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About Pastor Don Carpenter
Expertise
I am a father of four and a Baptist Pastor. Before becoming a senior pastor, I was a youth pastor and worker for over 10 years. If you ask this volunteer a question, you will get the benifit of 20 + years experience in the ministry and the counsel of the Bible, God`s perfect book. Feel free to ask any Biblical or moral questions.

Experience
I have been involved in pastoral type counseling for 20+ years. Most of my experience has been with chemical addiction, crisis intervention, and some types of severe mental illness. I have some secular training in those areas as well as a Bible College degree.

Organizations
Evangelical Baptist Church

Publications
Revival Baptist Chronicles
The Fundamental Baptist Voice

Education/Credentials
BS in Bible from Baptist Bible College in CLarks Summit PA
Various training seminars in, Co-occuring disorders, treatment of those who have been sexually abused, and Solution Focused Therapy.

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Teenage Problems - hi

Expert: Pastor Don Carpenter - 10/29/2009

Question
i wanted to ask a question about my boyfriend ok my boyfriend lves to have sex with me he says and lves to fuck u knw but what if i dont like that like dos eit mean he just want me for sex????

Answer
Hi Josie,

Thanks for this question. Obviously I cannot judge someone's motives, but his actions would seem to indicate that if you do not want sex and he does, and he forces you into it, yes he just wants you for sex. The other problem is that you are not supposed to be having sex according to the Bible before you get married. It is no wonder that you will have relationship and other problems because when you disobey God, you incur His wrath. When you base a relationship primarily upon physical things, you will be used up and spit out like an old peice of meat.

Hebrews 13:4
4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
The King James Version, (Cambridge: Cambridge) 1769.

I hope that this helps you.

In Christ
Pastor Don

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