About Kimberley, Pregnant Teenage Mother. Expertise I am 19 years old, and have a beautiful 7 month old daughter and I am currently 5 months pregnant with my second child. I can answer any questions about dealing with teenage pregnancy, telling your partner/mother/father etc. I can help you find out if you are pregnant, how to cope through-out pregnancy, the birth and raising your child. I can help with the different options of child birth. How to recover after birth and preparing for the arrival of the baby. I can also help you deal with abortion or thinking about abortion. I myself have had an abortion so I know how it feels. Dealing with an abortion isn't easy, so I will help in any way I possibly can. I can answer most questions on teen pregnancy, and I may not have the perfect answer every time but I will always try my best.
Experience I am a 19 year old mother, I have a beautiful 7 month old daughter. I am 5 months pregnant with my son. I have learned how to cope and support myself during my pregnancy, and raising my child.
Organizations I belong to a group in my local community to help teenage mothers. It is for support for mothers expecting or mothers that have had children in their teenage years. I also belong to a group helping mothers who have children with learning difficulties.
Education/Credentials I have a child of my own, and am expecting another. I have worked in a nursery with children with learning difficulties. And days during the week I work in a local nursery caring for young children.
Question me and my boyfriend have been having unprotected sex and he ejeculated in me.i went to the doctors and took a test but i wont know for a few days. how would i tell my parents if i am pregnant and me and my boyfriend broke up a few days ago. but he knows that i might be.. he said he would be there and that we'd get back together. do you have any advice??
Answer Hi Juno,
Well having unprotected sex isn't a great idea if you don't want to get pregnant.
I can see that getting pregnant may seem a fix-it-all for you and you're boyfriend. But you do relaize that he wont be in a relationship with you because he loves you. He'll only be there for the child. And that won't last forever. No man will stay in a relationship with someone they dn't love. It causes to many problems, and arguemnts and thats not fairon the child.
If you don't want to tell your parents about getting pregnant, a nurse at the doctors surgery can call them in and they tell them for you in a safe enviroment. That is something I think is your best bet.
Although, if you're not wanting to get pregnant you have to have a form of contraception. Now whether it be a condom or something a more reliable its up to you. But you can't go around having unprotected sex and the risk of falling pregnant. It's selfish honey.
There are many great contrapcetives there are 100% effective. Thing's such as:
The Coyle 100% effective. The coyle gets inserted into the vagina in a painfree procedure. It relasises hormones to kill any sperm trying to enter the tubes. It lasts for up to 5 years and you don't have to remember to take it. If at any point during those 5 years you wish to start a family the coyle can be easily removed and you can start trying to concieve as early as the next day.
The rod 98% effective. The rod gets inserted into the underarm under local anthestic. It relaises hormones into the body to stop any eggs being reliased, resulting in no chance of pregnancy. It also stops periods and pains for the durating you have the rod in. It can also be tooken out at any point during the 3 years it lasts and you can start trying to concieve the next day.
The jag:
95%
The jag is a small injection into the lower back that you have to get every month. It numbs the falopian tubes not alowing any eggs to be relaised. After the month if you don't get another jag you can fall pregnant withing 2 hours!
There are many more, those are just my favourites. To find out more information on the contraceptives contacnt your local Doctors Surgery,Hospital, Family Planning, Sexual Health Clinic or Planned ParentHood.
