AboutJonathan Expertise I have dealt with many young people in a teaching environment as well as in teaching young people at tennis clinics. Since younger people have seen so little of the world their view of the world should not be shaped by the confines of what happens within their family unit. Its natural to be shy about developing relationships outside the home but young people need to know the other person is also probably just as shy as they are. If you havea problem then remember you are in good company. There are no new problems. Someone else has also had the same problem. If you need ideas on how to handle them or some choices to consider feel free to ask. I will answer questions about moral issues and how to handle such issues when they come up in your life. Continue reading about the issue of bullies which can be physical, emotional or sexual as well as bullies who use the internet to spread stories about you. You do not have to be teenager to ask a question here on how to handle this. If you are a pre-teen or tween you may also ask a question here.
Experience I have taught children from 7th through 12th grade. It is all too common for young people to be shy or hesistate because they fear rejection from someone of the opposite sex. You do not have to be a teenager to ask a question here. If you are a pre-teen or "tween" as is commonly used now and are being "bullied" by someone and bullies can be other kids who hit you or as is becoming more common sexual bullying by name calling or spreading stories about you feel free to ask a question about what to do about it. There is also cyber bullying by people who may know you and there can be people who are pretending to be someone they are not who may insult you and try to destroy your self esteem. When you run into people who insult you its best to just block them and delete them or at the very least close down the messenger you are using. If anyone taunts you by calling you names or racial slurs or any slur that involves a persons sexual orientation you need to understand that the person doing that is trying to project their own questions about their own sexual orientation that they are questioning. This may sound complicated and it is. The people who are the most hateful in reality hate themselves and hate what they are desperately trying to convince themselves they are not (for example being gay or lesbian).
Question Hi i have a problem i am 13 years of age and when i masturbate with my friends they get an orgasum and then cum but i get the orgasum but at the end nothing comes out what is the problem here i am abit worried
Answer Hi Morgan, theres nothing to worry about. Your friends are already producing sperm from their testicles and you will also be soon. The orgasm is the wonderful feeling but it does not mean you have to have an ejaculation of fluid. Most of the fluid that shoots out is made in your prostrate gland and not in your testicles. Very little of the fluid is sperm. They are just a little more advanced than you are and may also have pubic hair as well. You can expect to have fluid come out any day now so its nothing to worry about and there is absolutely nothing wrong . If you have other questions feel free to ask a followup question. This is a perfectly harmless activity by boys and all boys all over the world engage in it so do not feel any guilt about it. Its how you learn about your body and what feels good to you. Masturbation can not cause you any harm.
