About Matt Expertise I can answer many questions in this area. I can help with asking someone out, getting over a breakup, and much more. If you are questioning yourself as to whether or not what you're doing is right or not, please feel free to ask me. I know much about teenage dating, considering I still go through many of the issues myself. I love helping other people, and there is no question that I will not attempt to answer.
Experience I am a teen myself for the most part, therefore I have much experience in this area. I have been on dates, good and bad. I have broken up with, and been broken up with several times.
Publications I have posted several poems on the website known as www.poetry.com
Education/Credentials I am currently a Jr. in High School. At the end of school, I hope to go into the field of Psychology to learn more about people and issues they face.
Awards and Honors I have some educational awards, as well as other ones as well. I always look forward to earning more awards.
Question Heyy.
I've had my boyfriend for about a month and a half. We're both 15 and things are going great except for one little problem: making out.
We both do it, we both love it, and come up with a lot of excuses to get a bit of lip contact in there... the problem is where.
Most of the time's I'm over his house, his parents continuously hang around. They will let his sister and her boyfriend (both 17) go upstairs to "watch movies" (right). But they wont let us hang out in the den on our own or even go hang out outside if we're alone.
The most we can ever do is sneak kisses, and we both want to be able to make out more.
However, neither of us want to venture into movie theatres again. it may be worth it in the long run, but it gets far too uncomfortable. And my parents are ok with cuddling, but they dont like me kissing him when he's over.
What I'm asking is, do you have suggestions on places to make out where we'll be out of the public eye? nothing too crazy of course, but things we can do so we can make out more often. thanks.
Answer Hello Naomi. I'm sorry about the delay in answering your question. I've been busy the past few days; and sadly, I'll be attending a funeral tomorrow. This question isn't entirely my Common-Question type, and I really don't know if I can help much, yet I'll try.
So you and your bf are both 15, and his sister and her bf are 17? First of all; watch out for this making out.. It may seem minor, fun, ect. However; it leads to other things, which leads to more.. Trust me here; I've learn from First-Hand-Experience. You're kinda in the same area as I am.. We rarely have any peace to be alone together in the house, OR outside..
You're always having his parents around when you're over there? I'm 18 and my gf is 17 but when I am at my gf's house *more often than her being at mine*; her little brother is around us most of the time. Her parents are just concerned about you two. They know at your ages; you're hormones are more different, and you're more likely to become sexually active while alone..
Since your brother and his gf are older *being 17*; they're likely to be sexually active too, yet, they are more responsible for their actions. Have you done anything with your bf; or has he done anything with you to make his parents put less trust in you two together? Such as *Have they caught you two making out alone*? If so; this is a good reason why they won't let you be alone together..
You need to do things for his parents to make them trust and put more respect in you. Examples; help with dishes if you're ever there for dinner, lunch, ect. You may even want to ask your bf if he can ask his parents why you two aren't allowed alone together to watch a video, or go outside, ect. Try not to be too "cuddly" arond his parents, because this can push them in the direction that you two are too close and fondling eachother too much..
This is one question I only have limited answers to, because finding hiding spots for things that aren't approved of, is something I am UNABLE to attempt to do.. Sorry, but I hope you understand..
Thanks for the question; but sorry I can't help much.. Please feel free to Ask Follow-Up Questions anytime in the future, and question me about anything, anytime in the future.. --Matt--
