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Question I really like 2 guys and 1 I am going out with. I just started going out with him for the 2nd time and the last 2 times we broke up because 1 of our friends lied to us about something. So we have some trust issues and he is also always trying to make me jealous. Plus he is a jerk to other people but really sweet to me So the nthere is this other guy that I really like and he is a genuinly nice guy that is sweet and nice to everyone not just me. All his friends are saying he likes me and so I was trying to ask him out when I called my ex to ask him out for me and somehow me and my ex got back together that phone call. So now I want to go out with the second guy but I dont want the first guy mad at me because I still like him and I still wanna be friends but he said that wont happen if we break up again
Answer Hello Hayden,
You have no obligation to the first guy. If you don't want to be in a relationship with him anymore, you don't have to be. If he's not the kind of guy you want and you are falling for someone else, you don't need to be with him. For one thing, you will end up being hurt if you go with both guys. It's not a good option. You need to choose. Just by what you said, I would go with the second guy. He seems nice and he's nice to everyone. I like that. If you want to be friends with the first guy and he can't handle that, it's his loss. you tried and now he can choose if he wants to or not. You can choose and then he can do what he wants after that.
