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About Kandi
Expertise
I am able to answer all types of teen pregnancy questions, As well as questions about finding help with housing assistance in any state and educational programs. I know that being a teen mother or father is a very difficult time, which can make it intense to obtain your education, but it certainly can be done with time and lots of hard work.
I am also able to answer health questions about teen pregnancy.
Experience
My experience in teen pregnancy comes from my personal experience as a teen mother. In addition to the struggles that I had to go through and later over come for the life of my child. I am currently 26 years old, but had my first child at the age of 14 years old, and second at 17. Because I know how it feels to be in this type of situation, I am fully capable of giving advice to someone who is in the same situation that I once found myself during. Being pregnant at such a young age is something that may be the hardest thing for a person to battle. As teens, our minds are still not fully mature, making decision and caring for another individual hard to accomplish.
At 14 years old I had to care for a child and forced to drop out of school and move out into my own house all by the age of 16 years old. I lived in a high crime and high poverty city where I was forced to raise my son, so I am fully knowledgeable of all the assistance that is out there for any teen mother.
After having my second son at the age of 17, I went back to school for my GED and today hold an associate degree in health and human services. Currently I am a license practitioner nurse and working towards my bachelor degree in nursing, which allows me to answer teen pregnancy related questions.
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GED
Certified Nursing assistant for 6 years
License Practical nurse
Assonate degree in Health and Human Services
Teen mother
Mother of 3 Boys 10, 8, 4
Happily married to the same man, my children father since we was 16 years old
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You are here: Experts > Teens > Health for Teens > Teen Pregnancy > Stress and concerned about Preg symptoms
Expert: Kandi
Date: 5/15/2008
Subject: Stress and concerned about Preg symptoms
Question
It was April 26 that my partner and I first had sex. We did not have sexual intercourse, but touched each other in private areas. On that day I had felt something wet against my thigh and I conclude it was pre-cum. I am unsure if there is pre-cum on the vulva of my vagina, or anywhere around it because I did grind against him. After that day I searched "pre-cum" and found a woman can get pregnate from pre-cum if it's on the vulva of her vagina or in it. After that day I expressed my concerns to my partner and he agreed to wear a condom next time.
My concern is after that day I have been concerned about pregnancy symptoms. I looked up numerous of websites. It has been 4 weeks now and I am within days of getting my period. I've been stressed, "what if I am pregnate?" I don't have morning sickness, frequent trips to the bathroom, lower back pains, head aches, etc. I don't even know if my aerola (around the nipple area) has darkened. My partner does bite and suck on my nipples really hard and they are sore for 2 days. (Last week saturday had sex but no intercourse) Now my nipples look dark, and they feel a little rough, not as soft or "smooth" as they use to be. They are not sore anymore.And now I keep worrying about my breasts. I asked my mom if she had symptoms when she was pregnate and she said besides swollen breasts, and a missed period she had no symptoms.
Please I'm wracked with worrying.
Answer
Hi Tina,
By the sound of things and what you provided your chances of being pregnant is extremely low
Considering that per-cum can get you pregnant while the penis is in the vagina, but it still is lower then full ejaculate. So you can see why your chances are extremely low if he did not actually put the penis in your vagina,
I would not stress too much, it’s not good for you. All those pregnancy symptoms will not be recognizable until you are further along, if in fact you are pregnant. If you keep stressing you have a chance of delaying you period and it can make it even harder on yourself.
So, What I suggest is wait until you get your period, if you get it then you know your not pregnant, but if not then wait until 5 days and et a pregnancy test to clear your head.
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