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Question QUESTION: well my boyfriend might get sent to juvinile for about 3 months. i really care
about him. but should i wait for him or find someone else?
ANSWER: This one is up to you. It could be kind of hard when you can't see him for that long and you could find someone else that you want to go for while he's in there. But then you could just want to be with him and he might want you to wait. Talk with him and see what he thinks. But it's really up to you. You should be loyal to him but you still can date and go out with other people if you want to.
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QUESTION: well im confused. my boyfriend is going to a new school, NORTH SHORE ACADEMY. and his friends from that school are telling him that there are alot of girls that are going to try and get with him. but sometimes i feel that he is going to find another girl. i really dont care but at the same time i do care. should i just let him go and find someone else? i mean i had cutted my self because of that.
ANSWER: You both need to talk about this before he leaves. I totally understand what you mean by not caring but caring at the same time. It's hard to say what to do for sure but you do need to talk to him about what he thinks will happen. Sometimes it's better to 'break up' for a while because you won't be around each other. Both of you will probably find people who you will want to go out with or be with a lot. I think it's safer to be able to do that without the other being jealous or not knowing that it was going to happen. When you see each other, you can pick up where you left off and still be really close, but it's too hard to keep things going when he's gone and stuff. Talk about what you both want to happen and be open to letting him go for a while.
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QUESTION: Ok so nOw mY Ex bOyFriEnd iS tRyIn tO gEt whiTh Me. .
I use tO bE in lOVE WiTh hIm. .
BUT I dOnt wn2 hurt my boyfriends feelings because i know he really cares about me.
i was with my ex boyfriend yesturday and my boyfriend was there also, i guess i paid mroe attention to my ex. but now his cousin is sayin that hes gonna go out with my best friend because i already have a boyfriend. should i leave my bf and go back with my ex?!
im sorry if i ask to many questions
Answer Don't break up with him t be with someone else that you've been with. See how it goes with him and then if something isn't working, break up. Not just for someone else. There has to be something else to make you want to break it off. It's only fair to him. If you feel like you just want to be with lots of people, that's fine. That's a different reason. But don't break up with him just to go with your ex.
