Expert: 2_Girls_Power - 3/10/2004

Question
OK I THINK MY FRIEND IS PREGNANT I KNOW  IM NOT PREGANT BECAUSE I JUST STARTED MY PERIOD BUT SHE IS ONLY 12 SO WHAT SHE SHOULD DO?

Answer
Dear SadGirl,

I am very sad as well that a 12 year old girl is having sex - especially the fact that an older guy would take advantage of her - for her age. That is the part that really bothers me. That she is being taken advantage of.

How old is this guy?
If he is older than 18 - we could have real problems.

In many States - when a 18 year old male is having sexual relations with a minor - which would be your Friend -

He can be procucuted for Rape.

That is what it is called - Rape.

So I need you to answer me back - so We can talk about this.

How Old is the Guy?
When did she start seeing him?
Is she okay?
How does she feel about this relationship with this Guy?
Does her Parents Know she is seeing this Guy?

and Why does she think that she is pregnant?
Has she missed her Period?
Did they use protection?
When was her last period?
Has she actually had a Period? before?

So many questions -

If you do not want to answer them -
I want you to talk to someone -
I want you to talk to a Adult that you Trust.

If this guy is taking advantage of your Friend -
This is Wrong.
A Adult needs to know about this situation.

She may not be the only girl that he is using for sex.
When a much older man/guy is interested in young females - this is a RED FLAG - this means that they guy has issues - and he needs to be 1. Stopped. 2. Intervention - meaning a higher authority needs to step in.

Older Men - Do Not Need Young Girls as Girlfriends - This is Wrong - meaning that there is something Wrong with Him.

Let's say he is 18 for example.

Think of an 18 year old guy dating You
Think of an 18 year old guy hanging out at a Middle School
Think of an 18 year old guy that you know and trust...possibly your brother/cousin...

If you were to ask them if they would date a 12 year old - the first thing that would come out a normal 18 year old Males Mouth would be this........THAT IS SICK.. that would be like going out with a little kid...Because that is what it is in an Normal 18 year old Males Mind. It is Sick.

I have a 13 year old Daughter -

I understand where your coming from SadGirl.

I want you to write me back - or like I said - Talk to an Adult - that you trust.

I would like to know what happens -

you can email me or contact me back at this site

bixa2003@aol.com