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Expert: John J. Porterfield Date: 8/31/2004 Subject: Am i normal?
Question Hi im a 13 year old girl. Ive had a boyfriend for 4 weeks. Recently when we were getting it on for the first time. When he saw me naked he looked like he was ready to vomit. I dont get it. I asked him what was wrong. he didnt tell me just ran away. I dont understand, im of average weight im not ugly or anything i have normal boobs and im pretty sure my penis is normal. I just dont get what could be wrong. Any ideas on what he's so scared of or is he just nervous?
Thanking you. plz get bak to me soon i see him tomorrow. xxxooo
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First of all, you said, "I have normal boobs AND I'm pretty sure my penis is normal." Let me tell you, if I saw a girl with nice boobs AND then she whipped out her penis, I would run too! ;-) OK, all joking aside... No matter what anyone says, doing it for the first time is a big thing so you need to talk about it with your boyfriend very carefully. Do you both really feel ready to have sex? On the other hand, is it just because you think all your mates are at it and you do not want to be left behind? If you are both sure that you are doing it for the right reasons, make sure you are both doing it with the right person. Can you trust each other? Do you make each other feel relaxed and happy? Can you have a laugh together? Trust and friendship are great starting points for great sex, but do not expect miracles! It is only natural to feel nervous your first time, as I suspect is what happened with your boyfriend. He may feel pressured to perfectly perform sexually and get it right immediately. He may feel that you will laugh at the size of his penis. He may have low confidence. Just try to relax and go with his feelings; ask him how he felt when it happened. Face the fact that it is going to feel strange or awkward for both of you (maybe him more than you); it might even be funny! Nevertheless, it will get better. All it takes is practice. Let him know when he makes you feel good. Most importantly if you are going to have sex, then always use a condom to protect yourself against STIs and unwanted pregnancy. Please keep me informed on your progress!
