About Samantha Mattingly Expertise I can answer any and all questions about your body. I can only answer questions written in plain english. Any question is not too easy or too hard for me!
Experience I have read many different books about Teens Health, and I am in college to be a gynecology doctor.
Education/Credentials I am in college to become a gynecologist. I have been in training with 30 girls, and I have also done special summer training courses with boys.
Past/Present Clients I have currently worked with 30 girls.
Question Hello Samantha,
I have tried having sex several times and i am a virgin each and every time i have used plenty of lubricant. It hasnt worked for 2 reasons 1) It just wont go in.. AT ALL! 2) it is EXTREMELY painful for me.. and i really mean painful, this hurts more than anything that has ever physically hurt me. What i am asking is can you please tell me what i can do to make it hurt less? and why wont it go in? I have a boyfriend who wants to have sex with me and i dont want to because i embarassed over the situation, he doesnt know about this. and i dont want to keep declining him as i want to aswell.
i really need some help and advice here.
Thankyou
Answer Dear Jen,
I am very sorry it won't go in, but it sounds like you have a pretty small vagina that doesn't want to grow. If you aren't eighteen yet, your bagina is still stretching and growing and still needs some time to be able to fit a penis inside of it. In time, it should grow to a size where it should be. Lubricant is basically the only common thing that is useful in this situation. Hope this helps.
