| Subject | Date Asked |
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| Dating | 11/20/2009 |
Q: Alright, so there's this guy I've been talking to named hunter and he's like amazzzzing like we're ...
A: Lauren, beware. This guy is sending up red flags of abusiveness. Putting himself in situations ...
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| Confused about this deal | 11/18/2009 |
Q: If a girl stops texting me out of no where even after she's told me she likes me, we've made out and ...
A: Quentin, I can't answer that. You'll have to talk to her. Don't text. Texting does NOT make for ...
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| I don't understand my ex girlfriend | 11/17/2009 |
Q: its been a while since I come for your great advice.... im 17 my girlfriend....or ex girlfriend now ...
A: Chris, you can't fix her. Like I always say, the only thing you can control is YOU. If she's ...
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| What should I do? | 11/15/2009 |
Q: Now there is this girl and she is a friend of my little brother's. Now I have known her for like 2 ...
A: Kurt, at your age, it is never good to date a sibling's friend. It can mess up their friendship, ...
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| I really like a nice Christian girl | 11/14/2009 |
Q: First off, I have read your instructions on using proper English when typing my question and you can ...
A: Sam, the only thing we can control in lives is ourselves. We can't control if someone likes us, but ...
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| Long Distance Relationships | 11/13/2009 |
Q: I've currently been dating my boyfriend, who is 18 and I'm 16, for 1 yr and 3 months. Things have ...
A: Sam, I appreciate your question. Expecting replies to every email, text, and phone call - ...
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| My son is stressed, frightened and unhappy due to the principal in college. | 11/12/2009 |
Q: My 16-year-old son has recently told me that he was called to the office by the principal in college ...
A: Please file a police report. If this man video taped the act, some residue of it should be on his ...
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| dating | 11/11/2009 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now, and we have gotten into numerous stupid ...
A: A few things pop into my head as I read your email: 1. What do you WANT out of a relationship? ...
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| Teens and talking on the phone | 11/10/2009 |
Q: My question is regarding my 12 year old son who is in the 7th grade and will be 13 in January. I got ...
A: Steph, I really appreciate your question, and I can also appreciate your concerns. But yes, I do ...
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| Help! Please!! | 11/8/2009 |
Q: ok. i like this guy, and we are friends. we sit together all the time on the bus. one day he wanted ...
A: Jackie, define "friend." You seem confused about what this means, because when someone is a friend, ...
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| meaning | 11/6/2009 |
Q: What does this mean?Does she want to or not? What does it mean when I tell a girl I was thinking ...
A: Alex, first off you shouldn't tell a girl "I was thinking that we should hang out sometime,just as ...
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| quick question about a girl situation... | 11/4/2009 |
Q: how's it going, suzi? just curious about something. i'll break the sentences up so i can make this ...
A: Matt, you shouldn't read into her pupils or the timing or her looks or anything like that. Trying ...
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| Cake | 11/3/2009 |
Q: I'm going through a crisis of lust and love. Kind of. I'll explain. I have a very close guy friend, ...
A: Jasmin, being "unfaithful" isn't reserved for sex alone. A person is unfaithful the moment they can ...
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| problem | 10/30/2009 |
Q: What should I do?I want to go out with her. There's a girl that lives about 35 minutes away,and I ...
A: You're dealing with a few things that are generally "no no's" in dating: 1. She lives too far, and ...
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| Older popular girls | 10/29/2009 |
Q: I am a 15 year old boy that has a crush on a sophmore that would happen to be one of the most ...
A: Colton, please do not use your last name on sites like these. I want you to be safe, and last names ...
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| long term relationship | 10/28/2009 |
Q: im dating this girl for about 7 months now. most of our time has been realy special but in between ...
A: David, you are young, and so is she. What you are experiencing is the cycle that most early ...
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| help...again? | 10/27/2009 |
Q: i once sent you a message, i can't remember about what, but this time, i want you to more like do me ...
A: Start by not saying things like "if you don't reply, it's ok, as it is stupid." This is NOT stupid. ...
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| How do i take the step forward in my relationship? | 10/22/2009 |
Q: i was looking for a place where i could share my problems and get expert advice and found this great ...
A: Kelvin, thank you for sharing with me. It sounds an awful lot like your girl is "guarded." She's ...
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| unrequited love | 10/20/2009 |
Q: (I am 17 she's 16) Because I loved a friend of mine and she didn't tell me that she only wanted to ...
A: I understand. She wants to be loved, which is probably why she asked, but she doesn't want to love ...
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| unrequited love | 10/19/2009 |
Q: (I am 17 she's 16) Because I loved a friend of mine and she didn't tell me that she only wanted to ...
A: Kyle. Thank you for your question. First, don't use your friends to talk to anyone ever about ...
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| Relationships and Self improvment | 10/10/2009 |
Q: Well to start of I'm a girl and am 16 soon to be 17 in a few weeks and am trying to become the out ...
A: Sicily, my first instinct is to tell you to stop "projecting yourself" into a fantasy situation. ...
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| dating | 10/7/2009 |
Q: sorry to bother you. I have a question on dating in highschool. im 17 years old, male. ive been an ...
A: Chris, this is a really amazing question. Thank you so much for sharing it with me. I think your ...
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| Confusion | 9/28/2009 |
Q: I am 14-year-old girl and I have liked a 20-year-old guy for a long time. He seemed to like me too ...
A: 14 is still below the "age of consent" in almost every part of the US. Your 20 year old guy broke ...
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| My boyfriend | 9/26/2009 |
Q: I am seventeen and so is my boyfriend. We are seniors in high school and have been dating for about ...
A: You can't really judge him based on his past relationships. Unless we marry the first person we ...
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| My boyfriend | 9/25/2009 |
Q: I am seventeen and so is my boyfriend. We are seniors in high school and have been dating for about ...
A: Nay, you sound like an amazing, intelligent, mature girl. He's very lucky to have you. Every ...
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| it's about me | 9/24/2009 |
Q: i always feel inferior! i just never believe my parents or my sister when they tell me i am really ...
A: Sherine, I feel as though I've found a letter I wrote about myself when I was fifteen. At the same ...
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| A huge mess cont | 9/23/2009 |
Q: I emailed you a while ago concerning my situation. I realize you answer thousands of these, and you ...
A: You must be very sensitive to WANT to interpret her lack of action. The hardest thing might be ...
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| 18 boy and a younger girlfriend | 9/21/2009 |
Q: My son just turned 18. He is dating a girl who is 17. We live in oregon. I don't want him to get ...
A: Check with Oregon's state laws and with your city and county laws. For the most part, state laws ...
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| I'm too shy | 9/20/2009 |
Q: Well, i liked this guy, and he likes me too. he asked me to be his girlfriend, and i said yes. ...
A: Elise, he asked you to be his girlfriend knowing you were shy, quiet, reserved. That's the girl he ...
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| A huge mess cont | 9/18/2009 |
Q: I emailed you a while ago concerning my situation. I realize you answer thousands of these, and you ...
A: Steve, I'm a huge believer in that expression "the ball's in your court." You apologized already, ...
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| cum | 9/17/2009 |
Q: i want to make my girlfriend cum while i masturbating her, but she is virgin is it possible? Thanks
A: Being a virgin does not prevent a person from reaching climax. Age can have a lot to do with it, as ...
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| Really unsure.... | 9/16/2009 |
Q: Im 17 years old and im really not sure if relationships are for me. I never had a girlfriend and ...
A: Sean, it sounds like you just haven't found a girl who fits you. A lot of times this is because we ...
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| Teen dating - ages | 9/15/2009 |
Q: My daughter is 14.5 (freshman) and a junior (just turned 17) likes her..I think she likes him as ...
A: Gail, you sound like an amazing mother. To respect your daughter rather than to want to control her ...
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| is he really into me? | 9/13/2009 |
Q: So i been dating this guy since the beginning of may. We would normally see each other on weekends. ...
A: Emma, yes, a guy who shows you his photo album and introduces you to his mother (not to mention the ...
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| going backwards | 9/9/2009 |
Q: my names Jessica (age 18). About two weeks ago Daniel (age 18) my boyfriend of three months broke up ...
A: Jessica, boys are not oxygen. You don't have to go from one to the other to survive. If a scuba ...
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| well.. does he still like me | 9/8/2009 |
Q: hey. uhm. me n my bf had been together since october 2008 up to may 2009, we've been on and off. he ...
A: Stacy, judging by what you have said, no. I don't think he's showing you much loyalty or respect. ...
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| what's going on | 9/7/2009 |
Q: I wrote to u b4 about problems with this girl and about how to get her back, well there is a problem ...
A: Christopher, I am happy to be able to help you. I don't think I'm qualified to offer advice on how ...
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| what's going on | 9/6/2009 |
Q: I wrote to u b4 about problems with this girl and about how to get her back, well there is a problem ...
A: Christopher, I remember your question from before. I'm glad you chose to confide in me again. The ...
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| Ex-Boyfriend | 9/5/2009 |
Q: First, thank you so much for any help. I'm sorry this is so long! So back in January I started ...
A: Valerie, thank you for sharing your question with me. It sounds like he's enjoying his new-found ...
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| Is it illegal? | 8/30/2009 |
Q: He's 33, I'm 17...we are not having sex. We just want the chance to date and get to know each other ...
A: Jenn, you'll have to consult with your local authorities about legality. I can't answer legal ...
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| dating a minor. | 8/23/2009 |
Q: were 26 moths apart. weve been together for 3 months and 2 weeks now, and my parents love him. were ...
A: It's different from state to state, and it may even be different within parts of a state. You will ...
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| My boyfriend and his friend | 8/22/2009 |
Q: ..I have known my boyfriend for a year before we went out and we have been dating for 7 months and a ...
A: Even odder that your boyfriend puts up with this childish behavior at his age. I assumed by the ...
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| My boyfriend and his friend | 8/19/2009 |
Q: ..I have known my boyfriend for a year before we went out and we have been dating for 7 months and a ...
A: Haniya, it sounds like you are going through a surprisingly similar situation to my own. Maybe by ...
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| asking a girl out.that you don't know | 8/16/2009 |
Q: how do i go up to a girl that i have never seen in my life and ask her on a date.or do i wait and ...
A: Jared, you don't ask a girl out if you don't know her first. If you've never seen her in your life, ...
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| well.. does he still like me | 8/11/2009 |
Q: hey. uhm. me n my bf had been together since october 2008 up to may 2009, we've been on and off. he ...
A: Miley, sometimes listening to your friends is good, especially when you are getting all the signals ...
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| I don't understand my ex girlfriend | 8/10/2009 |
Q: I met her at church a year ago, and what a year its been, we have been back and forth the whole time ...
A: Chris, I'm glad you clarified those things for me. It had actually been bugging me enough that I had ...
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| Controlling/Abusive Relationship? | 8/9/2009 |
Q: I just got out of a relationship with a guy that I thought I loved, but now that I look back on our ...
A: Vanessa, I am so sorry you feel worthless. You aren't. You've experienced something most women ...
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| I don't understand my ex girlfriend | 8/7/2009 |
Q: I met her at church a year ago, and what a year its been, we have been back and forth the whole time ...
A: Christopher, everything you are telling me says that this is NOT a healthy relationship. First, ...
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| whats wrong with me?? | 8/5/2009 |
Q: Anyway so im a junior in high school and im not akward with guys, i have a lot of friends and not ...
A: Maddie, there are many, MANY girls who haven't had a serious boyfriend by your age. Like you, I did ...
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| A huge mess | 8/4/2009 |
Q: I've been coping with this for a while and I've tried all outlets. I want to get the advice of an ...
A: It sounds like we are both thinking along the same lines. Overall, it sounds best that it didn't ...
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| A huge mess | 8/3/2009 |
Q: I've been coping with this for a while and I've tried all outlets. I want to get the advice of an ...
A: My thought is that flowers might send the wrong message. A single flower, non-romantic, like a ...
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| A huge mess | 8/2/2009 |
Q: I've been coping with this for a while and I've tried all outlets. I want to get the advice of an ...
A: Steve, you fell into the same trap that about 90% of young people do: you rely too much on the ...
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| I can't stop thinking about this girl | 8/1/2009 |
Q: I may have asked you before, sorry if I did. This girl is all I can think about. I could not sleep ...
A: Yours is a common story - common in that it involves the LEAST personal and LEAST romantic form of ...
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| A Little Confused | 6/18/2009 |
Q: Im a little confused. I asked this girl out who i work with most of the week, after we got out of ...
A: Fred, you sound like an amazing guy. Several things you said make you a great catch: "I was being ...
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| Hi | 6/11/2009 |
Q: I have a problem and I don't know what to do. Recently I've been thinking a lot about other guy. I ...
A: So if I understand you correctly, Tom, you are having some feelings that you think might be ...
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| Broadening Your Horizons | 6/10/2009 |
Q: Hey Suzi, I'm 16 and I have a question about... well friends in general i suppose. I have a great ...
A: I was in the middle of answering this question when I lost my internet connection. I don't know if ...
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| My boyfriend | 6/9/2009 |
Q: I'm 15 and I've been dating my boyfriend for almost six months, but we've been on and off for around ...
A: Kelsey, each letter you write makes me sadder than the last. It sounds like you are in a ...
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| My boyfriend | 6/8/2009 |
Q: I'm 15 and I've been dating my boyfriend for almost six months, but we've been on and off for around ...
A: Part of his controlling you, Kelsey, is making you ashamed to tell anyone. You say, "i don't want ...
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| My boyfriend | 6/7/2009 |
Q: I'm 15 and I've been dating my boyfriend for almost six months, but we've been on and off for around ...
A: Kelsey, it sounds as though you are describing someone who has an extremely low self-esteem and who ...
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| Boyfriend joining the Military | 6/6/2009 |
Q: My name is Samantha. I am 19 years old and I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. ...
A: The thing is, Samantha, that you are already sounding more grown up than you make your parents out ...
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| How to know if you like a guy or not | 6/2/2009 |
Q: Hey, I'm 16 years old and sort of having trouble in the whole dating category right now. I'd like to ...
A: Katie, I'm PROUD of you. You have an extremely mature and clear view of what is happening around ...
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| Again | 6/1/2009 |
Q: Its Alexia well.. My friend has just gotten a boyfriend and i really don't know why but i'm jealous ...
A: Alexia. Are you jealous that SHE has a boyfriend? Do you miss being the center of her attention? ...
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| Feel Alone and Don't like being shy | 5/30/2009 |
Q: I'm 17 and a junior in highschool. I have always been a pretty shy person, and there's just certain ...
A: Emilee, it sounds to me like you need to get to know yourself. What are your values and interests? ...
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| A harsh friendship | 5/28/2009 |
Q: This is a little complicated. So first off, my problem is with a girl I've known since I was in ...
A: Don, I'm curious to know what you need to "forgive her" for. Think about that. You cannot blame ...
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| Help! Urgently!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | 5/24/2009 |
Q: I am turning thirteen tomorrow(Memorial Day) and I have no clue what I am going to do. My dad ...
A: Pack a picnic in the park. Have your friends pack food, too, and take some music (with speakers) so ...
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| my boyfriend | 5/21/2009 |
Q: ok well, I'm going out with this i really really like and he says he really likes me (he was the one ...
A: Emma, I do think it's odd that he sleeps over at his house and she at his. If my boyfriend slept ...
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| My first date ever. | 5/19/2009 |
Q: So I got the courage to ask this girl I know out to the movies and I realized I don't know a thing ...
A: Bryan, I really appreciate your question. I think I can help you, and I doubt you'll find my advice ...
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| friends or boyfriend | 5/18/2009 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months. Our relationship is so perfect in my eyes and ...
A: Did your best friend witness the discussion? If so, why would the boy have said these things in ...
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| I am stressed out (is it over nothing?) | 5/17/2009 |
Q: my stress is caused by me thinking if she likes me or not our age difference is a year and six ...
A: I'm not sure, Kyle. Why don't you tell me a little more. What does the stress feel like, during ...
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| Ex-Boyfriend | 5/16/2009 |
Q: This past June (almost a year ago) I broke up with my first real boyfriend of almost two year. Our ...
A: It sounds a lot like you may have jump started this boy's social and dating lives. Did he have ...
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| how do I get to know her again | 5/14/2009 |
Q: I am a 13 year old boy. There is this girl I have liked since primary school. I am now in the 9th ...
A: JD. I think what you are asking for might be impossible. How else will you get to know a person ...
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| First Kiss | 5/13/2009 |
Q: Here's the thing; I'm 16 years old and haven't had my first kiss yet. I'm currently 7 months into a ...
A: More on Plan B: Make eye contact. The eyes are the windows to the soul. Pay attention to where ...
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| college/long distance | 5/12/2009 |
Q: Hey, My name is Alyssa and I am going to be turning 19 next month. My boyfriend and i started dating ...
A: Alyssa, I don't think you are going to like my answer, but it comes from years of experience, ...
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| First Kiss | 5/11/2009 |
Q: Here's the thing; I'm 16 years old and haven't had my first kiss yet. I'm currently 7 months into a ...
A: Sharon, what you and your guy has isn't quite what I'd call a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, ...
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| Keeping the Relationship | 5/10/2009 |
Q: I'm Erica and I'm 15. This past year I just started to date my best friend since 2nd grade. We know ...
A: I doubt he got together with you because he thought you were a great relationship manager or ...
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| Painful Predicament | 5/9/2009 |
Q: I'm sorry in advance for how long I know this is going to be, but I really need to vent to someone. ...
A: Claudia, I apologize for providing "too much" advice. This system limits the number of emails you ...
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| best friend & her bf | 5/8/2009 |
Q: my best friend who is 16 is dating this guy who is 17 almost 18, and i'm scared for her. first off ...
A: Emily, if her parents are aware and if you have talked to her, it might be time for a little tough ...
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| Is it possible to rekindle? | 5/6/2009 |
Q: I'm 17. Ok, my story is kinda confusing. But, I dated this girl for about 4 and a half months. She ...
A: I'm not sure why you had to tell her you were "checking out" another girl - unless I am totally ...
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| best friend & her bf | 5/5/2009 |
Q: my best friend who is 16 is dating this guy who is 17 almost 18, and i'm scared for her. first off ...
A: Emily, research "abusers" and learn as much as you can about their behavior. Your friend has ...
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| lingering obsession | 5/3/2009 |
Q: Ok, my thing is kind of long, but I will make it as short as possible. You see, there is this ...
A: First, can you say "cop out?" I totally agree with the voice in your head - that this guy lacks the ...
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| why???? | 5/2/2009 |
Q: ok umm i have known this boy for 3yrs and he always smiles at me n try to talk to me so 1 day i ask ...
A: Azaria, please rewrite your question in normal English. I have dozens of questions, and can't take ...
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| Painful Predicament | 5/1/2009 |
Q: I'm sorry in advance for how long I know this is going to be, but I really need to vent to someone. ...
A: Claudia, all I can really say is "imagine how horrible it would be if you tried to change his mind ...
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| Teen Relationship | 4/29/2009 |
Q: I'm 16 and I recently told a close guy friend that I like him. He said yes, so I guess we're now in ...
A: Carrie, I hope you will excuse my informality. I've been out of town and am behind on answering ...
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| ex-boyfriend | 4/27/2009 |
Q: I am currently a 17 year old senior who is about to graduate. My sophomore year, i started dating my ...
A: What you are describing is the normal "learning" that everyone experiences when they are forced to ...
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| Teen Relationship | 4/26/2009 |
Q: I'm 16 and I recently told a close guy friend that I like him. He said yes, so I guess we're now in ...
A: Carrie, you are certainly in the right section. Relationships can't be forced. I get a lot of ...
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| dating | 4/23/2009 |
Q: i am a 15 year old who is dating a 17 year old. she is going to turn 18 in october. is it illegal to ...
A: It's a common misconception that the age is determined in years. From the limited amount I know, ...
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| Over Protective Parents. | 4/20/2009 |
Q: I was dating a girl for 5 years. From my stupid mistakes I got arrested and her parents won't let ...
A: Your subject implies her parents are overly protective, but you yourself gave ME (and I don't even ...
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| dating age gap/age of consent | 4/17/2009 |
Q: I live in Minnesota and have two questions as it relates to these subjects. First, this girl I ...
A: I am not a legal expert, so I can't answer legal questions. However, I've never heard of a state in ...
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| well... | 4/15/2009 |
Q: my name is Candace. I am 15, and a sophomore in high school. My problem is kind of weird...to me ...
A: Candace, what you are describing is normal, and you will outgrow it. Romance and dating require a ...
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| This Guy... | 4/14/2009 |
Q: Well... i really like this guy and we are family friends ! once we went for a trip all of us his ...
A: Swearing is a show of disrespect, and love cannot exist where respect does not exist. Don't let ...
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| abandonment | 4/13/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend and I are in love, so much because I have been there for her throughout some of the ...
A: Matthew, it sounds like you have done amazing things for this girl. I totally understand when you ...
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| dating/relationship | 4/12/2009 |
Q: I've dating this guy for almost two months. When we first met we would talk for hours, and when we ...
A: Rae, you need to ask him if he said that and why. Secondly, ask him why he said something to ...
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| sexual relationship | 4/11/2009 |
Q: suzi... was wondering, well see i do like my grilfriend and find her sexually attractive, but the ...
A: Thor, try to explain to me in greater detail what is happening. Don't be shy. I can't see you and ...
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| 'Friends with Benefits?' | 4/10/2009 |
Q: My name's Jessica (18), About a month or two ago, I met Cameron (19) and we hit it off almost ...
A: This is the question I get the most, and it's always the girl who falls for the boy. I'm not ...
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| my parents wont let me grow up! | 4/9/2009 |
Q: My problem lies within my parents. My parents are strict fundamental Christians with my father ...
A: Yes, Carroll, I think that communicating with your parents with a balance of facts (information) and ...
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| my parents wont let me grow up! | 4/8/2009 |
Q: My problem lies within my parents. My parents are strict fundamental Christians with my father ...
A: Wow, Carroll, there are very few emails that strike me as "urgent," but yours certainly qualified. ...
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| is my friend a jerk?? | 4/7/2009 |
Q: I'm a 20yo female. My guy friend who i've known for nearly 3 years now is also a really good friend ...
A: Okay, that one guy was a jerk, the one who said he never liked you, but not all guys are like that. ...
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| is my friend a jerk?? | 4/5/2009 |
Q: I'm a 20yo female. My guy friend who i've known for nearly 3 years now is also a really good friend ...
A: No, Jerk is too strong a word. As a matter of fact, I think you BOTH share in the blame for what ...
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| love or pitty | 4/3/2009 |
Q: i have been dating TOD for a year and a couple of months but then we broke up because he was ...
A: Thabile (beautiful name!!), Please ask yourself what you want in a man, long term. What qualities ...
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| BOYFRIEND | 4/2/2009 |
Q: I know you said to keep it brief but it's not possible Sorry!!! XX My boyfriend broke up with me ...
A: Sophie, it's not unusual at your age and his to fall in and out of love. Both boys and girls are ...
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| sex issue | 3/31/2009 |
Q: First, I take sex as a big deal, as it should be. After having a boyfriend for almost a year, I ...
A: You're right that there's no being a virgin again, but there is certain still an opportunity to ...
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| Why isn't this girl replying ? | 3/30/2009 |
Q: This girl & i have been texting each other lately & things have been going well. We went out as ...
A: Dan, have you asked her if everything is okay? Phrase it in a way she can't wiggle out of: Have I ...
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| I want a girlfriend | 3/26/2009 |
Q: Well I problem is I am a shy guy and I have a quiet voice I try to ask go girls out I always be a ...
A: Hermilo, by NOT wanting to be rejected, you are already "being rejected" because you aren't even ...
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| Sudden change in persona... | 3/24/2009 |
Q: I'm 17 and I met this guy in school and one day started iming him. We just did little ims back and ...
A: Katie, I have been in similar situations with friends and boyfriends in the past and have found that ...
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| Dating a Navy Boy | 3/23/2009 |
Q: I am 20 years old, & dating a Navy Boy, who is amazing. But based on my horrible last relationship, ...
A: It was really kind of an immature thing to say on his part. No one can control their feelings like ...
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| Hello again! | 3/21/2009 |
Q: its Maria again remember you told me to reply to you about the guy i like about the things that he ...
A: It sounds like what you are lacking is forward, honest communication with this boy. There is a lot ...
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| Being with girlfriend for 3 1/2 years | 3/16/2009 |
Q: I woud like to thank you for taking the time to read this, me and my now ex-girlfriend we broke up ...
A: Jeff, I get this question a lot. Young people don't understand why their love doesn't last. It ...
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| Girlfriend | 3/15/2009 |
Q: Recently Ive been "seeing" a girl on my floor. By seeing i mean we have intercourse and she sleeps ...
A: James, I'm confused about two things: For one, when did having intercourse start coming before ...
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| please give me some advice! | 3/11/2009 |
Q: but the bad thing is i can't i havent got the confidence to go up to him and talk to him about it ...
A: Maria, please do some "homework" for me: Send me a list of the things he does that make you believe ...
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| Dating a Navy Boy | 3/9/2009 |
Q: I am 20 years old, & dating a Navy Boy, who is amazing. But based on my horrible last relationship, ...
A: Again, I think it all goes back to "Character." Yours is the only character you can control, so ...
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| Dating a Navy Boy | 3/8/2009 |
Q: I am 20 years old, & dating a Navy Boy, who is amazing. But based on my horrible last relationship, ...
A: Victoria, it sounds like you are carrying around a lot of past baggage. The problem with baggage is ...
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| What can I do? | 3/7/2009 |
Q: I guy I really like tried to kiss me and I turned my head away. He then told me he was just kidding, ...
A: Deirdre, the two of you are learning the finer points of romance together. He learned that kissing ...
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| New vs. Old | 3/6/2009 |
Q: So my ex and I dated for 3 years. We were both age 16, and I am 19 now same as her. She was amazing ...
A: It's natural to compare them, but be sensitive and never tell anyone. I'm safe, because I will keep ...
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| Drama. | 3/4/2009 |
Q: My name's Jessica, and Im 17. I wasn't sure what category my question fit under but you gave me some ...
A: Jessica, it's time you learned to stand up for yourself. Saying "I don't care what people say about ...
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| parent issues | 3/3/2009 |
Q: ok my girlfriends parents dont like me how do i get them to like me and me and my girlfriend are on ...
A: Robbie, other than the phone issue, do you have any ideas as to why they don't like you? Also, what ...
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| cheating | 3/1/2009 |
Q: "How do I get over the fact that my ex-boyfriend cheated on me? He had sex with another girl while ...
A: Averie, I don't think anyone ever gets "over it." That's why cheating is so painful. The scars can ...
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| dating a friend | 2/28/2009 |
Q: sorry, this is gonna be kinda long. i hope im asking the right person about this.....so im 14 and ...
A: Gabe, she's sending you all the signals, and if you don't act, she'll lose interest. Go slowly. ...
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| illegal teen dating | 2/23/2009 |
Q: please respond
A: Yes, more than likely your mom is correct. In most states, your relationship - sex or not - would ...
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| Prom excusse! | 2/17/2009 |
Q: . My boyfriend and i dont want to go to prom because of many reasons. (one because i went to my ...
A: Kate, the very idea that you don't want to tell your mom the real reason tells me you think there's ...
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| Boyfriend Blues | 2/16/2009 |
Q: Im Jessica and I'm dating a boy named Pablo were both 17 and in grade 12. This weekend we had ...
A: Jessica, you had every reason to be angry and upset. Valentines Day is the ONE day of the year that ...
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| friend dating! | 2/13/2009 |
Q: My friend met this guy 7-8 months ago. They are in the same college and are friends. I think they ...
A: Perhaps they get even more attention from the mystery of their affection as it is now and are afraid ...
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| friend dating! | 2/12/2009 |
Q: My friend met this guy 7-8 months ago. They are in the same college and are friends. I think they ...
A: Shruti, what do you hope is the outcome? Perhaps you have your hopes tied up in someone else's ...
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| Talk Issues | 2/7/2009 |
Q: Hey, im izzy and Im fifteen. Im dating this amazing guy Sammy and he's sixteen. So my issue is... At ...
A: That's odd, because it's usually the other way around: the guy's shy in person but Mr. Personality ...
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| Greg-dating . | 2/6/2009 |
Q: First I'd like to say thanks for yur advice. I have put your advice and used some of it which is ...
A: Greg, it sounds like she likes you in all the right ways. She just doesn't want to date, so the ...
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| Friendship | 2/4/2009 |
Q: I've been dealing with friendship since middle school. I'm a junior in high school now. My friend ...
A: I totally understand how you feel. Everyone needs a best friend, and everyone needs to feel as ...
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| Hey it's greg again | 2/3/2009 |
Q: Ya hey thanks for all the advice. I apolgize for my spelling on on my iPod . To start off here me ...
A: Greg, judging by what you've told me about the new girl, I'd say she's telling you that she wants to ...
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| Making a move | 2/1/2009 |
Q: Ok well theres this girl that goes to my highschool and I've never talked to her before, but I sort ...
A: Sam, don't ask a question you already know the answer to. THAT could be creepy. Instead, ask a ...
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| Too fast? | 1/31/2009 |
Q: Hey there I'm 18 (though i consider myself a teenager still) And i've known this guy for about a ...
A: Katie, this is an excellent question on many fronts. Thank you so much for having the courage and ...
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| Getting her back | 1/30/2009 |
Q: Well Basically I thought this girl I was sort of dealing with liked some other guy and that are ...
A: Sorry, James, but I can't help you win this girl back. In my opinion, you've pretty much severed ...
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| i cant tell if this girl likes me | 1/21/2009 |
Q: there is this girl that i really like and i cant tell if she likes me or not when i look at her she ...
A: Russell, it sounds like you need to learn to flirt. She likes you, and you're sending the message ...
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| Am I straight or not? | 1/19/2009 |
Q: I'm 13.I'm a girl.I don't know if I am attracted to girls.I couldn't really imagine being in a ...
A: First, please, please understand that what you are feeling is normal and NOT something that should ...
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| Advuce? | 1/18/2009 |
Q: So I met this guy a little over a week ago, and from the moment we met everything seemed perfect. ...
A: No, I would not waste your time on him. He needs to learn that "friends with benefits" fits his ...
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| I NEED ALOT OF HELP | 1/17/2009 |
Q: ok so there is this girl i like in my math and english class that i have just met this yaer(gr 11) ...
A: John, confidence is part of the growth process. The more you practice talking to people, the more ...
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| Can it still work out | 1/16/2009 |
Q: About 2 months ago a girl in my grade who is rather shy at times told my best friend she had ...
A: John, I would say you probably did as close to the "right thing" as could be expected under the ...
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| friends or bf | 1/15/2009 |
Q: "I am 13"I have this friend that i have known for about 3 years, an i know alot about him except for ...
A: Yes, Savannah. You are wise to know that talking is probably your best option. Find the right time ...
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| Stalker Break Up | 1/13/2009 |
Q: My name is Izzy and Im fifteen. I was dating this boy named Ian, who is also fifteen. I broke up ...
A: Izzy, why did you date him, and then why did you break up with him? Those two questions are much ...
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| its me greg | 1/12/2009 |
Q: well ive taken her to dances and we went out to eat she lives about an hr from me.i dnt trust her ...
A: Once she didn't love you; now she thinks she does. That's not dishonesty, Greg. That's emotional ...
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| Dating issues | 1/10/2009 |
Q: I am going to turn 13 on the 29nth of January.There is this guy at school he is 15 (he failed) and i ...
A: Marianne, part of being ready to date is to recognize why a certain situation is good or is not ...
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| taking advantage | 1/9/2009 |
Q: hey my names greg , im a junior in school. first off is it weird i have done stuff with my sis ...
A: Yes, yes, and YES. Everything about your question screams "weird" and unhealthy. Why don't you ...
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| does he like me........ | 1/4/2009 |
Q: I really want to know whether this guy likes me. Well this guy began to flirt with me. Staring, ...
A: Renee, you "assume" too much. You make these assumptions based on what you see rather than what you ...
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| does he like me........ | 1/2/2009 |
Q: I really want to know whether this guy likes me. Well this guy began to flirt with me. Staring, ...
A: Renee, your question confuses me a bit, because it sounds like you liked the attention the guy was ...
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| I have a crush on my close friend. | 12/10/2008 |
Q: My friend and I have been friends since the beginning of the school year and I started off liking ...
A: Geneva, don't rush into anything with him. If your feelings are fleeting (they come, but then they ...
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| talking to girls | 12/9/2008 |
Q: im 17 and am a junior in my high school. theres a freshman that i like but i have trouble starting a ...
A: Tim, to be a good conversationalist, be a good observer. Pay attention to what the girls like and ...
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| this guy | 12/5/2008 |
Q: hey im ashey & im 16. this summer i went to a local theme park with my best friend, and i saw this ...
A: Ashley, even though you think you have seen this boy in public, there is no promise in that short ...
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| I terribly miss my boyfriend | 12/1/2008 |
Q: Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for four months and December 1st will make 5 months. He ...
A: Stephanie, it sounds like you are in two very beautiful relationships. For one, you seem to have ...
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| relationship help | 11/30/2008 |
Q: Ok me and this boy have been dating for about a year. nd i mean i love him nd i kinda know he love ...
A: Ahsley, I am so glad to hear you are so serious about school, not becoming pregnant, and so on. ...
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| girl | 11/29/2008 |
Q: I feel left out and unwanted from girls. I have not had a girlfriend nor a first kiss. I have ...
A: This is a great question. It deals with several issues that many teens face. I am sorry you are ...
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| i don't know what to do | 11/28/2008 |
Q: "Well i broke up with my boyfriend because some problems. a i really want him to think that im not ...
A: Angela, you don't want him to be able to make you jealous, so instead you want to trick him into ...
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| What on earth? What are these feelings? | 11/27/2008 |
Q: my boyfriend and I have a very stable relationship... I have had boyfriends before but I have never ...
A: Judith Eleanor, I got your question Thanksgiving morning. It's an American holiday of feast and ...
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| Am i acting like a whore? | 11/26/2008 |
Q: I was talking to this one guy and he really started to like me, but I didn't really like him, but I ...
A: No, you are not acting like a whore. You may have sent this boy mixed signals without intending to. ...
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| Dating | 11/23/2008 |
Q: This past summer i was talking to a girl and i found out that she likes me. i also like her we want ...
A: Erick, did she transfer to this other school after you found out she liked you? If so, she ...
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| my ex boyfriend is in alternative school,supposed to get back together | 11/22/2008 |
Q: ok, hi im aubree. im 14 nd a freshman in highschool ok so heres the problem.my ex boyfriend got sent ...
A: Aubree, it's at times like this when the situation feels out of your control that it can be ...
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| is this bad? | 11/20/2008 |
Q: i recently asked out this girl who i have had a thing for since freshman year in high school. im a ...
A: Corey, it sounds like you've been through a lot with this girl. My belief is that young people make ...
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| Am I too young | 11/19/2008 |
Q: I am a 16 female. i have a job. at my jos there i a guy that likes me and wants to be with me but he ...
A: Yes, Becky. By law, you are too young and he's too old. He could land in jail for being with you, ...
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| I feel upset an cry after sex | 11/18/2008 |
Q: I am 21 years old and am in my fourth year of university. I am currently seeing someone for about 2 ...
A: For many men (not all, but many), your description of sex as being something "fun and exciting" is ...
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| My shyness and my shy girlfriend. | 11/13/2008 |
Q: Well, a girl I have known for maybe almost two years and myself have grown closer lately. About ...
A: It sounds like the two of you need to establish what "being in a relationship" means to each of you. ...
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| loneliness | 11/12/2008 |
Q: I'm Mitchell, I'm 16. I've never had a relationship. Girls have never liked me, nor payed ...
A: Mitchell, I'm sorry you feel the way you do. It's hard being your age and feeling like you don't ...
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| best friends and crushes. | 11/7/2008 |
Q: Hey Suzi, i think i made a big mistake with a good friend. i just moved to a new school and she ...
A: No, you are not a bitch. Both you and your friend and even the guy are all learning how to be a ...
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| dealing... he likes her... | 11/5/2008 |
Q: Jonathan is so cute. I have had a crush on him for three years. he is so sweet and makes me laugh ...
A: Hunter, your letter is very well written. Please pursue a career in writing. As for your ...
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| What do i say to a girl when i get her number ? | 11/4/2008 |
Q: I am a male teen who's naturally very shy. But today i got a girl's number for the first time. ...
A: YES, of course you should contact her. It's why you asked for her number, right? No, most girls ...
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| Best Guy Friend | 11/2/2008 |
Q: My best guy friend asked me out. I said yes. I was all jittery and I am still in shock and ...
A: I'd like to start by challenging you to think about what you said. You said "there is no past tense ...
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| does he like me???? | 10/30/2008 |
Q: ok theres this guy i work with who i really like hes 20 and im 18. ok i got his number like a week ...
A: Aeslin, would you rather date a smart guy or a guy who can't use his brain? Would you rather date a ...
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| Depression makes everything foggy! | 10/28/2008 |
Q: I need your advice on a boy. For 11 months on and off I was involved with a boy, although we never ...
A: Typical girl: meet his needs while keeping your own suppressed. No, I'm not chastising you; I'm ...
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| I gave up, but ive been told to be persistant | 10/27/2008 |
Q: Well, I'm a 19 year old guy, I went to elementary school with this girl, and was even babysat by her ...
A: She opened up to you. Now I think it's time you opened up to her. Explain that you are still ...
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| i like him.. he likes her... but acts like he likes me. | 10/26/2008 |
Q: 15 female. Here's the situation. i really like this guy, and he always flirts with me. but he ...
A: Christina, this boy, like you, is still learning about love, and it still confuses him. My guess is ...
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| relationship | 10/23/2008 |
Q: This girl and I are 17. We both like each other and are great friends and want our relationship to ...
A: Nathan, if you are already great friends and want to be romantic, nothing should change other than ...
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| how to hook up? | 10/21/2008 |
Q: hey there! there's a guy, d, who i'm friendly with who i really just want to hook up with. i don't ...
A: Sorry, K. I don't condone "hooking up" even if it's just a couple of bases, and therefore, I cannot ...
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| My boyfriend has a girlfriend ='( | 10/20/2008 |
Q: Hey my name is fatima I'm from sultanate of Oman I'm 15 .. here is my story My boyfriend has a ...
A: Fatima, friends are for life, but young love comes and goes. I would strongly urge you to be loyal ...
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| Asked out???? | 10/16/2008 |
Q: im 16, my friend/crush is 16 this might sound kinda stupid, but i'm not sure if my friend/crush ...
A: Yes, there is an indirect way to do it, but why not just be direct? You two are friends. What if ...
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| Heartbroken and alone. | 10/15/2008 |
Q: I am 15, 16 in May. My boyfriend was 17 when we had sex. He is 18 as of last weekend. My mom found ...
A: There is a LOT in your letter I could address. You say a lot, but at the same time, you leave a lot ...
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| Asked out???? | 10/14/2008 |
Q: im 16, my friend/crush is 16 this might sound kinda stupid, but i'm not sure if my friend/crush ...
A: I would say, "The other day, I was talking and I thought I heard you ask me a question, but I wasn't ...
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| controlled hands | 10/7/2008 |
Q: I'm 15 and have been told that I am mature for my age, although I don't know how accurate that is. ...
A: Tori, great title for your subject. Very figurative. I'm almost afraid to answer your question, ...
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| Relationship Problems | 10/6/2008 |
Q: How you doin.... Well this girl iv been talkin to for about a month or 2 has broken off her ...
A: He treated her badly, and she's afraid she might go back to him if she's in the same wedding? Tell ...
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| dating age | 10/2/2008 |
Q: Hey I'm Meg and I'm 17 right now. I'm single but i do have one question. Is there really a 4 year ...
A: Meg, it's not so much a "rule" as it is a "law," and it's not four years. It's two, and that ...
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| My parents are ruining my life | 9/25/2008 |
Q: I have moved to a new school and started fitting in well. I found a girlfriend and she is my whole ...
A: Kaleb, you sound like a very mature twelve year old, but at any rate, twelve is young to be dating - ...
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| please help me im dying here, she is too old | 9/24/2008 |
Q: My name is Bob i am 15 and recently my mother has brought into the house a beautiful 32 year old! ...
A: Bob. Thanks for your question. It sounds like this woman comes into your house with a great deal ...
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| anxioty alert! | 9/20/2008 |
Q: alrite i need advice on how to get a boyfriend especially since i have severe anxiety, ...
A: If you anxiety is severe, as you say, the ONLY thing you should do at this point is allow a ...
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| I'm not sure of what to think of my relationship | 9/16/2008 |
Q: Okay well me and my girl friend of 18 have been dating for about 1 year an a half or more. Were both ...
A: Joel, it sounds like she has found a new life in college and wants to explore it, but after leaving ...
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| A problem with my mom | 9/15/2008 |
Q: :] My question is: How can i get my mom to let me eventually go places with my boyfriend? A little ...
A: Izzy, for one, talk openly with your mom. Remind her you are not your brother and that your history ...
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| kissing a minor (Florida Law) | 9/11/2008 |
Q: Is it illegal for a 34 yr old to kiss a 17 yr old...it was a one time thing and they were both ...
A: It sounds like more than just the kissing was illegal. Why was a 34 year old man with a 17 year old ...
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| Are girls looking at me becasue i'm ugly ? | 9/10/2008 |
Q: I am male teen 18 and i started college the other day. When i was walking into the entrance, this ...
A: Dani, this is a really hard question, because you are asking me to guess what others think about ...
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| can he change for love? | 9/8/2008 |
Q: i am 18. i have been with my boyfriend for 15 months and i am completely in love with him and i ...
A: Jessica, you are a patient woman, and you seem to want to believe this boy has potential. The truth ...
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| I have a crush, what should I do? | 9/5/2008 |
Q: So school just started, and I'm in grade 9 (1st year of highschool). There is a really cute guy in ...
A: Don't let the crush rush past the friendship. Friendship is first. Only after you get to know a ...
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| date help | 9/3/2008 |
Q: I'm 17 at a high school in Utah. I don't know if you've ever seen the show Smallville, but I've been ...
A: Eric, this is a really great question. Thanks for asking it. The thing that attracts two people in ...
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| Is this how it's suppose to go? | 8/28/2008 |
Q: My family and I are very close, but so much has happened in the past year and a half I can't talk to ...
A: Hannah, of course I want to help you. I've never wanted to help anyone more than you, because you ...
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| Help. | 8/26/2008 |
Q: So, I've been dating this boy since May 12, 2007. It's been 15 months now. I really am in love with ...
A: This is, if you'll pardon my pun, a touchy subject. Most people consider intimacy sexual in nature, ...
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| relationships | 8/25/2008 |
Q: So I don't know what to do. I'm 17 years old and I'm going out with a guy that is a little older ...
A: Marina, the relationship you describe between your guy and you is NOT what I would consider a ...
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| Lesbian teen | 8/24/2008 |
Q: I'm sixteen and a lesbian, living in a small conservative town. My parents are bible thumping ...
A: and congratulations on coming out so bravely. You thought that was hard...the hard part is just ...
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| im stuck between two loves | 8/17/2008 |
Q: My Ex-girlfriend is coming up from Long-Island next week... But theres a big catch. (o and before we ...
A: Jason, thank you for your cadid question. First, as you probably already know, looks fade or can be ...
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| I'm so confused | 7/27/2008 |
Q: I recently found this site and I figured that I should ask a question of my own since I can't find ...
A: Then that's exactly what you need to tell your parents. First things first. You are right...you ...
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| Girl friend trouble | 7/26/2008 |
Q: i dont understand my girlfriend we dont really talk anymore its kinda hard to believe she still ...
A: Jason, love is a two-way street. If your girlfriend isn't coming around or making an effort, she's ...
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| dating/relationships | 7/7/2008 |
Q: My name is Jenny and I’m 15 years old. So I have a friend and lets just name him Bob. So I met Bob ...
A: Yes, I think talking to him is an excellent idea. Demanding he be loyal to her is the only way to ...
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| Shy Girlfriend | 7/6/2008 |
Q: my name is James. My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 3 or 4 weeks, and she is ...
A: James, thank you for this question. Awkwardness is very normal. If you were 23 rather than 13, you ...
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| age difference | 7/3/2008 |
Q: I am a 15 year old girl who is dating a 22 year old guy. We live together and have been dating for ...
A: I have a series of questions for you: 1. Where are your parents? 2. Where were the condoms? 3. ...
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| Boyfriend troubles? | 7/2/2008 |
Q: OK, so. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little more than a week now. He told me he ...
A: Shay, don't dump him. He may not realize your expectations. So talk to him. Tell him that your ...
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| I'm tired of bein single! | 6/30/2008 |
Q: Well here's how it goes, i'm 17 years old. When i was a freshmen and a sophmore, i stayed having ...
A: Chelise, guys sense when a girl is "moving in" or trying too hard. It can scare a certain kind of ...
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| Confused feelings | 6/30/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I, both 15, have been dating for a little over 9 months. The first time he tried to ...
A: Lauren, I'm a bit confused about your question. What are you talking about when you say this: "Of ...
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| How do you support your teenager after they have been "date raped"? | 6/28/2008 |
Q: My daughter (17) is visiting her mother for the summer. She called and left a message saying that ...
A: Russell, your daughter sounds amazingly smart, and your relationship appears to be very open - ...
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| teen daughter dating 19 year old | 6/27/2008 |
Q: My wife and I have just discovered that our "just turned 15 year old" daughter is sending explicit ...
A: Anthony. Thanks for your question. You are very wise to recognize the potential here for ...
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| we broke up but i still love him | 6/27/2008 |
Q: i really need your help! my name is rania and i just finished high school (i live in quebec so i ...
A: Rania, it sounds like you really like this boy, but your pride is getting in the way. Which is ...
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| Should I Tell Him I Like Him ? | 6/27/2008 |
Q: I really like this guy who's my neighbour, but I'm not sure if he likes me back. I'm 17 & he's 20, ...
A: Becky, I am so happy to hear you are finding your courage. As for putting yourself down, that's a ...
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| her mom | 6/26/2008 |
Q: hey, whats up.. so my girlfriends mom is very over bearing... my girlfriend, Kaitlyn, turned 18 in ...
A: Jake, thanks for your question. The best thing for both you and your girl to do is not TELL her mom ...
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| Confused Feelings. | 6/25/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for about six months now and up until the past few weeks, I felt ...
A: Laura, first let me tell you how grateful I am to you for being so articulate. When reading your ...
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| Confused about this girl/mixed signal? | 6/23/2008 |
Q: i've been working with this girl for about 2 months, we seem to get on really well, shes really ...
A: This girl is dealing with very low self-esteem. Somewhere along the way, someone "fed" her poor ...
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| Messy Breakup | 6/18/2008 |
Q: I have recently broken up from a very serious relationship. I was the one who ended the ...
A: Joseph, I'd strongly recommend sticking with your decision for now and for several reasons. The ...
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| how do i get her to care more? | 6/17/2008 |
Q: Hey my names nick. I've been going out with my girlfriend for 9 months now. We were "together", but ...
A: The first step is to give her her time with her friends without being jealous. Then plan a date ...
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| Why were people looking at me ? | 6/17/2008 |
Q: After 4 weeks of holiday, i went back to school & i noticed that several people (boys and girls) ...
A: I think they must have found you interesting. Enjoy the attention, and don't over-analyze it. As ...
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| How to start dating a friend. | 6/16/2008 |
Q: Hey there, Suzi. I'll start off with my basics. Though this is in the "teen dating" section, both my ...
A: John. The best way to transition from friend to boyfriend is simple. Be a friend of the greatest ...
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| The standard "does she like me" question | 6/15/2008 |
Q: I went to homecoming with a girl, and shortly after she started dating another guy. Now she's broken ...
A: Matt, she took an interest in you when she went to homecoming with you. THEN she started dating ...
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| how do i get her to care more? | 6/14/2008 |
Q: Hey my names nick. I've been going out with my girlfriend for 9 months now. We were "together", but ...
A: I'm confused. Why can't she hang out with her single friends? What is it they do that's disloyal ...
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| Confused | 6/13/2008 |
Q: well, lately I have been having reoccurring feelings about my ex teacher. I was his teachers ...
A: Even though you are a student and he a former teacher, once he no longer teaches you and you are "of ...
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| ex girlfriend/ best friend | 6/10/2008 |
Q: I had been best friends with a girl since seventh grade. I always knew I had feelings for her and I ...
A: Steven, I'm so sorry to hear about your troubles. It's almost harder losing a friend than it is ...
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| What to do... | 6/9/2008 |
Q: there! I'm a sophomore in high school and I have a question! So, last week, I got my best friend ...
A: Joshua, I can totally relate to your problem. Thanks for trusting me to advise you. How do you ...
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| help me | 5/31/2008 |
Q: i have completed my 1st yr of engineering in biotechnology and i have this girl in my college she's ...
A: Akram. Thank you for your question. It sounds like you got off to a good start with her. You ...
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| 4 way problem | 5/30/2008 |
Q: i wanna ask this girl out like most people but here's the catch, we have a mutual female friend who ...
A: I think this may be a duplicate. I thought I had already answered this, but for some reason it may ...
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| Should I Tell Him I Like Him ? | 5/29/2008 |
Q: I really like this guy who's my neighbour, but I'm not sure if he likes me back. I'm 17 & he's 20, ...
A: Becky, there's a reason people who assume too much get it wrong so much of the time. And for that ...
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| College/girlfriend | 5/29/2008 |
Q: In under 2 weeks i will have finished secondary school/high school.. Im undergoing my exams, and ...
A: As for the first, you can't blame all the pressure on your parents. Granted, I don't know all the ...
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| trust | 5/28/2008 |
Q: Hey Suzi I have a bit of a problem. You see, there is this guy that i really like and he has ...
A: Jaimee. You have an interesting story. Thanks for sharing it with me. Your history with the boy ...
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| Can you please help me? | 5/27/2008 |
Q: I'm 16 and a sophomore in High school. How do you talk to girls in person and on the phone without ...
A: This is a great question. Thanks for allowing me to advise you. It sounds like you are trying too ...
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| asking out | 5/25/2008 |
Q: i no this is stupid but if a girl asks me out does she take me out or do i take her out soz 4 stupid ...
A: It depends on the girl. Assume she's asking you out because you haven't asked her. In other words, ...
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| Hey Remember me? Well, she's my girlfriend now... | 5/21/2008 |
Q: Hey Kent here again! I know i could have added a follow up question to my first question which you ...
A: Kent. Sorry to be so long in responding. I forgot to put my page on vacation, so I've been on ...
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| Hey Remember me? Well, she's my girlfriend now... | 5/20/2008 |
Q: Hey Kent here again! I know i could have added a follow up question to my first question which you ...
A: I love a good success story! But just because you get the girl doesn't mean the rest is easy, ...
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| there's this guy (i'm bi) ... | 5/14/2008 |
Q: I don't really know how to start this off... I'm 15 and my crush is 15 as well. Anyway there's a guy ...
A: Jerry. Thanks for your question. In a way, your friends are right. You do need to talk to him, ...
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| boyfriend | 5/13/2008 |
Q: i got this boyfriend who i love so much! but the thing is he never talks to me at school just on im ...
A: Pammy, we tell boys how they can and cannot treat us with our actions. If this boy isn't talking to ...
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| Theres dis girl... | 5/12/2008 |
Q: hey there's this girl in school right and ive liked her for a whole year now and i cant stop ...
A: Alex. If she has a boyfriend still and you KNOW she is serious with him, consider her off limits ...
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| Love or dignity? | 5/12/2008 |
Q: I think this may be a difficult decision. I'm a girl and I have loved one of my best guy friends for ...
A: Andi, thank you for your very personal question. Love OR dignity, that's an interesting way to put ...
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| girl issue | 5/11/2008 |
Q: Basically...i saw this girl at the library who i really like therefore i went up to her and offered ...
A: Johnny. Thanks for your question. The best way to make conversation is to figure out what you and ...
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| friends with benefits | 5/10/2008 |
Q: In 2008 what is that definition? I feel like I have to strt at the beginning. My 15yo daughter, is ...
A: You know you are going to have to pull yourself together for your son AND for your daughter. She's ...
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| friends with benefits | 5/10/2008 |
Q: In 2008 what is that definition? I feel like I have to strt at the beginning. My 15yo daughter, is ...
A: Kristine. Thanks for your question. Don't you wish someone would be frank with parents about teen ...
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| me and him | 5/7/2008 |
Q: Well me and my boyfriend have been dateing for alittle over six months and its really serious and he ...
A: Sarah, you DO know if it's an abusive relationship. You just listed the reasons why it IS. A ...
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| boyfriend questions...? | 5/7/2008 |
Q: I am so confused. First off, I'm thirteen and have never had a boyfriend. But, this boy I like asked ...
A: Hey, Joanne. Thanks for your question. First off, you and he are just 13, so it's almost a ...
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| Question | 5/2/2008 |
Q: ok in my opinion i am not the most attractive girl. Im not really into lip gloss and things like ...
A: Gabriella. Thank you for trusting me with your question. I hope my answer is helpful. Why do you ...
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| Age | 5/2/2008 |
Q: I am 13. Do you think I am at the right age to begin dating? Everyone else is!
A: Dating isn't about age. It's about maturity. There are a lot of things that can happen - many ...
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| My Boyfriend's Parents' Divorce is Ruinining Our Relationship | 5/1/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend's parents are getting a divorce. It has been over a year since they made this decision ...
A: Nikki. Thanks for trusting me with your question. Being a parent, spouse, divorcee is really ...
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| Theres dis girl... | 4/30/2008 |
Q: hey there's this girl in school right and ive liked her for a whole year now and i cant stop ...
A: Alex. I like the way you worded your question. Most teens ask me how they can "make her love me." ...
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| Not sure what to do | 4/30/2008 |
Q: I'm 16 and in the 11th at my school. I'm friends with this girl who i've known since 8th grade, but ...
A: Tony, no relationship is perfect, and girls - especially at her age - can be very emotional about ...
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| Humiliation | 4/29/2008 |
Q: Ive liked this boy for ages but i never knew if he liked me! At a moment of maddness i agreed to my ...
A: I'm sorry to hear about your situation, but I don't think it's anything to be embarrassed about. ...
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| Internet dating | 4/27/2008 |
Q: I am currently talking to a girl who lives in the Phillipines. She's a friend of a friend. I've ...
A: How old are you, Justin, and what has driven you to date someone via the Internet half way around ...
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| ask a boy out | 4/26/2008 |
Q: i like this guy but we've never talked. he always look at me. it seems like he likes me but i'm not ...
A: Terrylya (what a pretty name!!). I'm glad you are trusting me to advise you. What you are ...
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| confidence and a girl issue | 4/26/2008 |
Q: well 1st thanks 4 reading this. ok I'm a freshman in high school and i suffer from low confidence. ...
A: Have you ever recorded your voice and listened to it and thought “That doesn’t sound anything like ...
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| girl | 4/25/2008 |
Q: Hey, my name is Aaron and I am 17 years old. I really really like this girl who is also 17 and i ...
A: It sounds like she might be interested but confused. Eye contact is key, especially with girls. ...
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| dating issues | 4/25/2008 |
Q: "hey i got a ?. i like this guy and he made a mistake by pushing me against the wall and he says he ...
A: Respect is all about boundaries. Those with clear boundaries demand the highest level of respect. ...
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| Hi | 4/25/2008 |
Q: Im sure you get this a lot, i've been really lonely lately. i have lots of close friends, about 6 or ...
A: You can read books on self-esteem, but I don't think this is something you can do on your own. ...
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| girl | 4/24/2008 |
Q: Hey, my name is Aaron and I am 17 years old. I really really like this girl who is also 17 and i ...
A: Aaron, what is it that's keeping this girl from wanting a romantic relationship with you? I'd talk ...
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| Relationship | 4/24/2008 |
Q: well i have a bit of a scenario. There is this girl called Rachel that i really like but i have no ...
A: Michael, you probably know this, but you are WAY, WAY over the line of what is considered statutory ...
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| Making It Up To Her | 4/22/2008 |
Q: my name is Brian, and I've been an avid allexperts visitor and person who has always needed advice ...
A: Brian. Thanks for your question. I live just South of you in Plano, so I'm well aware of your ...
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| I don't know what to do | 4/20/2008 |
Q: I'm 19 years old and there is a guy that I like at work. I have been told by a lot of the people ...
A: There is a reason that so many companies don’t allow dating amongst employees. It is awkward. ...
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| he wont ask me out | 4/18/2008 |
Q: ok so have been seeing this guy for a month now and i really like him, weve even kissed and made out ...
A: Tina. Thanks for your question. When you say "he wont ask me out," do you mean on a date or ask ...
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| Hi | 4/18/2008 |
Q: Im sure you get this a lot, i've been really lonely lately. i have lots of close friends, about 6 or ...
A: S. Thanks for your sweet letter. Sorry to take so long answering. My Mail Provider held all my ...
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| First Kiss &&. Handling First Boyfriends | 4/17/2008 |
Q: Heyy! first off i'd like to thank you for reading my letter. Okay so there's this guy i like and he ...
A: Sorry to take so long answering. My Mail Provider held all my mail for four days and then sent me ...
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| she scared | 4/17/2008 |
Q: me and this girl really like each other and the only problem is that shes scared.. everytime i get ...
A: Sorry to take so long answering. My Mail Provider held all my mail for four days and then sent me ...
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| Dating | 4/15/2008 |
Q: My best friend who's a boy, likes me and I like him! I just broke up with my boyfriend (which I ...
A: If he's your best friend, I'd talk to him. Tell him you need "friendly advice." Explain that you ...
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| Senior dating/kissing a Freshman | 4/14/2008 |
Q: Hey Suzi, I'm 17 (going to be 18 in June) and the girl I'm dating is 14 (will be 15 in May). The ...
A: Tyler. I appreciate your question, but I can't help you other than to request that you speak with a ...
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| Starting a relationship. | 4/13/2008 |
Q: I'm in 10th grade I'm 15, and I have known this girl for the past year we are in the same Latin ...
A: Ryan. Thanks for your questions. First, I would not start by telling her you feel a connection. ...
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| problem =( | 4/8/2008 |
Q: ok, well im woundering if i should even try to become friends with this girl that i dated about 4 ...
A: Ray, people change a lot over four years, so there is no problem contacting her, being her friend, ...
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| me and my girlfriend | 4/7/2008 |
Q: i recently went a bit crazy and accused my girlfriend of cheating on me which turned out to not be ...
A: Chris. Thanks for your question. Probably 90% of the questions I receive related to insecurities ...
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| Approaching a girl with friends | 4/7/2008 |
Q: There is this girl I see at the university library all the time nowadays. I want to approach her and ...
A: Victor. Girls' friends are a tough barrier for a guy to break through. But it also appears to be ...
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| How to tell my parents | 4/6/2008 |
Q: Suzi, I am 19 years old and just finished my freshman year of college. I currently live at home ...
A: Great timing! My own guy and I just decided this past week to do the same. Mind you, we are MUCH ...
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| ilike this guy | 4/6/2008 |
Q: I like this guy, and he's one of my close friends... He found out i like him about 2 months ago, and ...
A: Isabel. I wish I could say for certain if he likes you or not, but that's not a question a person ...
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| Help me please | 4/5/2008 |
Q: Im in 8th grade he is in 9th i love him. love means alot to me it took along time for me to say it ...
A: You are way too young to marry, Sarah, and your boyfriend, if he is depressed (suicidal) is not in ...
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| what should I do? | 4/5/2008 |
Q: my name is George, im 16 and dont know how to approch a girl correctly. All my friends are expecting ...
A: George, I sure hope you live in Russia, because that's where all the available Russian girls are. ...
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| First girlfriend, but how? | 4/5/2008 |
Q: I'm Nahum, a 13 year old boy and I kind of need some advice on how to start. I've never had a ...
A: Well, Nahum, your letter has lifted my spirits. It isn't often I speak to a 13 year old as worldly ...
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| Teen Relationships | 4/2/2008 |
Q: Im working on an I-search project and I would like you to answers some of my questions. Plz e-mail ...
A: Sure. Good timing, because I am between major projects. If you will email me your questions today, ...
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| boyfriend problems | 4/2/2008 |
Q: hey, this girl is in love with this guy but she is falling for me. i just spent the night with her ...
A: All great love affairs are based on an enduring friendship. It's the ONE and ONLY thing that keeps ...
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| boyfriend problems | 4/2/2008 |
Q: hey, this girl is in love with this guy but she is falling for me. i just spent the night with her ...
A: Hey, Todd. Good question. When you have feelings for someone, all you want to do is comfort them, ...
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| serious relantionssip kissing | 4/1/2008 |
Q: hey am 14 me and my girlfriend are really close and we've been going a few weeks and well we are ...
A: It doesn't sound stupid at all. I think all those sloppy and tonguey movie kisses have made it ...
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| Is he for me? | 3/31/2008 |
Q: This is a receipt for a question you recently asked at allexperts.com of Gypsy Girl. You should ...
A: Penni. Thanks for sharing your question with me. Boys and girls mature at a different pace, as ...
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| He's not a bad guy. | 3/31/2008 |
Q: I've been dating this guy for almost a year and I really like him, i think i almost might love him. ...
A: Wow, I've never had a question quite like this. I'll do my best to help you, but I would also urge ...
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| Whats next | 3/31/2008 |
Q: So...my sophomore year i asked this girl out and we dated for 3-4 months and i thought it was going ...
A: Maybe she has matured. When girls first start dating, they want to try a "little this" and a "little ...
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| What is the most effective way to check if you love someone? | 3/30/2008 |
Q: What is the most effective way to check if you love someone? 1. What is the most effective way to ...
A: Freddy. Those are four excellent questions. I think the most effective way to tell if you love ...
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| Whats next | 3/30/2008 |
Q: So...my sophomore year i asked this girl out and we dated for 3-4 months and i thought it was going ...
A: Hey, JR. VERY valid question. Thanks for sharing it with me. Let's go back to the initial 3-4 ...
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| I have an age problem... | 3/29/2008 |
Q: I have been going out with my boyfriend for a month now. Everything is going well and I'm really ...
A: Why do you think two years is a problem, or better yet, what do you think your mom will see as the ...
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| Does he like me? | 3/28/2008 |
Q: "So i am in the 8th grade. This is my first year at the school that i am currentally going to. I ...
A: Yes, it sounds like Mr. "Smith" has found a special place in his heart for you. I, too, am a former ...
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| Do you think you can give me some advice? | 3/26/2008 |
Q: Hey Suzi, I'm 16, male, and a sophomore in HS. There's this girl that I like and am also friends ...
A: Paul. The answer is simple. You cannot control how she feels about you, but you CAN control the ...
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| i lover her but she doesnt' know it | 3/25/2008 |
Q: Suzi Since 2nd grad i have been in love with this girl named macy i told her in 4,5,and 6th ...
A: If you have sent letters and have gotten no response, then you'll have to consider that she may not ...
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| Daughter with inappropriate boyfriend | 3/24/2008 |
Q: My daughter, Mary, is 21 and about 2 1/2 hours away at college. She has always been a wonderful ...
A: I am so sorry to hear about your situation. You are right to worry. It sounds as though she has ...
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| ex boyfriend trouble | 3/24/2008 |
Q: First, I want to say thank you in advance for being here to help, haha. So theres this boy who goes ...
A: I don't think he stopped loving you suddenly. I think he was hurt and turned on his defenses. It's ...
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| i lover her but she doesnt' know it | 3/23/2008 |
Q: Suzi Since 2nd grad i have been in love with this girl named macy i told her in 4,5,and 6th ...
A: Wow! You seem to really know what you want and have a great understanding of how you feel about ...
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| How long should I wait? | 3/23/2008 |
Q: Here is the situation, I know this girl, we've know each other ever since we were little kids. Her ...
A: Rick. You sound like a very organized thinker, but there isn't much about romance that can fit into ...
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| How can i get over this girl ? | 3/20/2008 |
Q: Yesterday i went to a persian new year's festival gathering & i saw 1 girl who was SOO pretty. She ...
A: Are you also of that culture, Persian? If not, you'll have to understand that it's a very tightly ...
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| Breakup... | 3/20/2008 |
Q: Ok i'm 19 years old and i've been dating this girl for about a year and a half. I haven't been the ...
A: Hey, Shaun. I'm sorry to hear about your troubles, but I'm glad to hear you have taken some of the ...
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| I like her and she likes me, but we are both toooo SHY | 3/19/2008 |
Q: ok, iv written and rewritten this question many times now, trying to get it right, so im just going ...
A: First, thank you for sharing this sweet story with me. It reminds me how beautiful - if not awkward ...
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| need help! | 3/19/2008 |
Q: am 12 well i like this girl but i don't know how to ask her out. i tryed to have a GF once but got ...
A: 12 is pretty young for anyone to be involved in a relationship. I'm not telling you NOT to. I'm ...
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| My crush that my best friend likes | 3/18/2008 |
Q: "So about a month ago I met this guy who was really cute and we started to flirt... By the end of ...
A: One night isn't really enough time to get to know someone, so I'm glad you call it a crush. Still, ...
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| Me: Freshman + Boyfriend: Senior | 3/18/2008 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months. He's a senior and I'm a freshman and he's ...
A: First off, your relationship has already withstood the test of time (7 mos is a LONG time for young ...
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| Lack of Love | 3/14/2008 |
Q: I'm a Junior in high school thats really small.I've never had a boyfriend before, and I'm okay with ...
A: Mindy, I wouldn't worry about that being inexperienced. It's never too late to learn, and in ...
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| Girl | 3/12/2008 |
Q: I'm in a bit of an odd situation. I'm a 14 year old guy. And the hormones suck. Anyways, theres this ...
A: I'm not really sure what you are asking. Are you romantically involved with her? If so, do you ...
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| Teenager in entering a relationship | 3/12/2008 |
Q: can i interview you on this i just nid u're opinion/ advice coz it is for our research paper so here ...
A: I'd be happy to be interviewed. 1. I think that teens should begin experimenting with romance as ...
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| help | 3/5/2008 |
Q: me and my girlfriend have been going out for four months, just lately i have gotten into a slump. ...
A: Worrying is a lot like putting your hard earned money into the toilet and flushing it. What do you ...
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| help | 3/4/2008 |
Q: me and my girlfriend have been going out for four months, just lately i have gotten into a slump. ...
A: Everyone goes through something like this. Your emotions, which includes your relationships, are ...
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| girls fighting over me | 3/2/2008 |
Q: at school there these two girls tht r best friends and they both like me. but i only like one of ...
A: First, keep your friend out of it (unless you are 13 or under). Talk to the girl yourself. Yeah, ...
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| dating | 2/29/2008 |
Q: There was a girl today in class and she dumped a guy because she took my advice, should I ask her ...
A: What was your advice? Might it look like you advised her for you own gain if you act too quickly? ...
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| What am i going to do | 2/28/2008 |
Q: well.......i just started going out with this boy and i really do like him alot i knew him since ...
A: Two weeks is WAY, WAY too early to think about having sex. You say it is "no problem for me" and ...
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| boyfriend | 2/27/2008 |
Q: I am 13 years old and i have a boyfriend. All of my teachers are always joking with us about it. One ...
A: Why would the teacher be mad? I would talk to him/her (the teacher) and ask why he/she is ...
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| how to approach a super hot girl | 2/27/2008 |
Q: There is this very pretty girl at my university, i see her just once in a while and she seems always ...
A: "Woo" her. It's hard to talk to a girl who always has her head in her books or her earphones on, so ...
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| want to make girlfriend | 2/26/2008 |
Q: I am 16 year old student having no girlfriend but want to make a girlfriend not for kisses and all ...
A: First, please explain what "wheatish" is. I am not familiar with that term. I think you have the ...
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| HELPP !! | 2/26/2008 |
Q: well i have a pretty big problem. I just recently got out of a relationship with a guy . we dated ...
A: How old are you? First, two weeks isn't really a "relationship." It's dating. A relationship is ...
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| I dont know what to do (continued) | 2/25/2008 |
Q: I forgot to mention that her and I talk now once a day for a half hour or so as friends. It has been ...
A: Honestly, I'd stay busy with your own stuff and make her come to you. It's that whole "grass is ...
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| Is it possible that this girl likes me ? | 2/24/2008 |
Q: i went for my training 2day in JD sports (clothes shop) and there were alot of girls. i like this ...
A: There's no way to tell if she likes you. You haven't gotten to know each other, and you can't ...
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| I dont know what to do (continued) | 2/23/2008 |
Q: I forgot to mention that her and I talk now once a day for a half hour or so as friends. It has been ...
A: Mike. Love and relationships don't come with instruction books. If they did, half the people ...
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| Dont know what to do | 2/21/2008 |
Q: ..I have a bit of a problem there is this boy that i like a little and I think he might like me as ...
A: Very few people ever regret getting something off their chests, but a lot of people who wanted to ...
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| The ex | 2/20/2008 |
Q: I have an ex, named James who I dated for a year and a half..we were each other first loves. Now, ...
A: I think it's obvious he still cares about you, but he's with someone else, so you have to move on. ...
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| Please help me | 2/19/2008 |
Q: Me and my girlfriend recently broke up. She broke up with me. We were dating for about four years. ...
A: I understand how you feel, Justin. But if you DON'T give her her space, she'll start to resent you. ...
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| Please help me | 2/19/2008 |
Q: Me and my girlfriend recently broke up. She broke up with me. We were dating for about four years. ...
A: It sounds like she needs her space. You won't convince her you didn't bump into her on purpose. ...
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| talking to a girl i see in public or school | 2/15/2008 |
Q: I take the bus to school everyday to and fro.At the bus station, there is this pretty girl who is ...
A: This is a common question. Making the first move is always the hardest. Start noticing little ...
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| dating | 2/14/2008 |
Q: Hey Suzi, I was just googling relationships and I came across the website your name was on. My ...
A: What you are feeling and experiencing is normal. Just as two people can fall into love, they (or ...
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| two year annversery tomorrow!! | 2/13/2008 |
Q: Me and My boyfriend will be together for two years. I really love him and i never thought i could ...
A: Sometimes you have to get creative with the romance to keep it interesting. At the same time, you ...
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| Which is better for transportation? | 2/12/2008 |
Q: I don't have a driver's license so I was wondering about what to do for transportation on dates ...
A: I think a lot depends on the type of date you are on and where it is in relationship to your two ...
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| Is my ex over me? | 2/12/2008 |
Q: My ex broke up with me two weeks ago over a text and we were going out for almost five months. ...
A: How old is he? Nine? What was the text? Why did it prove so fatal to the relationship? He's ...
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| Is this a good way to ask a shy girl out? | 2/11/2008 |
Q: Hey Suzi, I'm 16 and a sophomore in Highschool I don't have a problem talking to girls, but around ...
A: I would focus on getting to know her more, especially since you have only talked to her a few times. ...
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| Shy Help | 2/10/2008 |
Q: How are you doing? Well, I'll get right into it. There's this cute girl in my class and I've just ...
A: Some girls are very hesitant to give their numbers out. If you have just started making small talk, ...
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| love triangle? | 2/10/2008 |
Q: .. I have 2 gal friends. We are all kinda best friends, but recently, I found out that Denise ...
A: Only time can tell. Be patient, be loyal to both your friends, be supportive. Imagine the hurt you ...
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| What should I do? | 2/9/2008 |
Q: I am 14 and I like a girl, but I am not sure if she likes me. SHe keeps doing what seems like ...
A: Yes, Valentines is the perfect holiday to tell someone you like them. Start Monday with a note, but ...
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| does she like me? | 2/7/2008 |
Q: I'm a sophmore in high school (15 yrs old), and there is this girl (freshman) at my school that I ...
A: Nothing beats being direct. Communication is very complex, and when people rely too much on ...
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| Heels over head... to passive agressive detachment | 2/5/2008 |
Q: Hey there, First off, my name isn't Jewi, for the off chance my boyfriend sees this, I want to ...
A: You sound like a very, very bright young woman. Between you and your therapist, you have analyzed ...
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| dating problems | 2/4/2008 |
Q: well me and a girl like are in love with eachother and shes 14 turnin 15 on febuary 12th and .. me ...
A: That helps a lot. It is illegal in the state of Michigan (the entire state) for a 20 year old to ...
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| dating problems | 2/4/2008 |
Q: well me and a girl like are in love with eachother and shes 14 turnin 15 on febuary 12th and .. me ...
A: The form is a HOAX. You'd still go straight to jail, even if she was 15, 16, or in some states 17!! ...
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| So confused and lost | 2/1/2008 |
Q: Ok, my problem is so deranged and there are so many things happening at once. My friend Caitlin ...
A: Girls are often drawn to boys who treat them like dirt. I'm sorry to say this - and I think you ...
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| What do I do? | 1/30/2008 |
Q: I am 14 and in the the 8th grade, the gil I like is 13 and in the 8th grade. How do I aprach her and ...
A: It means she's interested, but still, keep following the old advice. It's really the most sound way ...
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| crush | 1/29/2008 |
Q: i need help!! .. i am 19 years old.. i have a crush on a guy who is friends with my nephews.. (they ...
A: Start by talking to your nephews. Let them know you have a crush on this guy. He's their friend, ...
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| What do I do? | 1/28/2008 |
Q: I am 14 and in the the 8th grade, the gil I like is 13 and in the 8th grade. How do I aprach her and ...
A: Think of her like any friend, because that is the foundation of any future relationship with her. ...
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| Heartache...Confusion... | 1/27/2008 |
Q: I'm in the worst heartache ever, and it's becoming difficult to handle anymore, and I dont know what ...
A: This is a very tough question. This boy must have two angels, because you sacrificed the ...
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| Need help with GF parents... | 1/26/2008 |
Q: we love each other alot we are both 17 years old and we had dated 4 years ago and we broke up after ...
A: Bruce, her parents probably do not hate you. YOU were not the one who broke their family's rules. ...
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| in need of some help | 1/26/2008 |
Q: but lately there have been some problems at school and since were around eachother so much its like ...
A: It sounds like you have an imbalance in your young relationship. As young people, you should still ...
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| should we call it quits? | 1/24/2008 |
Q: I'm 17 and i've been going out my boyfriend (he's 18) for almost ten months. we started going out ...
A: My question is this: Why did you have sex with him if the spark was fading before then? Did you ...
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| Relationship - EX | 1/24/2008 |
Q: I need help with what to do with situation i am currently in. I was seeing a guy for 3 months and ...
A: Wow! You make me feel like crying reading your letter, and I don't even know you. I certainly do ...
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| Prom question... a little early tho | 1/23/2008 |
Q: If I am good friends with a girl, how would I ask her to Prom, in a way that emphasizes we are just ...
A: Let's talk about pre-prom etiquette first. Girls have fantasies about their proms, just like they ...
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| i dont know what to do :/ | 1/22/2008 |
Q: I met this guy, Scott, a little while ago and we talk a lot and he asked me to go to sushi with him ...
A: Give him time. His answer about him liking himself is a big turnoff, but that could have just been ...
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| Online Woes | 1/21/2008 |
Q: Firstly, I have to mention that I am not a huge risk taker. In fact I was often the type labeled as ...
A: You are smart. You answered your own question several times within the question itself. You ...
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| i really like this girl but i dont know if she likes me! | 1/21/2008 |
Q: I like this girl and in one my class and we also give some eye contact and she just stares back and ...
A: I'm not sure I understand your story about her friend putting her hand on the guy. If it's ...
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| Prom Date Problem | 1/20/2008 |
Q: I've been pretty down recently because I don't have a boyfriend (never have. never even been asked ...
A: You do sound like you have a unique situation. Let's address the shyness, first. Shyness is a ...
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| The one girl | 1/20/2008 |
Q: I'm Mike. I'm a 16 year old Mormon boy and I am in love with a girl from my church. Now, I'm not one ...
A: She sounds like a very friendly girl, and I believe you when you say you are in love. The best way ...
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| Dating novice? More like dating toddler | 1/19/2008 |
Q: Hey Doc, I've been having some romance problems, to say the least, and after soliciting close ...
A: First off, I should be very clear, I'm not a Doctor. I'm not even a therapist. I'm an expert on ...
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| Boys, and my feelings | 1/18/2008 |
Q: I'm Lisa, and I'm 14years old. I have met this boy a few months ago, but due to issues with my other ...
A: How old is this boy? If he is your age and drinking and leading girls on and dating for shallow ...
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| I like this girl.... | 1/17/2008 |
Q: Well there is alot of details that would need to be said before anything... First off we are both ...
A: It sounds like she has a lot of baggage. One of the problems about getting into a new relationship ...
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| Strict Dad, Moving Out | 1/15/2008 |
Q: I am 19 years old and will be 20 in July. My Dad is very old fashion and does not allow me to wear ...
A: I'm relieved at your response. May I suggest writing/organizing your thoughts before you talk to ...
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| Strict Dad, Moving Out | 1/15/2008 |
Q: I am 19 years old and will be 20 in July. My Dad is very old fashion and does not allow me to wear ...
A: It will make it easier for me to help you. My main concern was that I did not want to say or ...
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| Strict Dad, Moving Out | 1/15/2008 |
Q: I am 19 years old and will be 20 in July. My Dad is very old fashion and does not allow me to wear ...
A: I want to help you. I need a bit more information first. Where are you and your dad from? What ...
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| boyfriend woes | 1/15/2008 |
Q: .My boyfriend and I are almost 18. We are seniors in high school. We have been going out for over ...
A: Technology is NOT the friend of romance. There is no way to detect his feelings through a text ...
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| what should i think? | 1/15/2008 |
Q: ok theres this girl i have dated twice before. i use to go to a different school than her. i dated ...
A: If she has the best personality in the world, and I believe you have faith she does, why would she ...
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| what should i think? | 1/14/2008 |
Q: ok theres this girl i have dated twice before. i use to go to a different school than her. i dated ...
A: The best relationships are based on solid friendships, so maybe you were both premature dating ...
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| i need u're help rly rly soon plz | 1/13/2008 |
Q: my nameis sarah and im 18 yrs old me and my bf have a long distance relation ship we met 1 year ago ...
A: I know it sounds kind of impersonal, but consider using a timer. Limit yourself to 10 minutes (or ...
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| i need u're help rly rly soon plz | 1/13/2008 |
Q: my nameis sarah and im 18 yrs old me and my bf have a long distance relation ship we met 1 year ago ...
A: First and foremost, you are 18. You are a grown woman, and you are dating secretively from the one ...
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| i need u're help rly rly soon plz | 1/13/2008 |
Q: my nameis sarah and im 18 yrs old me and my bf have a long distance relation ship we met 1 year ago ...
A: Long distance relationships are hard to begin with. Plus you are young, he's your first bf, and you ...
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| help girl | 1/13/2008 |
Q: I guess this is kind of long so I put it into sections, but it should hopefully be a fun read even ...
A: You wanted a long, detailed response, so here it is. First, you need to learn the art of ...
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| boy problems | 1/12/2008 |
Q: I've had a crush on this one guy since the beginning of the school year. I'm 17 and I've never had a ...
A: First, you have to get some help for your low self-esteem. PLEASE talk to your mom or dad. If you ...
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| love | 1/12/2008 |
Q: please tell me if you know something about were both partners feel like there ready for a"real real" ...
A: When you think of a real relationship, you are thinking about being half of a team of two people. ...
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| Help Please | 1/11/2008 |
Q: hey, I was an expert in the same category but even experts need help sometimes. Here's my situation ...
A: My boyfriend refers to it as the plumber with the leaky pipes. Even HE sometimes needs a plumber, ...
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| dating stuff | 1/10/2008 |
Q: my name is Matt and i want to ask you about dating stuff and there are a few things. to start i ...
A: Yes. It is normal. That dreamy feeling is a type of "euphoria," a rush of emotion so powerful that ...
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| help with guy | 1/10/2008 |
Q: Hey I'm in highschool and I like a guy. (im a girl). Does he like me? How do I know? How do I ask ...
A: Wow, you are a smart girl. How do I know this? You are the first person who has ever sent me a ...
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| dating stuff | 1/10/2008 |
Q: my name is Matt and i want to ask you about dating stuff and there are a few things. to start i ...
A: Think of your relationship as a building - like a skyscraper - in a very unstable city (because you ...
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| Sara Likes a Guy | 1/10/2008 |
Q: SARA MCKILLOP Note To Self: WHEN YOU GET THESE EMAILS THE SUBJECT OF THE EMAIL WILL BE ALLEXPERTS ...
A: Your question made me smile. You sound like you already know the answer, but you need someone to ...
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| i dont really know to be honest.... | 1/9/2008 |
Q: Well, Im Jon, and im 15, and so is the girl that im dating for 3 months. Shes turning 16 in about 2 ...
A: Try writing a "Perpetual letter." It's a lot better than the cell phone, especially since you don't ...
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| Trouble With This Girl | 1/9/2008 |
Q: Ms. Zimmerman, I am in need of some advice. I am a 16 year old sophmore in High School, Im a big guy ...
A: Shyness is a trap. It keeps people from doing what they are inspired to do by telling them they ...
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| Girl Problem | 1/8/2008 |
Q: Alright so here it is, I have known this girl since last school year but we never really started ...
A: Is she behaving any differently with you than with a friend? Playful is friendly, but I sense some ...
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| Asking someone out | 1/8/2008 |
Q: I am fifteen and im in a 4-H club and there's this boy jesse he's 15 and really really cute and I ...
A: Yes, as a matter of fact, the book I'm writing has a section on asking a boy out. After all, it is ...
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| Asking her out | 1/3/2008 |
Q: Okay, im a guy, like almost 17, and as bad as it sounds, i attend an all guys school. Thats not even ...
A: It must be tough going to a school with all guys, especially like you said, being new. When you are ...
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| I need help | 1/2/2008 |
Q: I have a girlfriend that i really love and we have been together for a long time,but lately we ...
A: How old are you? How old is your girlfriend? Girls have hormonal fluctuations (highs and lows) ...
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| Wrong move | 1/1/2008 |
Q: I have a huge crush on this girl in my grade and I'm pretty confident with girls. But i made a huge ...
A: It sounds like you have the foundation for a great friendship. The reasons you gave me, however, ...
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| Wrong move | 12/31/2007 |
Q: I have a huge crush on this girl in my grade and I'm pretty confident with girls. But i made a huge ...
A: I have three questions for you: What grade are you? Why do you think this was the wrong move? And ...
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| Forgetting things | 12/25/2007 |
Q: I've been dating my gf for about a year and a half, and it is going great. However, there is a ...
A: How often are you expecting her to call you? Why is it so important that she does? Is she somehow ...
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| confused about college | 12/24/2007 |
Q: well im 19 and i've just moved from north hollywood, california in september to north las vegas, ...
A: My philosophy is that a person should love the work they do, because if they live a long life, ...
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| What to do? | 12/23/2007 |
Q: There is a girl that i'm interested in but unsure how to end up asking her out. We are both in same ...
A: Sometimes it's easiest, especially when you are in the early stages of dating, to take "dating" out ...
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| been searching | 12/23/2007 |
Q: well i am 16 years old and i was in love with this guy but we decided to go our separate ways ...
A: sounds like you live in an area with few options. First, how busy are you? Do you belong to any ...
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| boy problem =/ | 12/22/2007 |
Q: well my crush has bein ignorin me on aim so i decided to ask him bout it since we are really close ...
A: There are two types of communication: spoken and unspoken. One of the hardest things about being ...
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| My Boyfriend | 12/21/2007 |
Q: I'm in 9th grade and I have a big problem. About a week ago, this 10th grade guy asked me out and I ...
A: This is a tough situation. You sound like you really like him as a friend, because you don't want ...
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| Finding that Special girl? | 12/20/2007 |
Q: Well I've tried school dating but that wasn't a good choice. I seem to get girls not attracted to ...
A: There's a reason why adults feel dating people from work is a bad idea. It's uncomfortable and gets ...
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| Is girl interested by looking back at me ? | 12/19/2007 |
Q: Today i went into the study area at lunchtime, and there were a crowd of people chatting. When i ...
A: It might, and it is possible, but you and she are really the only two people who can interpret a ...
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| Age Difference | 12/19/2007 |
Q: My name is Elizabeth and I am 14 years old, a grade 9. Everyone always tells me I am mature for my ...
A: You are very mature, I can tell. Boys are very different from girls, aside from the obvious ...
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| Age Difference | 12/18/2007 |
Q: My name is Elizabeth and I am 14 years old, a grade 9. Everyone always tells me I am mature for my ...
A: Elizabeth. I'm not in the legal field, so I'm not sure about the legality of your relationship. I ...
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| Pair of dating questions | 12/18/2007 |
Q: I know that people start dating before they can drive. Does this mean it is common for parents to ...
A: Ben, yes, normally when young people begin to date, they count on their parents for support both ...
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