure stuff out. talk to her on occasion if you ...
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| not sure | 7/21/2008 |
Q: Ok, so this girl Jenny and I, both fifteen, have started liking each other quite a bit. We both ...
A: i think you should find a good time to sit down with her and lay out what you want from a ...
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| He's Black, I'm White.. | 7/19/2008 |
Q: I'm 15, my boyfriend is 18. My parents would completely disown me if I continued to see him. He's ...
A: i think your way to young to be feeling completly in love with this guy. i think you should continue ...
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| why do i keep on going back | 7/17/2008 |
Q: ok so i have this chat site that i go on constantly. I dont even know why. I believe its because of ...
A: sounds like you need to be happy with yourself and not use guys to make you happy. i think you ...
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| this guy & sex | 7/16/2008 |
Q: ok so I am 15 years old i met this guy like three months ago, hes sweet & really attentive. when i ...
A: there is no way to know if he is telling you the truth. you have to decide if you want to have sex ...
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| ex-boyfriend | 7/3/2008 |
Q: K, so i'm 15 years old and me and my ex had been dating for about 3 months, he asked me to marry him ...
A: dump him and find someone else. really, you dont need this kind of guy in your life. marriage? are ...
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| me ,my bf and sex?? | 6/28/2008 |
Q: well here it goes i love my bf and i know he loves me too we always do things you know sexual things ...
A: everyone is different. if you think you are ready for sex then go for it. it might hurt and you ...
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| First Kiss | 6/27/2008 |
Q: I am going to meet(kiss, snog etc; etc;) someone next week for the first time and I'm getting really ...
A: practice. let her know you havent kissed a girl before. if she is a nice girl she will respect you ...
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| have sex? or not? | 6/26/2008 |
Q: I am 16 years old, and met a guy on a family vacation three years ago. He's over a year older than ...
A: how would you feel if you had sex with him and then never see him again? would that change anything? ...
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| my gfs parents are keeping us apart | 6/25/2008 |
Q: how to deal with over protective paretns im 16 years old my gf is 15 going to turn 16 in july weve ...
A: for the most part you will just have to let this work out on its own. its her life and she will have ...
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| HELP | 6/11/2008 |
Q: Okay, so right now I'm "with" a guy, lets call him Tim. We went out at the beginning of the year and ...
A: i think you should let tim know how you feel about tyler. its not fair to either one of them and do ...
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| Confused | 6/9/2008 |
Q: Allright heres the deal . I'm 14 and I've been dating this AMAZING guy, hes nice and sweet and ...
A: your young and ahouldnt be tied doen to just one person. thats what dating is all about, seeing what ...
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| help | 6/5/2008 |
Q: ok this girl named mystee, she and me used to be real close (not dating tho) but we were extremely ...
A: i think you should find a good time when you can talk with mystee and find out why she doesnt talk ...
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| i need help | 5/31/2008 |
Q: hey sandi, i'm 14 almost fifteen and going to ninth grade. so my best friend for almost 4 years i ...
A: i think you should try and just be good friends with her for now. later on at some point let her ...
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| Help for dating | 5/29/2008 |
Q: I need help from you 2 days ago i graduated,and i really like one girl and wanna be with me.The ...
A: practice makes perfect. continue to go up to girls and just talk to them. say hello how are you. ...
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| mom caught me | 5/8/2008 |
Q: I have a really embarassing situation that I need help with. This past saturday morning I was out in ...
A: are you serious? your mom actually got you a cloth and handed it to while you were naked on the ...
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| dating advice | 5/4/2008 |
Q: How can I ask a boy out that is 2 years older than me? I'm in 4th grade and his in 6th grade please ...
A: i think you should just ask him out! i also think its a good idea to be friends with this person ...
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| My Ex Girlfriend | 5/3/2008 |
Q: OK first off I'm 15 and a freshman high school. Anyway about 6 months ago my girlfriend broke up ...
A: if she doesnt have the same feelings towards you then i wouldnt recommend you do anything. ...
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| our relationship isnt equal. | 4/27/2008 |
Q: hey ! thanks for helping me. lets start off my saying im 16 and my boyfriends 17, my boyfriend and i ...
A: he might just be slower to fall in love. i would give him a a little more time. maybe another two ...
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| i dont know if my boyfriend really loves me. | 4/26/2008 |
Q: How do I know if he really loves me? Well I just turned fourteen i know young and im only a couple ...
A: you just have to belive it and trust him. if he is telling you all this then why dont you believe ...
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| dating issues | 4/25/2008 |
Q: "hey i got a ?. i like this guy and he made a mistake by pushing me against the wall and he says he ...
A: if your scared of him them i woudnt date him. just be friends with him and try to make sure there is ...
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| love | 4/24/2008 |
Q: i am in love with Dexetr.and as far as i know he is in love with me.he says i am the one.but we only ...
A: you love him? how long have you known him and gone out with him? i think you should only date hime ...
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| she's scared | 4/17/2008 |
Q: me and this girl really like each other and the only problem is that shes scared.. everytime i get ...
A: i dont think there is anything you can do other then just let her know how you feel about her. let ...
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| desperate | 4/15/2008 |
Q: well first off im 15. about 4 months ago i went to my friends church and i saw this guy that id ...
A: i wouldnt just walk up to him and ask him out. i would start with just saying hello. keep it simple ...
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| this girl i was almost with | 4/12/2008 |
Q: ok, so this valentines day i gave a gift to this girl who i liked for so long. she gave me a gift as ...
A: first off...thinking of killing yourself over someone you havnent known that long is relaly not a ...
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| Girlfriend problems | 4/10/2008 |
Q: I'm 20 and my girlfriend just turned 18 and is graduating in the summer. We dated through most of ...
A: its hard having a relationship when you cant see the other person that often. i think for now its ...
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| I dont know what to do | 4/9/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I just broke up last week. He said he wanted to see what else was out there. So i ...
A: he sounds like a real jerk to me. try to forget about him. date other people. ignore him. let him ...
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| How come I can't find a girlfriend? | 4/5/2008 |
Q: My name is Donald and I'm a freshman in college. I am perusing a B.F.A in Performance theatre and a ...
A: i think you should give up trying. i dont believe in searching for a relationship. i think it should ...
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| 2 Year age difference | 3/30/2008 |
Q: This guy who lives next door to me is soooo hot! but hes 16 nearly 17 and I'm 14! my room looks ...
A: why not just ask him out? maybe make a passing gestor like, hey we should go out sometime. see how ...
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| Conversation | 3/29/2008 |
Q: I'm 18 and never had a boy friend before. I do talk 2 them but that's it. There's this boy I like, ...
A: think about some questions or subjects you would like to talk about ahead of time. play out the ...
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| What do I say? | 3/28/2008 |
Q: So, first off, I am a girl, despite my name. So I know this might not have much to do with dating, ...
A: try thinking about what you might want to talk about ahead of time. think of some subjects and ...
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| girls | 3/27/2008 |
Q: basicly there is a girl who is also 17 that i like but she is not interested in me and i was ...
A: i dont think you should try and get a girl to like you. either she will or she wont. just be ...
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| Do you think you can give me some advice? | 3/26/2008 |
Q: Hey Sandi, I'm 16, male, and a sophomore in HS. There's this girl that I like and am also friends ...
A: well i dont think you should "try" and get her to like you. this needs to come naturally. just keep ...
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| gf | 3/25/2008 |
Q: i have a problem that i can't talk about to anybody i know cuz its too embarrassing. i am 16 and so ...
A: i think you should talk to her about it before hand. i dont think you should wait and let her be ...
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| dating | 3/5/2008 |
Q: i work with this girl i really like...but i reall carnt stand her freinds.. we have i right laugh ...
A: dating someone you work with can be hard. you could ask her out to lunch and see what she says. see ...
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| Talking | 3/4/2008 |
Q: I have "gone out" with about 8 girls. U know one of those school dating things and u occasionally ...
A: i dont think you should try and be somoebody you are not. you shouldnt try and be funny or try and ...
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| best friends in love.. | 2/27/2008 |
Q: i know you get this question alot but mine has a twist..okay so me and my bestfriend we will call ...
A: i think you are correct, you should date and have fun if thats what you feel you need to do. i think ...
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| Love. | 2/26/2008 |
Q: I'm currently very confused in my love life. Two years ago I met a girl at school named Lauren. As ...
A: either way you need to make sure you stand up to your responsibilities and take care of your baby. ...
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| Is it possible that this girl likes me ? | 2/24/2008 |
Q: i went for my training 2day in JD sports (clothes shop) and there were alot of girls. i like this ...
A: i dont know! talk to her! look, your not going to know how she feels about you unless you start ...
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| I am lost... | 2/23/2008 |
Q: I am in a bit of a problem here and I hope you can help me. Theres this girl Mariah who I met ...
A: i am of the believe that when two people have such strong feelings for each other and then they ...
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| getting over first love | 2/21/2008 |
Q: well me and my boyfriend went out for about 5 months and i know thats nothing to most people but to ...
A: i feel for you i really do. sometimes it can be very hard to get over your first love and especially ...
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| Help | 2/9/2008 |
Q: Heyro Sandi, Thank you for taking the time to read this in the first place! Okay, there is a girl ...
A: i wonder why she just gives you a one or two word answer? i would think that if she liked you she ...
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| does she like me? | 2/7/2008 |
Q: I'm a sophmore in high school (15 yrs old), and there is this girl (freshman) at my school that I ...
A: i dont understand, why dont you just ask her out? what have you got to loose? i would think about ...
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| ive got some questions... | 2/4/2008 |
Q: alright, i should give age. i am 15, and she is almost 15 too (in a month or 2). i asked her out ...
A: not much you can do about the kissing thing! yeah just bend over and kiss i guess. but i think you ...
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| Girl Problem | 2/2/2008 |
Q: I am fifteen years old, and i am in the tenth grade at my high school. There is this girl who i ...
A: well if she is into her prep friends then it might be difficult unless her friends "approve" of you. ...
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| sex/relationship | 1/22/2008 |
Q: ok i am 13 and i dont have a boyfriend but there iz this one boy that iz kinda like aa boyfriend to ...
A: 13 is pretty young to be doing stuff like that. i think you should continue to say no to sex though. ...
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| does my close friend like me | 1/17/2008 |
Q: i have this really close friend that is a girl and i have been friends with her for 3 years and i ...
A: the fact that she liked you at one time says a lot. i dont think its wrong to let her know you like ...
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| I can't figure him out | 1/16/2008 |
Q: Hey, I'd apreciate some advice. I'm a 10th grader and I hardly ever like boys at my school. I've ...
A: hard to say. sounds like he might just be shy. do you see him talking to anyone else? if not then ...
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| I NEED TO KNOW IF MY BESTFRIEND LIKES ME | 1/15/2008 |
Q: WELL TO START OFF I WOULD LIKE TO THANK YOU FOR TAKING UR TIME ON READING MY QUESTION..THANKS...WELL ...
A: i think the only way to know for sure if she likes you is to ask her. i wouldnt tell her how much ...
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| Asking her out | 1/14/2008 |
Q: Hey Sandi, I am 16 years old and in the 11th grade. There is this girl in my class that I really ...
A: can you find a moment to maybe ask her for her im or phone number? at least that way you can talk to ...
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| help girl | 1/13/2008 |
Q: I guess this is kind of long so I put it into sections, but it should hopefully be a fun read even ...
A: ask her about her family, what movies she likes, what kinda food she likes, her favorite or least ...
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| sex for the first time | 1/9/2008 |
Q: ok me and my girlfriend have been talking about sex and it has hurt when ever we tried letting me ...
A: let me start by saying, please use protection! :) lubrication is very important especially when ...
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| Asking a girl out | 1/3/2008 |
Q: I went out with this girl a couple weeks ago. We went to the movies, but I wasn't exactly sure it ...
A: hard to say. she could either be wanting to just be friends or is unsure and wants to take it really ...
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| hey | 12/7/2007 |
Q: i am a African girl and my boyfriend is African to i think i have being going out with him for 2 ...
A: sounds like he is not ready for a gf. i would not go back to him and if you think you can do it just ...
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| maintain girlfriend interest | 12/6/2007 |
Q: Any way my girl friend and I have just started dating and Im starting to feel like shes getting ...
A: maybe she feels like she needs to talk to both you and her friends. i would give her the space to do ...
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| ex irlfriend | 12/1/2007 |
Q: im in a kinda awkward situation where my ex is being really annoying.I have been friends with my ex ...
A: have you told her how you feel? be open and honest with her and let her know how she is acting to ...
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| dating no other expert has answered!!! | 11/30/2007 |
Q: Im in 7th grade and never had a real relationss]hip should i be worried? My one relationship was ...
A: there is normal not normal when it comes to dating. you just have to go at your own pace. now if ...
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| this one girl i thought loved me :( | 11/29/2007 |
Q: I have been with this girl for just under a year now and we are both 16. I haven't been the best ...
A: i think you should confront her about this. if she is posting stuff on myspace then its really not ...
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| confused of what to do with this girl | 11/27/2007 |
Q: Your question was hey i dunno if itz dating or talking but im with this girl we kissed, held ...
A: it really depends on how much you like this girl. it sounds like you really want to try and have a ...
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| am I moving too fast? | 11/19/2007 |
Q: I am in 11th grade and i met this girl about two weeks ago who goes to my school. she told me she ...
A: if she is not ready then she needs to basically let you kow when she is ready. let her know that you ...
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| Friend (stretched) is going out with girl I REALLY like | 11/16/2007 |
Q: k. I'm 15 and really like this girl, Kim. Like I would seriously like marry her right now, but I ...
A: the worst thing you could do is to bad talk about your friend and convince this girl to break up ...
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| i dont know what to do | 11/15/2007 |
Q: hey i have this really nice girlfriend whose a freshman and so am i(in high school) and before we ...
A: sounds like lust more then anything. i wouldnt give up a good thing you have now just because you ...
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| friend and boyfriend | 11/12/2007 |
Q: I love my boyfriend very much and he loves me. However, one of my friends likes him too. (FYI: Her ...
A: a true friend would not act like she is. she should respect the relationship you have with your bf ...
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| boyfriend | 11/9/2007 |
Q: me and my boyfriend cj have been going out for almost 2 months now . we both are madly in love with ...
A: wow, thats a really hard question for me to answer. i dont know him at all so i cant really say. the ...
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| This girl I like | 11/7/2007 |
Q: I need help. I like this very cute girl whove I've known since 6th grade and I'm in 10th grade now. ...
A: no i dont think you should try and get her to breakup or cheat on her bf. just be her friend and ...
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| what do i do? | 11/6/2007 |
Q: Hey I'm ryan. I really like this girl. I asked her out at the formal last term, and before that (I ...
A: i think you should start with saying hello to her when you see her. i think you could also send her ...
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| Do i stay with him? | 11/3/2007 |
Q: I'm 17 and i will be leaving to college in Fall of 08. My main question is, when i go to college, ...
A: i think you both need to have a heart to heart conversation and be totally open and honest with each ...
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| I'm whipped!! | 10/31/2007 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been friends for a while, and when we started to go out. We both feel that ...
A: let her know how you feel (sounds like you already have) and what you think she should do to make ...
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| Need some advice | 10/25/2007 |
Q: I'm 18 and at uni , I visited my sister (20) in Chicago last night and went out with some of her ...
A: i dont for sure but if i had to take a guess i would say he just wanted to get some from you. i ...
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| Asking her out to see if she likes me a little | 10/19/2007 |
Q: My name is Taylor. I am a guy and I like this Girl in the same grade as me (seven). She is very ...
A: pull back a bit here. you dont even know the girl so love is a strong word. i think you should get ...
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| Being Played? | 10/18/2007 |
Q: I am 16 years old and am quite experienced for my age.....ya i was the school slut back home..... so ...
A: sounds like he is using you for sex. dont be so easy to sleep with a guy. go out for awhile with the ...
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| asking out a younger guy | 10/16/2007 |
Q: k so i really like this guy and he kinda knows it because i told my firend the day he was comming ...
A: if you think you like him then i would just ask him out. who cares that he is a little younger, ...
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| heart break | 10/10/2007 |
Q: i have recently broken up with a boy that i had been going out with for 14 months i loved him so ...
A: you have dated for over a year and have only been broken up for a few days now? your not going to ...
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| im stuck | 10/7/2007 |
Q: ok theres this girl i really like im 16 nearly 17 and she 18 nearly 19 iv know her for about 4 ...
A: i think you really need to talk to her and find out if she would like to go out. i know its scary ...
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| Christain Girl | 10/2/2007 |
Q: There is this girl from my church that I really like. We have become great friends in the last two ...
A: it sounds like maybe she does like either you or your friend (or maybe both of you). i would ask her ...
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| Two girls | 9/29/2007 |
Q: There are two girls i like and I dont know which to choose. One girl doesn't really seem to like ...
A: well you dont want to try and get a girl into any relationship. it has to happen naturally. there is ...
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| older guy | 9/26/2007 |
Q: I really like this older guy. I've known him for 7 yrs and have always liked him. He just moved back ...
A: i dont know where you life but he should be very careful because he could be breaking a law if you ...
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| I still have feelings for my dumb ex! | 9/24/2007 |
Q: Me and my ex boyfriend broke up last month I have still have feelings for him, I mailed him letters ...
A: you should not talk to him. any guy who is going to disrespect you like that you should stay away ...
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| Orgasm | 9/13/2007 |
Q: I dont know about the female orgasm much.Plz tell me how can I help my girlfriend reach orgasm?Also ...
A: all females are different. it can take some a long and a lot of stimulation to have an orgasm. ...
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| I need this girl back | 8/25/2007 |
Q: On Thursday 16th August 2007 myself and my girlfriend split up after 1 year and 4months of being ...
A: i think you need to give her some space and pull back. do not call her and text her anymore. if you ...
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| Friend? | 8/24/2007 |
Q: I have a 'best friend', but i don't think she cares about our relationship. She never calls me, ...
A: yes i think you are correct. it could be that she is just not a good friend to anybody. do you know ...
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| Asking | 8/23/2007 |
Q: im a 17 yr old guy. I am extremely shy. I get nervous (clamy hands , a bit shaky) when i start ...
A: again, you should think of things to talk about ahead of time. have a list of general topics you ...
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| birthday | 8/21/2007 |
Q: hey sandi my name is trish and i've been going out with my bf for about a month and well his b-day ...
A: practice,practice,practice! :) find something to practice on. a pillow, a stuffed animal. anything ...
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| help me plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz | 8/15/2007 |
Q: i was in a previous relationship of 2 years an 2 months wich was a waste of time now im in a ...
A: i think this will be a great way to see how much you two really love each other and want to be ...
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| am i overanalyzing?? | 8/13/2007 |
Q: ] ive been thinking about this question for some time now and cant seem to come up with an answer on ...
A: maybe he has said something to dave but doesnt want him saying anything to you? i would straight out ...
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| the extent of being intimate after 5 months of a relationship | 8/12/2007 |
Q: I have been seeing a guy 4 past 5 months.he loves me and I also like him.we don't go out too often ...
A: i wouldnt think to deeply about this. have you had sex with him yet? maybe talking this way on the ...
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| my one sided love.. | 8/7/2007 |
Q: hm..hi my name is lovely..im 15 yrs old..im 2 yrs in canada right now...ive been liking this ...
A: its always hard being friends with someone that you like more then that. it sounds like this guy is ...
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| Girlfriend Issues | 8/5/2007 |
Q: My name is Brandon. My girlfriend and I have been dating. We have hadour ups and downs, but over ...
A: you have to trust her that she will be faithful to you. its ok to be jealous to a point. its also ok ...
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| my boyfriend | 8/4/2007 |
Q: first let me thank you for takeing the time to answer my question. i love my boyfriend but it seems ...
A: sounds like maybe its time to move on. if he is not communicating with you, which is very important ...
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| GF | 7/20/2007 |
Q: I am 18 years old and i have been in a relationship with my gf for 8 months. We broke up after two ...
A: i dont know for sure but what i do know is that she is not ready to be dating you. its obvious she ...
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| Older guy.... | 7/19/2007 |
Q: I asked this in a different part of the site I think this may be better suited place though.. Here ...
A: i completly understand. its hard when your just not sure whats going on. i still say, your young and ...
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| Nudism | 7/17/2007 |
Q: I can't believe that i'm asking this question. But here it is. 4 my 16th birthday, my parents were ...
A: i think your friend should have told you this before hand. anyways, i think you are at an age that ...
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| guyfriend | 7/12/2007 |
Q: how do i tell my best guy friend that i have strong feelings for him?
A: i think the only way is to just sit down with him when you can have some uniterupted time together ...
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| Older guy.... | 7/11/2007 |
Q: I asked this in a different part of the site I think this may be better suited place though.. Here ...
A: i think the fact that you are only 14(15) and are confused about your sexuality says a lot. you are ...
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| confused | 7/7/2007 |
Q: I am an 18 year old guy fixing to move off to college about 2 hrs from home.. I am currently dating ...
A: i will have to refer this back to you and ask you, "what does your heart tell you to do?". i dont ...
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| i got rejected | 7/2/2007 |
Q: i like this boy and he is kinda shy to i didnt really talk to him only on computer or on phone and ...
A: just be friends with him like you would anyone else. dont flirt with him or anything like that. be ...
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| Help | 7/1/2007 |
Q: Im so messed up right now, my ex and i were together almost 4 months. He ended it because he said ...
A: look, guys are not the end of the world. he is not the only guy out there for you. it sounds like ...
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| confused | 6/30/2007 |
Q: well i recently broke up with my b/f of nine months and i feel like my heart is still with him but ...
A: its normal to have those feelings for your ex. they will eventually go away as long as you try and ...
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| Conversations | 6/29/2007 |
Q: I need help on what to talk about with my boyfriend we both love each other i know we're young but ...
A: talk about each other. your likes and dislikes. talk about current events in the world. talk about ...
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| kissing | 6/24/2007 |
Q: ) I am have been in a relationship with a guy now for about 6 weeks. (We are both 16)We have gone on ...
A: i think the best spots are the ones where you are alone. a movie theater is just to crowded for your ...
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| friend troubles with dating | 6/22/2007 |
Q: I'm having trouble because My friend was flirting with a guy all day!! When We had to go inside ...
A: let your friend know if this does happen. if she is ignoring you and you tell her about it and she ...
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| I love my Cousin | 6/21/2007 |
Q: well my girl cousin came from New Jersey and I havent seen her for a long time and when I saw her ...
A: well i dont think dating your cousin is the right thing to do. it can cause issues down thr road ...
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| My friend(I like him) | 6/20/2007 |
Q: I'm a teen, and I have a little bit of a problem. Well, I really like one of my good friends(whose ...
A: unfortunantly there will probably be more times in your life when you will have to deal with ...
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| A Long Story | 6/16/2007 |
Q: this will take a while, so I'll thank you right now for just reading this: Okay, there's this girl, ...
A: if she has a bf then she shouldnt be rubbing her leg in you and doing sexual stuff anyways. i would ...
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| First Date/Dance from 8th Grader Boy | 6/14/2007 |
Q: I know this is rather abrupt but I'm desperate for information which can help me on my first ...
A: just be yourself. you dont want to be fake at all. and its ok to let her know your a little nervous. ...
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| boy trouble | 6/11/2007 |
Q: Okay so, theres this guy and he told me that he really liked me and i liked him to. After we both ...
A: why dont you ask him out? maybe he was hoping after he told you he liked you that you would say ...
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| body issues. | 6/10/2007 |
Q: a freshman.. i think im done growing by now, right?? if so., then DARN!!! I am veryyy self ...
A: i am not a doctor but i dont think you are done growing. i definently would not take any growth ...
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| Dating younger guys | 6/9/2007 |
Q: "I'm 15 years old and i have know this guy for about 3 years. He is 12 and he has been around kids ...
A: i dont see a reason why you shouldnt go out with him. the issue might be if you continue to date and ...
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| She feels lonely | 6/7/2007 |
Q: My girlfriend feels lonely when im not around. its been a 2 week holiday and she told me she feels ...
A: i dont think there is anything you can do other then just let her know again that you love her and ...
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| How do i ask a guy out | 6/5/2007 |
Q: how do i ask a guy out without knowing if he even thinks im cute or not or even likes me?and if he ...
A: you just have to go for it! find a good time when its just the two of you and just ask him. play out ...
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| my bf is shorter then me | 6/4/2007 |
Q: you see i am going out with this wonderful guy,hes smart,cute,funny,ext.hes perfect except for 1 ...
A: you already said it. he has to be happy with himself before he can be happy in a relationship with ...
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| friends? | 5/15/2007 |
Q: Ok, so this guy and I were really good friends for about a year and a half. Then we went out for ...
A: its hard to be friends with someone you once dated, especially if you still like him. if you asked ...
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| Why do I feel like I'm not good enough? | 5/14/2007 |
Q: Okay so, I met this girl online a few months ago (just to make it clear, I am a bisexual girl ...
A: if your with someone that does not make you feel good then i think you should move on. maybe find ...
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| help! | 5/9/2007 |
Q: ok...I am 17 and my friend who is a girl is 13 soon turning 14. We both like each other alot but ...
A: i believe once you turn 18 then it would be illegal to have sex with her. if your not planning on ...
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| about guys | 5/8/2007 |
Q: ok well this is the first time i am doing this so bare with me. my situation is that i already have ...
A: maybe you should not be with any of them? really. it sounds like the guy you still like is not ...
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| Feelings | 5/7/2007 |
Q: Hey. My name is Simone and I have a boyfriend named Davo and we have been going out for 2 months. I ...
A: you are young and should be dating guys until you find the one you know you want to be with for the ...
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| how do i talk to him about it? | 5/6/2007 |
Q: I have been with this guy on and off for about 6 months now but we met over a year ago. we resolved ...
A: i think its important to be open and honest with him. that doesnt mean you are right about her ...
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| i like her and she likes me but we dont talk | 5/2/2007 |
Q: .. i talked to her friend and she said that kristen likes me but is too shy to talk. i think that ...
A: think about what you want to talk about a head of time. ask her questions about herself. find out ...
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| help! | 4/28/2007 |
Q: hey, im jeff and i go to a really small middle school in illinois, and i need help. there is this ...
A: you have to prepare yourself for what she might say. there is nothing magical i can say to you to ...
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| Talking to a girl | 4/26/2007 |
Q: There's this really, really pretty girl I like. I want to talk to here, but don't know what to say. ...
A: start with small talk. you want to become friends with her first before asking her out. talk to her ...
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| iv never had an orgasam | 4/25/2007 |
Q: I'm 18 years old, and have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, but iv never had an orgasam, ...
A: if you dont tell him then isnt your relationship crushed anyway? you need to be able to communicate ...
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| dating | 4/23/2007 |
Q: i got with a guy the other day and now i really like him... hes real nice and constantly on my mind! ...
A: i think you should let him know you like him after he breaks up with his gf. just be prepared for ...
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| Racial problems and more! | 4/22/2007 |
Q: Hey, I really like a girl from my school but i think shes popular and i dont know whether i should ...
A: how would you feel about approaching her and talking to her? you dont have to ask her out or ...
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| i like my best friend | 4/21/2007 |
Q: For quite some time, I have had a huge crush on one of my best friends. The thing is that some of my ...
A: i think you should talk to him in person just the two of you. tell him how you feel. just be ...
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| Phone Conversation? | 4/17/2007 |
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months now yet I still feel weird telling him my feelings ...
A: i dont what to do tell you then to just try and open up to him. communication is very important in a ...
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| How does she feel? | 4/16/2007 |
Q: So me and this girl really liked eachother last semester, but i didn't ask her out until 3 weeks ...
A: call her again and ask her out! what do you have to loose? if she says no then you will know for ...
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| My Ex | 4/12/2007 |
Q: ok,so im 13 and my ex is 13.so what happened was that he cheated on me.and people were telling ...
A: i dont know, maybe he was there to just talk to his friends. either way if he likes you he needs to ...
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| girl | 4/1/2007 |
Q: so I like this girl at my skool but she can't go out till she is older. what should I do?
A: you dont want to get her parents mad at you before your second date. so i would just obey her rules ...
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| there's this girl....... | 3/28/2007 |
Q: .....and well, we both like each other, i like her alot, and she does me also, but the thing is is ...
A: i dont the law where you are at but normally if you have sex with someone under the age of 18 if you ...
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| kissing | 3/25/2007 |
Q: I was just wondering if there is any sort of technique to kissing, because I was at the cinema with ...
A: unfortunately you will just have to do it and practice it. your gf was probably very nervous as ...
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| Confused | 3/23/2007 |
Q: I am contacting you to ask your advice about a girl. I am not sure how to precede in our ...
A: i dont know what she is thinking but it could be that she just wants to "fit in". i think its ...
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| heart beating fast...and i think im in love | 3/5/2007 |
Q: there is this girl at my school named kate and well i like her alot.my best friend also liked her.my ...
A: if your friend is no longer dating her then i think its ok to ask her out. its not like your friend ...
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| Is it time? | 3/3/2007 |
Q: my boyfriend and I are 20 and been in a relationship for 3 years, ill confess it hasn't been the ...
A: it sounds like maybe you both have some growing to do. from what you just told me i would yes you ...
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| inter racial dating amoung pree-teens | 2/27/2007 |
Q: My daughter will be 13 in a couple of weeks and she is currneting going out with a boy of the ...
A: i think the only issue should be that she is dating at 13. the fact that she is dating a black boy ...
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| need help | 2/26/2007 |
Q: i think you remember me.last saturday someone send me a sms mistakenly that they are in a club..i ...
A: give it some time and see if she writes you. if not dont worry about it and move on. if she stops ...
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| crush on a coworker | 2/20/2007 |
Q: So there is a new guy that has been hired on at my work. He is the same age as me (17) and very ...
A: i really dont know. i think the only way to find out is to ask him out. but you have to be prepared ...
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| Argument | 2/18/2007 |
Q: I really want to get an account on MySpac* (I'm 14, by the way), but my parents won't let me because ...
A: your in a tuff spot. yes myspace can be a bad place for kids so i can understand how they would be ...
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| I am in so deep! | 2/17/2007 |
Q: Okay, I may have sent you the question regarding how to ask this guy that I like if he wants to ...
A: it sounds like he might like you. i also think he could have been very embarrassed because of his ...
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| my first date what to do!!!!! | 2/16/2007 |
Q: don't know what to do right now i have connected a lot with this girl and I'm going to ask her out ...
A: dating is for finding out more about the person. you should ask her questions about herself. see ...
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| school dance | 2/15/2007 |
Q: Ok, well, I am 13 (7th grade) and so is this guy that i like... He is really nice, cute, athletic, ...
A: i hope i wasnt to late in answering your question. im sorry if i was. i dont think there is any ...
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| How do i ask someone out? | 1/29/2007 |
Q: That is good advice... but u never really answered my question. If u ask a girl "Do u wana go out" ...
A: it could mean both. what i was saying is dont worry about that at first. take it slow. if you sak ...
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| How do i ask someone out? | 1/28/2007 |
Q: Basicly the subject is my question, how do i ask a girl out? Do you just go up and say "Do you wanna ...
A: its best if you can make some small talk with the girl first. find out what she likes and doesnt ...
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| Daughter in trouble | 1/26/2007 |
Q: I have a 15 year old daughter that has been dating a 17 year old guy for a year. They just broke up ...
A: tuff situation. it sounds like you relaly tried to make her understand that she is young and it will ...
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| Everything changed..... | 1/23/2007 |
Q: Hey Well it's like this i used to be fun and talk alot and didnt have a care in the world. I was ...
A: its very normal to get depressed after your first breakup. but believe me when i say you will get ...
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| my mystery guy.. | 1/7/2007 |
Q: . i really like this guy and this guy also likes me.. right now he's just courting me but the funny ...
A: sounds like this guy needs a little boost of self asteem. i guess its up to you on whether or not ...
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| Sex | 1/5/2007 |
Q: I have a new girlfriend who is Christian and doesnt want to have sex until she is married. I made ...
A: first off i would not lie to her. if she asks you about your past relationships or whether or not ...
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| Boyfriends? | 1/4/2007 |
Q: ok i have a slight problem, i met this guy online, hes 17 and lives in tennessee. we started dating, ...
A: have you tried to let this guy know how you really feel about him? i think its worth giving it a ...
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| legal age for dating | 1/3/2007 |
Q: first of all thanks for taking your time in reading this and trying to help me with my problem. I'm ...
A: i am not sure what the laws are where you live but i think until you turn 18 you will be fine. even ...
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| notice me! | 12/29/2006 |
Q: ) Im a freshman in highschool and I've been trying to get this boy to like me. I talk to him on ...
A: i also believe in just telling it like it is. i think you should just approach him and start talking ...
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| cheated on :( | 12/28/2006 |
Q: Sandi Hey Sandi, my name is josh and i have an important question for you. I just turned 18 and ...
A: trust is very important in a relationship. if you cant trust her then i think you should break up ...
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| 2 of us kinda cheated so should we still be together? | 12/20/2006 |
Q: ok, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and 2 month. He was really understanding ...
A: you both screwed up and cheated on each other. sometimes people cant get over that and move on. i ...
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| boysss | 12/12/2006 |
Q: there is this boy i realy like and i realy like him only if i ask him out anywhere his friends will ...
A: i dont know but i would not listen to his friends. find a time to ask him when its just the two of ...
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| my friend | 12/10/2006 |
Q: k well i have this guy friend called mat and i love him... hes really awesome and all but anyway.. ...
A: wait....if you really like this guy and think he likes you as well then just wait. your right, you ...
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| girls | 12/7/2006 |
Q: i like this girl in my class. we dont really talk that much except hellos and stuff but i want to ...
A: well hopefully she will not be into your body as much as your personlality. i think you should try ...
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| I need some advice... | 12/4/2006 |
Q: After I found it we got to fighting and he broke his phone in half. Saturday we when to a party and ...
A: no thats not wrong at all. the problem i see is that he may use the fighting between the two of you ...
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| Braces... | 12/2/2006 |
Q: Sandi, I'm getting braces on my teeth in a few weeks, and I'm really worried it's going to put my ...
A: i wouldnt worry at all about that. i think most guys may even think its sexy to have braces. if your ...
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| Should i Do it | 11/30/2006 |
Q: Hey ok so I have a problem I am 17 and my boyfriend is 21 and we have been dating now for about ...
A: communication is very important in any relationship. i would definently talk to him about this. it ...
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| A sticky situation | 11/21/2006 |
Q: I am a 16 year old male in Washington state and I was wondering (1) Is it legal for me to date a 19 ...
A: im not sure about the age thing. i would assume that it is not legal for you to have sex with ...
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| is it worth it? | 11/14/2006 |
Q: okay, there is this guy that i met two nights ago, and i really thought he was cute and everything, ...
A: i think you need to make sure this creep doesnt do this to anyone else. i would tell your parents ...
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| just some guidance | 11/8/2006 |
Q: heyy sandi my name is heidi and im 15 years old, me and my boyfiend of 9 months broke up about 2 ...
A: people make mistakes.....sounds like you know you did and thats good. if you tought it was no big ...
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| hey | 10/31/2006 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been on a break for a couple of weeks now... last night we talked and she ...
A: i think its very important for people to make sure they are content and happy with the right ...
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| I want a child | 10/30/2006 |
Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for two in a half years and our sex life is not that good. I want to ...
A: how old are you and why do you want a child if your not married? there could issues with him and ...
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| hey | 10/29/2006 |
Q: Ok... I went to T-pee my girlfriend last night and there was a guys truck there.... I confronted her ...
A: give her some space. you cant make her like you and want to stay with you. if she wants to see other ...
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| help | 10/26/2006 |
Q: My girlfriend and I recently took a break in our relationship... A few days ago things were going ...
A: sounds like your doing what you should. i would not preasure her anymore to get back together. just ...
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| boys | 10/18/2006 |
Q: that does help but im 15 and i love him he is everything i wanted and he doesnt care what i look ...
A: if he is ok with the amount of time you spend together then great! you should believe him. about the ...
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| boys | 10/17/2006 |
Q: ok i love my boyfriend well thats what i tell myself. but do i really love him i want to know ...
A: try being away from him for a bit and see how you feel. maybe you should date other people and see ...
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| askin a girl out | 10/12/2006 |
Q: hey!i was wonderin if you could tell me how 2 ask a girl out,im meetin her nxt on sunday and we ...
A: i dont think i would try and kiss her until after you go out and see how the date goes. maybe ...
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| how should i approach/talk to her? | 10/6/2006 |
Q: i'm jared, a guy and 14. i have never dated anyone at my school. i have never liked anyone at my ...
A: the best way to find out if she likes you is to ask her out. maybe you can talk to someome she knows ...
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| this girl | 10/2/2006 |
Q: i like this girl named emily. i never really talked to her and she never really talked to me. im in ...
A: try and find out more about her. what she likes and doesnt like. start off slow by just having a ...
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| girlss | 9/28/2006 |
Q: I am 16 and I have started going out with this girl. At school we see each other in the hallway but ...
A: i think communication is very important in any relationship. if she is saying its ok to join her ...
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| My girlfriend is boy crazy and im to clingy | 9/24/2006 |
Q: Ive been dating my girlfriend for almost 2 years now and we hang out all the time but latley with ...
A: i think you should find some friends to hang out with more. that way you are not always with her. if ...
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| I dont get it | 9/14/2006 |
Q: I am seriously getting angry with my luck. Every girl i ever feel anything towards either already ...
A: sometimes people just have a streak of bad luck. i would say you should find out first if they have ...
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| What is happening?? | 9/2/2006 |
Q: Let me start off by telling you a little bit about myself and my situation: My name is Bill, I'm 17 ...
A: i would not call her at home if she didnt give you that number. wait and talk to her at school. ...
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| A new school year and I'm still confused | 9/1/2006 |
Q: Hey there. I'm going to be a senior in high school this year and there's this one girl that I'm so ...
A: i think you should talk to her about how you feel. dont let her know that your falling for her or ...
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| has he cheated? | 8/20/2006 |
Q: he was meant to ring me but he didnt this morning his phone was on and now its off! why would he do ...
A: there is no way to know for sure if he is cheating or not. its just one of those things you feel and ...
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| second base? | 8/17/2006 |
Q: well i heard second base is groping the ass and or breasts. well i was wondering how do i get to ...
A: the time has to be right and the girl has to want it. it usually starts with kissing and goes from ...
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| Where do I go from here? | 8/16/2006 |
Q: I am a 16 year old guy who has some experience with relationships, but not a ton. At the end of the ...
A: if you guys are good friends then she should have been able to tell you the truth. maybe she just ...
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| do i take him back? | 8/15/2006 |
Q: i(19) dated this guy(22)for about a year and because of his tendency to want to run my life for me - ...
A: i think he needs to get his sister in line before anything happpens between you two. if the two of ...
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| how to ask him to be my boyfriend | 8/14/2006 |
Q: I really like this guy. He is 1yr older than me but we get on really well. I really like him and ...
A: try to find out more about him first. what he likes and doesnt like. think about what you want to ...
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| What Should I Do | 8/13/2006 |
Q: Now I know this girl who likes my best friend. So being nice I helped her get with him. As time went ...
A: do you think she likes you back? if so then maybe you should ask her out. keep in mind that if she ...
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| Im a little confused... | 8/4/2006 |
Q: I have several questions to ask. First, I just started liking a girl that is in student council ...
A: Try to find out more about her and just start making small talk with her. try to feel her out and ...
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| First kiss(maby) | 8/1/2006 |
Q: im 13 and i have never had a boyfriend or a first kiss. And about a month ago i got my first ...
A: kissing is one of those things that just comes naturally. i cant really explain how to do it either. ...
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| about a boy | 7/24/2006 |
Q: So heres the deal. I met my cousin’s best friend’s brother, ‘Jason’, over AIM. We swapped ...
A: first off i think you need to tell your cousin to mind her own damn business! :) if he is to up ...
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| dating problems | 7/23/2006 |
Q: Sandi, my name is aj mclain.i am 15 years old.i have liked a certain girlfor about 5 years now ...
A: i think she probably thinks you are just kidding around with her when you tell her those things. try ...
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| Help please? | 7/17/2006 |
Q: I started to date this guy 2 days ago. We went to the fair in Bervard, and he kissed me, so I ...
A: you really just have to have trust in him. i know its easy to say but that is what a relationship is ...
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| I want him back... | 7/14/2006 |
Q: My boyfriend and I broke up about 5 months ago. Our parents were the ones who made us breakup, and ...
A: maybe if the two of you started talking again that may help. i think you first need to find out why ...
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| Alot of problems | 7/13/2006 |
Q: When we started talking he had just gotten out of a serious relationship. He knew i wanted to be ...
A: it sounds like he may be using you for sex and doesnt want to commit to a relationship. you need ...
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| Major issue! | 7/11/2006 |
Q: Ok i've found this girl I like and i'm really into her alot! But the bad thing is she's only 15 and ...
A: i think its fine to give the relationship a try but maybe you should hold off on sex for a bit. your ...
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| weird relationship | 7/9/2006 |
Q: I am a 17 year old boy and I want to ask a question, but there is some backstory to this so excuse ...
A: i dont know why he broke up with you but it sounds like he probably did use you for whatever reasons ...
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| LDR | 6/29/2006 |
Q: ok so ive got a lot going on in my life right now. im 15 and not to be conceited or anything (but ...
A: you sound like a real sincere guy. its true that long distance relationships are hard to keep. your ...
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| penis size | 6/28/2006 |
Q: I tried to dicuss the matter with her several times but she refuses to discuss anything about sex. ...
A: sure you can have her email me directly if you want. i would be happy to talk with her. my email is ...
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| I like this girl but........ | 6/27/2006 |
Q: Well... I like this girl but she doesent seem to notice and talk to me she talked to me once but ...
A: try and find out more about her. what she likes and doesnt like. if you kind find some of things out ...
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| girls lol! | 6/26/2006 |
Q: there is this girl i really like that i havnt talked to in 3 years! i have just recently texted her ...
A: sounds like your doing a fine job. wait a few days and then ask her again. if she keeps making ...
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| penis size | 6/25/2006 |
Q: I 22years old man and have been dating girl of 19 years for the last 8 months. She is thin having a ...
A: your penis is probably larger then most guys. but remember, girls have babies through there! :) did ...
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| Getting over my girlfriend's past problem | 6/24/2006 |
Q: my name's Brandon and I've been dating my girlfriend for about 2 and 1/2 months. We aren't exactly ...
A: being jeoulis is a normal feeling. you havent been dating for that long so the trust of a long ...
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| My best friend | 6/22/2006 |
Q: Ok so it all started in 5th grade. I hated him. Let's call him John. I hated John because he was too ...
A: its hard to say whats going on with him. it could be drugs or family life. i think you should give ...
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| my x, my m8, and the unloved | 6/20/2006 |
Q: i am james, i went out with my gf for about 5 months, the longst i had ever been out with ny1, but ...
A: i think you are just a little jelous of your friend going out with your ex. its normal to feel that ...
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| advice.. | 6/9/2006 |
Q: im 14 years old and i need help. see overal im preety attractive but when it comes down to my teeth ...
A: first thing is i would talk to your bf about how you feel. its important in any relationship to be ...
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| HELP!!!! (please) | 6/6/2006 |
Q: I really, really like this girl in my class. I am 14, this is really the first time I really ...
A: its hard to move into dating when you are already friends. you could just tell her that you like her ...
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| I think we're both confused! | 5/18/2006 |
Q: there's this guy in 3 of my classes that i've liked for a long time, since last year. He's in my ...
A: if i were you i would try and talk to him alone. when no one else is around. maybe he is being ...
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| starting a relationship | 5/8/2006 |
Q: I have a commitment problem. I have enough trouble starting a relationship so i've been single for a ...
A: i think the fact that you are less experieced then him is probably why he asked you at. he is 6 ...
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| Hi there
I'm SO glad I've... | 4/22/2006 |
Q: I'm SO glad I've found someone who may be able to help me- I am 16 years of age and am currently ...
A: The first thing i would check on is the age of consent for where you are located. you want to make ...
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| I'm In Love With My Friend..... | 4/15/2006 |
Q: It turns out that I have known the most amazing and the most beautiful girl in my entire life for ...
A: dont tell her your in love with her. that would probably scare her off. play it cool for now and see ...
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| race | 4/7/2006 |
Q: I'm an african american girl who doesnt get along with many other poeple of my race. My friends ( ...
A: i think race should have nothing to do with who you date. you should not worry about it and date ...
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| smart move? | 3/29/2006 |
Q: im really nevous about my first kiss.Im 14. I dont know if my gf wants to so should i just wait for ...
A: i think you should talk to her about it first. ask her if you can kiss her. if she says yes then ...
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| Communication | 3/26/2006 |
Q: I am currently 19, dating a girl my age and I was just wondering if it is healthy to talk with your ...
A: your young and i would say yes, right now space is good. when your older and are ready to settle ...
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| dating | 3/23/2006 |
Q: I like the hottest guy in school! My friends say that it looks like he is flirting with me. I am ...
A: i know what its like being shy and not knowing if a guy likes you. but really the only way to know ...
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| What do I do? | 3/22/2006 |
Q: I am 17 almost 18 years old and I have been going out with this girl for 3 years in april.it has een ...
A: one thing that i have learned is dont try and be someone you are not. if she is bored with you then ...
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| Just started dating a girl... | 3/21/2006 |
Q: I am 17... I've only ever had 1 girlfriend before now... and it lasted 2 days! So, last week ...
A: hard to say what she will like. just be yourself and i think you should back off a bit. dont be ...
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| Sex | 3/14/2006 |
Q: So me and my bf were trying to have sex today... and then all of a sudden he just went limp... i ...
A: was it the first time you two tried to have sex? its normal for guys to get nervous and go limp. its ...
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| Past girlfriend indirectly causes current girlfriend trouble | 3/6/2006 |
Q: My current girlfriend feels inadequate because of a previous relationship I have had. I obsessed ...
A: i think she needs to stop being so jeoulous. if she really loves you then she should not be insecure ...
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| A girl i like... | 2/27/2006 |
Q: About 7 months ago i met an amazing girl and we really hit it off well. We've been friends since, ...
A: i would not try and get together with her right now. if its meant to be then it will happen. let her ...
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| im a 15yr old boy in the 8th... | 2/25/2006 |
Q: im a 15yr old boy in the 8th grade.i like a girl thats in the same grade as me and may be 13 to ...
A: is there anyone that knows her you can ask if she likes you? i guess you could start talking to her ...
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| advise | 2/24/2006 |
Q: .theres no way i can explain everything to you in this message so ill be brief and try my best to ...
A: let it go. i know its hard but it sounds like the best thing to do. especially if you are seeing ...
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| does she like me | 2/17/2006 |
Q: I am 17 and am a senior in high school. I recently asked out a junior to a movie sometime and she ...
A: not sure what it means. but i guess if she doesnt want to talk to you anymore you should just leave ...
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| Was that a bad move? | 2/15/2006 |
Q: I've known this girl for about 8 months. She's a junior (17), and I'm a senior (18). We met at a ...
A: i think it was a good thing to do if you want to start dating her. i just dont want her to have the ...
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| Dating a teen... | 2/14/2006 |
Q: Hey, heres my problem.. Im a twenty year old female and Im involved with a fifteen year old male. Is ...
A: im not a lawyer (nor do i want to be one) :) i would say even if his mom is ok with you that is ...
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| Hi there,
I am about to... | 2/6/2006 |
Q: I am about to go out on my very first valentines date. Although i am not sure where to go, wot to ...
A: congrats! i think it depends on the girl. maybe start by holding her hand and see how she reacts. ...
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| Who to Trust | 1/26/2006 |
Q: I am 15 years old and so is evry1 else in this story. basicly a while ago there was an incident ...
A: i think its important to know for sure if your gf is saying things behind your back. if she has done ...
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| should i tell him how i feel | 1/25/2006 |
Q: During class he always turns around and smiles at me(he sits just in front of me). He always laughs ...
A: it sounds like he may like you too. i think you should start talking to him now and then and see ...
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| Drunken Honesty Or Drunken Mistake? | 1/17/2006 |
Q: I am 15 and so is evry1 else in the story.i have been seeing a girl called Lauren now for just under ...
A: you need to talk to her in person. let her know your really sorry and you want this relationship to ...
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| Age Difference... | 1/3/2006 |
Q: Hey Sandi, Where do I start? I am an 18 year old guy in his freshman year of college. I am really ...
A: it very well could be love. yes she is young and i would be worried about the sex part. you could ...
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| online dating | 12/21/2005 |
Q: I met a girl on the internet about 3 weeks ago. We have talked non-stop since then. We recently met ...
A: i dont believe you have talked it all out. if you really like her and respect her and think you want ...
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| boys | 12/18/2005 |
Q: well i went out with this boy a few months back but i was very shy and it didnt work out. I still ...
A: i think you should talk to him face to face and tell him how you feel. let him know you were nervous ...
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| Should I ask her | 12/16/2005 |
Q: I Would like to ask this girl I know out on a date but i'm not sure if I should. I meet her in ...
A: ask her. what do you have to loose. she may say no but thats ok. you will get rejected in life a ...
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| Sex | 12/15/2005 |
Q: I have had sex mmmm 3 times. I am 17. I have has sex 3 times ith the same partner. I am concerned ...
A: im not a doctor so i cant give that kind os advice. but could it be a lubrication issue? maybe you ...
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| Sex | 12/14/2005 |
Q: A common subject among teens but this time it might be a little different. There is this guy right ...
A: he is probably afraid to get into another relationship again. give him some time. a month is not ...
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| Help with Sex | 12/13/2005 |
Q: hey.. no i cannot get an orgasm by myselfHey I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now and we ...
A: check out this link ...
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| jealous about my girlfriend, allways !!! | 12/7/2005 |
Q: Why do i get so jealous over my Girlfiend? We've bin going out for a year now and im 15 and shes 14, ...
A: if she lies to you then thats a big problem. you dont want a gf who is going to lie to you. that ...
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| Probably common, but advice on moving it forward | 11/29/2005 |
Q: This is probably one of the most frequent questions you get, and I apologize for waisting your time ...
A: im always one for being open and honest. why cant you just ask her out? find a time when its just ...
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| Relationship | 11/21/2005 |
Q: Im 16 and currently a Jr. in HighSchool. Before i go on into a long story and a question i want to ...
A: i think its hard to just say "im not going to like someone anymore". i dont know how you make ...
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| Relationship | 11/20/2005 |
Q: Im 16 and currently a Jr. in HighSchool. Before i go on into a long story and a question i want to ...
A: i think you should talk to her alone and let her know whats up. tell her how you feel about her and ...
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| sweettalk | 11/18/2005 |
Q: but i dont know how. so how do you sweettalk. i can't think anything to comapera her eyes or hair ...
A: just say nice things to her. how pretty she looks or that her hair smells good or that you really ...
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| Getting a girl to like me | 11/15/2005 |
Q: i have a problem, there is this girl that i like and really want to go out with. but she broke up ...
A: if your already friends with her then thats a good start. continue to be friends with her and talk ...
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| About girl I am seing :) | 11/13/2005 |
Q: Uhhm, pretty simple question I think. I've been seing this girl, Jenny, for about the past 3-4 ...
A: give her time and space to open up to you. she will respect you for that. dont keep asking her what ...
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| i'm not sure what to do | 11/3/2005 |
Q: I am 19 years old and I have just recently met a really great guy, however I am in a dilemma. When ...
A: i guess you have to decide if he is worth waiting around on or not. he sounds confused right now and ...
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| Obsession | 11/2/2005 |
Q: I'm 18 and live in Central Cali. Recently I met this guy (22) and he seems pretty cool. From the ...
A: if your really scared of him then i would not see him before you go. it sounds like your a pretty ...
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| long distance/sex | 10/31/2005 |
Q: Hey I was recently in a long distance relationship with a girl and we really love eachother alot, ...
A: maybe she thinks you are seeing her for the sex only. if that is the case then there is nothing you ...
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| boys | 10/30/2005 |
Q: hey, there is this guy i used to go out with. After we split up we kind of stopped talking but and ...
A: i think you should talk to him first and see how he feels. i wouldnt go to him and say your deeply ...
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| help no one can | 10/19/2005 |
Q: I am 16 and I have a 18 year old boyfriend that I have been with for 2 years and 7 months. I love ...
A: it sounds like he probably likes you but i think you need to just ask him. invite him over if you ...
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| Strengthening Lost Love | 10/9/2005 |
Q: I really need your help, I have no one else to turn, I am really sad. I just want to start from the ...
A: you only met the girl for one day and talked after that. john, you really dont know this girl. how ...
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| I'm 18, he's 20 | 10/8/2005 |
Q: I've started going out with this twenty year-old guy that I met over MySpace. (I'm kind of ...
A: its normal to be horny and want to have sex. by the 4th date i think you know if this is something ...
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| Virginity | 10/5/2005 |
Q: My name is Igor, i'm 23 and i'm from Russia (sorry, if my english is not perfect) :) A couple of ...
A: the best thing i can tell you is to talk to her. i know she is shy and all but if you two dont ...
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| How To. | 9/6/2005 |
Q: Ive been friends with this girl for about 1 year and i want to know how to make the first move ...
A: talk to her about it. see if she feels the same way as you. tell her you were thinking about your ...
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| Friends? | 9/3/2005 |
Q: Ok. I am Nikki (age 13). I am in the 7th grade and my best friend's name is Matt (age 13). I have ...
A: i know its not easy. i hear you and understand how you feel. but how can you make a guy like you ...
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| i like my best friend | 8/31/2005 |
Q: i'm 17 years old and i've never had a boyfriend before i'm really shy and self concoious, but when i ...
A: its hard when your best friends and one wants more. i think if he wanted more then friends he would ...
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| Ex boyfriend | 8/29/2005 |
Q: a year ago i was with my boyfriend; James, but we split 4 months later. He went back out with his ...
A: i would stay away from him. he sounds like a louser and a user if he has cheated on his gf 5 times. ...
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| Break ups.. | 8/24/2005 |
Q: I'm a senior in high school and i've been with this girl on and off for about a year and a half. ...
A: i dont know. but i do know that if you want to try and get her back you should back off from her and ...
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| My Guy | 8/20/2005 |
Q: Sandi, Hey! Thank you so much for your time... I am very confused about one of my friends. ...
A: ask him how he feels about you. be open and honest with him and let him know how you feel. be ...
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| Friends with Benefits.. | 8/18/2005 |
Q: My ex-boyfriend and I recently broke up about 2 weeks ago and it's really confusing for me because ...
A: listen to yourself. you are right, you need to move on. he is using you for sex. and there is a good ...
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| help please! | 8/14/2005 |
Q: my name is Bernardo I have a problem a was a with a girl. For about one mounth, and one day we ...
A: have you talked to her? ask her how she feels now. dont be over bearing or act like you have to have ...
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| First Date | 8/10/2005 |
Q: Im 17 and I have never been on a date before. There is this girl that I'm kind of friends with and I ...
A: i think a first date is a great time to get flowers. what to do? find out what she likes. maybe she ...
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| girl | 8/9/2005 |
Q: I like this girl who I see in youth group but does not know how to approach her. HOw shall I ask her ...
A: go up to her and say hello. try to find out what she is in to and talk about it. start with small ...
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| I miss her | 8/6/2005 |
Q: Hey Sandi, first off let me thank you in advance just for being here helping people and hopefully ...
A: there is nothing you can do to get her back. in fact if you keep trying to you will probaly push her ...
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| What does it mean | 8/2/2005 |
Q: My girlfriend dumped me about six months ago. I was devestated and I still had feelings for her and ...
A: dont read anything in to it. take it slow. i think there is a good chance she likes you and may want ...
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| Friend or more? | 7/29/2005 |
Q: I have a friend that I have known this guy, Jake for a long time we went to school together since ...
A: i would be open and honest with him. it seems you guys can talk about anything so this should be no ...
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| what should i say? | 7/27/2005 |
Q: I am 15, my girlfriend is almost 14, we have been going out for almost 3 months now, and we havent ...
A: forget about her. she sounds like an idiot anyway. if it will make you feel better then you can call ...
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| How do deal with this? | 7/21/2005 |
Q: Hey, I was surfin and found this site. Anyway, my gf is shy. Me i like shy girls, but she is the ...
A: you should be open and honest with your gf. tell her that your shy and feel uncomfortable. if you ...
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| Crush | 7/6/2005 |
Q: I really need some other opinions on my situation, and although it could be pages long with details, ...
A: I think he probably likes you that is why he is teasing and flirting with you. i dont think the age ...
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| age for my daughter | 6/26/2005 |
Q: How old should my daughter be to let her hold hands, to let the boyfriend put his arm around her and ...
A: i think it depends on how mature she is right now. i was 14 when i went out with a guy on a date. i ...
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| i just want platonic relationship | 6/25/2005 |
Q: why do girls assume that there is “something” in the actions the guy had shown well in fact there is ...
A: the truth. girls want to think guys are atracted to them so they assume when a guy talks to them and ...
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| Guy Troubles | 6/19/2005 |
Q: I'm 22. I have this guy who is 23 who I always thought was cute. Well couple weeks ago, he called ...
A: tell him what you told me. tell him you want to make sure he understands you like him and that ...
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| hi,
Recently my best mate... | 6/18/2005 |
Q: Recently my best mate has been flirting so much with my ex boyfriend who i still really like but she ...
A: he is your ex boyfriend and if she wants to ruin her own relationship with her current boyfriend ...
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| what do I do? | 6/11/2005 |
Q: Recently me and my boyfriend have been making out it's fun and I like it. We've took things nice and ...
A: have you tried oral yet? guys usually like oral and its safe. well you cant get pregnamt from it. ...
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| hello... i hope you can help... | 6/4/2005 |
Q: .. i hope you can help me... see me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and seven months, ...
A: your probably young and i think its ok to not be tied down to one guy right now. i dont know how ...
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| hi,
A few weeks ago my boyfriend... | 6/3/2005 |
Q: A few weeks ago my boyfriend split up with me! The reason he did was cuz i was really shy and we ...
A: maybe go out with him without your friends. that way you can be more comfortable to talk to him. he ...
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| dating.. | 6/1/2005 |
Q: What is the difference in Dating and going out?
A: i guess it depends on the people involved. some may just want to "go out" as friends and not think ...
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| Love in a relationship? | 5/26/2005 |
Q: To whom it may concern: I am currently in a relationship with my girlfriend for about three months. ...
A: clearly she is still in love with her ex and you need to decide for yourself if you want to keep ...
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| Dating A Minor | 5/14/2005 |
Q: I'm a 17-year-old male, and am going to be 18 in about 9 months. I just started dating a 13-year-old ...
A: Hey Jared, I have no idea what the laws are. I dont live there and I am young myself. I would think ...
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| was i used? | 11/17/2004 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend on and off for nearly three years. I didn't like him that much when i ...
A: I think he is probably scared because maybe he thinks he didnt do well or something like that. GIve ...
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| Love | 11/9/2004 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been going together for a year and some months. I really love him and he ...
A: Hey LaNene, I think he probably does love you for you and not the sex. Believe me its normal for ...
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| braking up | 10/24/2004 |
Q: I was going to brake up with my boyfriend over the internet, but after getting a lot of advice from ...
A: Sorry I hope this email is not to late!! I think quick is fine but maybe you should give him some ...
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| A girl i like | 10/7/2004 |
Q: Ok i am very confused right now and i am in a tough situation. There is this girl that i like(a ...
A: Steve, Wait a while and see if anything changes. She may just want to be friends with you. But she ...
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| Confusion to the max | 10/1/2004 |
Q: My question. Ok there is a really good friend I have, I dont mean like friend Hi, I mean best ...
A: Dont do things to get even with other people. They will get whats coming to them in time. MOve on ...
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| hi, my name is ashley and... | 9/8/2004 |
Q: my name is ashley and I am 17 years old. I have been dating this wonderful guy for about a year now ...
A: The taste of cum is kinda different. Im not sure how to explain it. Kinda salty and a little sour ...
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| sex | 9/3/2004 |
Q: i'm 15 and i've got a boyfreind who is also 15....and we've only been going out for a month...but ...
A: Hey Jenny, Dont see him when your horny. Thats the only way I can think of that would keep you ...
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| ... | 8/25/2004 |
Q: My name is Angelina, and i'm a 17 year old female from Central CA. For the past three years my ...
A: Hey Angelina, Sounds like he probably does like you. Especially since he doesnt really talk to your ...
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| Is my boyfriend a perv...? | 8/19/2004 |
Q: I spent the last couple of days at the shore with my friend, and we were talking about how some guys ...
A: Hey Katie, No not all guys are perverts. Sounds like your friend may have had some guys who were ...
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| is he using me? | 8/4/2004 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been going out for over 2 months. I'm 15 next week, and he wants to take ...
A: he could be but I doubt it. He probably justs wants to kiss you because he likes you. I dont think ...
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| More than one crush? | 7/26/2004 |
Q: I know I know...it's normal to have more than one crush, right? In that case, then why do I feel so ...
A: Hey Amelia, Dont stress about it. Your young and its ok. Maybe you should go out with a few guys ...
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| Silly..I know | 7/24/2004 |
Q: First off I would like to say thank you for taking your time out to read and answer my question. It ...
A: Slow down.....you just met the guy and you just got out of another relationship. If you think you ...
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| relationship problems.... | 7/23/2004 |
Q: Ok, I actully have a few questions... My 2 month anniversery just passed with my boyfriend. ...
A: Katie, I dont think its a big deal if he forgot two months. But dont forget about it either. If he ...
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| does she have a crush on me | 7/22/2004 |
Q: "I was wondering if you could help me with a question I had. I wanted to know if a friend of mine ...
A: It sounds like she may have a crush on you. Do you know if she is bi or gay? Would be interested in ...
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| Does she likes me | 7/15/2004 |
Q: I've know this girl for quite some time but never saw her as a love interest. However in 2002 she ...
A: I dont think she is playing mind games with you. Maybe she is just shy and doesnt know what to do. I ...
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| does he like me more then a friend? | 7/14/2004 |
Q: ..Tony,a realy close guy friend of mine, and me hang out every day... even if we just sit at home ...
A: Hey Katie, Has he always done things like this? If so then I would say maybe its just how he is. If ...
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| Does making out involve the tounge?? | 7/11/2004 |
Q: Most people have said it does...but does making out absolutly HAVE to involve the tounge? Is there ...
A: No, making out doesnt always involve the tounge. Most likely your boyfriend will try to use his ...
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| problem | 7/7/2004 |
Q: I have a problem and it all begins with a long story. I like girl 1 and she liked me but then like a ...
A: Sounds like you either need to decide which girl you want to date and tell the other sorry. Or dump ...
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| his profile | 6/26/2004 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a month now, and just when I think things ...
A: That's why I always tell people to be open and honest! :) I wouldn't say anything to him since you ...
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| movie date | 6/14/2004 |
Q: Ok, so I just got my first boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. As you probably already know, I'm not very ...
A: Yeah it can nervous on your first date. Just relax and enjoy. If he wants to hold your hand or put ...
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| i need help | 6/10/2004 |
Q: .. i need a little advie ok there's this guy i really like, he likes me also but the problem is ...
A: Hey Sunshine, I would date him. If he likes you and you like him then go for it. If he really ...
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| 2nd date | 4/27/2004 |
Q: hey..... recently me and a friend became, well, more then friends, we realized how much we had in ...
A: Cool, Im glad to here you both are having a good time. First let me say that I think a "first kiss" ...
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| im 16, i realy like this guy... | 4/10/2004 |
Q: im 16, i realy like this guy but he went out with my friend and now that they've broken up i wanna ...
A: Start by talking to him a little. A few hello's here and there. How you doing? Whats new? Stuff like ...
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| Alright, probably about 6... | 4/5/2004 |
Q: Alright, probably about 6 months ago me and my girlfriend broke up after a really long and serious ...
A: I would be honest with her and tell her that you still have feelings for her and you want to not ...
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| Dating Issues | 3/21/2004 |
Q: I'm 18 years old and I'm a Senior in High School. I've started to hang out with some college kids ...
A: I liked what one of your friends said. Just take it slow and dont push anything with her. If ...
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| prom night! | 3/10/2004 |
Q: well it's my last year of high school and ya know what that means...yup, prom night! so anyway, ...
A: I think what you said about asking her out is perfect. Start with a little small talk and then just ...
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| girls | 3/4/2004 |
Q: hey im a 17 year old guy and i dont drink-till im 18.when i go out i find it impossible to get the ...
A: Don't use drinking as a way to talk to girls. Your friends must be insecure if they have to dring in ...
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| Dose she like me?? | 2/17/2004 |
Q: ok first off im only 15 and she is 16 and i knew her for like a year and just now had these ...
A: I would ask her how she feels about you. It sounds like you may be in love with her a little to ...
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| what to do | 2/11/2004 |
Q: I asked a girl I absolutley love to the turnabout dance, I needed to ask as it was the only way to ...
A: Hey Wolf, I know this is probably going to sounds dumb but just be yourself. I would treat her very ...
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