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| Subject | Date Asked |
| is it me or something bigger? | 2/6/2012 |
| Q: My boyfriend Louis and I have been dating for almost nine months. I love him a lot, he's funny, ... A: if your bf is not responding to you and acting different and distant then you need to find out whats ... | |
| Does it sound like he only likes me as a friend? | 1/26/2012 |
| Q: So I’ll just forewarn you that this is gonna be long... I feel the need to put in every detail, ... A: i think you already wrote me before? i sent you this response... is it a company policy that you ... | |
| Help | 1/17/2012 |
| Q: So there's this girl that I really like.We're not that close.I only start to get know of her when I ... A: this is what i would do. stop asking others to tell her things. stop the secret stuff and talk to ... | |
| How to kiss a boy?? | 1/16/2012 |
| Q: I have had my first kiss but it lasted only like 5 seconds and I didn't have to do anything. Now I ... A: your question is actually a really hard one to answer. :) its difficult to explain here how to kiss. ... | |
| Guy/friend problem | 1/4/2012 |
| Q: So I've liked this guy John since the beginning of the year and we are good friends. A few months ... A: it sounds like your "friend" is really not a friend. if she was a true friend she wouldnt have ... | |
| Could he like me as more than a friend? | 12/31/2011 |
| Q: We currently work together. I know, not the best place to have a crush, but I can't help it! I kind ... A: is it a company policy that you can not date him? if not then i would ask him out. if it is then i ... | |
| breaking up is way to hard | 12/21/2011 |
| Q: So about 2 weeks ago this guy asked me out and I said yes because I liked him but didn't imagine it ... A: i think you need to do what is best for you, not him. its to bad that he is depressed and that his ... | |
| Should I still follow her? | 12/18/2011 |
| Q: I love this girl very much.We're both 16 years old.All this while I thought she was giving me good ... A: you shouldnt follow her anywhere. you should go where you would get the education you want. ... | |
| Does this girl like me back? | 12/16/2011 |
| Q: I recently met this girl in college a month ago and i think i have a crush on her. I want to know if ... A: it sounds like she probably does. you never know it could just be a "friends" kind of like. i would ... | |
| Are these signs that he might be interested in me? | 12/3/2011 |
| Q: I just met a guy at work yesterday. He works there too, but I just started a week ago. I work in a ... A: from what you have told me it sounds like he might like you or at least be a little interested in ... | |
| how do i get a boyfriend if im so shy | 12/2/2011 |
| Q: im 13 almost 14 years old. i know i really shouldnt be thinking about dating but i am and a lot of ... A: do you know why boys dont like you? if its just a shy problem then you just need to work on that and ... | |
| Messing around | 12/1/2011 |
| Q: I have been kind of new to this whole being intimate thing, i have never really done anything with a ... A: you should listen to your heart and your first instinct. if you really dont think it feels right ... | |
| Boy and Friend Trouble | 11/27/2011 |
| Q: This is kinda long, but I'll try to keep it short. What u need to know: We r all in eighth grade and ... A: dont worry i wont be rude :) i think "if" your friend breaks up with her bf then you should give ... | |
| loveless relationship | 11/14/2011 |
| Q: I’ll apologize in advance for my question being so long, but I desperately need some advice and this ... A: honestly...after only 9 months of dating someone this guy is so distraught that he cant even love ... | |
| How do i deal with an ex girlfriend? | 11/2/2011 |
| Q: "To start off, my ex girlfriend and I are both 16 year old juniors in high school right now. We ... A: if you want to be friends with her then i think you need to be sure to not bring up the past and ... | |
| Me and my girlfriend | 10/29/2011 |
| Q: Ok I hope your up to helping me out because there is actually a number of things i need direction ... A: 14 to 17 doesnt sound that much of a difference. but if your finding out that 14 is just too young ... | |
| how do i know if my friends with benefits likes me back? | 10/28/2011 |
| Q: i'm 17 and me and my best friend are "friends with benefits" and we have sex almost every day. but ... A: just one of the many issues with having a friend with benefits :) i think the best way to find out ... | |
| Various Questions | 10/20/2011 |
| Q: Hey! I'm 15 and my boyfriend (It's so weird to call him that..# is 14. Okay, so almost two years ... A: hey dev, im happy for you! :) look, yeah i think your young and have a lot of growing to do but ... | |
| confused | 10/18/2011 |
| Q: I'm 18 and i recently hooked up with a guy at a party, we kissed etc. and then a few days later he ... A: who knows, guys can be weird :) i would not message him again. and even if he shows up again and ... | |
| relationship queries | 10/8/2011 |
| Q: ) Its a pretty complicated background so please bear with me because i have to explain some things ... A: it sounds like she probably likes you. i would hang back and continue to talk to her but give her ... | |
| feeling distant | 10/7/2011 |
| Q: My boyfriend and i have been going out for about a month and half. I'm 19, and he is about 7 months ... A: could be both. i think its important in any relationship to communicate about this kind of stuff. ... | |
| Not sure how my friend feels about me? | 10/3/2011 |
| Q: Okay, well I need some advice about my friend who I reaaaally like. His name is Ricky and he's 18 ... A: it sounds like he might like you too. i really dont see any other way to know if he likes you then ... | |
| I Like Him, He Likes Her | 9/29/2011 |
| Q: I am a fourteen-year-old girl(turning fifteen in Nov.) from Taiwan. I speak Chinese, and English ... A: how would you feel if you could only be friends with him? you or i cant predict if this guy will ... | |
| my best friend | 9/11/2011 |
| Q: school just started again and my best guy friend is back. hes changed a lot since the last time i ... A: i guess you have to figure out if dating a bisexual guy is something your ok with. think about how ... | |
| Guy friend or Crush | 8/16/2011 |
| Q: My guy friend and i were joking around saying we were going to homecoming together and then people ... A: your in a tuff spot. i guess you have to figure out if you really want to go to the homecoming or ... | |
| Commitment | 8/10/2011 |
| Q: ..I just turned 15 over a month ago. Recently, my best guy friend of almost three years had to ... A: yeah its normal. :) anything new is going to give you some level of apprehension and being afraid ... | |
| Boys... -sigh- | 8/9/2011 |
| Q: Okay, thanks first of all for taking the time to read this. My names Carmen, and I'm in a bit of a ... A: i think you should only stop hanging out with him if after you tell him your just friends and he ... | |
| what should i do? | 8/8/2011 |
| Q: i'm 14 yrs old, and i need help! there is two girls i really like, but one is 2 hrs away, and i ... A: dating is all about figuring out what and what you like. i think you should ask the closer one of ... | |
| my crush | 8/5/2011 |
| Q: Ok so there this kid I like from school I met him at the library because we were bothe volunteers ... A: yeah i think you should talk to him. you got nothing to loose and you wont really know if he likes ... | |
| Please help me | 8/3/2011 |
| Q: )Well i'm 17 years old and my boyfirend well ex-boyfirend is also 17 years old.We have been dating ... A: well, it just sounds like this guy is not bf material anyway you look at it. even if he was lying to ... | |
| love | 7/26/2011 |
| Q: i have been going out with this boy for about 9 months now and i really love him more than anything. ... A: i think dating is all about finding the right person for you. if you are not sure your current bf is ... | |
| Mixed signals, confusion, hate? | 7/25/2011 |
| Q: So I met this guy (brian) when I was around 10/11 (I'm fourteen now) and untill about september of ... A: sounds like he playing games with your head. i would confront him about all of this and see what he ... | |
| Break | 7/17/2011 |
| Q: I got upset about it and asked her why she doesn't stick up for me in times like that or why she ... A: i think your mother is right. give her a couple of days and then contact her. you are not the only ... | |
| Does he like me? How do I move things forward? | 7/13/2011 |
| Q: I'm 15, and my mom owns a restaurant. I work there, along with this guy that I like. He is 17. We ... A: yeah dating someone or at least trying to date someone you work with can be difficult. it can also ... | |
| Teen Love/ Confusion | 7/12/2011 |
| Q: Im 14, and all my friends have boyfriends/girlfriends but im single and im like in love with my best ... A: yeah its hard when you like someone who is dating someone else. but for now you really just need to ... | |
| the past re-surfesing | 7/10/2011 |
| Q: Alright so i happen to love my girlfriend a lot and can see our relationship lasting past school. ... A: hey jacob. if she is lying to you then i think you need to confront her and decide if you still want ... | |
| sex unfortunately | 7/8/2011 |
| Q: I am seventeen years old and my boyfriend is eighteen. We have been dating for about a month now but ... A: wait...so your currently having sex with your ex and dating your current bf? isnt that cheating? if ... | |
| Torn between decisions... | 7/7/2011 |
| Q: So about two years ago I got into a relationship with this girl (I'm now 16 and she's 17)...we ended ... A: how do you think it would go if you told your friend that you think you might have some feelings ... | |
| Getting Close. | 7/1/2011 |
| Q: my name is Kati and I'm 16. I have been with my boyfriend, Jeremy, for almost 2 years now. (our ... A: have you talked to him about it? i think telling him how you feel and that your nervous will help ... | |
| A Classic Conundrum | 6/29/2011 |
| Q: Like the title says, I'm stuck in a classic relationship problem... I think I might be in love with ... A: hmm...well i think since you have already been down this road before with her i would keep it just ... | |
| I need to get over an ex boyfriend.. | 6/13/2011 |
| Q: i just want to start by saying how great this site is.. So my problem is that i currently have a ... A: hey nicole, sometimes we just have that special someone in our life that we will never forget. the ... | |
| how do u have sex? | 6/8/2011 |
| Q: ) im 18 and me and my bf are planning on having sex but were both vergins and are scared on what to ... A: its different for everyone but my advice would be to not be so big on wanting to do it all the first ... | |
| How to appear more confident with girls? | 6/6/2011 |
| Q: For the last year i have been trying to improve myself physically. During this time i have been in ... A: i think you just need to say hi and talk to them as much as possible. you also need to have more ... | |
| High school crush/dating | 6/5/2011 |
| Q: so I'm a 17 year old girl and in grade 12, only 3 weeks away from graduating and finishing high ... A: i think the year book thing is a good idea but here is what i would do.... ask him to sign your ... | |
| Confused love | 5/31/2011 |
| Q: I'm 15 years old and currently on a break with my boyfriend of 4 months who's going to be 18 in ... A: you sound very smart! :) i think your right that your are too young to really love someone. you have ... | |
| junior dating sophomore | 5/25/2011 |
| Q: well i have been dating a boy named Sam for the past month. He is my second boyfriend and he is a ... A: you need to not be so worried about what other people think or say. :) its your life and you need to ... | |
| Gift for girlfriend | 5/24/2011 |
| Q: I just have a quick question. So my girlfriend and I are both 16, and despite how people will argue ... A: well you sound like a great bf :) if your girl likes jewelry then you probably cant miss with ... | |
| my relationships | 5/15/2011 |
| Q: i dont know what to do...so me and my boyfriend have been datind for 8 months now and everything was ... A: honestly...this is your first relationship and you really shouldnt stay in it just because it's ... | |
| Does my close friend like me? | 5/14/2011 |
| Q: I've noticed a close friend of mine doing these things over the past couple weeks: -she Always ... A: well....with girls its really hard to tell! :) here is what I would do. continue to hang out with ... | |
| Break Up | 4/24/2011 |
| Q: So me and my boyfriend of 6 months recently broke up. It kinda came out of nowhere but I learned to ... A: i think you need to pin him down and find a good time to talk to him when it can just be the two of ... | |
| Teen break ups :( | 4/21/2011 |
| Q: So about three months ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of about 9 months. He's 18 and I'm almost ... A: i think your doing the right thing. you just need to stop talking to him for now. you may never ... | |
| Confronting | 4/19/2011 |
| Q: About a month ago, my friend (C) told me that she had a crush on a guy (D) that I have known since I ... A: i think you should just leave it be and hopefully the guy wont say anything to your friend. if it ... | |
| A guy | 4/16/2011 |
| Q: And yesterday I was talking to his stepbrother and he told me that his brother likes me. And I have ... A: if you really like him as a friend and think that dating him would ruin that then maybe you should ... | |
| confused | 3/14/2011 |
| Q: hey sandi. i'm zack and i'm 15. i've read a bunch of questions on here from girls that are ... A: lol...well i think guys think to much with their penis :) im not saying all guys do this but a lot ... | |
| how to talk to a boy | 3/9/2011 |
| Q: hey sandi how do i talk to a cute boy when im just a little outkast that always has her face in a ... A: you just have to get the nerve up and do it! :) start off by just saying hi. next time ask him how ... | |
| what you think i should do with this guy i like? | 3/4/2011 |
| Q: I like this guy he is 15 and I am 17, and I have seen him at my dad’s friends house quite a lot and ... A: i would start off by making small talk with him. ask him some questions about himself to get to know ... | |
| 3some, without me?! | 3/3/2011 |
| Q: hey wassup, ive kinda got a problem here. my girlfriend whom i been going out with for about 2 ... A: wow....i cant believe you would tell her to just do it! :) if she really wants to do this then you ... | |
| WHY DOES MY BEST FRIEND LEAD ME ON | 3/1/2011 |
| Q: I have been best friends with this guy, Joe, ever since we were in the same class in Grade 7, and ... A: i think you should tell him how you feel. you cant just pretend you dont have feelings for him. try ... | |
| Problems | 2/26/2011 |
| Q: my name is Jeremy and I'm 18 years old. I have been having a lot of problems in my life. Mostly ... A: ahh..yes it sucks when you like a girl and she just wants to be friends. hang in there. try to open ... | |
| Problems | 2/23/2011 |
| Q: my name is Jeremy and I'm 18 years old. I have been having a lot of problems in my life. Mostly ... A: be yourself, thats the best advice i can give. she will either like you for who you are or not. i ... | |
| opinion needed | 2/14/2011 |
| Q: well i have dated this girl for 6 years now all through high school. we broke up 2 months ago and ... A: i think you are right in wanting to know why. it sounds like she has some issues with discussing ... | |
| confused. | 2/9/2011 |
| Q: basically i dated this guy who at that time i was 16 and he was 17. we dated for about 2 months. ... A: hmmm...well it sounds like maybe he is just really confused about his feelings towards you. i would ... | |
| Confused and dealing with possible mind games? | 1/26/2011 |
| Q: I am having some issues understanding and getting to the bottom of some strange things that have ... A: no i dont think your wrong. it sounds like your bf really doesnt care about your feelings and likes ... | |
| Past and Future Boyfriends | 1/23/2011 |
| Q: This past year, I met a wonderful guy. He became my first love, a best friend, and had taken my ... A: guys and girls usually come along when you least expect it and when your not looking. i would just ... | |
| Confused and dealing with possible mind games? | 1/18/2011 |
| Q: I am having some issues understanding and getting to the bottom of some strange things that have ... A: all you can do is talk to him and either believe what he says or not. you know him best and should ... | |
| Alone Forever? | 1/16/2011 |
| Q: I have a problem with my appearance. I’m not very good looking at all. I have acne and I’m kind of ... A: hey jason. if i were you i would try to work on some of the issues you have control over. why not ... | |
| It's complicated and I don't know what to do. | 1/8/2011 |
| Q: I've never done one of these before but I'm just so confused and it's so complicated. My name is ... A: your feeling of being used and lead on is probably correct. i think you should move on. if you ... | |
| Flippin confused. In urgent need of help!! | 1/7/2011 |
| Q: My name is Poppy and I'm 13 and I'm in desperate need of help with this guy who is 15. So here's the ... A: yes it sounds like he is confused. you have a couple of choices. you can either continue to just be ... | |
| frienship trouble help | 1/5/2011 |
| Q: Me and my best friend are really good friends(I'm a guy and she's a girl) and we both tell each ... A: i think you should let her know how you feel and that your not comfortable hanging out with the both ... | |
| How old is too old? | 12/29/2010 |
| Q: I've been talking to this guy for a while and i really like....the thing his 23 and I'm 14. We've ... A: have you seen him at all? like via web cam or anything? i dont know where u live but if he is 24 and ... | |
| This Guy..... | 12/28/2010 |
| Q: Okay, soo there is this guy that i really like and we are so alike. He is the sweetest thing in the ... A: yeah...stay away for now :) you definently do not want to break them up. he needs to figure out ... | |
| guys! | 12/24/2010 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have ben dating for almost a year. He is the sweetest guy I have ever know. But ... A: yeah..its hard i know :) but unfortunently this is what dating is all about. if you really think ... | |
| More than freinds? | 12/21/2010 |
| Q: I've been good mates with this guy for about two years, but lately I've been having more feelings ... A: you cant or shouldnt do anything to make him like you. he needs to like for who you are. do you ... | |
| i like a guy who has a gf | 12/9/2010 |
| Q: ) A: if he has a gf then i wouldnt try to break them up. he needs to be a man and either break up with ... | |
| Don't know what to do, or say. | 12/7/2010 |
| Q: Hey, I need your help, I'm 15, in the high school, and there's this girl that i like, I've known her ... A: i think you need to think about a few things you can say to her before you see her. rehearse what ... | |
| guys plz read | 12/4/2010 |
| Q: Me and my bf have bin dating for almost a year. He is the sweetest guy I have ever known. When I'm ... A: you dont want to date someone behind your bf's back. if you really think you want to per sure ... | |
| confused | 11/3/2010 |
| Q: "Okay, so me and boyfriend "had" a great relationship... of course we had our ups and downs like ... A: do you know if anything he told you was true? if it is then he probably just has a lot of stuff ... | |
| So confused and sad | 10/27/2010 |
| Q: It seems every time i like a guy they seem to get a girlfriend or i find that they are just not my ... A: my advice would be to not try to get a bf. be happy with yourself. be happy with who you are. a guy ... | |
| Teen Dating Long Distance Relationships | 10/22/2010 |
| Q: My name is Maranda . My question is about my long distance relationship. My boyfriend ,Michael, and ... A: your young and shouldnt even be thinking about marriage! yes, long distance relationships are hard ... | |
| mixed signals | 10/16/2010 |
| Q: ok so there is this boy in my band class and he's really cute. at first i just thought he was going ... A: hard to say with guys! :) do you want to ask him out? i would do that if your ok with it. there is ... | |
| Nervous... | 10/13/2010 |
| Q: I've know this guy C* for a couple of years know. My friend used to talk to him back when we were in ... A: dating is all about finding the right person for you. you will get hurt but thats normal and it will ... | |
| crush crush | 10/12/2010 |
| Q: There is this guy I really like. He is a really nice guy who is really sensitive and also very ... A: is there anytime at all you can talk to him alone at school or even after school? i dont think i ... | |
| Im stuck between 2 Exs .... | 10/10/2010 |
| Q: I'm currently single but i have 2 exes that i feel the same amount of love for. Ex #1 We've been on ... A: honestly it sounds like you shouldn't be with either one. if ex 1 is a player then you should dump ... | |
| Kiss | 10/5/2010 |
| Q: im a 15 year old guy dating an almost 14 year old girl. I have been in this relationship for 10 ... A: dont force her to kiss you...if its something you really think you want to do and she is not up for ... | |
| First date, First love | 9/26/2010 |
| Q: ) I will try to keep this as short as possible while being as detailed as possible, so here it ... A: be yourself! :) look, no girl wants a fake guy. you need to be yourself, thats the person she likes. ... | |
| Best friend | 9/14/2010 |
| Q: Hey,my name is Jatin. I am 17 years old. The thing is,I really like this girl,we`ve been friends ... A: if she is really a good friend then she should be open to you asking her why she treats you ... | |
| Obviusly! A Girl | 8/30/2010 |
| Q: About me - I'm a Shy person & 22 years old. My situation is a bit complicated. You see I liked a ... A: i think you need to just get your nerve up and approach her! think about what you want to say ahead ... | |
| him, him, him or someone else? | 8/26/2010 |
| Q: Okay, I might write poems about love and say I understand. In reality, I don't. I can't concept it ... A: my advice is to drop all of them and learn to love yourself before dating again. the fact that you ... | |
| Loneliness/shyness | 8/24/2010 |
| Q: I'm 13 and I'm a twin and my twin has a bunch of friend and a girl friend and tons of girls like ... A: your brother knows how to do it. have you tried talking to him and letting him know how your ... | |
| boy confusion | 8/22/2010 |
| Q: i went on this St john camp and i met this guy i liked him like crazy at first and he said that he ... A: chill out and realize you just met this guy! you really dont love him because you dont even know ... | |
| dating | 8/14/2010 |
| Q: Hey, I have been with my current boyfriend for just under 5 months, I am a 17 year old girl and my ... A: i dont think you should break up with your current boyfriend just to be with your other friend. you ... | |
| friends with benefits | 7/31/2010 |
| Q: Hey, my name is jamia and i have a slight problem with one of my friends. Me and my friend recently ... A: i think you will become less shy with more time around her. i wouldn't rush anything and i would ... | |
| dating | 7/27/2010 |
| Q: My problem is dating, I am an 18 year-old girl and never dated before, Im not sad or depressed but ... A: maybe they are afraid to. i would ask one of your close guy friends this question. get their ... | |
| Picking up girls | 7/24/2010 |
| Q: Soo I'm alex, 16 years old, and my girl friend broke up with me after 10 months and its time to move ... A: personally i would not like a guy coming up to me and saying "hey beautiful girls". be yourself, ... | |
| VAGINA PROBLEM ...hyperpigmentation | 7/19/2010 |
| Q: Sandi So I see you are the most experienced person on this site having most of the votes. Well I ... A: I am not a dr and unfortunately have not heard of this before. So i did some research online and ... | |
| I dont know what to do about her! | 7/16/2010 |
| Q: We are both in the same grade. Ive been told im decent looking but nothing special. Bout 6 foot i ... A: if you think your allodoxaphobia is the problem have you looked into medication to help that? whats ... | |
| Friend problem | 7/13/2010 |
| Q: I am a 16 year old boy. I have been friends with this girl for 4 years now. Being friends, we have ... A: i think you should tell her you lied to her back when she asked you if you liked her. tell her you ... | |
| "Like a brother love" v. I "Love" You. | 6/25/2010 |
| Q: I chose you as my advice giver because reading your experience, you are also a teen, so I found a ... A: i think you should really try to move on. she has been really truthful and open with you which is ... | |
| How do i break up with my boyfriend | 6/22/2010 |
| Q: im a 13 year old girl who's had a crush on this guy for 4 years. recently he told me that he has a ... A: i think you should break up with him sooner then later. tell him why your breaking up with him. let ... | |
| Drama | 6/18/2010 |
| Q: My name is Maddie and I'm 13 years old. I've liked this guy since December 2008 and he asked me out ... A: i think your on the right track by deleting him and removing him from your life. i also think you ... | |
| how do i convince her (I am changed) | 6/15/2010 |
| Q: I am 18 she's 17, and I have liked this girl for 3 years now, but when I first started liking her I ... A: i always tell people the same thing in this type of scenario. ask her! :) just ask her how she ... | |
| My mom and my boyfriend | 6/9/2010 |
| Q: What can I do with my mom and my boyfriend? I have had a lot of problems with my mom and my ... A: so why would you want to stay with a guy who insults you? i think your mom is just looking out for ... | |
| Serious Help Needed | 5/30/2010 |
| Q: I'm not sure what to do. I'm at a very difficult stage where dating issues, friend issues, ... A: talk to him! stop sending emails and having friends talk to him. go up to him and talk to him to see ... | |
| I really like my college tutor | 5/21/2010 |
| Q: Hey Sandi I'm in a bit of a confused state and wondered if you could help me. I started college ... A: your age difference is quite large. i dont really think a 30 year old guy should be dating a 19 year ... | |
| Feelin a lil weird | 5/20/2010 |
| Q: Hey Sandi!! I am a 15 yr old guy in a relationship with a very beautiful girl, and have a question ... A: all you can do is trust her. sure this guy might try and make a move on your gf but there is nothing ... | |
| friends with exboyfriend | 5/14/2010 |
| Q: Why is it that girls and guys usually hate each other after they breakup? Can a girl and a guy ... A: because usually someone doesnt want to break up with the other person and then one person gets ... | |
| Does she like me? | 5/13/2010 |
| Q: I really like one of my good friends that i have been friends with for a good 4 years and we have so ... A: continue to be a good friend to her. relationships are built on friendships so you cant loose by ... | |
| Does she like me? | 5/11/2010 |
| Q: I really like one of my good friends that i have been friends with for a good 4 years and we have so ... A: yeah i think asking her to a movie is a good idea. a movie can be a friend thing or it can be a ... | |
| Long Story | 5/10/2010 |
| Q: Alright, to start I would like to say that I am great at figuring things out and working them to my ... A: i really think you need to pull yourself away from all the parties involved here. stop talking about ... | |
| Should I break up with my boyfriend? | 5/8/2010 |
| Q: I need some advice on 'should I break up with my boyfriend.' There are pros and cons to going out ... A: i cant really tell you what to do because i dont know you or your relationship. what i will say is ... | |
| friend | 5/7/2010 |
| Q: My friend and I have been friends forever, but this year she started hanging out with the popular ... A: "dating" doesnt mean your a slut; sleeping around does. sometimes friends just drift apart. it ... | |
| Ex girlfriend | 5/6/2010 |
| Q: We're both 18. We broke up a few months ago due to the pressure of our up coming exams. Her father ... A: wow...it sounds like she is very childish by what she is doing. i guess you could contact her and ... | |
| Am I that bad? | 5/5/2010 |
| Q: I have never had a boyfriends in all my 18 years of living. I have never has my first kiss, date, or ... A: you have probably heard this before...but someone will come alone eventually. it seems to happen ... | |
| i can't get over him :/ | 5/2/2010 |
| Q: So, me and this guy, let's call him Nate, have been dating on and off for the past 2 years (we're ... A: it doesn't sound to me you really have any reason to be mad at him, you weren't dating him. if he is ... | |
| I don't know if I like him or not.. | 4/29/2010 |
| Q: I've been with a guy for a month now, and I'm confused about what I feel. Sometimes I like him, but ... A: if you dont think your current bf is right for you then i would break up with him now. dont wait ... | |
| Confuzlled. | 4/27/2010 |
| Q: okay, this is what happen, i was going out with this guy name zeke, for ah about 4days? and, the ... A: first off...you need to dump your friends that dont listen to you and do things behind your back. ... | |
| What do you make of this situation? | 4/22/2010 |
| Q: I'm a girl, fourteen, freshman. But since all of my friends are juniors and seniors, I've sort of ... A: i wouldnt not talk to him because you think he is out of your league. i dont think he is to old for ... | |
| Unsure how to ask a girl out | 4/11/2010 |
| Q: I know this girl that does like me (just trust me, I know she does) and I want to ask her out on a ... A: i would start hanging out with her more. then after a bit (maybe a week or two) ask her out on a ... | |
| boyfriend problem | 4/8/2010 |
| Q: You recently posted a question to Mariah in category Teen Dating Issues: Hey hi, I am 19 this year. ... A: if you think he is just not right for you then i wouldnt waste anymore time and break up with him. ... | |
| Need help!!! | 3/16/2010 |
| Q: My name is Emily and I could really use some dating help. My friend (let's call her Kate) is into ... A: if your friend and him are not officially dating then if you want to go out with him i think you ... | |
| I need your help please. | 2/28/2010 |
| Q: I am 17 and I am a senior. I have never had a serious relationship. I have had many flings but it ... A: if you like him and wan to consider dating him you have to be able to talk to him about this kind of ... | |
| STUCK | 2/22/2010 |
| Q: I am shy and don't know how to talk to and ask girls out my age i dont have any friends and just ... A: you need to first find a girl you can be friends with. i cant help you not be shy, other then tell ... | |
| Should Age matter? | 2/8/2010 |
| Q: So...I'm 14 and I'm dating a 17 year old.We have been together for almost a month. He keeps braking ... A: first, i dont know if having sex with him is illegal. i believe if he was 18 then it would be ... | |
| my ex +my bff=? | 1/27/2010 |
| Q: my exs name is ryan and we only broke up a little while ago & my best friend likes him.i cant tell ... A: personally i think its not cool for a gf to date another gf's ex. i think you should talk with her ... | |
| School's Hell | 1/26/2010 |
| Q: Hey, I'm 14, and there's this guy that i like so much at school. I've crushed on him since i was ... A: yes, ignore the idiot kids who are saying things to you. if you dont react to what they are saying ... | |
| friends get in the way sometimes... | 1/25/2010 |
| Q: Okay, i like this guy a LOT...his name is Richie. Everyone says hes a player but ive only known him ... A: it sounds like your friends are not really your friends of they are talking to a guy who you like. ... | |
| crush | 1/24/2010 |
| Q: I am an 18 year old girl. my problem is that i really like this guy in college, i hooked up with him ... A: talk to him...tell him your sorry for what happened. tell him you want to be his friend. you need to ... | |
| Girlfriend getting distant | 1/22/2010 |
| Q: me (18) and my girlfriend (17) have been dating for one year and almost eight months. During that ... A: talk, talk, talk :) sit down with her and tell her how you feel and ask her why she is acting like ... | |
| Am i being used? | 1/21/2010 |
| Q: Im currently in university and ive been with this guy (Matt) for about 6 weeks. For most of that ... A: i think you should ask him straight out about whats happening. it sounds to me like he is using you ... | |
| I dont understand! | 1/16/2010 |
| Q: I have a huge problem right now. This problem is that im 17 and my parents STILL wont let me date ... A: when will you turn 18? sorry your parents are so strict. i guess they just dont understand that this ... | |
| guy in school | 1/12/2010 |
| Q: I really like this guy at school. He is 3 yrs younger than me, but we get along really well. We talk ... A: i dont think there is anything wrong with being friends with him (if you can handle it). he sounds ... | |
| break up | 1/7/2010 |
| Q: My relationship with this great girl is over. It was nice and everything was going great but one day ... A: wow, she doesnt feel love anymore after just a few days? well if she can turn off her feelings that ... | |
| I love him, he hates me. | 1/5/2010 |
| Q: so I'm 14, almost 15. And the person in question is 15. Okay, so, I met him at the beginning of the ... A: you need to start pulling away from him. this guy sounds like a jerk and you dont need someone like ... | |
| in love? | 12/21/2009 |
| Q: Hey my name is Catherine and i am 17 years old. So i think that i just need some advice on this. Kay ... A: its hard to say how he really feels about you. i think i would have talked to him a bit before that ... | |
| no time? | 12/17/2009 |
| Q: my name is Jessica (age 18) my boyfriend is Daniel (age 18). Im doing a victory lap at my high ... A: you shouldnt change who you are for a guy you have dated 8 months. i would have a serious discussion ... | |
| Late period? | 12/15/2009 |
| Q: Sandi my name's Lynne and I've had my period since, I believe grade 7? I live in Canada, I'm turning ... A: your right, you cant get pregnant unless you have sex OR you somehow got sperm inside you. if your ... | |
| leaving | 12/12/2009 |
| Q: I am 15 almost 16 and the guy(also my ex) i am completely in love with,are talking about getting ... A: you have to let him do what he wants to do. i would let him know how you feel abotu him but if you ... | |
| In love with more than one guy? | 12/7/2009 |
| Q: I don't even know where to begin with everything. I am 19 and very mature for my age. I currently ... A: your young and really should not be thinking about marriage right now. take things slow; date ... | |
| What to do!!!! | 12/4/2009 |
| Q: Okay first things i want you to hear me out so u know the hole story....... I am 16 and will be 17 ... A: your both young and personnaly it sounds like your taking things way to fast, especially talking ... | |
| I'm afraid of intimacy and kissing | 12/2/2009 |
| Q: I've been like any other teen and had the feelings and urges to do so but I've just been shy and at ... A: if your just friends with this guy i would not move in for a kiss until you think its more then just ... | |
| Teen love | 12/1/2009 |
| Q: I have a bit of a problem, im 13 and theres this girl in my class at school, shes realy nice, kind ... A: i think before you ask her out you should try to get some idea from her if she thinks of you more ... | |
| my crush talks about his bestfrind ALOT! | 11/24/2009 |
| Q: ok so recently, i got asked out by this really handsome guy were super into eachother.but when it ... A: i dont understand; whats wrong with him talking about his bf? if thats all he talks about all the ... | |
| d | 11/10/2009 |
| Q: so basically, me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now, and we have been getting into ... A: yes i think you should break up with him. it sounds like he is just not ready for a relationship ... | |
| I really like my guy friend. | 11/2/2009 |
| Q: Okay. So when I was sixteen, there was this guy named Micah. He was dating my friend, but I always ... A: do you want to date him? if you really think you just want to be friends then i would not let him ... | |
| What do I do in this situation? | 11/1/2009 |
| Q: Well, I'm going to have to explain everything first. For starters, I know this really great guy ... A: i think you should talk to him and let him know how you feel. tell him you really didnt want to get ... | |
| my boyfriend and our "future" | 10/29/2009 |
| Q: well my boyfriend and i have been dating for 5 months now and we are both teens (17 year olds) and ... A: i think you should make sure you put your schooling ahead of everything else. it doesnt mean you ... | |
| dating | 10/7/2009 |
| Q: sorry to bother you. I have a question on dating in highschool. im 17 years old, male. ive been an ... A: yes girls like nice guys :) girls who are attracted to the not so nice guys eventually realize that ... | |
| How do I win this girl in this situation? | 10/3/2009 |
| Q: There's this girl that I have work with over the summer and I had the biggest crush on her. I don't ... A: did you leave her a voicemail when you called her? if so then i would wait a few days, call her one ... | |
| SO CONFUSED!!! | 9/24/2009 |
| Q: my name is Wyatt and I'ma 14 yr old teenage boy. Awhile back I fell for this girl super hard. I ... A: you went out once, you cant exspect her to profess her love for you. hang it with her more. maybe go ... | |
| Confused | 9/23/2009 |
| Q: Ok so I've been dating this guy named Zack for almost a year now and he's told me he loves me and ... A: how old are you? i will assume your pretty young and shouldnt even be thinking about marriage right ... | |
| help! does she really care? | 9/9/2009 |
| Q: Im 17 my girlfriend is 15, we have been dating for a year and I am 1000000% in love with this girl ... A: well it sounds like she has some issues between her ocd and her previous bf. i guess you need to ... | |
| Is it just a crush or is it love? Does she even like me like that? | 8/23/2009 |
| Q: I'm Matt and I'm 16. Ok, so I've got a lot of different problems here and I hope that you can help ... A: all i can say is, "you wont know until you try". i would get the courage up and find a time when you ... | |
| Cheating | 8/22/2009 |
| Q: I've been talking to this guy for a while now. We are pretty good friends, both sixteen. He has a ... A: how would you feel if your bf made out with another girl and she gave him a hand job? probbaly not ... | |
| is he interested? | 8/17/2009 |
| Q: ). So there's this guy that i like and my friend used to like him so he knows me. And he started ... A: he sounds like an idiot and i would not talk to him anymore. he probably just wants to make himself ... | |
| Help! Trust Issues! | 8/16/2009 |
| Q: Hey Anisa, My name's Jessica I'm dating this really amazing guy named Daniel and were both 18. I ... A: do you have friends and hang out with people when your not around your bf? if not then i would ... | |
| Making friends and asking a girl out | 8/11/2009 |
| Q: I am going into grade 12 from this september. I play soccer for my school, and also for the city, so ... A: i would not try and change who you are to get the attention of anyone. i would say that it sounds ... | |
| She's all I can think about (problems with love, proximity) | 8/8/2009 |
| Q: This girl is all I can think about. I could not sleep last night without the help of 4 benadryl and ... A: look, i understand you really like this girl but you have to chill out and realize this is how it ... | |
| Cheating | 8/4/2009 |
| Q: Well I have been dating my boyfriend for a month and 2 weeks. We love spending time and doing other ... A: first i have a question for you, why are you friends with people that have been known to lie? you ... | |
| Love my Ex | 8/3/2009 |
| Q: Hey, here's the thing, about 3 years ago i started dating this amazing girl, but for reasons unknown ... A: if she doesnt want anything more then friends then you really cant do much about it. have you told ... | |
| She's all I can think about (problems with love, proximity) | 8/1/2009 |
| Q: This girl is all I can think about. I could not sleep last night without the help of 4 benadryl and ... A: can you call her? forget about this texting stuff. call her and talk to her. it doesnt sound like ... | |
| Girl Issue. | 7/22/2009 |
| Q: Hey Sandi, My name is Craig, im 15. Theres a girl in my neighborhood, shes 14. So i like her, and i ... A: i think you should start talking to her. you dont have to ask her out right away. just get to know ... | |
| Things are horrible and i dont want it to end with her | 7/17/2009 |
| Q: ok well ive known this girl for 5 years now, since the 6th grade, and i always had a crush on her. ... A: your doing the exact thing she doesnt want right now. you need to step back and give her some space. ... | |
| help | 7/15/2009 |
| Q: Hey, I'm 16. I met a guy at the supermarket a few months ago. He worked there, and i checked him ... A: well i guess either he is really busy or he is just a jerk. i would try and get an answer from him. ... | |
| Friendship problem! (I'm 15) | 7/13/2009 |
| Q: The past 3-4 months have been very hard for me. I have a friend that I really care about and she ... A: i think you should try and talk with her in person to find out whats really going on with her. you ... | |
| I don't know what to do | 7/10/2009 |
| Q: my situation is kind of long. Firstly, thanks for take time to read this. So I like this guy for ... A: i think you should give up on trying to date him but if you feel you can, continue to be friends ... | |
| Is he cheating? | 7/7/2009 |
| Q: I've been with my boyfriend for around four months, and at school we are in the same year but didn't ... A: if you really think he is cheating (dont rely on just friends to tell you) then you should break up ... | |
| dating | 6/30/2009 |
| Q: I cheated on my boyfriend a little while ago and lied to him about it. He has no tolerance for ... A: other then really being sincere to him on showing him that your really sorry, thats about it. time ... | |
| Urgent Issue (need help for tomorrow) | 6/27/2009 |
| Q: I'm really nervous. My boyfriend (18 y.o.) and I (16 y.o.) have been going out for a while, and ... A: i think you should talk to your bf about this. this might have come to late but hopefully you didnt ... | |
| does my ex bf still have feelings for me? | 6/26/2009 |
| Q: Me and my ex broke up about two ears ago but have remained pretty good friends. I still have some ... A: STOP HAVING SEX WITH HIM!! :) this will tell you if he really likes you and wants you back or if he ... | |
| should i date her (opnion) | 6/24/2009 |
| Q: I want your opinion on this. My mom is dating this man that has a daughter that is one year ... A: i guess you have to think about the future and what could happen if your mom and this guy get ... | |
| letting go | 6/7/2009 |
| Q: i am a sophomore and the school year is almost over. okay i have had a huge crush (damn near love) ... A: i dont have a simple way to get over someone. all i can say is that time heals and if you can ... | |
| help | 6/6/2009 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating 5 months (we are still both virgins and want to wait till we ... A: well it sounds like he pretty much does trust you now right? i would stop tellinh him about ... | |
| Is it worth it? | 5/28/2009 |
| Q: Hey Sandi, So here is the background. This girl and I are both 18 and are in our first year of ... A: its no fun dating someone who has feelings for someone else. i think you need to sit down with her ... | |
| I like him. i told him. now what? | 5/27/2009 |
| Q: Hey there* Im a 18 year old girl & the guy i like just turned 21. we go to the same university & ... A: well its hard to say. he might just not have the balls to tell you the truth or maybe he is and just ... | |
| help please | 5/14/2009 |
| Q: okay ill try to make this as simple as possible. I am currently a sophomore in high school. There is ... A: i think you should try and rekindle a friendship with her first. be nice to her and hello and ask ... | |
| My bffl | 5/7/2009 |
| Q: "Me and my BFFL is rele close and she has this boyfriend from another country.. and there's this so ... A: so why did you encourage her to go out with him? look, as a friend you need to look out for for ... | |
| best friend & her bf | 5/5/2009 |
| Q: my best friend who is 16 is dating this guy who is 17 almost 18, and i'm scared for her. first off ... A: you are right and she is wrong. you shouldnt try to change anybody and for her to think this is bad. ... | |
| my boyfriend and i | 4/30/2009 |
| Q: im 14 and my bf is 19 we have been together for 6 months and we are doin good we have had sex a ... A: im not an attorney so i cant say for sure but from what i know i would say that your bf could get in ... | |
| i got a proposal | 4/28/2009 |
| Q: hey, i met this girl 11 months back. she is in my school she is 2 yrs younger than me i have passed ... A: what do you mean by proposal? if she just broke up with someone and then is coming to you and wants ... | |
| Growing apart? Me and my girlfriend. | 4/20/2009 |
| Q: So, i've been dating this girl for about 10 months now, the first 8 and a half months were amazing, ... A: talk to her about it. you both need to be open and honest with each other. sit down with her and let ... | |
| My boyfriends grandmother is controlling!!!!!!!!!!? | 4/17/2009 |
| Q: so i started dating this guy in August 2008 and we had broken up for a few months but then i started ... A: sounds like you have a guy without a spine. :) really, your bf needs to tell his grandmother to ... | |
| prom night | 4/6/2009 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend broke up about 2 months ago. Well before then we had agreed that we would still ... A: if you think you can handle going with him then do it. i would not bring anything up about the past ... | |
| BOYFRIEND | 4/2/2009 |
| Q: I know you said to keep it brief but it's not possible Sorry!!! XX My boyfriend broke up with me ... A: i think its ok to give him one more chance but please dont get your hopes up. i think its ok to ask ... | |
| Prude boyfriend, yeep. | 4/1/2009 |
| Q: As for the basics, I'm a sophomore in high school. So like 2 months ago, this guy and I started ... A: i dont get it....you really dont like his personality and he seems to not have the same values as ... | |
| did i make the wrong move? | 3/31/2009 |
| Q: So, i been seeing this guy for a while...on the first two date he was such a gentlemen and he never ... A: i dont think there was anything wrong with you kissing him. if he was to shy to kiss you then maybe ... | |
| i want to brake up with my bf but i dont know if i'll regret it... | 3/28/2009 |
| Q: HEY...MY NAME IS JANNESSA AND I WANT TO ASK YOU A QUESTION..I BEEN WITH THIS GUY FOR A YEAR NOW BUT ... A: if your unsure about your relationship with him then it sounds like maybe you should take some time ... | |
| Boyfriend | 3/26/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now, and things have been rocky since the get ... A: if you cant get over what he did and forgive him then i dont think you should get back with him. if ... | |
| i really want to ask him out. what should i do? | 3/9/2009 |
| Q: I have liked this guy for 2 years and i think he likes me to but not sure he says he doesnt but deep ... A: i think you should find a good time when it can be just the two of you. prepare in your head what ... | |
| Sexual Inexperience | 3/6/2009 |
| Q: So my ex and I dated for 3 years. We were both age 16, and I am 19 now same as her. She was amazing ... A: for sure dont compare her to any past gf's. i think you can just take charge and control how things ... | |
| humongo crush | 3/5/2009 |
| Q: I have a HUGE crush, and I'm only a pre-teen, in 6th grade, so I'm just wanting to know how to ask ... A: maybe you should get to know him better first? become friends with him and hang out to see if you ... | |
| Hoping for Nothing? | 3/1/2009 |
| Q: I'm Chris, and I'm 13. I'm very sorry if this out of your element, but, I didn't know what other ... A: sorry i cant all your questions. but i will say this. this girl does not sound like a very nice ... | |
| Getting over someone | 2/20/2009 |
| Q: My first real love was a girl in high school that I grew close to in my senior year. During the ... A: if you really think you cant handle talking to her and it hurts to much then i would stop all ... | |
| what happened? | 2/13/2009 |
| Q: I am in a dilemna right now. about 3 weeks ago a girl started saying hi to me and smiling. I could ... A: i think you should just ask her whats up? ask her why she is acting like this. dont do it in a mean ... | |
| my best friend | 2/12/2009 |
| Q: Hey im Molly and im 14. When my dad left i got really sad for like 6months....and i got an IM in the ... A: everything that you have told me he sounds like a nice guy. have you thought about asking him out? i ... | |
| is this guy too controlling like my parents think | 2/9/2009 |
| Q: He is 20 and I'm 17. I'm homeschooled and he is always calling me even after I tell him I can't ... A: it sounds like your parents are right on this one. he sounds like a looser, sorry to say. he doesnt ... | |
| Dating Advice | 2/1/2009 |
| Q: HELP! There's this guy that I've known for a very long time, but we've never really talked. His ... A: he could be using you to cope. i would be very careful about that. i dont what you mean by "hookup" ... | |
| How can i forget her | 1/31/2009 |
| Q: Ok so before i started high school, i thought that i would never fall in love with any guys or ... A: i dont think you can just throw your feelings away for somebody you really care about. but i will ... | |
| Dating rebels | 1/28/2009 |
| Q: I really like this guy, I'm a year older than him but that isn't really the problem. He smokes ... A: no. dont get into any relationship thinking you can change the person or that they will change. this ... | |
| Help | 1/25/2009 |
| Q: im 17 and i don't really have very good luck with girls. I met an amazing girl last school year and ... A: its great that you want to at least try. most guys would probably just say she is out of my league ... | |
| Confuzed | 1/24/2009 |
| Q: Well this is a little confusing but maybe you can help me. First off I'm 17 and haven't had a ... A: your still young and have plenty of time to just have fun and see whats out there. i think you ... | |
| plz try to help me, everyone else has sent me a message back that says its out of their expertise... | 1/22/2009 |
| Q: "Hey I'm a 16year old girl . My bestfriend has a cousin that is 18. Me and him met about two months ... A: well, i guess the only way they will see what they are doing is by actually seeing it! i guess ... | |
| plz try to help me, everyone else has sent me a message back that says its out of their expertise... | 1/21/2009 |
| Q: "Hey I'm a 16year old girl . My bestfriend has a cousin that is 18. Me and him met about two months ... A: well unfortunantly at your age you really need to listen to your parents. why do they not want you ... | |
| i'm afraid to receive a no for an answer from her | 1/17/2009 |
| Q: I'm 17 years old, I'm junior at high school, I always been really quiet, I also do not have many ... A: your not going to get over your fear unless you just do it! practice makes perfect, right? think ... | |
| CRUSH!! | 1/15/2009 |
| Q: okay so im a freshman in high school and so is this girl i have a crush on. weve like, known each ... A: what if you found a good time when its just the two of you and casually said in passing, "hey, we ... | |
| I am 16 and confused, she says she likes me as a friend but wants to be around me | 1/9/2009 |
| Q: she's saying that "I can't see how you can date someone that you're coaching" she's 15 and not ... A: girls can be confusing! :) right now i would just keep things as is and just be her friend. let her ... | |
| Boyfriend + Best Friend? | 1/6/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months in a supposedly committed relationship. We're ... A: i doubt that he loves her. he might "lust" after her and want to have sex with her, but i dont know ... | |
| Unsure About if it's "OK" to Like Boy | 1/5/2009 |
| Q: Ok. So I'm a Freshman in high school, and I am in the school band. I really like this Sophomore, ... A: i think its ok to date someome older. i also think its ok if he is your best friends cousin. i would ... | |
| need help! | 12/17/2008 |
| Q: ok well me and my ex-girlfriend broke up 3 months ago because of another guy. we were dating for ... A: i think you should let her know you are sorry for everthing in the past and that you still love her. ... | |
| When i see a cute boy i dont know i have nothing to say! | 12/11/2008 |
| Q: i would like to know what kind of things can i do or say for a boy to take interest in me especially ... A: just be yourself! think about what you want to say before you see him. keep the conversation simple ... | |
| help!! | 12/6/2008 |
| Q: This is really long and if you don't want o read all of it its fine but if you have the time PLEASE ... A: i dont think you can make anyone like you. if she does great, if not then you should probably find ... | |
| my best friend and her bf | 11/2/2008 |
| Q: Ok so i was at my friends house and i was looking through her texts and i found a bunch that said ... A: i think you should mind your own business and not worry about your friend having sex. sex is not a ... | |
| getting over an x. | 10/28/2008 |
| Q: i really want to get over my x hailey. but i waited a little past a month so that i could have ... A: yes, find someone else to date. you need to get back out there and put your mind on someone else. ... | |
| Age Problems | 10/13/2008 |
| Q: ive got a crush on this girl and we used to be bf and gf but then a friend who had know her for ... A: if she thinks 2 years is a big deal and she is going to have to "care for you" then she is not a ... | |
| age... | 10/10/2008 |
| Q: Heya, Im kelsey im 16 but I will be 17 in february. Im into this guy who I will call james. Well ... A: i think you should tell him you like him and ilke spending time with him. love is a strong word and ... | |
| how to talk to a boy | 10/9/2008 |
| Q: i know that this guy kind of likes me and all and i want to talk to him, but hes always with his ... A: start off quick by just saying hello as you pass by him. eventually you can start talking more like ... | |
| break up advice! | 10/8/2008 |
| Q: im 19 and just last week my boyfriend of one year broke up with me. he said he lost that loving ... A: its very normal to have these feelings after breaking up with someone after a long time dating. it ... | |
| asking a guy out | 10/7/2008 |
| Q: So...I really really like this guy and i'am SOO shy to ask him out, but i really want to. Im to ... A: do you talk to this guy at all other times? i think its good to get to know him first before asking ... | |
| First Major Break up | 10/4/2008 |
| Q: I do not know what I did wrong? Why after such a long time just leave me in cold? Can you help me ... A: you deserve to know why he broke up with you. all you can do is ask him why. if he doesnt respond or ... | |
| Hook up gone sour | 10/2/2008 |
| Q: I'm 16, and about a month ago I hooked up with a guy. We were introduced (in the cheesiest, most ... A: it sounds like he made it pretty clear in the beginning that he just wanted to "hook up" dont go out ... | |
| Shy Relationship | 10/1/2008 |
| Q: Okay,my I am starting to get worried about my relationship with my boyfriend. He is wonderful and ... A: i think you should tell him just what you told me. let him know you are not comfortable kissing yet. ... | |
| ????? | 9/30/2008 |
| Q: im 15 right im soo confused bout this girl who i like ive known her well for the last month and we ... A: i understand your confusion because i think anyone would be. she doesnt know what it means to be ... | |
| Single and hating it! | 9/29/2008 |
| Q: I've just turned 16 and have never had a serious relationship. I know this sounds not so bad, but ... A: my advice would be to just go out there and start talking to guys! :) sounds easier said then done I ... | |
| this is confusing | 9/28/2008 |
| Q: ..im 16 and have after about 2 years of looking found a girl that likes me back and is willing to go ... A: just keep letting her know by your actions and words that you want to sate her. she will have to ... | |
| can't find love | 9/26/2008 |
| Q: I suffered of acne like real bad acne and I also have a birth mark I don't know if that what turns ... A: no thats not true. have you just gone out and asked a girl out? have you tried dating sites? friends ... | |
| I broke my teenage love's heart, how can I ever fix it? | 9/12/2008 |
| Q: For a long time me and Lizzy were close friends and dated in spurts, we fell in love over time she ... A: a true applogize and time is your best bet. let her know in a letter or in person (maybe both) that ... | |
| age | 9/11/2008 |
| Q: my boyfriend turned 20 in july and i turned 17 in august. are we an illegal couple? iv heard that ... A: i dont know the laws where you are at so i cant say for sure. you are probably ok since your 17 and ... | |
| My girlfriend doesnt seem to care as much as she says. | 8/22/2008 |
| Q: Hey, Okay well my girlfriend tells me she loves me more than anything and I'm so important, but ... A: trust is very important in any relationship. if you cant trust her then you should probably move on. ... | |
| Help | 8/17/2008 |
| Q: Ok well I have two questions. I'm a sophomore in high school and I've never had a boyfriend before. ... A: no its not weird that you havent had a bf yet. think about what you want to say to him before ... | |
| relationship | 8/13/2008 |
| Q: uhm i need to ask and tell you somethinq . could sex really mess up your relationship ? kuhs im 13 ... A: no i dont think sex can mess up a relationship. i think maybe he just wants to date other people. i ... | |
| does a condom stop pregnacy? | 8/11/2008 |
| Q: Well me and my girlfriend want to have sex but were not sure about the chances of her getting ... A: condoms are not 100% proof she wont get pregnant. not having sex is the only way to know for sure :) ... | |
| 1st time asking someone out ... help me | 8/8/2008 |
| Q: Sandi, First, I will say that I am a senior in high school. My high school is so small that all ... A: you dont need to go in and buy something from the store? :) you didnt leave something behind the ... | |
| me my best friend and her bf | 8/6/2008 |
| Q: Hey im molly 13 and single. now my Friend Liz has this bf, he use to be mine but broke up wif me ... A: this guys really doesnt sound like someone either one of you should be going out with. to be so ... | |
| How can i speak to girls if i have low self steem ? | 8/5/2008 |
| Q: I'm 18 male teen and i am have sooo low self esteem that it's killing my chances of meeting girls. ... A: how about instead of talking yourself "out" of these things why not talk yourself "IN" these things? ... | |
| The Sweet Guy or the Jerk? | 8/2/2008 |
| Q: I'm sort of seeing this guy who's younger than me (2 months). I'm 17 and he is 15..It did take me a ... A: i think you should start going out and doing things to see how he really feels about you. if he ... | |
| So Confused | 8/1/2008 |
| Q: This is the issue I've been in a relationship with this girl for about a month and one day we ... A: let her know you think this is a big issue and you dont like her sending pics of herself to other ... | |
| bf around friends? | 7/31/2008 |
| Q: I'm 14 and my boyfriend (he's 13) and I have been going out for 6 months. He is amazing and respects ... A: hmm..not sure but i would definantly ask him about it. maybe find a time when its just the two of ... | |
| Can't get over ex girlfriend | 7/30/2008 |
| Q: Hey I'm 18 and about a month ago me and my girlfriend of 1 and a half years broke up. We broke up ... A: she sounds confused. i would give her some time to figure stuff out. talk to her on occasion if you ... | |
| not sure | 7/21/2008 |
| Q: Ok, so this girl Jenny and I, both fifteen, have started liking each other quite a bit. We both ... A: i think you should find a good time to sit down with her and lay out what you want from a ... | |
| He's Black, I'm White.. | 7/19/2008 |
| Q: I'm 15, my boyfriend is 18. My parents would completely disown me if I continued to see him. He's ... A: i think your way to young to be feeling completly in love with this guy. i think you should continue ... | |
| why do i keep on going back | 7/17/2008 |
| Q: ok so i have this chat site that i go on constantly. I dont even know why. I believe its because of ... A: sounds like you need to be happy with yourself and not use guys to make you happy. i think you ... | |
| this guy & sex | 7/16/2008 |
| Q: ok so I am 15 years old i met this guy like three months ago, hes sweet & really attentive. when i ... A: there is no way to know if he is telling you the truth. you have to decide if you want to have sex ... | |
| ex-boyfriend | 7/3/2008 |
| Q: K, so i'm 15 years old and me and my ex had been dating for about 3 months, he asked me to marry him ... A: dump him and find someone else. really, you dont need this kind of guy in your life. marriage? are ... | |
| me ,my bf and sex?? | 6/28/2008 |
| Q: well here it goes i love my bf and i know he loves me too we always do things you know sexual things ... A: everyone is different. if you think you are ready for sex then go for it. it might hurt and you ... | |
| First Kiss | 6/27/2008 |
| Q: I am going to meet(kiss, snog etc; etc;) someone next week for the first time and I'm getting really ... A: practice. let her know you havent kissed a girl before. if she is a nice girl she will respect you ... | |
| have sex? or not? | 6/26/2008 |
| Q: I am 16 years old, and met a guy on a family vacation three years ago. He's over a year older than ... A: how would you feel if you had sex with him and then never see him again? would that change anything? ... | |
| my gfs parents are keeping us apart | 6/25/2008 |
| Q: how to deal with over protective paretns im 16 years old my gf is 15 going to turn 16 in july weve ... A: for the most part you will just have to let this work out on its own. its her life and she will have ... | |
| HELP | 6/11/2008 |
| Q: Okay, so right now I'm "with" a guy, lets call him Tim. We went out at the beginning of the year and ... A: i think you should let tim know how you feel about tyler. its not fair to either one of them and do ... | |
| Confused | 6/9/2008 |
| Q: Allright heres the deal . I'm 14 and I've been dating this AMAZING guy, hes nice and sweet and ... A: your young and ahouldnt be tied doen to just one person. thats what dating is all about, seeing what ... | |
| help | 6/5/2008 |
| Q: ok this girl named mystee, she and me used to be real close (not dating tho) but we were extremely ... A: i think you should find a good time when you can talk with mystee and find out why she doesnt talk ... | |
| i need help | 5/31/2008 |
| Q: hey sandi, i'm 14 almost fifteen and going to ninth grade. so my best friend for almost 4 years i ... A: i think you should try and just be good friends with her for now. later on at some point let her ... | |
| Help for dating | 5/29/2008 |
| Q: I need help from you 2 days ago i graduated,and i really like one girl and wanna be with me.The ... A: practice makes perfect. continue to go up to girls and just talk to them. say hello how are you. ... | |
| mom caught me | 5/8/2008 |
| Q: I have a really embarassing situation that I need help with. This past saturday morning I was out in ... A: are you serious? your mom actually got you a cloth and handed it to while you were naked on the ... | |
| dating advice | 5/4/2008 |
| Q: How can I ask a boy out that is 2 years older than me? I'm in 4th grade and his in 6th grade please ... A: i think you should just ask him out! i also think its a good idea to be friends with this person ... | |
| My Ex Girlfriend | 5/3/2008 |
| Q: OK first off I'm 15 and a freshman high school. Anyway about 6 months ago my girlfriend broke up ... A: if she doesnt have the same feelings towards you then i wouldnt recommend you do anything. ... | |
| our relationship isnt equal. | 4/27/2008 |
| Q: hey ! thanks for helping me. lets start off my saying im 16 and my boyfriends 17, my boyfriend and i ... A: he might just be slower to fall in love. i would give him a a little more time. maybe another two ... | |
| i dont know if my boyfriend really loves me. | 4/26/2008 |
| Q: How do I know if he really loves me? Well I just turned fourteen i know young and im only a couple ... A: you just have to belive it and trust him. if he is telling you all this then why dont you believe ... | |
| dating issues | 4/25/2008 |
| Q: "hey i got a ?. i like this guy and he made a mistake by pushing me against the wall and he says he ... A: if your scared of him them i woudnt date him. just be friends with him and try to make sure there is ... | |
| love | 4/24/2008 |
| Q: i am in love with Dexetr.and as far as i know he is in love with me.he says i am the one.but we only ... A: you love him? how long have you known him and gone out with him? i think you should only date hime ... | |
| she's scared | 4/17/2008 |
| Q: me and this girl really like each other and the only problem is that shes scared.. everytime i get ... A: i dont think there is anything you can do other then just let her know how you feel about her. let ... | |
| desperate | 4/15/2008 |
| Q: well first off im 15. about 4 months ago i went to my friends church and i saw this guy that id ... A: i wouldnt just walk up to him and ask him out. i would start with just saying hello. keep it simple ... | |
| this girl i was almost with | 4/12/2008 |
| Q: ok, so this valentines day i gave a gift to this girl who i liked for so long. she gave me a gift as ... A: first off...thinking of killing yourself over someone you havnent known that long is relaly not a ... | |
| Girlfriend problems | 4/10/2008 |
| Q: I'm 20 and my girlfriend just turned 18 and is graduating in the summer. We dated through most of ... A: its hard having a relationship when you cant see the other person that often. i think for now its ... | |
| I dont know what to do | 4/9/2008 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I just broke up last week. He said he wanted to see what else was out there. So i ... A: he sounds like a real jerk to me. try to forget about him. date other people. ignore him. let him ... | |
| How come I can't find a girlfriend? | 4/5/2008 |
| Q: My name is Donald and I'm a freshman in college. I am perusing a B.F.A in Performance theatre and a ... A: i think you should give up trying. i dont believe in searching for a relationship. i think it should ... | |
| 2 Year age difference | 3/30/2008 |
| Q: This guy who lives next door to me is soooo hot! but hes 16 nearly 17 and I'm 14! my room looks ... A: why not just ask him out? maybe make a passing gestor like, hey we should go out sometime. see how ... | |
| Conversation | 3/29/2008 |
| Q: I'm 18 and never had a boy friend before. I do talk 2 them but that's it. There's this boy I like, ... A: think about some questions or subjects you would like to talk about ahead of time. play out the ... | |
| What do I say? | 3/28/2008 |
| Q: So, first off, I am a girl, despite my name. So I know this might not have much to do with dating, ... A: try thinking about what you might want to talk about ahead of time. think of some subjects and ... | |
| girls | 3/27/2008 |
| Q: basicly there is a girl who is also 17 that i like but she is not interested in me and i was ... A: i dont think you should try and get a girl to like you. either she will or she wont. just be ... | |
| Do you think you can give me some advice? | 3/26/2008 |
| Q: Hey Sandi, I'm 16, male, and a sophomore in HS. There's this girl that I like and am also friends ... A: well i dont think you should "try" and get her to like you. this needs to come naturally. just keep ... | |
| gf | 3/25/2008 |
| Q: i have a problem that i can't talk about to anybody i know cuz its too embarrassing. i am 16 and so ... A: i think you should talk to her about it before hand. i dont think you should wait and let her be ... | |
| dating | 3/5/2008 |
| Q: i work with this girl i really like...but i reall carnt stand her freinds.. we have i right laugh ... A: dating someone you work with can be hard. you could ask her out to lunch and see what she says. see ... | |
| Talking | 3/4/2008 |
| Q: I have "gone out" with about 8 girls. U know one of those school dating things and u occasionally ... A: i dont think you should try and be somoebody you are not. you shouldnt try and be funny or try and ... | |
| best friends in love.. | 2/27/2008 |
| Q: i know you get this question alot but mine has a twist..okay so me and my bestfriend we will call ... A: i think you are correct, you should date and have fun if thats what you feel you need to do. i think ... | |
| Love. | 2/26/2008 |
| Q: I'm currently very confused in my love life. Two years ago I met a girl at school named Lauren. As ... A: either way you need to make sure you stand up to your responsibilities and take care of your baby. ... | |
| Is it possible that this girl likes me ? | 2/24/2008 |
| Q: i went for my training 2day in JD sports (clothes shop) and there were alot of girls. i like this ... A: i dont know! talk to her! look, your not going to know how she feels about you unless you start ... | |
| I am lost... | 2/23/2008 |
| Q: I am in a bit of a problem here and I hope you can help me. Theres this girl Mariah who I met ... A: i am of the believe that when two people have such strong feelings for each other and then they ... | |
| getting over first love | 2/21/2008 |
| Q: well me and my boyfriend went out for about 5 months and i know thats nothing to most people but to ... A: i feel for you i really do. sometimes it can be very hard to get over your first love and especially ... | |
| Help | 2/9/2008 |
| Q: Heyro Sandi, Thank you for taking the time to read this in the first place! Okay, there is a girl ... A: i wonder why she just gives you a one or two word answer? i would think that if she liked you she ... | |
| does she like me? | 2/7/2008 |
| Q: I'm a sophmore in high school (15 yrs old), and there is this girl (freshman) at my school that I ... A: i dont understand, why dont you just ask her out? what have you got to loose? i would think about ... | |
| ive got some questions... | 2/4/2008 |
| Q: alright, i should give age. i am 15, and she is almost 15 too (in a month or 2). i asked her out ... A: not much you can do about the kissing thing! yeah just bend over and kiss i guess. but i think you ... | |
| Girl Problem | 2/2/2008 |
| Q: I am fifteen years old, and i am in the tenth grade at my high school. There is this girl who i ... A: well if she is into her prep friends then it might be difficult unless her friends "approve" of you. ... | |
| sex/relationship | 1/22/2008 |
| Q: ok i am 13 and i dont have a boyfriend but there iz this one boy that iz kinda like aa boyfriend to ... A: 13 is pretty young to be doing stuff like that. i think you should continue to say no to sex though. ... | |
| does my close friend like me | 1/17/2008 |
| Q: i have this really close friend that is a girl and i have been friends with her for 3 years and i ... A: the fact that she liked you at one time says a lot. i dont think its wrong to let her know you like ... | |
| I can't figure him out | 1/16/2008 |
| Q: Hey, I'd apreciate some advice. I'm a 10th grader and I hardly ever like boys at my school. I've ... A: hard to say. sounds like he might just be shy. do you see him talking to anyone else? if not then ... | |
| I NEED TO KNOW IF MY BESTFRIEND LIKES ME | 1/15/2008 |
| Q: WELL TO START OFF I WOULD LIKE TO THANK YOU FOR TAKING UR TIME ON READING MY QUESTION..THANKS...WELL ... A: i think the only way to know for sure if she likes you is to ask her. i wouldnt tell her how much ... | |
| Asking her out | 1/14/2008 |
| Q: Hey Sandi, I am 16 years old and in the 11th grade. There is this girl in my class that I really ... A: can you find a moment to maybe ask her for her im or phone number? at least that way you can talk to ... | |
| help girl | 1/13/2008 |
| Q: I guess this is kind of long so I put it into sections, but it should hopefully be a fun read even ... A: ask her about her family, what movies she likes, what kinda food she likes, her favorite or least ... | |
| sex for the first time | 1/9/2008 |
| Q: ok me and my girlfriend have been talking about sex and it has hurt when ever we tried letting me ... A: let me start by saying, please use protection! :) lubrication is very important especially when ... | |
| Asking a girl out | 1/3/2008 |
| Q: I went out with this girl a couple weeks ago. We went to the movies, but I wasn't exactly sure it ... A: hard to say. she could either be wanting to just be friends or is unsure and wants to take it really ... | |
| hey | 12/7/2007 |
| Q: i am a African girl and my boyfriend is African to i think i have being going out with him for 2 ... A: sounds like he is not ready for a gf. i would not go back to him and if you think you can do it just ... | |
| maintain girlfriend interest | 12/6/2007 |
| Q: Any way my girl friend and I have just started dating and Im starting to feel like shes getting ... A: maybe she feels like she needs to talk to both you and her friends. i would give her the space to do ... | |
| ex irlfriend | 12/1/2007 |
| Q: im in a kinda awkward situation where my ex is being really annoying.I have been friends with my ex ... A: have you told her how you feel? be open and honest with her and let her know how she is acting to ... | |
| dating no other expert has answered!!! | 11/30/2007 |
| Q: Im in 7th grade and never had a real relationss]hip should i be worried? My one relationship was ... A: there is normal not normal when it comes to dating. you just have to go at your own pace. now if ... | |
| this one girl i thought loved me :( | 11/29/2007 |
| Q: I have been with this girl for just under a year now and we are both 16. I haven't been the best ... A: i think you should confront her about this. if she is posting stuff on myspace then its really not ... | |
| confused of what to do with this girl | 11/27/2007 |
| Q: Your question was hey i dunno if itz dating or talking but im with this girl we kissed, held ... A: it really depends on how much you like this girl. it sounds like you really want to try and have a ... | |
| am I moving too fast? | 11/19/2007 |
| Q: I am in 11th grade and i met this girl about two weeks ago who goes to my school. she told me she ... A: if she is not ready then she needs to basically let you kow when she is ready. let her know that you ... | |
| Friend (stretched) is going out with girl I REALLY like | 11/16/2007 |
| Q: k. I'm 15 and really like this girl, Kim. Like I would seriously like marry her right now, but I ... A: the worst thing you could do is to bad talk about your friend and convince this girl to break up ... | |
| i dont know what to do | 11/15/2007 |
| Q: hey i have this really nice girlfriend whose a freshman and so am i(in high school) and before we ... A: sounds like lust more then anything. i wouldnt give up a good thing you have now just because you ... | |
| friend and boyfriend | 11/12/2007 |
| Q: I love my boyfriend very much and he loves me. However, one of my friends likes him too. (FYI: Her ... A: a true friend would not act like she is. she should respect the relationship you have with your bf ... | |
| boyfriend | 11/9/2007 |
| Q: me and my boyfriend cj have been going out for almost 2 months now . we both are madly in love with ... A: wow, thats a really hard question for me to answer. i dont know him at all so i cant really say. the ... | |
| This girl I like | 11/7/2007 |
| Q: I need help. I like this very cute girl whove I've known since 6th grade and I'm in 10th grade now. ... A: no i dont think you should try and get her to breakup or cheat on her bf. just be her friend and ... | |
| what do i do? | 11/6/2007 |
| Q: Hey I'm ryan. I really like this girl. I asked her out at the formal last term, and before that (I ... A: i think you should start with saying hello to her when you see her. i think you could also send her ... | |
| Do i stay with him? | 11/3/2007 |
| Q: I'm 17 and i will be leaving to college in Fall of 08. My main question is, when i go to college, ... A: i think you both need to have a heart to heart conversation and be totally open and honest with each ... | |
| I'm whipped!! | 10/31/2007 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have been friends for a while, and when we started to go out. We both feel that ... A: let her know how you feel (sounds like you already have) and what you think she should do to make ... | |
| Need some advice | 10/25/2007 |
| Q: I'm 18 and at uni , I visited my sister (20) in Chicago last night and went out with some of her ... A: i dont for sure but if i had to take a guess i would say he just wanted to get some from you. i ... | |
| Asking her out to see if she likes me a little | 10/19/2007 |
| Q: My name is Taylor. I am a guy and I like this Girl in the same grade as me (seven). She is very ... A: pull back a bit here. you dont even know the girl so love is a strong word. i think you should get ... | |
| Being Played? | 10/18/2007 |
| Q: I am 16 years old and am quite experienced for my age.....ya i was the school slut back home..... so ... A: sounds like he is using you for sex. dont be so easy to sleep with a guy. go out for awhile with the ... | |
| asking out a younger guy | 10/16/2007 |
| Q: k so i really like this guy and he kinda knows it because i told my firend the day he was comming ... A: if you think you like him then i would just ask him out. who cares that he is a little younger, ... | |
| heart break | 10/10/2007 |
| Q: i have recently broken up with a boy that i had been going out with for 14 months i loved him so ... A: you have dated for over a year and have only been broken up for a few days now? your not going to ... | |
| im stuck | 10/7/2007 |
| Q: ok theres this girl i really like im 16 nearly 17 and she 18 nearly 19 iv know her for about 4 ... A: i think you really need to talk to her and find out if she would like to go out. i know its scary ... | |
| Christain Girl | 10/2/2007 |
| Q: There is this girl from my church that I really like. We have become great friends in the last two ... A: it sounds like maybe she does like either you or your friend (or maybe both of you). i would ask her ... | |
| Two girls | 9/29/2007 |
| Q: There are two girls i like and I dont know which to choose. One girl doesn't really seem to like ... A: well you dont want to try and get a girl into any relationship. it has to happen naturally. there is ... | |
| older guy | 9/26/2007 |
| Q: I really like this older guy. I've known him for 7 yrs and have always liked him. He just moved back ... A: i dont know where you life but he should be very careful because he could be breaking a law if you ... | |
| I still have feelings for my dumb ex! | 9/24/2007 |
| Q: Me and my ex boyfriend broke up last month I have still have feelings for him, I mailed him letters ... A: you should not talk to him. any guy who is going to disrespect you like that you should stay away ... | |
| Orgasm | 9/13/2007 |
| Q: I dont know about the female orgasm much.Plz tell me how can I help my girlfriend reach orgasm?Also ... A: all females are different. it can take some a long and a lot of stimulation to have an orgasm. ... | |
| I need this girl back | 8/25/2007 |
| Q: On Thursday 16th August 2007 myself and my girlfriend split up after 1 year and 4months of being ... A: i think you need to give her some space and pull back. do not call her and text her anymore. if you ... | |
| Friend? | 8/24/2007 |
| Q: I have a 'best friend', but i don't think she cares about our relationship. She never calls me, ... A: yes i think you are correct. it could be that she is just not a good friend to anybody. do you know ... | |
| Asking | 8/23/2007 |
| Q: im a 17 yr old guy. I am extremely shy. I get nervous (clamy hands , a bit shaky) when i start ... A: again, you should think of things to talk about ahead of time. have a list of general topics you ... | |
| birthday | 8/21/2007 |
| Q: hey sandi my name is trish and i've been going out with my bf for about a month and well his b-day ... A: practice,practice,practice! :) find something to practice on. a pillow, a stuffed animal. anything ... | |
| help me plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz | 8/15/2007 |
| Q: i was in a previous relationship of 2 years an 2 months wich was a waste of time now im in a ... A: i think this will be a great way to see how much you two really love each other and want to be ... | |
| am i overanalyzing?? | 8/13/2007 |
| Q: ] ive been thinking about this question for some time now and cant seem to come up with an answer on ... A: maybe he has said something to dave but doesnt want him saying anything to you? i would straight out ... | |
| the extent of being intimate after 5 months of a relationship | 8/12/2007 |
| Q: I have been seeing a guy 4 past 5 months.he loves me and I also like him.we don't go out too often ... A: i wouldnt think to deeply about this. have you had sex with him yet? maybe talking this way on the ... | |
| my one sided love.. | 8/7/2007 |
| Q: hm..hi my name is lovely..im 15 yrs old..im 2 yrs in canada right now...ive been liking this ... A: its always hard being friends with someone that you like more then that. it sounds like this guy is ... | |
| Girlfriend Issues | 8/5/2007 |
| Q: My name is Brandon. My girlfriend and I have been dating. We have hadour ups and downs, but over ... A: you have to trust her that she will be faithful to you. its ok to be jealous to a point. its also ok ... | |
| my boyfriend | 8/4/2007 |
| Q: first let me thank you for takeing the time to answer my question. i love my boyfriend but it seems ... A: sounds like maybe its time to move on. if he is not communicating with you, which is very important ... | |
| GF | 7/20/2007 |
| Q: I am 18 years old and i have been in a relationship with my gf for 8 months. We broke up after two ... A: i dont know for sure but what i do know is that she is not ready to be dating you. its obvious she ... | |
| Older guy.... | 7/19/2007 |
| Q: I asked this in a different part of the site I think this may be better suited place though.. Here ... A: i completly understand. its hard when your just not sure whats going on. i still say, your young and ... | |
| Nudism | 7/17/2007 |
| Q: I can't believe that i'm asking this question. But here it is. 4 my 16th birthday, my parents were ... A: i think your friend should have told you this before hand. anyways, i think you are at an age that ... | |
| guyfriend | 7/12/2007 |
| Q: how do i tell my best guy friend that i have strong feelings for him? A: i think the only way is to just sit down with him when you can have some uniterupted time together ... | |
| Older guy.... | 7/11/2007 |
| Q: I asked this in a different part of the site I think this may be better suited place though.. Here ... A: i think the fact that you are only 14(15) and are confused about your sexuality says a lot. you are ... | |
| confused | 7/7/2007 |
| Q: I am an 18 year old guy fixing to move off to college about 2 hrs from home.. I am currently dating ... A: i will have to refer this back to you and ask you, "what does your heart tell you to do?". i dont ... | |
| i got rejected | 7/2/2007 |
| Q: i like this boy and he is kinda shy to i didnt really talk to him only on computer or on phone and ... A: just be friends with him like you would anyone else. dont flirt with him or anything like that. be ... | |
| Help | 7/1/2007 |
| Q: Im so messed up right now, my ex and i were together almost 4 months. He ended it because he said ... A: look, guys are not the end of the world. he is not the only guy out there for you. it sounds like ... | |
| confused | 6/30/2007 |
| Q: well i recently broke up with my b/f of nine months and i feel like my heart is still with him but ... A: its normal to have those feelings for your ex. they will eventually go away as long as you try and ... | |
| Conversations | 6/29/2007 |
| Q: I need help on what to talk about with my boyfriend we both love each other i know we're young but ... A: talk about each other. your likes and dislikes. talk about current events in the world. talk about ... | |
| kissing | 6/24/2007 |
| Q: ) I am have been in a relationship with a guy now for about 6 weeks. (We are both 16)We have gone on ... A: i think the best spots are the ones where you are alone. a movie theater is just to crowded for your ... | |
| friend troubles with dating | 6/22/2007 |
| Q: I'm having trouble because My friend was flirting with a guy all day!! When We had to go inside ... A: let your friend know if this does happen. if she is ignoring you and you tell her about it and she ... | |
| I love my Cousin | 6/21/2007 |
| Q: well my girl cousin came from New Jersey and I havent seen her for a long time and when I saw her ... A: well i dont think dating your cousin is the right thing to do. it can cause issues down thr road ... | |
| My friend(I like him) | 6/20/2007 |
| Q: I'm a teen, and I have a little bit of a problem. Well, I really like one of my good friends(whose ... A: unfortunantly there will probably be more times in your life when you will have to deal with ... | |
| A Long Story | 6/16/2007 |
| Q: this will take a while, so I'll thank you right now for just reading this: Okay, there's this girl, ... A: if she has a bf then she shouldnt be rubbing her leg in you and doing sexual stuff anyways. i would ... | |
| First Date/Dance from 8th Grader Boy | 6/14/2007 |
| Q: I know this is rather abrupt but I'm desperate for information which can help me on my first ... A: just be yourself. you dont want to be fake at all. and its ok to let her know your a little nervous. ... | |
| boy trouble | 6/11/2007 |
| Q: Okay so, theres this guy and he told me that he really liked me and i liked him to. After we both ... A: why dont you ask him out? maybe he was hoping after he told you he liked you that you would say ... | |
| body issues. | 6/10/2007 |
| Q: a freshman.. i think im done growing by now, right?? if so., then DARN!!! I am veryyy self ... A: i am not a doctor but i dont think you are done growing. i definently would not take any growth ... | |
| Dating younger guys | 6/9/2007 |
| Q: "I'm 15 years old and i have know this guy for about 3 years. He is 12 and he has been around kids ... A: i dont see a reason why you shouldnt go out with him. the issue might be if you continue to date and ... | |
| She feels lonely | 6/7/2007 |
| Q: My girlfriend feels lonely when im not around. its been a 2 week holiday and she told me she feels ... A: i dont think there is anything you can do other then just let her know again that you love her and ... | |
| How do i ask a guy out | 6/5/2007 |
| Q: how do i ask a guy out without knowing if he even thinks im cute or not or even likes me?and if he ... A: you just have to go for it! find a good time when its just the two of you and just ask him. play out ... | |
| my bf is shorter then me | 6/4/2007 |
| Q: you see i am going out with this wonderful guy,hes smart,cute,funny,ext.hes perfect except for 1 ... A: you already said it. he has to be happy with himself before he can be happy in a relationship with ... | |
| friends? | 5/15/2007 |
| Q: Ok, so this guy and I were really good friends for about a year and a half. Then we went out for ... A: its hard to be friends with someone you once dated, especially if you still like him. if you asked ... | |
| Why do I feel like I'm not good enough? | 5/14/2007 |
| Q: Okay so, I met this girl online a few months ago (just to make it clear, I am a bisexual girl ... A: if your with someone that does not make you feel good then i think you should move on. maybe find ... | |
| help! | 5/9/2007 |
| Q: ok...I am 17 and my friend who is a girl is 13 soon turning 14. We both like each other alot but ... A: i believe once you turn 18 then it would be illegal to have sex with her. if your not planning on ... | |
| about guys | 5/8/2007 |
| Q: ok well this is the first time i am doing this so bare with me. my situation is that i already have ... A: maybe you should not be with any of them? really. it sounds like the guy you still like is not ... | |
| Feelings | 5/7/2007 |
| Q: Hey. My name is Simone and I have a boyfriend named Davo and we have been going out for 2 months. I ... A: you are young and should be dating guys until you find the one you know you want to be with for the ... | |
| how do i talk to him about it? | 5/6/2007 |
| Q: I have been with this guy on and off for about 6 months now but we met over a year ago. we resolved ... A: i think its important to be open and honest with him. that doesnt mean you are right about her ... | |
| i like her and she likes me but we dont talk | 5/2/2007 |
| Q: .. i talked to her friend and she said that kristen likes me but is too shy to talk. i think that ... A: think about what you want to talk about a head of time. ask her questions about herself. find out ... | |
| help! | 4/28/2007 |
| Q: hey, im jeff and i go to a really small middle school in illinois, and i need help. there is this ... A: you have to prepare yourself for what she might say. there is nothing magical i can say to you to ... | |
| Talking to a girl | 4/26/2007 |
| Q: There's this really, really pretty girl I like. I want to talk to here, but don't know what to say. ... A: start with small talk. you want to become friends with her first before asking her out. talk to her ... | |
| iv never had an orgasam | 4/25/2007 |
| Q: I'm 18 years old, and have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, but iv never had an orgasam, ... A: if you dont tell him then isnt your relationship crushed anyway? you need to be able to communicate ... | |
| dating | 4/23/2007 |
| Q: i got with a guy the other day and now i really like him... hes real nice and constantly on my mind! ... A: i think you should let him know you like him after he breaks up with his gf. just be prepared for ... | |
| Racial problems and more! | 4/22/2007 |
| Q: Hey, I really like a girl from my school but i think shes popular and i dont know whether i should ... A: how would you feel about approaching her and talking to her? you dont have to ask her out or ... | |
| i like my best friend | 4/21/2007 |
| Q: For quite some time, I have had a huge crush on one of my best friends. The thing is that some of my ... A: i think you should talk to him in person just the two of you. tell him how you feel. just be ... | |
| Phone Conversation? | 4/17/2007 |
| Q: I've been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months now yet I still feel weird telling him my feelings ... A: i dont what to do tell you then to just try and open up to him. communication is very important in a ... | |
| How does she feel? | 4/16/2007 |
| Q: So me and this girl really liked eachother last semester, but i didn't ask her out until 3 weeks ... A: call her again and ask her out! what do you have to loose? if she says no then you will know for ... | |
| My Ex | 4/12/2007 |
| Q: ok,so im 13 and my ex is 13.so what happened was that he cheated on me.and people were telling ... A: i dont know, maybe he was there to just talk to his friends. either way if he likes you he needs to ... | |
| girl | 4/1/2007 |
| Q: so I like this girl at my skool but she can't go out till she is older. what should I do? A: you dont want to get her parents mad at you before your second date. so i would just obey her rules ... | |
| there's this girl....... | 3/28/2007 |
| Q: .....and well, we both like each other, i like her alot, and she does me also, but the thing is is ... A: i dont the law where you are at but normally if you have sex with someone under the age of 18 if you ... | |
| kissing | 3/25/2007 |
| Q: I was just wondering if there is any sort of technique to kissing, because I was at the cinema with ... A: unfortunately you will just have to do it and practice it. your gf was probably very nervous as ... | |
| Confused | 3/23/2007 |
| Q: I am contacting you to ask your advice about a girl. I am not sure how to precede in our ... A: i dont know what she is thinking but it could be that she just wants to "fit in". i think its ... | |
| heart beating fast...and i think im in love | 3/5/2007 |
| Q: there is this girl at my school named kate and well i like her alot.my best friend also liked her.my ... A: if your friend is no longer dating her then i think its ok to ask her out. its not like your friend ... | |
| Is it time? | 3/3/2007 |
| Q: my boyfriend and I are 20 and been in a relationship for 3 years, ill confess it hasn't been the ... A: it sounds like maybe you both have some growing to do. from what you just told me i would yes you ... | |
| inter racial dating amoung pree-teens | 2/27/2007 |
| Q: My daughter will be 13 in a couple of weeks and she is currneting going out with a boy of the ... A: i think the only issue should be that she is dating at 13. the fact that she is dating a black boy ... | |
| need help | 2/26/2007 |
| Q: i think you remember me.last saturday someone send me a sms mistakenly that they are in a club..i ... A: give it some time and see if she writes you. if not dont worry about it and move on. if she stops ... | |
| crush on a coworker | 2/20/2007 |
| Q: So there is a new guy that has been hired on at my work. He is the same age as me (17) and very ... A: i really dont know. i think the only way to find out is to ask him out. but you have to be prepared ... | |
| Argument | 2/18/2007 |
| Q: I really want to get an account on MySpac* (I'm 14, by the way), but my parents won't let me because ... A: your in a tuff spot. yes myspace can be a bad place for kids so i can understand how they would be ... | |
| I am in so deep! | 2/17/2007 |
| Q: Okay, I may have sent you the question regarding how to ask this guy that I like if he wants to ... A: it sounds like he might like you. i also think he could have been very embarrassed because of his ... | |
| my first date what to do!!!!! | 2/16/2007 |
| Q: don't know what to do right now i have connected a lot with this girl and I'm going to ask her out ... A: dating is for finding out more about the person. you should ask her questions about herself. see ... | |
| school dance | 2/15/2007 |
| Q: Ok, well, I am 13 (7th grade) and so is this guy that i like... He is really nice, cute, athletic, ... A: i hope i wasnt to late in answering your question. im sorry if i was. i dont think there is any ... | |
| How do i ask someone out? | 1/29/2007 |
| Q: That is good advice... but u never really answered my question. If u ask a girl "Do u wana go out" ... A: it could mean both. what i was saying is dont worry about that at first. take it slow. if you sak ... | |
| How do i ask someone out? | 1/28/2007 |
| Q: Basicly the subject is my question, how do i ask a girl out? Do you just go up and say "Do you wanna ... A: its best if you can make some small talk with the girl first. find out what she likes and doesnt ... | |
| Daughter in trouble | 1/26/2007 |
| Q: I have a 15 year old daughter that has been dating a 17 year old guy for a year. They just broke up ... A: tuff situation. it sounds like you relaly tried to make her understand that she is young and it will ... | |
| Everything changed..... | 1/23/2007 |
| Q: Hey Well it's like this i used to be fun and talk alot and didnt have a care in the world. I was ... A: its very normal to get depressed after your first breakup. but believe me when i say you will get ... | |
| my mystery guy.. | 1/7/2007 |
| Q: . i really like this guy and this guy also likes me.. right now he's just courting me but the funny ... A: sounds like this guy needs a little boost of self asteem. i guess its up to you on whether or not ... | |
| Sex | 1/5/2007 |
| Q: I have a new girlfriend who is Christian and doesnt want to have sex until she is married. I made ... A: first off i would not lie to her. if she asks you about your past relationships or whether or not ... | |
| Boyfriends? | 1/4/2007 |
| Q: ok i have a slight problem, i met this guy online, hes 17 and lives in tennessee. we started dating, ... A: have you tried to let this guy know how you really feel about him? i think its worth giving it a ... | |
| legal age for dating | 1/3/2007 |
| Q: first of all thanks for taking your time in reading this and trying to help me with my problem. I'm ... A: i am not sure what the laws are where you live but i think until you turn 18 you will be fine. even ... | |
| notice me! | 12/29/2006 |
| Q: ) Im a freshman in highschool and I've been trying to get this boy to like me. I talk to him on ... A: i also believe in just telling it like it is. i think you should just approach him and start talking ... | |
| cheated on :( | 12/28/2006 |
| Q: Sandi Hey Sandi, my name is josh and i have an important question for you. I just turned 18 and ... A: trust is very important in a relationship. if you cant trust her then i think you should break up ... | |
| 2 of us kinda cheated so should we still be together? | 12/20/2006 |
| Q: ok, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and 2 month. He was really understanding ... A: you both screwed up and cheated on each other. sometimes people cant get over that and move on. i ... | |
| boysss | 12/12/2006 |
| Q: there is this boy i realy like and i realy like him only if i ask him out anywhere his friends will ... A: i dont know but i would not listen to his friends. find a time to ask him when its just the two of ... | |
| my friend | 12/10/2006 |
| Q: k well i have this guy friend called mat and i love him... hes really awesome and all but anyway.. ... A: wait....if you really like this guy and think he likes you as well then just wait. your right, you ... | |
| girls | 12/7/2006 |
| Q: i like this girl in my class. we dont really talk that much except hellos and stuff but i want to ... A: well hopefully she will not be into your body as much as your personlality. i think you should try ... | |
| I need some advice... | 12/4/2006 |
| Q: After I found it we got to fighting and he broke his phone in half. Saturday we when to a party and ... A: no thats not wrong at all. the problem i see is that he may use the fighting between the two of you ... | |
| Braces... | 12/2/2006 |
| Q: Sandi, I'm getting braces on my teeth in a few weeks, and I'm really worried it's going to put my ... A: i wouldnt worry at all about that. i think most guys may even think its sexy to have braces. if your ... | |
| Should i Do it | 11/30/2006 |
| Q: Hey ok so I have a problem I am 17 and my boyfriend is 21 and we have been dating now for about ... A: communication is very important in any relationship. i would definently talk to him about this. it ... | |
| A sticky situation | 11/21/2006 |
| Q: I am a 16 year old male in Washington state and I was wondering (1) Is it legal for me to date a 19 ... A: im not sure about the age thing. i would assume that it is not legal for you to have sex with ... | |
| is it worth it? | 11/14/2006 |
| Q: okay, there is this guy that i met two nights ago, and i really thought he was cute and everything, ... A: i think you need to make sure this creep doesnt do this to anyone else. i would tell your parents ... | |
| just some guidance | 11/8/2006 |
| Q: heyy sandi my name is heidi and im 15 years old, me and my boyfiend of 9 months broke up about 2 ... A: people make mistakes.....sounds like you know you did and thats good. if you tought it was no big ... | |
| hey | 10/31/2006 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have been on a break for a couple of weeks now... last night we talked and she ... A: i think its very important for people to make sure they are content and happy with the right ... | |
| I want a child | 10/30/2006 |
| Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for two in a half years and our sex life is not that good. I want to ... A: how old are you and why do you want a child if your not married? there could issues with him and ... | |
| hey | 10/29/2006 |
| Q: Ok... I went to T-pee my girlfriend last night and there was a guys truck there.... I confronted her ... A: give her some space. you cant make her like you and want to stay with you. if she wants to see other ... | |
| help | 10/26/2006 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I recently took a break in our relationship... A few days ago things were going ... A: sounds like your doing what you should. i would not preasure her anymore to get back together. just ... | |
| boys | 10/18/2006 |
| Q: that does help but im 15 and i love him he is everything i wanted and he doesnt care what i look ... A: if he is ok with the amount of time you spend together then great! you should believe him. about the ... | |
| boys | 10/17/2006 |
| Q: ok i love my boyfriend well thats what i tell myself. but do i really love him i want to know ... A: try being away from him for a bit and see how you feel. maybe you should date other people and see ... | |
| askin a girl out | 10/12/2006 |
| Q: hey!i was wonderin if you could tell me how 2 ask a girl out,im meetin her nxt on sunday and we ... A: i dont think i would try and kiss her until after you go out and see how the date goes. maybe ... | |
| how should i approach/talk to her? | 10/6/2006 |
| Q: i'm jared, a guy and 14. i have never dated anyone at my school. i have never liked anyone at my ... A: the best way to find out if she likes you is to ask her out. maybe you can talk to someome she knows ... | |
| this girl | 10/2/2006 |
| Q: i like this girl named emily. i never really talked to her and she never really talked to me. im in ... A: try and find out more about her. what she likes and doesnt like. start off slow by just having a ... | |
| girlss | 9/28/2006 |
| Q: I am 16 and I have started going out with this girl. At school we see each other in the hallway but ... A: i think communication is very important in any relationship. if she is saying its ok to join her ... | |
| My girlfriend is boy crazy and im to clingy | 9/24/2006 |
| Q: Ive been dating my girlfriend for almost 2 years now and we hang out all the time but latley with ... A: i think you should find some friends to hang out with more. that way you are not always with her. if ... | |
| I dont get it | 9/14/2006 |
| Q: I am seriously getting angry with my luck. Every girl i ever feel anything towards either already ... A: sometimes people just have a streak of bad luck. i would say you should find out first if they have ... | |
| What is happening?? | 9/2/2006 |
| Q: Let me start off by telling you a little bit about myself and my situation: My name is Bill, I'm 17 ... A: i would not call her at home if she didnt give you that number. wait and talk to her at school. ... | |
| A new school year and I'm still confused | 9/1/2006 |
| Q: Hey there. I'm going to be a senior in high school this year and there's this one girl that I'm so ... A: i think you should talk to her about how you feel. dont let her know that your falling for her or ... | |
| has he cheated? | 8/20/2006 |
| Q: he was meant to ring me but he didnt this morning his phone was on and now its off! why would he do ... A: there is no way to know for sure if he is cheating or not. its just one of those things you feel and ... | |
| second base? | 8/17/2006 |
| Q: well i heard second base is groping the ass and or breasts. well i was wondering how do i get to ... A: the time has to be right and the girl has to want it. it usually starts with kissing and goes from ... | |
| Where do I go from here? | 8/16/2006 |
| Q: I am a 16 year old guy who has some experience with relationships, but not a ton. At the end of the ... A: if you guys are good friends then she should have been able to tell you the truth. maybe she just ... | |
| do i take him back? | 8/15/2006 |
| Q: i(19) dated this guy(22)for about a year and because of his tendency to want to run my life for me - ... A: i think he needs to get his sister in line before anything happpens between you two. if the two of ... | |
| how to ask him to be my boyfriend | 8/14/2006 |
| Q: I really like this guy. He is 1yr older than me but we get on really well. I really like him and ... A: try to find out more about him first. what he likes and doesnt like. think about what you want to ... | |
| What Should I Do | 8/13/2006 |
| Q: Now I know this girl who likes my best friend. So being nice I helped her get with him. As time went ... A: do you think she likes you back? if so then maybe you should ask her out. keep in mind that if she ... | |
| Im a little confused... | 8/4/2006 |
| Q: I have several questions to ask. First, I just started liking a girl that is in student council ... A: Try to find out more about her and just start making small talk with her. try to feel her out and ... | |
| First kiss(maby) | 8/1/2006 |
| Q: im 13 and i have never had a boyfriend or a first kiss. And about a month ago i got my first ... A: kissing is one of those things that just comes naturally. i cant really explain how to do it either. ... | |
| about a boy | 7/24/2006 |
| Q: So heres the deal. I met my cousin’s best friend’s brother, ‘Jason’, over AIM. We swapped ... A: first off i think you need to tell your cousin to mind her own damn business! :) if he is to up ... | |
| dating problems | 7/23/2006 |
| Q: Sandi, my name is aj mclain.i am 15 years old.i have liked a certain girlfor about 5 years now ... A: i think she probably thinks you are just kidding around with her when you tell her those things. try ... | |
| Help please? | 7/17/2006 |
| Q: I started to date this guy 2 days ago. We went to the fair in Bervard, and he kissed me, so I ... A: you really just have to have trust in him. i know its easy to say but that is what a relationship is ... | |
| I want him back... | 7/14/2006 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I broke up about 5 months ago. Our parents were the ones who made us breakup, and ... A: maybe if the two of you started talking again that may help. i think you first need to find out why ... | |
| Alot of problems | 7/13/2006 |
| Q: When we started talking he had just gotten out of a serious relationship. He knew i wanted to be ... A: it sounds like he may be using you for sex and doesnt want to commit to a relationship. you need ... | |
| Major issue! | 7/11/2006 |
| Q: Ok i've found this girl I like and i'm really into her alot! But the bad thing is she's only 15 and ... A: i think its fine to give the relationship a try but maybe you should hold off on sex for a bit. your ... | |
| weird relationship | 7/9/2006 |
| Q: I am a 17 year old boy and I want to ask a question, but there is some backstory to this so excuse ... A: i dont know why he broke up with you but it sounds like he probably did use you for whatever reasons ... | |
| LDR | 6/29/2006 |
| Q: ok so ive got a lot going on in my life right now. im 15 and not to be conceited or anything (but ... A: you sound like a real sincere guy. its true that long distance relationships are hard to keep. your ... | |
| penis size | 6/28/2006 |
| Q: I tried to dicuss the matter with her several times but she refuses to discuss anything about sex. ... A: sure you can have her email me directly if you want. i would be happy to talk with her. my email is ... | |
| I like this girl but........ | 6/27/2006 |
| Q: Well... I like this girl but she doesent seem to notice and talk to me she talked to me once but ... A: try and find out more about her. what she likes and doesnt like. if you kind find some of things out ... | |
| girls lol! | 6/26/2006 |
| Q: there is this girl i really like that i havnt talked to in 3 years! i have just recently texted her ... A: sounds like your doing a fine job. wait a few days and then ask her again. if she keeps making ... | |
| penis size | 6/25/2006 |
| Q: I 22years old man and have been dating girl of 19 years for the last 8 months. She is thin having a ... A: your penis is probably larger then most guys. but remember, girls have babies through there! :) did ... | |
| Getting over my girlfriend's past problem | 6/24/2006 |
| Q: my name's Brandon and I've been dating my girlfriend for about 2 and 1/2 months. We aren't exactly ... A: being jeoulis is a normal feeling. you havent been dating for that long so the trust of a long ... | |
| My best friend | 6/22/2006 |
| Q: Ok so it all started in 5th grade. I hated him. Let's call him John. I hated John because he was too ... A: its hard to say whats going on with him. it could be drugs or family life. i think you should give ... | |
| my x, my m8, and the unloved | 6/20/2006 |
| Q: i am james, i went out with my gf for about 5 months, the longst i had ever been out with ny1, but ... A: i think you are just a little jelous of your friend going out with your ex. its normal to feel that ... | |
| advice.. | 6/9/2006 |
| Q: im 14 years old and i need help. see overal im preety attractive but when it comes down to my teeth ... A: first thing is i would talk to your bf about how you feel. its important in any relationship to be ... | |
| HELP!!!! (please) | 6/6/2006 |
| Q: I really, really like this girl in my class. I am 14, this is really the first time I really ... A: its hard to move into dating when you are already friends. you could just tell her that you like her ... | |
| I think we're both confused! | 5/18/2006 |
| Q: there's this guy in 3 of my classes that i've liked for a long time, since last year. He's in my ... A: if i were you i would try and talk to him alone. when no one else is around. maybe he is being ... | |
| starting a relationship | 5/8/2006 |
| Q: I have a commitment problem. I have enough trouble starting a relationship so i've been single for a ... A: i think the fact that you are less experieced then him is probably why he asked you at. he is 6 ... | |
| Hi there I'm SO glad I've... | 4/22/2006 |
| Q: I'm SO glad I've found someone who may be able to help me- I am 16 years of age and am currently ... A: The first thing i would check on is the age of consent for where you are located. you want to make ... | |
| I'm In Love With My Friend..... | 4/15/2006 |
| Q: It turns out that I have known the most amazing and the most beautiful girl in my entire life for ... A: dont tell her your in love with her. that would probably scare her off. play it cool for now and see ... | |
| race | 4/7/2006 |
| Q: I'm an african american girl who doesnt get along with many other poeple of my race. My friends ( ... A: i think race should have nothing to do with who you date. you should not worry about it and date ... | |
| smart move? | 3/29/2006 |
| Q: im really nevous about my first kiss.Im 14. I dont know if my gf wants to so should i just wait for ... A: i think you should talk to her about it first. ask her if you can kiss her. if she says yes then ... | |
| Communication | 3/26/2006 |
| Q: I am currently 19, dating a girl my age and I was just wondering if it is healthy to talk with your ... A: your young and i would say yes, right now space is good. when your older and are ready to settle ... | |
| dating | 3/23/2006 |
| Q: I like the hottest guy in school! My friends say that it looks like he is flirting with me. I am ... A: i know what its like being shy and not knowing if a guy likes you. but really the only way to know ... | |
| What do I do? | 3/22/2006 |
| Q: I am 17 almost 18 years old and I have been going out with this girl for 3 years in april.it has een ... A: one thing that i have learned is dont try and be someone you are not. if she is bored with you then ... | |
| Just started dating a girl... | 3/21/2006 |
| Q: I am 17... I've only ever had 1 girlfriend before now... and it lasted 2 days! So, last week ... A: hard to say what she will like. just be yourself and i think you should back off a bit. dont be ... | |
| Sex | 3/14/2006 |
| Q: So me and my bf were trying to have sex today... and then all of a sudden he just went limp... i ... A: was it the first time you two tried to have sex? its normal for guys to get nervous and go limp. its ... | |
| Past girlfriend indirectly causes current girlfriend trouble | 3/6/2006 |
| Q: My current girlfriend feels inadequate because of a previous relationship I have had. I obsessed ... A: i think she needs to stop being so jeoulous. if she really loves you then she should not be insecure ... | |
| A girl i like... | 2/27/2006 |
| Q: About 7 months ago i met an amazing girl and we really hit it off well. We've been friends since, ... A: i would not try and get together with her right now. if its meant to be then it will happen. let her ... | |
| im a 15yr old boy in the 8th... | 2/25/2006 |
| Q: im a 15yr old boy in the 8th grade.i like a girl thats in the same grade as me and may be 13 to ... A: is there anyone that knows her you can ask if she likes you? i guess you could start talking to her ... | |
| advise | 2/24/2006 |
| Q: .theres no way i can explain everything to you in this message so ill be brief and try my best to ... A: let it go. i know its hard but it sounds like the best thing to do. especially if you are seeing ... | |
| does she like me | 2/17/2006 |
| Q: I am 17 and am a senior in high school. I recently asked out a junior to a movie sometime and she ... A: not sure what it means. but i guess if she doesnt want to talk to you anymore you should just leave ... | |
| Was that a bad move? | 2/15/2006 |
| Q: I've known this girl for about 8 months. She's a junior (17), and I'm a senior (18). We met at a ... A: i think it was a good thing to do if you want to start dating her. i just dont want her to have the ... | |
| Dating a teen... | 2/14/2006 |
| Q: Hey, heres my problem.. Im a twenty year old female and Im involved with a fifteen year old male. Is ... A: im not a lawyer (nor do i want to be one) :) i would say even if his mom is ok with you that is ... | |
| Hi there, I am about to... | 2/6/2006 |
| Q: I am about to go out on my very first valentines date. Although i am not sure where to go, wot to ... A: congrats! i think it depends on the girl. maybe start by holding her hand and see how she reacts. ... | |
| Who to Trust | 1/26/2006 |
| Q: I am 15 years old and so is evry1 else in this story. basicly a while ago there was an incident ... A: i think its important to know for sure if your gf is saying things behind your back. if she has done ... | |
| should i tell him how i feel | 1/25/2006 |
| Q: During class he always turns around and smiles at me(he sits just in front of me). He always laughs ... A: it sounds like he may like you too. i think you should start talking to him now and then and see ... | |
| Drunken Honesty Or Drunken Mistake? | 1/17/2006 |
| Q: I am 15 and so is evry1 else in the story.i have been seeing a girl called Lauren now for just under ... A: you need to talk to her in person. let her know your really sorry and you want this relationship to ... | |
| Age Difference... | 1/3/2006 |
| Q: Hey Sandi, Where do I start? I am an 18 year old guy in his freshman year of college. I am really ... A: it very well could be love. yes she is young and i would be worried about the sex part. you could ... | |
| online dating | 12/21/2005 |
| Q: I met a girl on the internet about 3 weeks ago. We have talked non-stop since then. We recently met ... A: i dont believe you have talked it all out. if you really like her and respect her and think you want ... | |
| boys | 12/18/2005 |
| Q: well i went out with this boy a few months back but i was very shy and it didnt work out. I still ... A: i think you should talk to him face to face and tell him how you feel. let him know you were nervous ... | |
| Should I ask her | 12/16/2005 |
| Q: I Would like to ask this girl I know out on a date but i'm not sure if I should. I meet her in ... A: ask her. what do you have to loose. she may say no but thats ok. you will get rejected in life a ... | |
| Sex | 12/15/2005 |
| Q: I have had sex mmmm 3 times. I am 17. I have has sex 3 times ith the same partner. I am concerned ... A: im not a doctor so i cant give that kind os advice. but could it be a lubrication issue? maybe you ... | |
| Sex | 12/14/2005 |
| Q: A common subject among teens but this time it might be a little different. There is this guy right ... A: he is probably afraid to get into another relationship again. give him some time. a month is not ... | |
| Help with Sex | 12/13/2005 |
| Q: hey.. no i cannot get an orgasm by myselfHey I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now and we ... A: check out this link ... | |
| jealous about my girlfriend, allways !!! | 12/7/2005 |
| Q: Why do i get so jealous over my Girlfiend? We've bin going out for a year now and im 15 and shes 14, ... A: if she lies to you then thats a big problem. you dont want a gf who is going to lie to you. that ... | |
| Probably common, but advice on moving it forward | 11/29/2005 |
| Q: This is probably one of the most frequent questions you get, and I apologize for waisting your time ... A: im always one for being open and honest. why cant you just ask her out? find a time when its just ... | |
| Relationship | 11/21/2005 |
| Q: Im 16 and currently a Jr. in HighSchool. Before i go on into a long story and a question i want to ... A: i think its hard to just say "im not going to like someone anymore". i dont know how you make ... | |
| Relationship | 11/20/2005 |
| Q: Im 16 and currently a Jr. in HighSchool. Before i go on into a long story and a question i want to ... A: i think you should talk to her alone and let her know whats up. tell her how you feel about her and ... | |
| sweettalk | 11/18/2005 |
| Q: but i dont know how. so how do you sweettalk. i can't think anything to comapera her eyes or hair ... A: just say nice things to her. how pretty she looks or that her hair smells good or that you really ... | |
| Getting a girl to like me | 11/15/2005 |
| Q: i have a problem, there is this girl that i like and really want to go out with. but she broke up ... A: if your already friends with her then thats a good start. continue to be friends with her and talk ... | |
| About girl I am seing :) | 11/13/2005 |
| Q: Uhhm, pretty simple question I think. I've been seing this girl, Jenny, for about the past 3-4 ... A: give her time and space to open up to you. she will respect you for that. dont keep asking her what ... | |
| i'm not sure what to do | 11/3/2005 |
| Q: I am 19 years old and I have just recently met a really great guy, however I am in a dilemma. When ... A: i guess you have to decide if he is worth waiting around on or not. he sounds confused right now and ... | |
| Obsession | 11/2/2005 |
| Q: I'm 18 and live in Central Cali. Recently I met this guy (22) and he seems pretty cool. From the ... A: if your really scared of him then i would not see him before you go. it sounds like your a pretty ... | |
| long distance/sex | 10/31/2005 |
| Q: Hey I was recently in a long distance relationship with a girl and we really love eachother alot, ... A: maybe she thinks you are seeing her for the sex only. if that is the case then there is nothing you ... | |
| boys | 10/30/2005 |
| Q: hey, there is this guy i used to go out with. After we split up we kind of stopped talking but and ... A: i think you should talk to him first and see how he feels. i wouldnt go to him and say your deeply ... | |
| help no one can | 10/19/2005 |
| Q: I am 16 and I have a 18 year old boyfriend that I have been with for 2 years and 7 months. I love ... A: it sounds like he probably likes you but i think you need to just ask him. invite him over if you ... | |
| Strengthening Lost Love | 10/9/2005 |
| Q: I really need your help, I have no one else to turn, I am really sad. I just want to start from the ... A: you only met the girl for one day and talked after that. john, you really dont know this girl. how ... | |
| I'm 18, he's 20 | 10/8/2005 |
| Q: I've started going out with this twenty year-old guy that I met over MySpace. (I'm kind of ... A: its normal to be horny and want to have sex. by the 4th date i think you know if this is something ... | |
| Virginity | 10/5/2005 |
| Q: My name is Igor, i'm 23 and i'm from Russia (sorry, if my english is not perfect) :) A couple of ... A: the best thing i can tell you is to talk to her. i know she is shy and all but if you two dont ... | |
| How To. | 9/6/2005 |
| Q: Ive been friends with this girl for about 1 year and i want to know how to make the first move ... A: talk to her about it. see if she feels the same way as you. tell her you were thinking about your ... | |
| Friends? | 9/3/2005 |
| Q: Ok. I am Nikki (age 13). I am in the 7th grade and my best friend's name is Matt (age 13). I have ... A: i know its not easy. i hear you and understand how you feel. but how can you make a guy like you ... | |
| i like my best friend | 8/31/2005 |
| Q: i'm 17 years old and i've never had a boyfriend before i'm really shy and self concoious, but when i ... A: its hard when your best friends and one wants more. i think if he wanted more then friends he would ... | |
| Ex boyfriend | 8/29/2005 |
| Q: a year ago i was with my boyfriend; James, but we split 4 months later. He went back out with his ... A: i would stay away from him. he sounds like a louser and a user if he has cheated on his gf 5 times. ... | |
| Break ups.. | 8/24/2005 |
| Q: I'm a senior in high school and i've been with this girl on and off for about a year and a half. ... A: i dont know. but i do know that if you want to try and get her back you should back off from her and ... | |
| My Guy | 8/20/2005 |
| Q: Sandi, Hey! Thank you so much for your time... I am very confused about one of my friends. ... A: ask him how he feels about you. be open and honest with him and let him know how you feel. be ... | |
| Friends with Benefits.. | 8/18/2005 |
| Q: My ex-boyfriend and I recently broke up about 2 weeks ago and it's really confusing for me because ... A: listen to yourself. you are right, you need to move on. he is using you for sex. and there is a good ... | |
| help please! | 8/14/2005 |
| Q: my name is Bernardo I have a problem a was a with a girl. For about one mounth, and one day we ... A: have you talked to her? ask her how she feels now. dont be over bearing or act like you have to have ... | |
| First Date | 8/10/2005 |
| Q: Im 17 and I have never been on a date before. There is this girl that I'm kind of friends with and I ... A: i think a first date is a great time to get flowers. what to do? find out what she likes. maybe she ... | |
| girl | 8/9/2005 |
| Q: I like this girl who I see in youth group but does not know how to approach her. HOw shall I ask her ... A: go up to her and say hello. try to find out what she is in to and talk about it. start with small ... | |
| I miss her | 8/6/2005 |
| Q: Hey Sandi, first off let me thank you in advance just for being here helping people and hopefully ... A: there is nothing you can do to get her back. in fact if you keep trying to you will probaly push her ... | |
| What does it mean | 8/2/2005 |
| Q: My girlfriend dumped me about six months ago. I was devestated and I still had feelings for her and ... A: dont read anything in to it. take it slow. i think there is a good chance she likes you and may want ... | |
| Friend or more? | 7/29/2005 |
| Q: I have a friend that I have known this guy, Jake for a long time we went to school together since ... A: i would be open and honest with him. it seems you guys can talk about anything so this should be no ... | |
| what should i say? | 7/27/2005 |
| Q: I am 15, my girlfriend is almost 14, we have been going out for almost 3 months now, and we havent ... A: forget about her. she sounds like an idiot anyway. if it will make you feel better then you can call ... | |
| How do deal with this? | 7/21/2005 |
| Q: Hey, I was surfin and found this site. Anyway, my gf is shy. Me i like shy girls, but she is the ... A: you should be open and honest with your gf. tell her that your shy and feel uncomfortable. if you ... | |
| Crush | 7/6/2005 |
| Q: I really need some other opinions on my situation, and although it could be pages long with details, ... A: I think he probably likes you that is why he is teasing and flirting with you. i dont think the age ... | |
| age for my daughter | 6/26/2005 |
| Q: How old should my daughter be to let her hold hands, to let the boyfriend put his arm around her and ... A: i think it depends on how mature she is right now. i was 14 when i went out with a guy on a date. i ... | |
| i just want platonic relationship | 6/25/2005 |
| Q: why do girls assume that there is “something” in the actions the guy had shown well in fact there is ... A: the truth. girls want to think guys are atracted to them so they assume when a guy talks to them and ... | |
| Guy Troubles | 6/19/2005 |
| Q: I'm 22. I have this guy who is 23 who I always thought was cute. Well couple weeks ago, he called ... A: tell him what you told me. tell him you want to make sure he understands you like him and that ... | |
| hi, Recently my best mate... | 6/18/2005 |
| Q: Recently my best mate has been flirting so much with my ex boyfriend who i still really like but she ... A: he is your ex boyfriend and if she wants to ruin her own relationship with her current boyfriend ... | |
| what do I do? | 6/11/2005 |
| Q: Recently me and my boyfriend have been making out it's fun and I like it. We've took things nice and ... A: have you tried oral yet? guys usually like oral and its safe. well you cant get pregnamt from it. ... | |
| hello... i hope you can help... | 6/4/2005 |
| Q: .. i hope you can help me... see me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and seven months, ... A: your probably young and i think its ok to not be tied down to one guy right now. i dont know how ... | |
| hi, A few weeks ago my boyfriend... | 6/3/2005 |
| Q: A few weeks ago my boyfriend split up with me! The reason he did was cuz i was really shy and we ... A: maybe go out with him without your friends. that way you can be more comfortable to talk to him. he ... | |
| dating.. | 6/1/2005 |
| Q: What is the difference in Dating and going out? A: i guess it depends on the people involved. some may just want to "go out" as friends and not think ... | |
| Love in a relationship? | 5/26/2005 |
| Q: To whom it may concern: I am currently in a relationship with my girlfriend for about three months. ... A: clearly she is still in love with her ex and you need to decide for yourself if you want to keep ... | |
| Dating A Minor | 5/14/2005 |
| Q: I'm a 17-year-old male, and am going to be 18 in about 9 months. I just started dating a 13-year-old ... A: Hey Jared, I have no idea what the laws are. I dont live there and I am young myself. I would think ... | |
| was i used? | 11/17/2004 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend on and off for nearly three years. I didn't like him that much when i ... A: I think he is probably scared because maybe he thinks he didnt do well or something like that. GIve ... | |
| Love | 11/9/2004 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been going together for a year and some months. I really love him and he ... A: Hey LaNene, I think he probably does love you for you and not the sex. Believe me its normal for ... | |
| braking up | 10/24/2004 |
| Q: I was going to brake up with my boyfriend over the internet, but after getting a lot of advice from ... A: Sorry I hope this email is not to late!! I think quick is fine but maybe you should give him some ... | |
| A girl i like | 10/7/2004 |
| Q: Ok i am very confused right now and i am in a tough situation. There is this girl that i like(a ... A: Steve, Wait a while and see if anything changes. She may just want to be friends with you. But she ... | |
| Confusion to the max | 10/1/2004 |
| Q: My question. Ok there is a really good friend I have, I dont mean like friend Hi, I mean best ... A: Dont do things to get even with other people. They will get whats coming to them in time. MOve on ... | |
| hi, my name is ashley and... | 9/8/2004 |
| Q: my name is ashley and I am 17 years old. I have been dating this wonderful guy for about a year now ... A: The taste of cum is kinda different. Im not sure how to explain it. Kinda salty and a little sour ... | |
| sex | 9/3/2004 |
| Q: i'm 15 and i've got a boyfreind who is also 15....and we've only been going out for a month...but ... A: Hey Jenny, Dont see him when your horny. Thats the only way I can think of that would keep you ... | |
| ... | 8/25/2004 |
| Q: My name is Angelina, and i'm a 17 year old female from Central CA. For the past three years my ... A: Hey Angelina, Sounds like he probably does like you. Especially since he doesnt really talk to your ... | |
| Is my boyfriend a perv...? | 8/19/2004 |
| Q: I spent the last couple of days at the shore with my friend, and we were talking about how some guys ... A: Hey Katie, No not all guys are perverts. Sounds like your friend may have had some guys who were ... | |
| is he using me? | 8/4/2004 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been going out for over 2 months. I'm 15 next week, and he wants to take ... A: he could be but I doubt it. He probably justs wants to kiss you because he likes you. I dont think ... | |
| More than one crush? | 7/26/2004 |
| Q: I know I know...it's normal to have more than one crush, right? In that case, then why do I feel so ... A: Hey Amelia, Dont stress about it. Your young and its ok. Maybe you should go out with a few guys ... | |
| Silly..I know | 7/24/2004 |
| Q: First off I would like to say thank you for taking your time out to read and answer my question. It ... A: Slow down.....you just met the guy and you just got out of another relationship. If you think you ... | |
| relationship problems.... | 7/23/2004 |
| Q: Ok, I actully have a few questions... My 2 month anniversery just passed with my boyfriend. ... A: Katie, I dont think its a big deal if he forgot two months. But dont forget about it either. If he ... | |
| does she have a crush on me | 7/22/2004 |
| Q: "I was wondering if you could help me with a question I had. I wanted to know if a friend of mine ... A: It sounds like she may have a crush on you. Do you know if she is bi or gay? Would be interested in ... | |
| Does she likes me | 7/15/2004 |
| Q: I've know this girl for quite some time but never saw her as a love interest. However in 2002 she ... A: I dont think she is playing mind games with you. Maybe she is just shy and doesnt know what to do. I ... | |
| does he like me more then a friend? | 7/14/2004 |
| Q: ..Tony,a realy close guy friend of mine, and me hang out every day... even if we just sit at home ... A: Hey Katie, Has he always done things like this? If so then I would say maybe its just how he is. If ... | |
| Does making out involve the tounge?? | 7/11/2004 |
| Q: Most people have said it does...but does making out absolutly HAVE to involve the tounge? Is there ... A: No, making out doesnt always involve the tounge. Most likely your boyfriend will try to use his ... | |
| problem | 7/7/2004 |
| Q: I have a problem and it all begins with a long story. I like girl 1 and she liked me but then like a ... A: Sounds like you either need to decide which girl you want to date and tell the other sorry. Or dump ... | |
| his profile | 6/26/2004 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a month now, and just when I think things ... A: That's why I always tell people to be open and honest! :) I wouldn't say anything to him since you ... | |
| movie date | 6/14/2004 |
| Q: Ok, so I just got my first boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. As you probably already know, I'm not very ... A: Yeah it can nervous on your first date. Just relax and enjoy. If he wants to hold your hand or put ... | |
| i need help | 6/10/2004 |
| Q: .. i need a little advie ok there's this guy i really like, he likes me also but the problem is ... A: Hey Sunshine, I would date him. If he likes you and you like him then go for it. If he really ... | |
| 2nd date | 4/27/2004 |
| Q: hey..... recently me and a friend became, well, more then friends, we realized how much we had in ... A: Cool, Im glad to here you both are having a good time. First let me say that I think a "first kiss" ... | |
| im 16, i realy like this guy... | 4/10/2004 |
| Q: im 16, i realy like this guy but he went out with my friend and now that they've broken up i wanna ... A: Start by talking to him a little. A few hello's here and there. How you doing? Whats new? Stuff like ... | |
| Alright, probably about 6... | 4/5/2004 |
| Q: Alright, probably about 6 months ago me and my girlfriend broke up after a really long and serious ... A: I would be honest with her and tell her that you still have feelings for her and you want to not ... | |
| Dating Issues | 3/21/2004 |
| Q: I'm 18 years old and I'm a Senior in High School. I've started to hang out with some college kids ... A: I liked what one of your friends said. Just take it slow and dont push anything with her. If ... | |
| prom night! | 3/10/2004 |
| Q: well it's my last year of high school and ya know what that means...yup, prom night! so anyway, ... A: I think what you said about asking her out is perfect. Start with a little small talk and then just ... | |
| girls | 3/4/2004 |
| Q: hey im a 17 year old guy and i dont drink-till im 18.when i go out i find it impossible to get the ... A: Don't use drinking as a way to talk to girls. Your friends must be insecure if they have to dring in ... | |
| Dose she like me?? | 2/17/2004 |
| Q: ok first off im only 15 and she is 16 and i knew her for like a year and just now had these ... A: I would ask her how she feels about you. It sounds like you may be in love with her a little to ... | |
| what to do | 2/11/2004 |
| Q: I asked a girl I absolutley love to the turnabout dance, I needed to ask as it was the only way to ... A: Hey Wolf, I know this is probably going to sounds dumb but just be yourself. I would treat her very ... | |
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