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Expert: Jaycie Date: 7/2/2008 Subject: i have a total crush
Question ok me and this girl have been friends for almost a year now and we've been getting closer everyday. we text all the time and always have great conversations. She mostly see's me as a friend but i've grown to like her alot. she's helped me through really bad stuff in my life and i think she's really pretty. the thing is she's been on and off with my best friend! they started dating again like 3 weeks ago but she says he's being a jerk and they might end it soon. I'm wondering if i should tell her how i feel because it would be the honest thing to do but then again i don't wanna mess up our relationship as friends or hurt my best friend.
Answer Hey Cameron,
I think you should tell her but wait to see if they actually break up. That will put you and the girl in an awkward spot and your guy friend might get mad if you tell her when they are still together. Start by saying that you don't want it to change your friendship. Then tell her. Don't totally unload on her but tell her how you feel. If you don't feel like you can say it, start hanging out with her and doing things together. If you do get closer, then it will be easier to tell her and it won't be as awkward. Just be prepared for her to not like you that way. She might just like you as a very good friend. Be ready for that but still be her friend if that's how it is.
