About demi Expertise I can answer questions about pregnancy symptoms, contraception, abortion, adoption,and teen parenthood. Specifically, I can give up to date, accurate medical information, latest studies as well as statistics pertaining to health issues surrounding pregnancy, and factors to be considered before deciding to become a teen parent.
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I have answered over 3000 questions in this area on other health sites, most in the area of teen pregnancy.
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I have a bachelor's Degree in Psychology and Biology, and am halfway through a Master's Degree, also in Biology. I have access to and read many of the top medical journals, from which I also get the best, most thorough and accurate to answers to pressing medical and health related questions.
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Question "ok, I am a senior and im 17 will be 18 in a few months. My girlfriend is 15 about to be 16 nxt month. we are sexually active she lives in arlington soo i only get to see her on weekends when i drive up there. which is two to three hours away depending on which place im going. anyways. me and my girlfriend have sex atleast once everytime i go and see her up there now. she gave me her virginity on august first so we have only been having sex for a lil over two months. we make sure we use condoms EVERY time, i love her with every fiber of who i am. well this past saturday the third i suppose, well technically sunday or the fourth we had sex. but it wasn't like the norm. we were waiting for her dad to fall asleep so that we could have sex and be alone together. but we both fell asleep and randomly woke up at about 4 in The morning on Sunday. when we awoke i was on top of her idk which one of us initiated it but i was on top and we were sort of dry humping i suppose, we both had our close on still. but soon my dick was hard, she grabbed it and was focusing in towards her vagina, she was wearing skimpy shorts and a thong i was wearing basket ball shorts. so we could both feel it but she had moved her shorts and her thong out of the way so that only my dick through my shorts was touching her. and then we kinda sorta pulled down my shorts and she pulled my dick in to her. but her shorts were still kinda in the way but we still had sex. i was inside her and we were both still half asleep we just apparently woke up realllyyy horny, but i came in her, atleast in part i remember as soon as i started cuming that i recalled that i wasn't wearing a condom. we had never had sex without one soo i guess in my sleepy stupor i thought that i had one on but i didn't. my dick wasn't all the way in though because of her shorts but i would say that it was a good half way in atleast maybe a little more. my dick is 7" long. and i know i came a little bit in her before i was like oh shit and pulled out. but when a guy cums it squirts right at first atleast and thats what im worried about because i didn't pull out when i first cumed. so some was in her for sure. immediately after she was like omg. you didn't have a condom on ? i was like no? and she was like omg. but she had grabbed my dick and knew that i ddn't have a condom on soo she could not blame this on me.. although i should had been more responsible and put one on. but like i said neither of us were thinking clearly ... we had both woken up and immidiately stated doing it. she went to the bathroom right after and said that she peed some of the cum out if not all because i had jacked off atleast 2 or so times before tat earlier that day. and she said she peed sum out. and after she came back she made me finger her with one of the spermocidal condoms i had. sooo i flipped the condom inside out and started reaching into her as much as possible and fingering her with it trying to get around as much as possible to kill what sperm could be left hiding and swimming .. you know? i did that twice with two condoms. i know before we had sex i had fingered her a few times and i made her orgasm alot and i know she cumed but im still worried that wen i cumed inside of her some of my sperm may have gone and gotten her pregnant.. I am going to be here for her no matter what and accept the consequences of what i did. but i would still rather me to not be the guy that ruins her life with a child right now. I am worried alot! but i have managed to comfort her and tell her that there is no wayy that she is pregnant or will be. but i think that those words may be empty.. she is supposed to be starting her period this Friday or sometime this upcoming weekend atleast sooo i guess we will find out i think ? right. well i was just wondering if you had any experience with this type of situation.. and maybe some insight for me.. Do you think that she is or will become pregnant in the next few days.. ? :( and tell it to me straight i just want the truth.. i know its at max a fifty fifty chance. i don't want her to hate me for messing up everything. i love her so much idk i just want to have a better idea soo i could atleast better brace myself for the worst if thats whats coming.. im here for her through thick and thin. always.
Plz share any useful information and get back to me ASAP.
also we didn't think about the morning after pill and this was already two days ago. so that probably wouldn't work anyway right? and plus we don't have any money.. I'm broke :(
I'm Not ready to be a father but if i have to i will assume the position."
Answer hiya i was in the same situation about 10 months ago cause im 13 rite and i did the very same thing as u and i was worried and when my period didnt come i was terrified cause i couldnt even get a job or anything cause im only 13 but my bf lef me the minute i told him i was pregnant and i had a baby boy (josh) about 3 weeks ago now and its the best thing i ever done and i would never regret doing wat i did at such a young age and a baby dosnt ruin your life it makes it complete
and if u have any question on parenting or teen pregnancy email me cause i no all about it
