Expert: Jaycie - 10/13/2009

Question
Hey im a 15 year old girl who thinks a lot, I mean a lot. I love to sit back and think about anything specially the future and my dream wedding and guy. Well I have a crush on my brothers best friend and he’s my friend to but more of my brothers anyways, when I got to know him more I started to like him, now im on the stage of having a crush on him. He knows that I like him and he said hes flattered about it. Im not sure if he likes me or not, oo and btw hes 21 , he said no to my cousin when she asked him do u like her(as in me) and he said no, im like ok.
But everytime I think about him I idk I like sometimes feel like I want to just kiss him right when he comes to my house or something, always wanted to get  near him and hug him is this normal for me to think like this? Like ryt now I want to be his girlfriend but I sometimes feel shy when im around him. When he talks to me on AIM he puts like smiley faces a lot and when he sees me he looks at me and he used to smile a lot at me (he sometimes odes now)


Answer
This is normal for you to think like this when you have a crush. Don't worry about it. This is a normal thing for every girl and this is how it will be for the next few years when you find a guy you really like. Don't worry about it and just get to be closer friends with him. Then you can both decide where it's going and both of you will be happy.