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Expert: laura Date: 8/6/2004 Subject: SEX ADDICTION
Question Hi ...!
Am PAUL.A handsome 23 yr old boy.I keep getting attracted to women.I know its natural but I dunno what to do about it.
I mean I try to get laid with every female I come across in my life.Am financially sound and am also attractive so most of the times females also dont mind.
The only problem is that I always have great sex but after that I start worrying bout HIV/AIDS.Its not that I dont use protection...I use condoms and i take care of my health.
Its just that most of the times am confused and start worrying about my future.
I mean honestly I dont think I can control this urge in side me.And am not sure if I can be honest with my future wife.
I mean even when I had the best looking girls as my girl friends ...even at that time I was looking for some one better.
I mean this "Search" for something better just doesn't end.This infactuation and "Hunger" just never ends.
As a result am getting really frustated.I spoke to my friends and they said that its normal but I dont think so.
I request you to please dont ask me to go to some doctor etc...coz am not gonna go.Am from INDIA and here people are very narrow minded about this topic.
Although I havent had complete sex till now...I mean havent had an intercourse yet...am still a virgin...I have done the rest...kissing...oral sex etc.
Is the inexperience of not having done intercourse the reason for this behaviour of mine ? I mean if one knows what an intercourse feels like he might not get that excited when i think about it. Or do you think its just that natual urge inside me ? If its the urge...plz tell me how do I cool myself from always wanted to get laid.
Anxiously waiting for ur reply,
PAUL
plz mail me back at sweetkiller21@yahoo.com.Thanks
Answer hi paul,
im not intirely sure but this is proberbly due to your age and horemones. dont worry it is perfectly natural.
what you need to ask your self is what you are actually looking for in a girl? maybe its friendship?
this all could be due to the fact that you havent had sex and your focusing on it too much. i sugest taking up a hobby or exercising as this will take your mind off it and also realease some of that pent up fustration.
i must stress that you DONT go and have sex with anyone just for the sake of it! keep it for that special person.
as for aids/HIV you should be glad that you are concerned and have regular checkups to be sure but im sure your okay!
hope this helps !!
