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About Pastor Don Carpenter
Expertise
I am a father of four and a Baptist Pastor. Before becoming a senior pastor, I was a youth pastor and worker for over 10 years. If you ask this volunteer a question, you will get the benifit of 20 + years experience in the ministry and the counsel of the Bible, God`s perfect book. Feel free to ask any Biblical or moral questions.

Experience
I have been involved in pastoral type counseling for 20+ years. Most of my experience has been with chemical addiction, crisis intervention, and some types of severe mental illness. I have some secular training in those areas as well as a Bible College degree.

Organizations
Evangelical Baptist Church

Publications
Revival Baptist Chronicles
The Fundamental Baptist Voice

Education/Credentials
BS in Bible from Baptist Bible College in CLarks Summit PA
Various training seminars in, Co-occuring disorders, treatment of those who have been sexually abused, and Solution Focused Therapy.

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Teenage Problems - i liked this girl....but she like my best friend

Expert: Pastor Don Carpenter - 10/9/2009

Question
hi....

i liked this girl i asked her out but she said lets wait get to know each other and i just asked her out again tonight but she said no again but about 5 mins later she said she fancied someone but she didnt say who. so my best friend rings me up and says do you still like her? and i said no then he said well ok she asked me out.....
i was speeach less i dont know what to do help me please im so lost and confused

Answer
Hi Bret,

I am sorry that this response is so late. I am sorry that you are going through this. Young girls are fickle and do not say what they really mean. Obviously she wanted to wait because she had a crush on your best friend... He asked you if you liked her and you said no, giving him th green light. Stuff happens! It happens for a reason. God has a perfect plan even though you cannot see it right now. God has a perfect plan for you... just trust Him to show it in time.

Proverbs 3:5-6
5 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. 6 In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

The King James Version, (Cambridge: Cambridge) 1769.

I hope that this will help you.

In Christ
Pastor Don

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