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Teenage Problems - Please help me, I dont know what to do!
Expert: Ashley - 10/31/2009
Question
I have a problem. There is a girl who I really like, I've known her for almost 2 years. She has a boyfriend, and they are together since last year. She never opened up to me, until yesterday. I can see that their relationship isn't working well, her boyfriend keeps hurting her over and over again. But the thing is, as she said, she can't and doesn't know how to break up with him, because they had sex, and he took her virginity. I don't know what to do, how to help her... She told me that I was the only person who was there for her when no one else was, and that I really mean a lot to her. And I really like her, and I want to be with her. She is very confused too... Can you please help, please give me some advice? What should I do?
P.S. I'm 16, and she is 15.
Answer
Milan -
Her losing her virginity to this guy is not a valid reason to stay with him. If he's not treating her right then she should end the relationship.
Be a supportive friend to her in whatever her decision but make sure it's HER decision she's making and not one you're swaying her to make.
Ashley
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