AboutSandi Expertise I can answer most types of question dealing with teens and preteens. I can give advice on dating, love, sex, friendships, same sex relationships. I am experienced at most preteen & teen subjects and have given advice to many people before. Who better to give advice to teens as being one myself?
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Expert: Sandi Date: 11/19/2007 Subject: am I moving too fast?
Question I am in 11th grade and i met this girl about two weeks ago who goes to my school. she told me she liked me and I thought she was really cool so we started talking. over two weeks I would call her pretty much every night and walk her to class everyday. we had our homecoming dance last friday and last monday I asked her. she said yes. I felt bad though cuz throughout the week she was giving me so many hints that I should ask her out. So on Wednsday I did ask her out even though it seemed a little early. she said yes. We had a great time at the dance but later that night she finally texted me saying she wants to know me better before getting into a relationship. I was sorta angry that she led me on to think that she was ready to date and 3 days after i do she sais she is not ready to date. I really like her and I dont want to mess this up so how do I start off from square 1 again? I do not know how to approach this. How am I gonna know when she is ready? thanks
Answer if she is not ready then she needs to basically let you kow when she is ready. let her know that you are fine with slowing things down and you will leave it up to her to let you kow when she is ready to date. that way you dont have to guess about it. its also ok to let her know you were getting the feeling from her that she was ready to date. she might not even understand she was doing this. good luck and let me know if you want to talk more.
