Expert: Pastor Don Carpenter - 10/29/2009

Question
i wanted to ask a question about my boyfriend ok my boyfriend lves to have sex with me he says and lves to fuck u knw but what if i dont like that like dos eit mean he just want me for sex????

Answer
Hi Josie,

Thanks for this question.  Obviously I cannot judge someone's motives, but his actions would seem to indicate that if you do not want sex and he does, and he forces you into it, yes he just wants you for sex.  The other problem is that you are not supposed to be having sex according to the Bible before you get married.  It is no wonder that you will have relationship and other problems because when you disobey God, you incur His wrath.  When you base a relationship primarily upon physical things, you will be used up and spit out like an old peice of meat.  



Hebrews 13:4
4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
The King James Version, (Cambridge: Cambridge) 1769.

I hope that this helps you.

In Christ
Pastor Don