AboutDonna K Expertise I can answer all questions regarding teen issues. problems with family, peer pressure, sex, masturbation, dating, and even nudism and naturist issues. I have been helping people with these matters for years and will be happy to assist you with whatever question you may have. I will never judge you. I am an open minded individual and I accept all people for who they are.
Experience Mom of two teens who has dealt with every issue when it comes to teenagers. I have also gone to college and have my degree in human sexuality.
Expert: Donna K Date: 6/15/2008 Subject: being a virgin
Question HELLO MY NAME IS micheal and i am 15 years old.See all my firends and family members (like my cosins and stuff) are not virgins anymore and that made me feel funny about myself...i mean when i talk to my firends and stuff the be like they aint virgins anymore.and i be like dang because the ones that i ask that be girls and im still a virgin being a boy. i men just like today. i was in church (textin my sister) and i ask my sister is she still a virgin....the reason i ask cuzz i was curious and she been dating this boy every seen freshmen year and she been over his house alot an so i was just wondering///...and she said no she is not a virgin anymore ...so i went to the bathroom and started to cry...cuxzzzz i felt left out again.....if my twin can have sex already then whats wrong with me...around where i live at, firends (and people that i dont know )come to be for advice..like they councelor....and i give them advice but the qestion i always ask them is they still a virgin....and they say no......so i went some where alone and cry again.....i mean....WHAT SHOULD i DO???? cuzzz i want to have sex by the time i start high school which will be in septmeber......but im rally afraid and scared....cuzzz alot og girls be talking about what they did with they lover and how they did something wrong ro they just want to talk about them.....im feeling left out......what should i do what should i do what should i do..???????/
Answer Dear Michael,
Being a virgin is not a bad thing. it is something that we only get to be just once in our lifetime. you should cherish the moment for as long as you can, because once you decide to give it up, you never get it back.
Just because your friends and sister have had sex at this point in their lives does not mean that you have to go out there and follow suit. you have one advantage over them, you still have the chance to have your first time with someone that you really care about. there is nothing wrong with you at all. there is alot more to talk about with them besides who has had sex. don't worry, when the time is right you will know and when it is, it will be one of the most unforgetable moments in your life.
