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I can answer questions on everything to do with teenage problems. Anything from friendship or bullying to body issues or relationships. I know the feeling of having nobody to talk to when you need help so I want to be here for the many people who have felt the same. I am a teenager myself so if I haven't gone through these problems myself, i have probably seen my friends go through them. Nothing is new to me so don't be afraid to ask me anything! I will give you practical help and advice on anything your worried about.
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I am a teenager at this moment in time so I know all of the problems that teenagers face. At school I see things such as bullying, and friendship problems around me and know the best ways to sort out the situations. Friends often come to me for help or advice and I am always happy to help them in the best way that I can.
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Expert: Amy - 10/21/2009
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Ok this is going to sound complicated but its hard to explain.I have been going out with my boyfriend for 11 months and everything has been fine, but recently he's been working extra,and at college and it just seems we are growing apart. We had a temporary split but both were upset so got back together. The problem is that i like his friend, they don't talk much anymore but i still feel its wrong to like him. I cannot stop thinking about his mate and have actually had a bit of a crush on him since about 3 months into our relationship. Now i don't know what to do because im unhappy with him cos all i think about is his mate, but im unhappy without him because he's so lovely to me and does everything for me and we do have a really good time together. He is so into me but im really into his friend :( Please help me im so stuck.
Answer
Hi Jessica,
i feel bad for you, thats a horrible situation to be in... what you really have to think about is who you are going to be most happy with in the long run. Its obviously going to have to be either one of them, and thats based on your own personal choice. Im sure you have a favourite, or at least an idea of who you want to be with. Maybe you just tell your boyfriend how you feel, tell him the last thing you wanted was to hurt his feelings, but you cant help the way you feel, right? If you do end up breaking up with your boyfriend over this, you shouldnt go running straight for his mate, just keep things slow and steady, dont rush into anything. I really hope this works for you, and if theres anything more you wish to ask then feel free to
Good luck and best wishes, Amy x
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