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Expert: Gypsy Girl Date: 1/7/2005 Subject: relationship problem
Question Hey! thank you for taking the time to help me with my problem. I'm 15 and I've had a boyfriend for about a month and a half. He's a great guy. We go to differnt high schools, so we usually only see eachother on weekends. I'm thinking about breaking it off with him, but i need an opinion from someone who doesn't know him. I feel that he doesn't pay much attention to me anymore. Me and a couple of my friends gave him a suprise visit at his school yesterday during lunch. When we wnet to talked to him, he didn't say much, he didn't even say hi to me, let alone tell me he was happy to see me. When i asked him what the hell that was for, she said he was "tired, and i don't do anything when I'm tired" Also... sometimes i feel like he's pressuring me into doing things i don't want to do, like he's asked me to drink, when he knows i don't, he's asked me to give him head, which i will not, espically this early in the relationship. But don't get me wrong, he's a great guy, just over the last week or so it seems he doesn't give a damn. His attitude is really making me mad. Please help!
Answer Beth,
If he doesn't seem happy to see you, or even give a damn, why spend time with him? I mean a relationship is work, they all are, but you should get some reward out of it. If he doesn't seem to be interested, and bugs you to do things you don't want to do, he obviously doesn't care too deeply about you, because he's trying to change you. I would break it off, but that's just my opinion.
Gypsy girl
