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HI I am worried I might have gotten my girlfriend pragnet .
We have had sex alot if other times and protected and un protected. We
were having sex and I always pull out to make sure I haven't cum yet I
will do this about 5 to 7 times during sex. I pulled out once and I thought I
came, and I started worrying and panacking and my erection went away. I
do not remember actuallying cumming or feeling like I came,
is it possible that my rapid change In emotions from turned on to flat out
worrying/ hystaria could have made my erection go away?
Please help I am very worried that I may have gotten her pregent.
And also this was during her period and she bled the next day ( I don't
know if this makes a differnce)
Hi Josh,Yes your worry and loss of your erection can make it go away. You probably did not make her pregnant if she started her period. If she had missed her period now thats another story. Since you are not using condoms every time you are risking had getting pregnant. if this is something that occurs a lot and it sounds like it does it would be vest if she were on birth control pills. Howver these are not foolproof either due to gilrs no talways remembering to take the pill each day and to keep up the cycle with the extra pills in the compact. The pill is valueless against any STD's. So if you or she cheats then it opens up the possibility of getting one or more diseases. She needs to keep daily track of her monthly cycle. So do you. There is always the possibility that sperm may be present even if you have not had an ejaculation. If you ave an orgasm then you can be sure you ejaculated sperm. Since you are a teenage make you produce more spermatozoa than an adult man does. This makes it that much more likely you can make a girl pregnant and since you are a teen age male you are more likely to have sex more than just once when you have privacy. So until she is on birth control pills for a while you need to use condoms every time.
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Jonathan
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I have dealt with many young people in a teaching environment as well as in teaching young people at tennis clinics. Since younger people have seen so little of the world their view of the world should not be shaped by the confines of what happens within their family unit. Its natural to be shy about developing relationships outside the home but young people need to know the other person is also probably just as shy as they are. If you havea problem then remember you are in good company. There are no new problems. Someone else has also had the same problem. If you need ideas on how to handle them or some choices to consider feel free to ask. I will answer questions about moral issues and how to handle such issues when they come up in your life. Continue reading about the issue of bullies which can be physical, emotional or sexual as well as bullies who use the internet to spread stories about you. You do not have to be teenager to ask a question here on how to handle this. If you are a pre-teen or tween you may also ask a question here.
Experience
I have taught children from 7th through 12th grade. It is all too common for young people to be shy or hesistate because they fear rejection from someone of the opposite sex. You do not have to be a teenager to ask a question here. If you are a pre-teen or "tween" as is commonly used now and are being "bullied" by someone and bullies can be other kids who hit you or as is becoming more common sexual bullying by name calling or spreading stories about you feel free to ask a question about what to do about it. There is also cyber bullying by people who may know you and there can be people who are pretending to be someone they are not who may insult you and try to destroy your self esteem. When you run into people who insult you its best to just block them and delete them or at the very least close down the messenger you are using. If anyone taunts you by calling you names or racial slurs or any slur that involves a persons sexual orientation you need to understand that the person doing that is trying to project their own questions about their own sexual orientation that they are questioning. This may sound complicated and it is. The people who are the most hateful in reality hate themselves and hate what they are desperately trying to convince themselves they are not (for example being gay or lesbian).
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