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About Pastor Don Carpenter
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I am a father of four and a Baptist Pastor. Before becoming a senior pastor, I was a youth pastor and worker for over 10 years. If you ask this volunteer a question, you will get the benifit of 20 + years experience in the ministry and the counsel of the Bible, God`s perfect book. Feel free to ask any Biblical or moral questions.

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I have been involved in pastoral type counseling for 20+ years. Most of my experience has been with chemical addiction, crisis intervention, and some types of severe mental illness. I have some secular training in those areas as well as a Bible College degree.

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Evangelical Baptist Church

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Revival Baptist Chronicles
The Fundamental Baptist Voice

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BS in Bible from Baptist Bible College in CLarks Summit PA
Various training seminars in, Co-occuring disorders, treatment of those who have been sexually abused, and Solution Focused Therapy.

 
   

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Teenage Problems - trouble


Expert: Pastor Don Carpenter - 11/3/2009

Question
Hey, my girlfreind is sleeping around my house this friday, but I don't have a clue what we could do that isnt sexual, have you go any things that we could do?

Answer
Hi Karl

Thank you for this great question.  It seems like you are committed to sexual purity and I am glad.  This honors God.  FIrst of all you need to realize that this is a very tempting situation.  First rule:  Do not touch at all.... do not start something you cant finish.

1 Corinthians 7:1-2


Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. 2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
The King James Version, (Cambridge: Cambridge) 1769.

Second rule... do not be alone with her, creating temptation for you both.

Romans 13:14
14 But put ye on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make not provision for the flesh, to fulfil the lusts thereof.

The King James Version, (Cambridge: Cambridge) 1769.

Do some creative activities in public or have people over to your house for games or something else.  Make a fun time or party out of it.

I hope that this helps you.

In Christ
Pastor Don

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