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Expert: Dan Date: 10/29/2007 Subject: Am i a whore?
Question I Have been doing the friends with benefits thing with a guy (that i truly have now fallen for) for about 4 months now. I am 16 he is 17. I had just gotten out of a really long relationship with my first love right before i met this guy i am with now. So i went in to it with a lot of caution. The first month was amazing! The second month is when we decided to just be the friends with benefits. However that's when the trouble started, we started to see less and less of each other, and he has became very good at making up excuses. This month (month 4) i have seen him once. and the only time he calls is when he wants me to come over so we can have sex. Then other days he calls and tells me how he wants to go to dinner or the movies, and he will by me flowers, and tells me all this sweet stuff and then doesn't ever call again...... i want a real relationship with him i am not even comfortable having sex with him.... am i being used as a whore?
Answer Hi,
My job here is not to judge people. I don't use the term whore and won't label people this. I recommend speaking to a doctor about sex risks and please be tested.
It's clear that you don't want intercourse with him, than don't have it with him. I wouldn't call you a whore for this.
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