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Teenage Problems - Please help me, I dont know what to do!
Expert: Cat Clopton - 10/30/2009
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I have a problem. There is a girl who I really like, I've known her for almost 2 years. She has a boyfriend, and they are together since last year. She never opened up to me, until yesterday. I can see that their relationship isn't working well, her boyfriend keeps hurting her over and over again. But the thing is, as she said, she can't and doesn't know how to break up with him, because they had sex, and he took her virginity. I don't know what to do, how to help her... She told me that I was the only person who was there for her when no one else was, and that I really mean a lot to her. And I really like her, and I want to be with her. She is very confused too... Can you please help, please give me some advice?
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your in a tough spot -------- this is question she should ask Does ________ (his name) treat her with love and respect ------ just tell her just because he took her virginity DOES NOT mean she has to stay with him while staying with him she is missing soooooooo many opportunities to meet new guys ---- tell her there is NO easy way to break up with someone you just have to suck it up and do it BUT it needs to be done ----- it's not fair to her OR him --- tell her she shouldn't stay with him just because she feels "obligated" because that's what it sounds like --- you don't want to be "stuck" in a realationship ----- hope this helps :):)
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