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Question I am 14, and have a 21 year old boyfriend.
i know he's older but he treats me so good.
he isn't like all the guys my age.
only problem is, i want to tell my mum about him, but because he's old i don't know weather or not she'd stop all contact and maybe call the police. we haven't done anything and haven't met yet.
i few of my mates know, so im not in danger as they know where he lives and all have his number
Help
what should i do.
Answer You have to tell her. He's old enough that it's illegal for you two to be together. But if you haven't met yet, it's kind of hard for him to be an actual boyfriend. You might just want to bring up that you talk to people online and see what your mom says. Then maybe you can talk about older guys talking to you and then bring him up. Lead her into it slowly. Make sure she knows everything and that you're safe.