Expert: Deborah - 10/22/2009

Question
Ok, I am a 19 year old girl and I have recently started having sex with this guy I have been talking to.  And I mean we have been having sex ALOT mostly 3-5 times a week.  This has been going on for about a month.  We use a condom every time however he ALWAYS cums while he is still in me, most of the time when I am on bottom, and he doesnt hold the rim when he pulls out.  As far as I know the condom hasnt broken and it definitly hasnt slipped off.  For the past few days i feel alot of pressure in my pelvic area followed along with sharp pains on the right side of my pelvic area, i have had frequent headaches every day, lower back pain, been going to the bathroom alot, emotional and tired.  My questions I guess are what is the likely hood that i got pregnant and should i take the pregnancy test now or just wait to see if i missed my period?

Answer
Dear Jane,

There is no way that I would be able to tell if anything leaked out of the condom.  All you can do is wait until your period is due.  If it is late, then you can take a home pregnancy test at that time.

Good luck,

Deb

You should get on a better form of birth control, like the depo shot.