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About Sandi
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I can answer most types of question dealing with teens and preteens. I can give advice on dating, love, sex, friendships, same sex relationships. I am experienced at most preteen & teen subjects and have given advice to many people before. Who better to give advice to teens as being one myself?

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Topic: Teen Dating Issues



Expert: Sandi
Date: 11/6/2007
Subject: what do i do?

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Hey I'm ryan.
I really like this girl. I asked her out at the formal last term, and before that (I met her at the start of the year, we used to be pretty ok, not really friends but we were nice to each other and had nice talks sometimes), but now after she rejected me at the formal, (she said something like 'we should just be like what we were before' or something like that and gave me a hug). But now its halfway through term 4, so its been like 8 weeks since i've really talked to her. And she hasn't talked to me or anything either (she used to say hi and stuff and be real nice).

Should I talk to her sometime when i catch her alone and tell her i'm sorry for asking her out? Or should i email her about it and say i'm sorry and i hope we could start talking again and at least be friends? (i don't really want to say 'can we at least be friends' cause i'm afraid that might limit us to just being that.)
A lot of guys at school have been saying she looks like that nude picture of vanessa hutchins, should i tell her that she doesn't even look like her she looks better? Or would that freak her out and make her be like 'why's this guy all of of a sudden starting to talk to me'?.
I still really like her and would really like it if she could like me back, what should i do to higher the possibilities of her starting to like me?
I"m pretty shy :S.

Thank you heaps!!!
And sorry for the long read heh. Her names rebecca by the way.
thanks again and please help!
Ryan

Answer
i think you should start with saying hello to her when you see her. i think you could also send her an email and basically tell her you are sorry for making the situation uncomfortable for her and that you would still ike to be friends. leave it at that and see what happens. good luck and please let me know how it goes.

sandi


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