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About Kimberley, Pregnant Teenage Mother.
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I am 19 years old, and have a beautiful 7 month old daughter and I am currently 5 months pregnant with my second child. I can answer any questions about dealing with teenage pregnancy, telling your partner/mother/father etc. I can help you find out if you are pregnant, how to cope through-out pregnancy, the birth and raising your child. I can help with the different options of child birth. How to recover after birth and preparing for the arrival of the baby. I can also help you deal with abortion or thinking about abortion. I myself have had an abortion so I know how it feels. Dealing with an abortion isn't easy, so I will help in any way I possibly can. I can answer most questions on teen pregnancy, and I may not have the perfect answer every time but I will always try my best.

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I am a 19 year old mother, I have a beautiful 7 month old daughter. I am 5 months pregnant with my son. I have learned how to cope and support myself during my pregnancy, and raising my child.

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I belong to a group in my local community to help teenage mothers. It is for support for mothers expecting or mothers that have had children in their teenage years. I also belong to a group helping mothers who have children with learning difficulties.

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I have a child of my own, and am expecting another. I have worked in a nursery with children with learning difficulties. And days during the week I work in a local nursery caring for young children.

 
   

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Teen Pregnancy - need advice if i am thinking correct


Expert: Kimberley, Pregnant Teenage Mother. - 5/24/2009

Question
how hard is it to have a baby? i am 16! wont it be easy if you have medicaid, foodstamps, the week which gives you milk you have awsome friends that will buy you clothes just for the heck of it. me and my boyfriend just need money for dipers and wipys thats all and i can also even finish my high school at home. and me and my boyfriend are in love, and i love kids

Answer
Hi Kathy,
You're completely wrong unfortunately honey!
For a start it can take up too 2 years to get pregnant. And I know how it feels that your in love and you think its never going to end.
I thought the same and I was wrong. Explaining why I am a single mother.
Also, you have to buy things like prams, clothes, food, soothers, steralizers, cots, bottles.
Paying for just one child from the thing's that I don't already get I am around £150 a week which is about $300.
The things you need before the babys born are :
Pushchair- $250
Soothers- $50
Clothes - $400-500
Cot & Bedding - $300
Carseat - $200
Sterilizer - $200
Wardrobes - £100
Chaning facilites - $ 90

Then once the babys born -
Dippers - $50 weekly
Feed - $50-60 weekly
Wipes - $20-30 weekly
Clothes - $100/$200 monhly ( children grow fast)

And much much more!
Also once the child grows into a tot you need another pushchair, high chair, clothes, toys, more food that they goverment dont pay for etc.

It's a hard job, you get judged and also yo will constantly be under social services and if they think your to young and immature the child will get took off you!

I would seriously consider it before going any further, I have 2 children. I do regert it, although I love them. I wish I had waited so I could give them a better life.

Let me know what you are going to do,
Kimberley.

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