Expert: Dan - 11/6/2009

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QUESTION: Hello, my name is Lilly I am 14 I am looking for help with some stuff I can't tell my parents about yet. I have been having sex since I was 13 and it more like I am addicted to it like I can't get enough I have had sex with 11 different guys three were in the same night at a party I went to for a friend. I have tried to like not even think about it but its like I can't go without doing it. At first I thought it was no big deal but I have started kinda not liking myself for it. I have even gone to the mall and just asked a random guy if he wanted to have sex with me, he was like 30 or something he took me to his car and we did it in the parking lot.I don't understand why I have such a urge to have sex. I have gone and been tested for stds and I don't have any. Can you give me some ideas that I can try to take my mind off it? I love the feeling of sex I just don't know how to control myself though.

ANSWER: Hi,
Where are you located? I highly recommend you talk to a doctor about sex risks and get tested often. Can I recommend a hotline for advice? How old are those guys you are having intercourse with? Please ask follow ups

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QUESTION: I live in ohio as far as the guys mostly my age or a little older I have had 2 one was like 41 and then there was one that was like 33, the one thing I dislike the most is I let my brother have sex with me too.  I would like that hotline thank you for your help, Lilly

Answer
Hi,
Here is the third party hotline website:

www.nineline.org/

You are telling me you had intercourse with your brother? How old is he? You also had intercourse with two people above the age of 30? You need to talk to a doctor about sex risks and this sex issue right now. Get tested.

Please ask follow ups