About Matt Expertise I can answer many questions in this area. I can help with asking someone out, getting over a breakup, and much more. If you are questioning yourself as to whether or not what you're doing is right or not, please feel free to ask me. I know much about teenage dating, considering I still go through many of the issues myself. I love helping other people, and there is no question that I will not attempt to answer.
Experience I am a teen myself for the most part, therefore I have much experience in this area. I have been on dates, good and bad. I have broken up with, and been broken up with several times.
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Expert: Matt Date: 8/18/2007 Subject: My mates sister
Question QUESTION: I really like my mates twin sister. She knew about it, and i asked her if i had a chance and she said yes. So i've been chasing after her for about a month now, we've been flirting etc so i thought she liked me too. Then i finally plucked up the courage to just ask her and she said no. Its fine and i feel bad right now, but why would she have told me i had a chance and then reject me. Also she's a mate, so seeing her will be awkward. I'm just after some advice over what to do now.
ANSWER: Hi James.
I'm not sure what all I can help with considering I don't know your ages, how long you've known eachother, how good of friends you are, etc. However, I'll see what I can do..
Well, actually all I can really say is the next time you two talk, ask her if she can tell you why she didn't want to go with you? Ask her if she just wants you two to know you more, and maybe you can give it a try?
I really don't know much here due to lack of information you gave me.. However; if you do tell me more, I'll try to help you more, if you like. --Matty--
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QUESTION: Ok sorry bout that. We're both 18 and we've known each other quite a long time, but have only become friends go the past year or so. We do go out as mates quite a bit, to pub quizzes and sometimes clubbing, so we do know each other pretty well. Ta.
Answer Hello again James.
Actually, even with this info you gave me. You two seem to be good friends and hang-out a bit, so I don't know for sure why she didn't accept your offer. The next time you two talk, you can ask her why she won't go out with you.. Ask if she'd like you to spend more time together first.
Just give it a couple weeks or so, and ask her again, depending on her answer to the two questions above.
