AboutDaryl Taylor, BSc(Hons) Psychology Expertise As a former youth worker, working in the UK and as a Camp Counsellor in the US, I have volunteered and helped young people from all over the world. I have worked for two or three websites like this in the past since I was about 13/14 and I continue to do so now at the age of 23. I can answer problems on a whole range of issues from friends and family, to drugs, sex, alcohol and relationships etc.
Experience I have worked as a youth worker for local organisations, volunteered on this and other websites giving out information for about 8 years, volunteered at my college and university doing face to face counselling and I have recently worked for an organisation in the UK which specialises in helping young people aged 13-19 to make positive decisions in their lives. I have featured in a UK based magazine called Aim Higher as a case study to show triumpth through adversity and I have recieved an Adult Learner's Award for my pioneering work at college.
Question hi im 13 and i always cum really fast when i masterbate i carnt even last a minute, how can i make it last longer??
Answer Hi Mark,
There are a few tips that I can give you but you will probably find that the older you get, the naturally longer it takes for you to ejaculate.
1) Fast ejaculation can occur through expectancy: if you think you are going to ejaculate quick then you will. When you masturbate, do it slowly and take your time. Leave gaps of a couple of seconds in between touching your penis and then start again...this builds up 'sexual stamina' which means the longer you leave it between touches, the more excited you will be, but the longer you should last.
2) When you are getting to the point where you think you are going to 'cum', just stop touching you penis. This is easier said than done, but just stop, close your eyes and think of something off putting...leave it a couple of seconds and then start again and see how far you can take yourself.
3)Try and not masturbate everyday or every other day and see if this helps, as you may find that you either ejaculate straight away or you take longer (so it's either way but worth trying).
Other than that, my only other suggestions are to close your eyes and use your imagination opposed to using pornagraphy (if you are). This means you have to concentrate more and usually means you can delay your ejaculation.
