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| Subject | Date Asked |
| is booty shaking slutty? | 1/21/2012 |
| Q: ! :) i'm 14 and i have a question about booty shaking. is it considered slutty to booty shake? ... A: I will make some comments and then you will know the answer to your question. I will make the ... | |
| My parents not trusting me | 12/10/2011 |
| Q: Im 13 and i went iceskating lastnight and i told my mom that the same people that went lastweek were ... A: I'm with your mom on you not calling her to say you will be a little late. Thats just common ... | |
| i wanna have sex with my brother :( | 12/6/2011 |
| Q: please help me i wanna have sex with my brother and i hate myself for it .. :( basically i'm 14 ... A: Believe it or not wanting to have sex with family members is not at all uncommon. Most people are ... | |
| how many different dicks does the average girl suck during high school? | 12/2/2011 |
| Q: i'm 13 years old and i'm a girl and this is my 1st year in high school and i have kind of a weird ... A: Katie, I do not know of any surveys and i doubt if you did find any that they would be true. No ... | |
| How to stop myself from falling apart? | 11/20/2011 |
| Q: I love this guy for the past 7months. I know how much i do, and m sure what i feel for him. He ... A: You mention a lot of areas which you do not have in common. Religion is a very large difference. It ... | |
| i dont know what to do | 11/3/2011 |
| Q: is it normal having a crush on a senior who has recently turned 18? I'm a freshman girl and i have ... A: Its not illegal but they are looking out for your interests. What does an 18 year old have in ... | |
| Please help I don't know how to grind! | 11/1/2011 |
| Q: Please help me! I'm 13 years old and in grade 8 and my high school dance is coming up in December ... A: This is bizarre and suggestive of sex. How this ever started I do not know. No one should do this ... | |
| how do i know if my friends with benefits likes me back? | 10/28/2011 |
| Q: i'm 17 and me and my best friend are "friends with benefits" and we have sex almost every day. but ... A: Emily, this whole friends with benefits thing is wrong. Sex is supposed to be reserved for marriage ... | |
| Self-esteem and overall worth issues | 10/14/2011 |
| Q: I'm a 17 year old girl and I have a lot of internal and physical problems, and it's really weighing ... A: A girl in my huigh school class was named Dee. So its not unusual. Everything you wrote is a put ... | |
| Sorry for writing so much | 9/13/2011 |
| Q: I'm not really sure which area of this website or which person I should be asking about this, if you ... A: I will make some comments in CAPITAL LETTERS here and there so you will easily see them. I'm not ... | |
| Relationship problem | 9/9/2011 |
| Q: i am glad that i found this website to help me in my problem. Here it is. I am a senior in high ... A: RC stands for Roman catholic. I think the best advice i can give you is to not waste any time ... | |
| My son wears crop tops and this is an issue | 9/7/2011 |
| Q: I've got a 17 yr old son who's in college studying business systems and computing, he's enjoying ... A: This is probably just a "fad" for him and when it evokes disapproval from other males his age he may ... | |
| broken hearth | 9/6/2011 |
| Q: i met a guy online, it became a long distance friendship. he said he liked me, i liked him back, we ... A: drop all contact with him and delete him. Using a computer to meet anyone and have a relationship ... | |
| Relationship problem | 9/3/2011 |
| Q: i am glad that i found this website to help me in my problem. Here it is. I am a senior in high ... A: I would completely reject the idea of friends with benefits. I understand it and it is really only ... | |
| School and Family | 4/1/2011 |
| Q: I'm a 15 year old female who is in this program at school called Commonwealth Governor's School. But ... A: I am not familiar with a program like this but perhaps your parents believe it will make yo better ... | |
| teenage problems | 3/22/2011 |
| Q: i am 15 and wen i manspat my cum is clear and some times its White wot do i do ? xxxxxxxxxxx ian A: when you say that word i think you mean masturbate. Sometimes the ejaculate may be clear and ... | |
| Mom | 3/22/2011 |
| Q: I am a junior in highschool. Sine i was about 13, i have been having sexual thoughts about my ... A: first of all do not do anything. If you were a student of psychology you would know about what the ... | |
| Love | 3/15/2011 |
| Q: Ok! Here is problen i luv a beautiful girl who is my friend i wanted to propose her but my ediot ... A: First keep your intentions to yourself. Your friends like to interfere and I'm sure she did not ... | |
| Help | 3/14/2011 |
| Q: I am 14 now. But a year ago I had my first bf and we were together for six months (broke up because ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. I am ... | |
| Problem! | 3/10/2011 |
| Q: I'm Marija and I'm 13 years old. I've got a big problem with my crush. He doesn't seem to notice me. ... A: You need to always greet him with a smile and look at him and make eye contact always. Do not look ... | |
| newquay | 3/6/2011 |
| Q: ive recently turned 17 and we are going on a lads holiday to newquay (8 of us), ive heard about ... A: this question was put into the question pool which is why i am answering it. I do not know where ... | |
| sex change | 3/2/2011 |
| Q: hey there, im very confused, i am a 16 year old guy, but i really get the urge to be a tranny, i ... A: in adololescense we get all kinds of strange feelings and we have all kinds of doubts about ... | |
| Should I stop playing tennis? | 3/1/2011 |
| Q: im 15 and a freshman in high school. So I've been playing tennis since I was introduced to it at a ... A: You sound like me and I was in the same situation. I was last on the team and I felt terrible. I ... | |
| Love Problems | 2/26/2011 |
| Q: I'm Nate and I'm 17 years old. I apologize in advance for the lengthy question, but I've got a lot ... A: First of all its ok to say I love you to some one you love. But having sex is going a little too ... | |
| Relationships | 2/10/2011 |
| Q: I am not a social person and sometimes i find just being around people in general very stressful. I ... A: Its rather unusual for a teen to feel as you do, but maybe not if people around you have ... | |
| Emancipation of pregnant teen | 2/9/2011 |
| Q: My girlfriend will be 17 next month and is 3 months pregnant. Her family does not know yet but she ... A: This is a tough one. state laws vary a lot but in general in order to be emaqncipated you need to ... | |
| Quick question | 1/23/2011 |
| Q: Um hi basically I'm a 17 year old guy from England. And recently I've started to realise something. ... A: This is a very good question. I'm not sure i have an answer but some of the nicest looking girls ... | |
| low self esteem | 1/16/2011 |
| Q: heya my names colin and im 18 years of age. i live in the united kingdom. im writing to you today to ... A: Its easy to knock yourself and there may be people earlier in your life that helped make you feel ... | |
| I'm so impossibly shy. I'm so impossibly shy! Can you help out with this guy? | 1/14/2011 |
| Q: So, my New Year’s resolution this year is to, as I like to put it, start cracking this cozy little ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. I'm ... | |
| What should I do with my boyfriend please help | 1/9/2011 |
| Q: I'm 26 and my boyfriend is 31 we've been together up to now for 3 years and 2 months, since i knew ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. ... | |
| Transferring Schools | 1/3/2011 |
| Q: I currently go to an all girls college prep private catholic school, and after attending the school ... A: You have said "I hate this school" and "I feel like i don't belong here" and "I feel the school is ... | |
| What Should I Do..?. | 1/3/2011 |
| Q: Allright..my name is Sharon and im a freshman in highsschool.i notice boys all the time and they ... A: This is difficult to predict what his reaction will be. He may just want to be friends and he may ... | |
| wanting a baby | 12/26/2010 |
| Q: hi I'm bexii and i am 14 but my problem is i want a baby and i want a guy to like me for who i am ... A: Bexii I know what you are saying and I also know how you are feeling. I also know you are thinking ... | |
| what you think i should do with this guy i like? | 12/20/2010 |
| Q: I made up things that weren’t true between us like we were going out but we never did we were only ... A: You need to talk to him in person and not on internet sites. And not on the phone either. ... | |
| masturbulation and pain | 10/5/2010 |
| Q: welll i am 27 years of age i have problem that when ever my semen secrets i feell weakness and pain ... A: It is normal to have sexual attractions and feelings and it is also normal to want to masturbate. ... | |
| I don't have friends:( | 9/4/2010 |
| Q: Hey :) I just moved from a country in central America in which people were not as outgoing as in ... A: I will make some comments in capotal letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. I ... | |
| Was this just a normal phase? | 8/29/2010 |
| Q: I am 18 years old and I had a question about a weird little phase I went through in the past... it ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. Was ... | |
| idk | 8/26/2010 |
| Q: I'm a 17 year old female and have been pretty much struggling to accept that i am or might be gay ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. Hi, ... | |
| Fatness and unfitness | 8/24/2010 |
| Q: Hey Jon, I'm a 15 yrs old guy, I face an issue that nearly 50 percent of teens have. Unfitness! No ... A: exercise and diet alone will not help unless it is a daily routine and you exclude what you have ... | |
| My SON | 8/18/2010 |
| Q: Before anything, I THANK YOU for volunteering your time to help people out. Apologies for a lengthy ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. We ... | |
| my penis | 8/13/2010 |
| Q: My name is Jaire . Im 13 and i have a couple of questions .Does masterbation make your penis get ... A: Capitals again, Im not shoutingThank you very very much Jonathan . So what you are saying is that by ... | |
| my penis | 8/12/2010 |
| Q: My name is Jaire . Im 13 and i have a couple of questions .Does masterbation make your penis get ... A: No masterbation does not make the penis larger. Do not try anything or buy anything to try to make ... | |
| Addiction causing disaster | 8/7/2010 |
| Q: I'm a 15 year old girl, studying in a well-reputed school. I'm onto my final year this time, but at ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. I'm ... | |
| dreams of being abused my parents | 8/4/2010 |
| Q: ok im 15 and i don't think i have ever been abused.. but i had a dream before where mum and dad were ... A: One possible explanation is this is a wish fuflillment type of dream. You might be wabting to get ... | |
| I don't know what to do! Love is ruining my method of motivation, what would you do? | 8/1/2010 |
| Q: Sorry this is so long, but I have to tell you something that has troubled me for so many weeks and ... A: i will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. I ... | |
| teen dating | 7/30/2010 |
| Q: so my boyfriend and i have been dating for a little over 8 months now. he is coming home soon from a ... A: if he has been born again and now has been told he should not be in a dating mode that could explain ... | |
| Teenage Drinking | 7/27/2010 |
| Q: I came home tonight afterwork and noticed my 17 year old son left his facebook page up unattended. ... A: You did the right thing but I would let him know you saw what he wanted someone to do. He is ... | |
| The Middle Man | 7/16/2010 |
| Q: I feel like just that the middle man. My mom is cheating on my dad. This isn't one of those I think ... A: I just wanted tomake sure this was sent to you. I was not sure it was. Hi Alex, Your dad may ... | |
| virginity | 7/10/2010 |
| Q: ANSWER: No you do not need to worry. If you missed your period it could easily be due to feeling ... A: Yes most lilely she will. The vagina is not used to having a penis inside it until a girl has ... | |
| pregnant or not | 7/10/2010 |
| Q: hii m 19 n still a virgin my boyfren jus touchd n rubbed his private parts with mine n i have missed ... A: No you do not need to worry. If you missed your period it could easily be due to feeling stressed ... | |
| Depression | 7/5/2010 |
| Q: I'm a 15 year old girl, studying in a well-reputed school. I've been suffering from inferiority ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. I'm a ... | |
| Moving out of my parents home | 7/2/2010 |
| Q: I'm 17 years old and I live in Pennsylvania. I used to have a 3.0 gpa but in the past couple of ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. I'm ... | |
| Controlling parents | 6/29/2010 |
| Q: I am 18 years old and in a top college. My parents want to control every single thing I do. What ... A: Capital letters again.Thanks you very much for your help. I have talked to multiple therapists and ... | |
| Avoiding predators | 6/28/2010 |
| Q: I am a 17 year old girl. In the past, I have come into contact with numerous acquaintance sexually ... A: again capital letters. ---------- FOLLOW-UP ----------You said "YOU CAN SUE THE SCHOOL DISTRICT ... | |
| Controlling parents | 6/23/2010 |
| Q: I am 18 years old and in a top college. My parents want to control every single thing I do. What ... A: I will make som comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. I am ... | |
| child experimentation | 6/20/2010 |
| Q: ok, i'm a male who is 14 years old, when i was a kid i was getting out of the shower, i was about 5, ... A: Praxtically all young children have had a similar experience when they were very young myself ... | |
| Avoiding predators | 6/14/2010 |
| Q: I am a 17 year old girl. In the past, I have come into contact with numerous acquaintance sexually ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting Hi, I ... | |
| Why did he ignore me? | 6/13/2010 |
| Q: I’m 18 and I'm currently a college freshman. I like this guy from the same class as me but we don’t ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. I’m ... | |
| Decode his behavior | 6/3/2010 |
| Q: I'm 19 years old. Three months ago, I developed a huge crush on this guy after we worked on a school ... A: you are right of course how hard it is to be rejected but this guy sounds very unreliable and likely ... | |
| My Penis is not erecting properly | 5/31/2010 |
| Q: I am 27.Recently, i had a treatment for me getting depressed.After taking those tablets, my penis is ... A: yOUR DOCOR MAY BE GIVING YOU VITAMIN E WHICH IS A TREATMENT FOR PEYRONIES DISEASE . JUST TAKE WHAT ... | |
| Platonic love...confused | 5/27/2010 |
| Q: I'm 14 year old girl and I can't figure this out...it's driving me mad.What is the difference ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. I'm not shouting. ... | |
| my 19 yr old son | 5/24/2010 |
| Q: my 19yr old son lives at home, has never had a gf, the only thing he gives a damn about is cars and ... A: No I would not kick him out either. He cares only about cars and games because thats all he has to ... | |
| Tons of problems I have... | 5/21/2010 |
| Q: Good Morning! :) I'm a 15 year old male... I just have a question to ask... Few months back then, I ... A: Yes Renzo you did the right thing. You have nothing to feel guilty about. He is not an older ... | |
| Decode his behavior | 5/20/2010 |
| Q: I'm 19 years old. Three months ago, I developed a huge crush on this guy after we worked on a school ... A: No it does not sound like heis trying to get your atttention. He has told you he is not interested ... | |
| tried of the way my kids do me | 5/19/2010 |
| Q: iam so tried of the things iam havin to go throw with my kids cause they have ran the men i love ... A: First of all you cannot just walk out and leave your kids. You are legally obligated to provide ... | |
| masterbation | 5/14/2010 |
| Q: why is it that i am still produceing "terta water" and i am 14 years of age i think i have a problem ... A: I have not heard this term before. But if you are referring to a clear sticky fluid that comes out ... | |
| Parents...Need I say more? lol | 5/10/2010 |
| Q: freshman in HS. So basically my brother (22) and I have a science/philosophy bonding sort of ... A: Its hard to tell if your brother is living at home or has graduated from college and is "influencing ... | |
| Three paths in life I'm looking at | 5/8/2010 |
| Q: I'm so sick of lifes everyday stress and the troubles I get from my mother. I'm a 15 y/o m. There ... A: It sounds like you have more than your share of grief from your parents. Your parents see you as ... | |
| Three paths in life I'm looking at | 5/4/2010 |
| Q: I'm so sick of lifes everyday stress and the troubles I get from my mother. I'm a 15 y/o m. There ... A: Youre not alone in how you feel. None of the paths are anything you want to do. let me guess were ... | |
| penis | 5/3/2010 |
| Q: I have a few questions..maybe a lot. I am 13, 14 in august and my penis is 4.75 inches I guess? ... A: As I said before and your comments confirm this you are very articulate and much more mature for ... | |
| Maserbate | 5/1/2010 |
| Q: Male masterbation is either good or bad? How can we stop it? A: Iys definately not something that is bad. There is no reason to try to stop doing it. Every young ... | |
| Can I die? | 4/30/2010 |
| Q: I don't think that my mom love's me any more, because she bossing me around and give's my older ... A: Sometimes mums favor sons and are tougher on their daughters. You are probably the youngest child. ... | |
| rude professors in general | 4/29/2010 |
| Q: I am a nineteen year old female and I have come accross a lot of teachers/professors that are just ... A: Once these teachers or professors get an advanced degree they often become very snobbish and get ... | |
| I need help | 4/26/2010 |
| Q: I fuck up everything, I should die and go to hell, Fucking die all ready" I think about suicide it ... A: You have not given a lot of information here. if you have such thoughts like suicide its possible ... | |
| my son | 4/23/2010 |
| Q: My son is very smart and always been a nice,outgoing, good honor student. He is a freshman and it 15 ... A: Be sure to stay close to him so he knows he has someone sympathetic to him and who will listen to ... | |
| my son | 4/22/2010 |
| Q: My son is very smart and always been a nice,outgoing, good honor student. He is a freshman and it 15 ... A: It does not do any good to tell him that these romances often do not have a long life span to them ... | |
| Confused | 4/18/2010 |
| Q: I'm 16, and going to be 17 in june. Bare with me because my story is long but the question is short. ... A: This is a classic power struggle between parent and child. theparent still looks at you like you ... | |
| TROUBLE FOCUSING ON STUDIES | 4/14/2010 |
| Q: I am 19 and studying engineering, staying in a hostel. I know I must and want to work hard to do ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. Hi, I ... | |
| masterbation?? | 4/12/2010 |
| Q: really the question is how?. should i let someone else do it to me first I'm sort of scared. thnx A: Im not sure if you are a male of female soits hard to give a specific answer. no you should not let ... | |
| How to Quit Being Intimidating and Awkward | 4/9/2010 |
| Q: 16/F Alright, so I have a friend who's all cute and bubbly and she flirts a lot without realizing ... A: The easiest things to do are to always smile when you talk to someone. Most people will respond ... | |
| dating issue and babies | 4/4/2010 |
| Q: well me and my boyfrind have had sex but before he insinuated we have a baby together and he asked ... A: If he removed it he would have had to take some extra time to get it off. You also would have seen ... | |
| penis size | 4/1/2010 |
| Q: i'm 17 years old and i need a video on how to masterbate/something and i need to know what size ... A: I do not know of any video that you are looking for but at 17 most guys your age already know by ... | |
| Penis issues | 3/31/2010 |
| Q: I'm Jake, I'm 13 years old and I was wondering if what I have on my penis is something to be worried ... A: Ok then you wil eventually see pubic hairs spring from them. You may or may not already have some ... | |
| My sons behavior change | 3/29/2010 |
| Q: I have always had what I felt was a loving and appropriate relationship with my son. He is twelve. I ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. Forgive ... | |
| Kill me now | 3/29/2010 |
| Q: Please help I hate my family my parents call me fat and threaten to smack me my sister does smack me ... A: Call the Girls & Boys Town national Hotline 1-800-448-3000 someone there will help you. They are ... | |
| Confidence trouble and boy bother.. | 3/23/2010 |
| Q: I'm feeling a little down at the moment as a boy told me he liked me and wanted to start up ... A: This boy seems to be testing the waters to see how easy or how difficult it is to get a date with a ... | |
| Peer pressure doing my head in | 3/18/2010 |
| Q: Ok I'm a 16 year old guy who lives in England and goes to an all boys school. It's not really an all ... A: Well good for you Fraser, I was the same way. Only in my home every night was new years eve. My ... | |
| cowerdliness | 3/18/2010 |
| Q: I'm a 16-year-old boy.I don't know how to begin..I think that I have issues,that I shouldn't ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. ... | |
| Friend issues? | 3/16/2010 |
| Q: My friends have been practically ignoring for about 6 months, they always go places on weekend and ... A: I suggest you make the effort to join a club or two even if you have little interest in it. This ... | |
| Not enough physical contact | 3/8/2010 |
| Q: I'm a girl, and I'm 16 years old. I have a serious problem of not getting enough physical contact. ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. I'm a ... | |
| Crushes | 3/5/2010 |
| Q: Ho, I am 14 and I have a lot of friends. One of my friends is the most amazing girl I have ever had ... A: Its ok to tell her you like her but be careful with the word love. She may just think you are ... | |
| counselor won't talk to me | 3/3/2010 |
| Q: Girl-17 I have been meeting with my school counselor every friday to talk about things. About 2-3 ... A: If he has failed to notify the police then he is himself in trouble. He like any other teacher, ... | |
| I hate my parents | 2/28/2010 |
| Q: I am 17 and my parents are both destroying my life. My life was fine a couple years ago but now it's ... A: Your school grades seem fine for someone who works but I suspect you are working to support your ... | |
| Friends? | 2/27/2010 |
| Q: Im 17 years old and i dont understand one thing. I dont know at what point my friends all start ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. Im 17 ... | |
| Major problems with my family life | 2/22/2010 |
| Q: My name is Konan, I’m 16 (female), and I really need some help. I have had major issues with my ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. I'm not shouting. ... | |
| Teenage Behavour | 2/22/2010 |
| Q: I have a daughter age 13 currently in grade 8. I have just discovered that she has a boyfriend who ... A: I am assuming your daughter is 13 and this boyfriend is 18 ? If that is correct then there is ... | |
| www.shawanparks@yahoo.com | 2/19/2010 |
| Q: HEY I'M A 16 YR. OLD GIRL AND I THINK MY BOYFRIEND IS CHEATING. AND I AM IN LOVE WIT. HOW DO I FIND ... A: First of all you "think" he is cheating. You must have some reason for thiniing that. If someone ... | |
| masturbation and increase in height | 2/17/2010 |
| Q: im a 15 yr old guy and i would like to know whether our height can still increase if we masturbate?n ... A: masturbation has nothing to do with a persons height. all guys all over the world masturbate. If ... | |
| cutting and emotional | 2/13/2010 |
| Q: i am 14 years old and i have cut before but i got out of that stage.. but recently i have been ... A: hHi Kristen, I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not ... | |
| stepmom | 2/10/2010 |
| Q: my name is trevor. i'm almost 16 and i got a prob that i don't know who to talk to about. its ... A: First of all do not say anything to her about what you have been doing in the shower and with her ... | |
| Son's issues concerning private parts... | 2/9/2010 |
| Q: I am a 45-year-old woman with a 16-year-old son and 19-year-old daughter, I've been married for 22 ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. I am a ... | |
| Sex and male private parts | 2/7/2010 |
| Q: im 16 years old in highschool. I have recently started to get into the dating scene with the girls ... A: Ok I understand now. Another guy your age had a similar problem and his foreskin was not allowing ... | |
| Sex and male private parts | 2/6/2010 |
| Q: im 16 years old in highschool. I have recently started to get into the dating scene with the girls ... A: Its not uncommon for the glans to be somewhat exposed during an erection. It used to be that ... | |
| Mum | 2/5/2010 |
| Q: I'm not entirely sure this is a problem.. more of a confused thing i guess. My parents split when I ... A: I will make some comments in capital etters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. ... | |
| Valentine's day | 1/30/2010 |
| Q: I'm 18 years old and have been with my boyfriend for the past six months. Things are really going ... A: I have had something like that on my birthday but I was not sure i liked it. I would have preferred ... | |
| Depression/suicide/self harm | 1/28/2010 |
| Q: I've been depressed for a long time, years and years, and it's only getting worse. I've been having ... A: First of all how old are you? Yes there is help for you and its easy to get. The problem ith most ... | |
| puberty problems | 1/26/2010 |
| Q: I'm a 16 year old virgin. i haven't had any sexual contact so i know that i don't have a std. but i ... A: first of all do not touch it. It may be relater to laundry detergent especially since this part of ... | |
| 17 year old daughter. | 1/26/2010 |
| Q: I have a 17 teen year old daughter, that has many talents, singing,writing and education. She ... A: I will make somments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. I have a 17 ... | |
| Sexual Health | 1/26/2010 |
| Q: I am a 16 yr old teen (male).I am having problems with my Sexual health I think.Most of the time my ... A: First of all theres nothing wrong with masturbation. Every guy in the world does it and many girls ... | |
| MONO | 1/26/2010 |
| Q: I have a 12 year old son he is seeing a girl that lives 2 doors down form us. We just found out ... A: This is a tough one. Your son is seeing her as a "friend" or as a "girlfriend". In any event he ... | |
| Should I follow my heart | 1/25/2010 |
| Q: Well here it goes I have a dream to become an international actress someday. It been my life Long ... A: I will make some comments in capital lettwers so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. Well ... | |
| advice on what to do | 1/24/2010 |
| Q: how can my big sister get custody of me i am 15 years old is that possible? because really with ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Imnot shouting. hi my ... | |
| rape | 1/20/2010 |
| Q: i would like to know what to do about rape i was 14 when i first lost my virginity and i still don't ... A: FOLLOWUP TO YOUR COMMENT. Hi Madeleine, here is a toll free number for a rape hotline. ... | |
| My son wants to wear bikinis... follow-up | 1/19/2010 |
| Q: I wrote in here - ... A: Your son seems to have found this person to be someone he wants to emulate. Hence the desire to ... | |
| My son wants to wear a bikini in public... | 1/18/2010 |
| Q: I'm writing in about this problem worrying me. I'm 48 and a businessman. My 18-year-old son told us ... A: Well, he may have some reason unknown to you or that he does not want to share with you. He may ... | |
| My son wants to wear a bikini in public... | 1/18/2010 |
| Q: I'm writing in about this problem worrying me. I'm 48 and a businessman. My 18-year-old son told us ... A: For a male to wer a bikini sure sounds like he wants to draw attention to himself. A bikini if it ... | |
| My penis | 1/17/2010 |
| Q: I am new here and was confused who to ask but i will ask you. I have an uncircumcised penis. When I ... A: Im not sure a picture is necessary. Besides you are a minor and it might look like you are sending ... | |
| My penis | 1/17/2010 |
| Q: I am new here and was confused who to ask but i will ask you. I have an uncircumcised penis. When I ... A: There should not be any extra skin once you pull the foreskin back, You must wash with soap and ... | |
| My penis | 1/17/2010 |
| Q: I am new here and was confused who to ask but i will ask you. I have an uncircumcised penis. When I ... A: I wish you had stated your age. Anyway, when you pill the foreskin back it may or may not expose ... | |
| Son can't get job due to semi-pornographic pictures from high school... | 1/16/2010 |
| Q: I'm 44 and my husband is 46, we have a 19-year-old son and 18-year-old daughter. I'm a businesswoman ... A: I would keep all the details and all the names of people involved especially the person who said ... | |
| My son wants to meet this woman offline... | 1/15/2010 |
| Q: I'm a 45-year-old woman from Staffordshire, United Kingdom. The other day our 19-year-old son said ... A: Well about your last question I do not know the answer to that one. On the meeting I think both ... | |
| My son wants to meet this woman offline... | 1/15/2010 |
| Q: I'm a 45-year-old woman from Staffordshire, United Kingdom. The other day our 19-year-old son said ... A: I'm with his friends. Most of the people who are online are not who they claim to be. Email ... | |
| my mom | 1/13/2010 |
| Q: my mom has always been really cool and nice up until about a year ago. now its like she picks fights ... A: I am assuming you are female. I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see ... | |
| i want a boyfriend. | 1/11/2010 |
| Q: i lost my virginity to a friend, and a couple of days later i had sex with another guy. i was drunk ... A: First of all forgive yourself and stop running yourself down. We all made errors in judgement. Of ... | |
| i can't seem to find an accurate answer and i don't have a way to the PD for the law answers...help? | 1/10/2010 |
| Q: ok i know it sounds kind of stupid but i do not really have the time to make it down to the ... A: Im not able to answer your question. My only advice is to keep the government out of your life as ... | |
| i can't seem to find an accurate answer and i don't have a way to the PD for the law answers...help? | 1/10/2010 |
| Q: ok i know it sounds kind of stupid but i do not really have the time to make it down to the ... A: well these things break all the tie but this does not mean you are pregnant. But if you are your ... | |
| Erectile disfunction | 1/9/2010 |
| Q: Please can you not post this on the web. I am 13 when I have erections my penis is bent forward and ... A: This is not erectile dysfunction. ED is when you cannot get an erection or you need to take Cialis ... | |
| i can't seem to find an accurate answer and i don't have a way to the PD for the law answers...help? | 1/9/2010 |
| Q: ok i know it sounds kind of stupid but i do not really have the time to make it down to the ... A: this is always a problem when a girl is under 18 and a boy is also under 18 or over 18. Either way ... | |
| Sensitive penus head | 1/7/2010 |
| Q: I'm 17 years of age. I think I have some sort of problem with my penus head. It hurts when I try to ... A: It sounds like you need to first see your family doctor or pediatrician and get his opinion as to ... | |
| boyfriend | 12/30/2009 |
| Q: i'm i girl and i'm have a problem with my boyfriend gionathan he lives in florida ... A: If he is your boyfriend he has no business kissing other girls and you have every right to ask him ... | |
| middle school relationship | 12/28/2009 |
| Q: Im a 13 year old girl, currently in 8th grade, and like many others, in a middle school ... A: What a cute and wonderful story. Assuming you are both 13 you will both go through a few trials ... | |
| single sex school and dating | 12/22/2009 |
| Q: i had a few questions about my dating life that i would ask you. I am 16 and i go to an all boys ... A: Since you are in an all boys school you do not get to mix in or talk to girls and thats helpful when ... | |
| does he like me ? | 12/21/2009 |
| Q: Hey, well yeahh basically i really like this guy, this year i have been seeing quite a lot of him ... A: No he may have feelings for you but most guys if they really like a girl will do anything and ... | |
| Deep down, I just want to have fun. | 12/20/2009 |
| Q: I live in a small town, everyone knows each other, everyone knows what you do and who you are with. ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. I live ... | |
| my pussy gets wet | 12/16/2009 |
| Q: i really need some help! i'm a 14 year old girl and i'm in grade 9 in high school and my pussy gets ... A: well at least you want the right things. The problem with porn is its not real, its only to excite ... | |
| Son wants to quit his sport midseason because it is hard and no fun | 12/16/2009 |
| Q: I am the mother of a 15 year old boy. He has played several organized sports since he was 7 or 8 ... A: If your son is not doing well in sports then he is far from alone. I agree quitting is emerging as ... | |
| My parents are too strict! | 12/14/2009 |
| Q: I am a 14 year old boy (freshman!!), and my parents are divorced. We are not "Rich" (slim pickings ... A: Your dad and step-mom are being unrealistic for your age. They may want the house to themselves at ... | |
| First Time Parental Abuse | 12/10/2009 |
| Q: my name is Hannah and I'm 15 years old. My stepdad and mom got married a month after they knew each ... A: I think your mom is the one who needs your support now. So whatever you can do to help her out then ... | |
| does he like me ? | 12/8/2009 |
| Q: Hey, well yeahh basically i really like this guy, this year i have been seeing quite a lot of him ... A: It seems obvious that this young man is not showing yo very much respect. He probably cannot ... | |
| my pussy gets wet | 12/7/2009 |
| Q: i really need some help! i'm a 14 year old girl and i'm in grade 9 in high school and my pussy gets ... A: The first thing you need to do is to see your family doctor or primary care physician or gyn doctor ... | |
| threesome with my boyfriend's best friend | 11/30/2009 |
| Q: i'm a 13 year old girl in grade 8 and my boyfriend's also in grade 8. we're both waiting until we're ... A: Should you do this? NO. Will others at your school find out about it? YOU BET THEY WILL. Boys ... | |
| My son's admission shocked me... | 11/27/2009 |
| Q: I'm 39 and my husband is 40. My 16-year-old son came home from school late - about 5pm. Usually he's ... A: First i suggest you and your husband talk to each other and try to determine if perhaps your son may ... | |
| hatred problem | 11/26/2009 |
| Q: im 16 and i have a hatred problem. i have things that happened, me being alone for so many years, my ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. im 16 ... | |
| here is my problem | 11/25/2009 |
| Q: Here is my problem Hello, I am a college student right now, and living by my own with an older man ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. Here ... | |
| interfering people | 11/16/2009 |
| Q: I have a 16 yr old son. I love him so much, we were have n problems and he stay with a friend. Well ... A: They are only hearing his side of the story not yours. You can take his phone and return it to them ... | |
| innocent 2 | 11/8/2009 |
| Q: ok so hey my name's darren, im 13 and i have a problem. there's this girl i know and one day she ... A: Well regardless, you and your mates should tell your head of learning the truth about everything. ... | |
| This Great Girl | 11/6/2009 |
| Q: Hey, I met this girl named May a while ago. This past weekend on Halloween, her ex-boyfriend ... A: Do you mean she wants to stay home rather than go anyplace? I do not understand that either. About ... | |
| Why I don't like to take a lead? | 11/5/2009 |
| Q: I'm a boy, 20 years old, already working. I know some people around me (especially in workplace) ... A: You seem to be a follower and not one who leads. In order to turn this around you will have to ... | |
| innocent | 11/4/2009 |
| Q: ok so hey my name's darren, im 13 and i have a problem. there's this girl i know and one day she ... A: Well you did not say what the racist comment was. Was it about a particular racial group or about ... | |
| probllem | 11/3/2009 |
| Q: I have a problem. I am masturbating since 8 years on an average 4 times a week from the age of 21. ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. I have a problem. I ... | |
| confused | 10/30/2009 |
| Q: I'm a lady of 20yrs, going out with a guy of 30yrs.We understand each other and in his presence i ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. I'm a ... | |
| I'm in need of some help/ advice. Please | 10/29/2009 |
| Q: ) So, I'm basically in a relationship with my dad where it has gotten physical. Physical as in ... A: Ok as long as you say that. But some men take up with women who have kids because they really want ... | |
| tenth graders | 10/29/2009 |
| Q: a girl at school has been spreading lies about my son and his family to other students and ... A: Anyone telling others untrue statements about someone is considered "slander" if spoken and "libel" ... | |
| Teenager | 10/28/2009 |
| Q: "My wife has a 14yr old brother and all he wants to do is play computer games in game outlets and ... A: He needs to have his money supply cut off. In game outlets there is plenty of junk food available ... | |
| I'm in need of some help/ advice. Please | 10/26/2009 |
| Q: ) So, I'm basically in a relationship with my dad where it has gotten physical. Physical as in ... A: its not that unusual for a father to begin to treat his daughter as the substitute wife. From what ... | |
| Anger | 10/22/2009 |
| Q: My name is Rae and I am 18. For the past week i have been very angry with my friends. You see a week ... A: Of course you have the right to be angry. People are notoriously insensitive to the problems of ... | |
| I'm in need of some help/ advice. Please | 10/19/2009 |
| Q: ) So, I'm basically in a relationship with my dad where it has gotten physical. Physical as in ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them.. Im not shouting So, ... | |
| my problem | 10/12/2009 |
| Q: I'm an Asian student.Since I love English so much,I took part in an oral English contest of our ... A: I would avoid any topics of a political nature. Since you are in mainland China Im sure the ... | |
| masturbation | 10/11/2009 |
| Q: luk i hv been masturbatin 4 about 7 years n i am 20 years of age...... my frequency was 3 times a ... A: You will not become impotent from maturbating. you DO NOT want to give up this practise. Every guy ... | |
| my teen age daughter height | 10/9/2009 |
| Q: my daughter is 12 and she is only 5ft tall other girls from her group are far more taller. I was ... A: Her height is going to be determined by her genetic makeup. At 12 years of age being 5 foot is not ... | |
| death | 10/1/2009 |
| Q: my name is ashley i lost my dad last year . I found him under his bed and he got took too hospital ... A: You probably have what is called in the US a Coroner or the Medical Examiner who does autopsies on ... | |
| Anorexia | 9/28/2009 |
| Q: I need help with how to deal with an email I got from a friend. "I just relaized last week that ... A: Your friend needs to be seen by a psychiatrist who is familiar with binging and purging. She risks ... | |
| I got used 3 months ago and I'm still not over it. | 9/25/2009 |
| Q: 3 months ago, at the end of the last school year, all the international high school sophomores go on ... A: whenever girls or guys are away from home there is always the temptation to do something with ... | |
| breakup | 9/20/2009 |
| Q: I recently had a breakup with my love. Now I am suffering and feeling the pain without her. I tried ... A: It sounds like you are trying too hard. She sees you as being needy or clingy and being desperate. ... | |
| The Smell And Taste Of My Pussy | 9/19/2009 |
| Q: I am 17 years old and my boyfriend is also 17. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for several ... A: I think you need to get a new boyfriend number one. Second his interest is a little unusual. He ... | |
| so... | 9/18/2009 |
| Q: so there is a girl i really like a lot, and we are also really good friends. we became good friends ... A: If she talks to him on the phone and online and text messages him he probably is not local unless ... | |
| so... | 9/11/2009 |
| Q: so there is a girl i really like a lot, and we are also really good friends. we became good friends ... A: sorry I'm late in answering. The boyfriend may be an internet type boyfriend. That she received a ... | |
| familly issues... | 9/8/2009 |
| Q: I am an 11 year old girl and i am bilingual.I speak polish and English. my parents and everyone were ... A: sorry for the delay but my wireless provider was not working. I will make some comments in capital ... | |
| Help. | 8/30/2009 |
| Q: Im 17 years old and i have a problem talking with school friends and girls i might like. Im even too ... A: I will make some suggestions you can try. You are far from being alone. But in talking online ... | |
| Scared... | 8/29/2009 |
| Q: I need help. I am 15 years old and I am going to be a junior in high school. I have never had a ... A: I will make some comments of what you can do to help yourself. will make them in capital letters ... | |
| Help Me!!! | 8/27/2009 |
| Q: I'm feeling so upset because whenever i get a boyfriend or a boy likes me,once i know he likes me i ... A: Is it possible you want a boyfriend because some or many of the other gilrs your age have one and ... | |
| MOTHER! | 8/23/2009 |
| Q: I can honestly say Im not a bad kid, I dont drink take drugs ... I clean my room every saturday for ... A: You sound well on your way to a sucessful life as long as you stay away from alcohol and other drugs ... | |
| Typical Teenage Question. | 8/22/2009 |
| Q: Alright, So I mustered up all the confidence I had and asked out a guy I liked. He said "I'll think ... A: If a guy says "I'll think about about it". I would say "well I won't hold my breath waiting for ... | |
| 16 and want to live elsewhere | 8/18/2009 |
| Q: I am a 16 yr old girl and I am staying with my mom's friend because for the 2 time she left my step ... A: The easiet way is to keep this informal. Your mom is ok with you living with her friend who is an ... | |
| new school new country.... | 8/17/2009 |
| Q: hey! you are an american right? well am from india and i sall be shifting to Los Angeles by the end ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters and also make a few corrections in some of your words ... | |
| Friends may have stolen my money ? | 8/14/2009 |
| Q: Wallet possibly stolen. How should I approach the situation? So I was hanging with some friends at a ... A: The dog did not take it abnd chew it up. Thats an old excuse kids use to explain why they did not ... | |
| masturbation | 8/13/2009 |
| Q: i am a boy of 16 years .is it required to leave masturbation as i think it is becoming a hindrance ... A: No there is not going to be any hindrance to the growth of your penis because of masturbation. If ... | |
| Cutting and Teachers | 8/12/2009 |
| Q: I cut myself and have been for three weeks, I don't really want to go to a therapist I want to grow ... A: You do not want to see a therapist. You feel if you talk to a teacher they will send a note home. ... | |
| Cutting and Teachers | 8/10/2009 |
| Q: I cut myself and have been for three weeks, I don't really want to go to a therapist I want to grow ... A: First of all do you know why you are cutting. I know it gives you a sense of relief to cut. What is ... | |
| my crush , follow up | 8/5/2009 |
| Q: "i am 14 year old girl who has a crush on her classmate. my crush is so cute and plays tennis and ... A: Just make sure that you always be yourself and do not try to be someone else. When you talk to him ... | |
| my crush | 8/4/2009 |
| Q: "i am 14 year old girl who has a crush on her classmate. my crush is so cute and plays tennis and ... A: No do not confess anything. Just ask him to teach you how to play tennis. Tennis is a game you can ... | |
| relationships | 8/3/2009 |
| Q: aight man, so im 17 and im moving out in like two weeks. my girlfriend is 15. i could live with her ... A: Well first of all how do you expect to pay for living expenses and electric and food and all the ... | |
| pls help | 8/3/2009 |
| Q: I am going to turn 14 on 13th august this year.I have an elder brother who has always been brilliant ... A: First of all your parents are making the same mistake most parents do. Comparing one child to ... | |
| kicked out | 7/31/2009 |
| Q: i am 16 and my little brother is 14 we were kicked out of our house by my mother at 5 am tuesday ... A: Your mother cannot tell either of you to leave your house. She is legally obligated to support you ... | |
| Old friend..Please read | 7/29/2009 |
| Q: was in Cali to train for a in a pro tournament for 2 weeks(long story), while I was there I thought ... A: She probably did not forget. I suspect she is busy with something or someone else. Maybe someone ... | |
| Prostate Gland | 7/28/2009 |
| Q: well i'm a 17 yr old and have been masturbating for some time now. some times upto 4 times a day, ... A: In persons who have to frequently urinate it sometimes means they may be becoming diabetic. If you ... | |
| Prostate Gland | 7/27/2009 |
| Q: well i'm a 17 yr old and have been masturbating for some time now. some times upto 4 times a day, ... A: I do not think you have over exerted your prostate gland. Its important not to try to hold back or ... | |
| what do you do when your hopeless | 7/26/2009 |
| Q: i need advice, i have been in georgia (i got sent their for the summer with my dad) and it is awful ... A: Sounds like you are between a rock and a hard place. His wife hates you because you are competition ... | |
| hi im 12 | 7/26/2009 |
| Q: hi im 12 years old and i wanted to ask a question i masturbate goes im going through puberty and i ... A: It has no effect on your height at all. Anyone who tells you otherwise is kidding or does not know ... | |
| cleaning | 7/24/2009 |
| Q: I'm wondering how you are meant to clean your penis, i know u roll back the forskin, but do you have ... A: No you do not need an erection to clean under the foreskin. Just wash it with soap and water and ... | |
| Uncontrolled erection | 7/22/2009 |
| Q: I am 25 and I get erection in an uncontrolled manner very often. Sometimes it's a sight of a nice ... A: Theres nothing wrong with masturbating more than once a day. When you stop doing it and retunr to ... | |
| My stepdad asked me to drink with him.....I kind of want to but I'm not sure? | 7/22/2009 |
| Q: I'm 16 and my mom is going out of town this weekend. My stepdad told me that if I wanted, he would ... A: I am happy you did not go through with this. A girl of 16 has nothing in common with a step parent ... | |
| Best Friend | 7/21/2009 |
| Q: I met my guy best friend in 6th grade and within a year I began to truly like him, and now I'm in ... A: First of all you have to learn to never waste time on anyone who does not retunr the interest you ... | |
| Breast obsession | 7/17/2009 |
| Q: I was wondering if you could help me with an issue I am having. I have an obsession with natural ... A: First of all stay off your computer for a while and delete any sites you go to. Second you need to ... | |
| Relationship w/ MOM | 7/16/2009 |
| Q: I'm 16 years old going on 17 in a month. My Mom doesn't let me have a boyfriend. I don't have one ... A: You are probably exactly correct about your mom. She may have gotten pregnant to get out of her ... | |
| height | 7/10/2009 |
| Q: 10 my parents both are tall and so my family are tall only me. m doing Masturbating since i was ... A: Hanna is that 4 feet and 10 inches tall or are you giving me metric system meansurements as in 2.54 ... | |
| i feel selfish. | 7/8/2009 |
| Q: i have been feeling very selfish latly. whenever i talk about myself i feel that i am. it's driving ... A: You seem to get some secondary gain out of making yourself embrace this "guilt"trip. You need to get ... | |
| confusedd | 7/5/2009 |
| Q: hey, so i'm 15 and i've been going out with a lad who is just 2 years older than me and we've been ... A: First of all you should not be dating someone older than yourself. At this age he is much more ... | |
| OCD | 7/3/2009 |
| Q: Well I have diagnosed OCD but my case is different than anyone ive met. My problem is i cannot touch ... A: Perhaps the water represents something else in your life or your experience. Were you ever taken ... | |
| mom | 7/3/2009 |
| Q: I am 19 years old. I feel weird using this because I won't be a teenager for much longer. However, ... A: It sounds like your mother is manipulating you by saying in front of others that you do not love ... | |
| penis size. | 7/2/2009 |
| Q: im 15 and my penis is 4 inches long un-erect and 5 erect. i am scared of going into a sexual ... A: your erect size is usual and common for your age. Your thinking is what is wrong. There is nothing ... | |
| Should ask her out or forget about her? | 7/2/2009 |
| Q: Well I really like this girl and she is beautiful. She is also very popular and any guy would date ... A: She may be struck on herself or just be snobbish. pm that case her looks can never make up for ... | |
| Loss of erection | 7/2/2009 |
| Q: We have had sex alot if other times and protected and un protected. We were having sex and I always ... A: Yes your worry and loss of your erection can make it go away. You probably did not make her ... | |
| ME AND MY PARENTS | 7/2/2009 |
| Q: HEY, WELL I'M 15 AND MY NAMES JUAN. I HAVE THIS PROBLEM WHERE MY MOM JUST RECENTLY FOUND OUT ABOUT ... A: I will answer in lower case letters so you will easily see them. HEY, WELL I'M 15 AND MY NAMES ... | |
| What should i do? | 7/1/2009 |
| Q: Well im 14 year old black girl whos going to be a freshman this year at a mostly black school.I had ... A: Have as little to say as possible. Just tell the person if anyone asks you about him tell them you ... | |
| Middle School Dating | 6/29/2009 |
| Q: I'm a 13 year old girl who just recently has had guys starting to ask me out a lot. I'm going into ... A: I don't think dating is better in high school, it is just different since you both are somewhat more ... | |
| race | 6/29/2009 |
| Q: would race play a role in the way that a girl decides who she wants to go out with? im 16 and i go ... A: Yes race is still a factor but no such much as it was 30 or more years ago. would it affect her? i ... | |
| Middle School Dating | 6/28/2009 |
| Q: I'm a 13 year old girl who just recently has had guys starting to ask me out a lot. I'm going into ... A: You show exceptional maturity and understanding for a 13 year old. I congratulate you. Some 13 ... | |
| love | 6/27/2009 |
| Q: i once had a boyfriend. I was 15 years old. he broke up with me. Then i didnt get a boyfriend for ... A: you are perhaps feeling miserable about this because he now has something you do not have. We all ... | |
| Any advice...at ALL! please? | 6/26/2009 |
| Q: high school on September 1st. My main question is that I need help, or somewhere to look to see ... A: Sorry for being late. I wrote you an answer a short time ago and then lost it so i am redoing it. ... | |
| I dont know where else to go for help | 6/25/2009 |
| Q: 17yo my parents are very strict. They're not the perfectionist type parents who need you to get ... A: If you get restricted even more then try not to "lose it". It won't do you any good and will only ... | |
| OCD | 6/23/2009 |
| Q: Well I have diagnosed OCD but my case is different than anyone ive met. My problem is i cannot touch ... A: No I have not heard about people with OCD having a fear of water. There are many people with OCD ... | |
| I Want to Die all the Time Because of my Mom | 6/21/2009 |
| Q: I HATE my mom and it's because of the abuse, I no she emotocanaly abuse's me and I want to die ... A: Your mother appears to be taking out her frustrations on you because you are the nearest person who ... | |
| Masturbation Problem! Help!! | 6/21/2009 |
| Q: So basically, I am 13 and I tried masturbation but whilst I was doing it I realised my penis hurt. ... A: This is a sensitive area since the skin is usually the thinnest on this part of the body. Its ... | |
| teenage love | 6/21/2009 |
| Q: Okay. There is this girl who is the most amazing girl I have ever met. I really like her a lot. I ... A: I looked at my answer and see a small mistake. The sentence that begins with "But you are ... | |
| Parents | 6/20/2009 |
| Q: what should i do please help me A: I wrote a long letter to you on sunday while in the library but they shut the computer off before I ... | |
| son's pushing sports on grandson | 6/19/2009 |
| Q: my grandson is 3. my son, his dad, wanted to spank him because he did not want to play basketball. ... A: His dad wanted to spank him because he did not want to play basketball? This dad has a real ... | |
| sibling rivalry | 6/19/2009 |
| Q: hey its me again thanks for your help earlier. i took your advice and tried to ask her out. i first ... A: well its good that you beat your brother out. He will get over it. Its ok to flirt but this girl ... | |
| Fingering | 6/16/2009 |
| Q: so im like 17, and i'm a pretty attractive girl. And all the boys at my school all try to get with ... A: this is no way to be popular with boys. These boys may have watched some porn and are imitating it. ... | |
| Guilt | 6/15/2009 |
| Q: I'm 13 and having a lot of guilt issues and maybe even depressed. A little while ago, I watched ... A: Forget the guilt feelings. You and a million others have watched porn and its not hard to come ... | |
| Masterbating | 6/11/2009 |
| Q: Is it okay to masterbate? If it is I just use my right hand and no cream or oil.. Should I be ... A: Yes its ok. There are about 2 or three hundred million young guys who do so and most every adult ... | |
| Teen penis.. | 6/11/2009 |
| Q: Im 15 years old and my penis is 2 1/2 inchs long not erect and 6 inchs long and 5 inchs around ... A: Everything is normal. It is supposed to get hard and this is due to the fact that blood is flowing ... | |
| Masturbation | 6/10/2009 |
| Q: Hi i have a problem i am 13 years of age and when i masturbate with my friends they get an orgasum ... A: theres nothing to worry about. Your friends are already producing sperm from their testicles and ... | |
| Mom | 6/10/2009 |
| Q: I'm 14 and im having a lot of problems with my mom. She just completley treats me like some kind of ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. Forgive ... | |
| A bad reputation | 6/7/2009 |
| Q: I'm a 15 year old boy, and finishing my freshman year in high school. I'm pretty much a loner, and ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. Hello, ... | |
| adjusting in a foreign school | 6/4/2009 |
| Q: hey thank you so much for your time! am a 14 year old indian girl and i just shifted to LA 3 months ... A: I will make some comments in CAPITAL LETTERS so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. Forgive ... | |
| my younger senior . | 6/3/2009 |
| Q: hey thanks for your time. am 15yrs old, a freshmen.i have a big liking for this girl who's a ... A: I willmake some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting, Forgive ... | |
| This Girl in Class...... | 6/2/2009 |
| Q: I'm a 15 year-old boy and I had this somewhat weird problem with this girl I like. I've met her ... A: My your english is perfect but you may be english and in a private school. Anyway, you know what to ... | |
| miss noconfidence | 5/25/2009 |
| Q: am a sophomore in high school you she my problem is that i have very little confident i am a good ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. hi am ... | |
| Don't Want to Tell | 5/24/2009 |
| Q: I was wondering if you could please help me with how I might be able to get my family (I'm a minor) ... A: This sounds like closet sex or standing up sex. Obviously neither one of you were prepared for ... | |
| my boyfriend | 5/23/2009 |
| Q: i have been having sex with my boyfriend like twice a day i am 15 and he is 17 he had sex for the ... A: First of all you are involved in a sinful relationship. No pastor I know of would sanction such a ... | |
| Penis size | 5/21/2009 |
| Q: I'm 15 and him worried about my penis size and its holding me back from the rest of my friends who ... A: 5 inches erect is about what most guys have. Its about as normal as can be for a guy who is 15. ... | |
| Student-Teacher Relationship | 5/18/2009 |
| Q: First of all I'd just like to thank you for taking the time to answer the questions of complete ... A: I read your letter a few times. Its very rare to get such a long letter like yours. From reading ... | |
| Him :( | 5/16/2009 |
| Q: so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 years. We were so in love always hanging out having a ... A: your boyfriend is now in a different environment. he has new friends and he is seeing a whole new ... | |
| How do I ask this girl out? | 5/15/2009 |
| Q: I have been friends with this girl for a good long time, and am very comfortable around her. I have ... A: First of all you should be able to figure out her schedule. When will she be showing up for a class ... | |
| self harm | 5/14/2009 |
| Q: Ok so my gf told me last nite she self harms. At first I got angry so didn't understand how she cud ... A: what is it about her dad that makes her want to self harm herself. Is she telling you all? Did her ... | |
| Too stressed..... | 5/12/2009 |
| Q: Im 17 and I feel like im not livin life as I should. I have frends but they're always talkin about ... A: I suggest you try to be more open and more talkative when you around others. You sound like you may ... | |
| self harm | 5/11/2009 |
| Q: Ok so my gf told me last nite she self harms. At first I got angry so didn't understand how she cud ... A: About all you can do is to make sure she sees a doctor and you go with her to make sure and you also ... | |
| sex | 5/9/2009 |
| Q: okay so like im gay [ imma girl ] and me and this girl got in it and she fingerd me and popped my ... A: A girl is considered a vigin until she has her first sexual intercourse. You have apparently not ... | |
| my friend may be in trouble | 5/6/2009 |
| Q: If you know that a close friend is struggling with a depression issue, what is the best way to help ... A: You seem to recognize that he is in a depression. If so do not worry about offending him or giving ... | |
| Parents/Graduation | 5/4/2009 |
| Q: I am a 19 year old senior a few weeks away from graduating and I am totally at a loss as to what I ... A: All of you are going through a stressful period. Your parents ending their worklife and you ending ... | |
| My life. | 5/4/2009 |
| Q: I've been feeling empty for a couple months now. I'm 17, and the oldest of 5. I havent hooked up ... A: Sounds like you might be depressed. But anyway, why do you not trust them? I suggest you do some ... | |
| Over Protective Parents. | 5/4/2009 |
| Q: I was dating a girl for 5 years. From my stupid mistakes I got arrested and her parents won't let ... A: I do not see why you cannot afford to buy her an inexpensive phone for $15 and you take care of ... | |
| Friend help please. | 5/3/2009 |
| Q: I have a huge problem. I was caught cheating with my best friends boyfriend. he fingered me, we made ... A: Well you have hope that your freindship will be restored. Its good that this did not go any ... | |
| Realtionships... | 5/3/2009 |
| Q: I am 18 and I have not been able to start a relationship yet. I have been with two different guys ... A: Guys are typically interested in sex and love second. You cannot give in because thats what ... | |
| sexual advice | 5/3/2009 |
| Q: People in my school have been going crazy over sex. So they need advice.....AND THEY ALWAYS ASK ... A: You need to stop answering their questions and stop saying anything to them. Ideally they should ... | |
| im a jealous person... | 5/2/2009 |
| Q: I feel like i am the most jealous person ever, but when i tell other peopl my situation they say i ... A: I will make some comments Hi im Lucas. I feel like i am the most jealous person ever, but when i ... | |
| sex in front of other people | 5/2/2009 |
| Q: i'm a 16 year old girl and i have a boyfriend who's also 16. my question is how can i change my ... A: I thought this was a crank question until I saw it was from canada. I've had questions before about ... | |
| hello i hav an important question | 5/2/2009 |
| Q: im a 14 year old teen... my girl told me she wated to have sex whit me but i dnt kno if i ... A: No you should not. Here is why. Once the boyfriend/gorlfriend relationship takes on a physical ... | |
| boys | 5/1/2009 |
| Q: okay so i really like these 2 boys in my school they are both my best friends i have known one my ... A: First of all you better get over how you describe yourself. If you were as you say Nympos you would ... | |
| Does she like me? | 4/30/2009 |
| Q: Ok, so I'm freshman who likes this girl, but I don't know if she likes me. I just became her friend ... A: it sounds like you are doing quite well already. Heres a few ideas. Do your homework and by this i ... | |
| Sex help | 4/29/2009 |
| Q: How do you have anal sex? I mean I'm 16 and every time I get ready to have anal sex with a girl ... A: This sounds like a web site for eveeryone to look at. You can ask the same question here and just ... | |
| personal.! | 4/26/2009 |
| Q: i am a 12 year old going on 13 and i am in 7th grade. and one of my close friends recently told me ... A: Its not that uncommon to have feelings for somoen of the same sex. You have known the one friend ... | |
| Over Protective Parents. | 4/26/2009 |
| Q: I was dating a girl for 5 years. From my stupid mistakes I got arrested and her parents won't let ... A: Love will find a way. I just saw virgin mobile phones in walmart for $14.98. Thats nothing to pay ... | |
| Am I crossing the line with my son? | 4/25/2009 |
| Q: I am a 37 year old single mum with 2 teenage children. My daughter is 16 and my son is 13. My son ... A: A sons first love object is his mother just like a girl. You did not say where his father is or ... | |
| relationships | 4/24/2009 |
| Q: I'm only 16 years old and I've been dating the same girl off and on for maybe 4 months, obviously ... A: if you know in your heart this is not going to be your life partner and you know that other girls ... | |
| Parents! | 4/24/2009 |
| Q: I'm an 18 year old boy, living in Europe. My parents were divorced since I was 3. My father got ... A: first of all stoip all smoking and do not get into alcohol. These are just things people use to ... | |
| askin him out | 4/22/2009 |
| Q: ok so im a girl aged 13 and i "like like" this boy but i don't think he likes me and iv'e asked my ... A: Never Never ask someone else to ask a boy out for you. You always have to do this yourself. You do ... | |
| Friend help immediately. | 4/20/2009 |
| Q: I have a huge problem. I was caught cheating with my best friends boyfriend. he fingered me, we made ... A: like most teens you do not foresee consequences of your actions. In this case about all you can do ... | |
| Over Protective Parents. | 4/20/2009 |
| Q: I was dating a girl for 5 years. From my stupid mistakes I got arrested and her parents won't let ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting I ... | |
| Alcohol and Sex | 4/10/2009 |
| Q: Im a 17 year old male from Ireland.Ill keep this concise,I dont drink alcohol,never have and dont ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. Im a ... | |
| How, or if I should, get my Ex-Girlfriend back | 4/7/2009 |
| Q: I'm 15. I fell in love with Shelby last year in September. We went out until March. I was clingy, so ... A: You seem to get angry and then you forgive her. She probably sees that as being clingy. You still ... | |
| teen love | 4/7/2009 |
| Q: Do you think it is okay for a 15 yr old girl to be engaging in sex with her 6 month boyfriend if ... A: No. You should not be engaging in sex. Not because you are too young but this should be reserved ... | |
| Help... | 4/7/2009 |
| Q: Our school this coming monday is doing a crack down on students who hurt themselves.I'm a peer ... A: Forgive me for being so dense. I think you see yourself as being one with the school in cracking ... | |
| Help... | 4/6/2009 |
| Q: Our school this coming monday is doing a crack down on students who hurt themselves.I'm a peer ... A: Your school is doing a "crackdown" on students who hurt themselves? Do you mean like cutters? ... | |
| dating | 4/2/2009 |
| Q: im 14 and i like this girl okay? and she likes me too. we both do track right now but she is a ... A: If you know her then just walk up to her and be sure to smile and say "Sara (or whatever her name ... | |
| Making Life A Misery | 3/26/2009 |
| Q: This is quite a long story, but i will try and explain it. I have known this boy for about 7 years, ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. This ... | |
| help | 3/22/2009 |
| Q: my and my boyfriend had sex and the condom broke. and i have 2 weeks till my next period. there was ... A: Theres not a great chance that you might become pregnant from a small amouint of semen. The reason ... | |
| DEPRESSION | 3/19/2009 |
| Q: my name is lily. i was abused and i told a trusted teacher she called children services and that is ... A: First of all no you cannot be pregnant unless you have had sexual intercourse with a male who has at ... | |
| Fixing a Broken Heart | 3/18/2009 |
| Q: Basically, me and my girlfriend dated for 3 years, and we both loved eachother. Well she ended up ... A: I know the pain of a broken heart only too well myself. This girlfriend needs to be out of your ... | |
| Help. | 3/16/2009 |
| Q: I'm 15 years old and already I'm ready to give up on myself. Me and my mom are constantly fighting. ... A: This sounds like the typical power struggle between teenagers and parents. When you were younger ... | |
| DEPRESSION | 3/15/2009 |
| Q: my name is lily. i was abused and i told a trusted teacher she called children services and that is ... A: Lily, you need to talk to your parents or someone at your school. They can arrange to have you seen ... | |
| is my boyfriend normal? | 3/12/2009 |
| Q: i'm a 17 year old girl and i have a question about whether you think my boyfriend is normal or not. ... A: I do not know what normal is anymore than I know what reasonable is. Is this common or usual ... | |
| Perfect Teacher | 3/10/2009 |
| Q: I am in 10th grade and in most of my classes I excel with straight A's and get everything done ahead ... A: I would calmly talk to him and tell him that I correctly got the formulas and the answers right and ... | |
| My brother is ruining my life and my family. | 3/9/2009 |
| Q: My brother is 16 Years of age. My question is. I live at home With my mum and my brother, My mum and ... A: I will make soem comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. Hello ... | |
| Cheating? | 3/5/2009 |
| Q: What if Jenna and Jane are studying for a test. Jenna has already taken the test but is helping Jane ... A: No you were not cheating. If you asked someone to give you answers then it would be cheating. You ... | |
| Masterbation | 3/4/2009 |
| Q: My name is Steve and I'm 14. When I am masterbating I cannot ejaculate. Why is this? I am also ... A: If you have just began to masturbate and have not become sexually mature as of yet then its normal ... | |
| am i a lesbian? | 3/3/2009 |
| Q: i'm a 14 year old girl and i have a question about whether i could be a lesbian. first of all, i'm ... A: No I do not think you are alesbian. You are not attracted to same sex persons and seem to be ... | |
| Am I correctly cleaning my Uncircumsized Torpedo? | 3/3/2009 |
| Q: I'm going to be blatant. I am a 17 years old dude. I was raised by a single mother for the first ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. I'm ... | |
| in a bit of a twist | 3/2/2009 |
| Q: well first off I'm 13 and I'm not the hottest looking guy (fat) but lately I'm getting better with ... A: first of all never talk about another girl or an ex-girlfriend when you are with a new girl. Girls ... | |
| masterbation | 3/1/2009 |
| Q: i am male seventy years old. is it normal for me to masterbate ?. A: yes it is absolutely normal. If you are unmarried and not having any sexual outlet its all the more ... | |
| related to masterbation | 2/26/2009 |
| Q: i am 14. i have been masterbathing for almost 1yr. my Ques. is that does it make me physically weak. ... A: Masturbation does not leave you physically weak. It does not have any side effects other than to ... | |
| grinding | 2/24/2009 |
| Q: i'm a girl, i'm 13 years old, and i'm in grade 8. there's a dance coming up at my high school and ... A: I will amke some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. hello! ... | |
| teen award | 2/22/2009 |
| Q: Our city gives out awards to kids of all ages who demonstrate qualities such as leadership skills, ... A: My first inclination is to drop him. However, are the bad things he has done been substaniated or ... | |
| Self-Esteem and confusion.. | 2/20/2009 |
| Q: Jonathan. Good-evening.. I just have a little question here.. A little dilema I'm having currently ... A: i will make some comments in caps so you will easily see them. imnot shouting. Forgive any typos as ... | |
| Self Esteem. | 2/19/2009 |
| Q: my name is Corrina,I don't know if you can help me though,if you can't then just say so.But I have ... A: WHATS THE WRONG REASON? NOW IM UNABLE TO UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU MEAN. THERE IS NO SUCH HUMAN BEING ... | |
| Self Esteem. | 2/18/2009 |
| Q: my name is Corrina,I don't know if you can help me though,if you can't then just say so.But I have ... A: If you have believed on the Lord Jesus Christ and have accepted him in your heart then you shall be ... | |
| What is masturbation? | 2/13/2009 |
| Q: am jordan from africa, uganda, (kampala). i'd like you to explain to me what masturbstion is. and ... A: I wish you had given your age but it sounds like you are in your teenage years. Masturbation is the ... | |
| feels like no girl wants me | 2/12/2009 |
| Q: I'm 16 years old n I have never had a girlfrend ever. I've only been on 1 date n never had a kiss. ... A: I will amke some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. Forgive ... | |
| Self Esteem. | 2/10/2009 |
| Q: my name is Corrina,I don't know if you can help me though,if you can't then just say so.But I have ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not ashouting. ... | |
| About a Boy. Grrr. | 2/9/2009 |
| Q: Okay, so I'm 14 years old. I play a lot of music and im in the local youth wind band and jazz ... A: i will amke some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. Forgive ... | |
| Umm well sex | 2/8/2009 |
| Q: well im 13 and i like am really thinking abt sex its not like i want to have its just idk i ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters. Im not shouting. Umm well sexwell im 13 and i like ... | |
| I think | 2/4/2009 |
| Q: When I was 17 years old, a senior in highschool I had the same problem as all these girls did with ... A: You have a strong drive for independence which our society emphasizes just the opposite. This ... | |
| letting boys borrow my used panties | 2/1/2009 |
| Q: i'm 17 years old and i'm a girl and i'm in grade 12. since about a month ago, i've been letting boys ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see my answers. Im not shouting. ... | |
| MASTURBATION ANDPENIS PROBLEMS | 1/31/2009 |
| Q: Greetings! I am from Hyderabad , India aged 28 years unmarried guy. I have a problem. I am ... A: I will amke some comments in capital letters so you will easily see my answers. Im not shouting. ... | |
| Grades. | 1/25/2009 |
| Q: my name is Renee and I am sixteen years old. From 6th to 8th grade my grades were C's and D's but ... A: I think your grades are just fine and i wish i could say i did as well. I do not see you having any ... | |
| Sex with the Boss | 1/23/2009 |
| Q: I am a 17 year old girl living in South Africa. At 14 I started working on weekends and School ... A: Not ot be judgemental but sin is sin and there is no such thing as sin not hurting someone. Every ... | |
| school/career | 1/21/2009 |
| Q: my name is Emil and I am a sophmore in highschool. I am having problems with my grades. Last year I ... A: First off you are not a bother at all. And you are not asking too many questions. Im happy doing ... | |
| school/career | 1/19/2009 |
| Q: my name is Emil and I am a sophmore in highschool. I am having problems with my grades. Last year I ... A: Dentistry, funeral home director if you own the business and which the Hudson valley Community ... | |
| school/career | 1/17/2009 |
| Q: my name is Emil and I am a sophmore in highschool. I am having problems with my grades. Last year I ... A: I will amke some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. Forgive ... | |
| teen premarital sex | 1/13/2009 |
| Q: how does premarital sex effects the teenage life? how can a teenager avoid premarital sex? A: that must be short for Conrad. How does it affect teenage life? it can bring guilt and it can ... | |
| Sex with the Boss | 1/10/2009 |
| Q: I am a 17 year old girl living in South Africa. At 14 I started working on weekends and School ... A: Answers again in caps. Im not shouting.I thank you for your response. Yes this is South Africa and ... | |
| Bullying | 1/10/2009 |
| Q: my son (13) came home from school really scared yesterday and I finally got it out of him that he ... A: No its not normal for girls to engage in this kind of behavior. What this is an assault. Any boy ... | |
| Ministry | 1/9/2009 |
| Q: Is it wrong for a elder of the church to talk about sexual fantasies over the phone and state that ... A: Is it wrong? You bet it is. This elder needs to be removed from the church like yesterday. God did ... | |
| Sex with older man | 1/8/2009 |
| Q: I have bee having sex with my neighbour who is 53 for over a year. He is wealthy and I look after ... A: I will anser again in capital lettersHi Jonathan thanks for your response and strange as it seems, I ... | |
| Cleaning of the uncircumsized penis *URGENT!* | 1/6/2009 |
| Q: my name is sammy, im a 13 year old male, uncircumcised and i dont know how to clean my penis, I know ... A: Just be gentle and use a mild soap maybe a liquid soap designed for use in the shower might be best. ... | |
| is something wrong with me? | 1/6/2009 |
| Q: There is something that has been bothering me for a very long time.It was like when i was around ... A: I am guessing that primary 3 is 3rd grade? Now that you are 13 you would be in 7th or 8th grade. ... | |
| My mom | 1/6/2009 |
| Q: I hate her so much! Its not like other moms but she just dosent care she and I hate it she a BITCH!. ... A: I will amke some comments in capital letters so you will easily see my comments. Im not shouting. ... | |
| My Friend Needs Help | 1/5/2009 |
| Q: I understand that you are probably very busy but i just need help with my one friend. I'm a 17 year ... A: i will amke some cokments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Imnot shouting. Please ... | |
| Uncircumcised, parents never told me anything about it! | 1/4/2009 |
| Q: My name is Rhyan, I'm a 15 year old boy, and i am uncircumcised. I always knew there was a ... A: I WILL MAKE SOME COMMENTS IN CAPITAL LETTERS SO YOU WILL EASILY SEE THEM. IM NOT SHOUTING. FORGIVE ... | |
| Sex with the Boss | 1/3/2009 |
| Q: I am a 17 year old girl living in South Africa. At 14 I started working on weekends and School ... A: I will make some comments in capiotal letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. ... | |
| Sex with older man | 12/30/2008 |
| Q: I have bee having sex with my neighbour who is 53 for over a year. He is wealthy and I look after ... A: I will amke some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. Forgive ... | |
| I like a guy & found out he is 34 | 12/29/2008 |
| Q: Um i am 16, but i have a 18 year old mentality. So lately i have lost all interest in high school. ... A: About the only thing you have in common with this guy who is 34 is that you are in the same dance ... | |
| reationships/experimentation | 12/28/2008 |
| Q: Im a bi curious guy who had a 1 time fling with another guy @ a summer camp in 2007, so I started to ... A: Perhaps you feel some guilt about having this fling or you feel you were not quite ready to venture ... | |
| PLEASE help | 12/23/2008 |
| Q: i'm 13 years old and i have a girlfriend that i love to death. the thing is...i really want to kiss ... A: Greg, all you have to do is sit next to her where you can be in a private setting like on a front ... | |
| DOES MASTURBATION STOP HEIGHT | 12/18/2008 |
| Q: I M 13YRS AND IM MASTURBATING SINCE 1YEAR AND IN THAT I HAVE NOT INCREASED BY A SINGLE CM.SO IM ... A: Your friend is wrong. Masturbation is the most common thing that teenage and many preteen boys do. ... | |
| my Bestfriend | 12/17/2008 |
| Q: In my school you study from 1st grade to 11th grade because I'm not in US but i was born there. so i ... A: There is no such thing as play flirting. It is real and Im certain she likes you. Now is the time ... | |
| boy problem | 12/15/2008 |
| Q: i have this crush wen we first met we would hang out like we were together and he always made me ... A: I wish you had given your ages. If you are a younger teen and he is a younger teen this is all too ... | |
| Circumcision | 12/11/2008 |
| Q: i'm a 16 year old boy living in the UK. when i have an erection, the foreskin dosen't roll back. Is ... A: When you have an erection the foreskin will not necessarily role back to show the glans. This is ... | |
| confussed | 12/10/2008 |
| Q: I'm 16 and I have split up with my boyfriend about a month a go, and there is a few lads i like ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see my comments. Im not shouting. ... | |
| overbearing parents | 12/9/2008 |
| Q: My family recently moved me to California with them in thinking that it would benefit me because ... A: I think you have what I call ICP (independence conflict with parents). The only cure for ICP is ... | |
| Mixed Race Relationship | 12/7/2008 |
| Q: I am 16 and I've been going out with a Muslim boy for almost nine months now, and at the beginning ... A: Obviously you are of a different faith. Muslims can be very strict and the devotion tothe Koran ... | |
| Am I a lesbian and am I saved? | 12/5/2008 |
| Q: I'm 13.I'm a girl.I feel that I'm overeffactuated with breasts.I searched on the internet about ... A: I can see that you must be watching a lot of porn but do you not have to pay for it? Do your ... | |
| Friends are ogling my Mom | 12/4/2008 |
| Q: I'm 16 years old, and live with my parents. Off late, I've been a little disturbed by the behavior ... A: You are right to be upset. Your mom may appear to be youthful to them but she is years beyond them. ... | |
| Sophie. | 12/3/2008 |
| Q: (I'm 14) Well, I never really knew this girl very well but we chatted and laughed constantly! - I ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them . Im not shouting. Excuse ... | |
| Am I a lesbian and am I saved? | 12/2/2008 |
| Q: I'm 13.I'm a girl.I feel that I'm overeffactuated with breasts.I searched on the internet about ... A: This is the longest letter i have ever received. I will make some comments in capital letters so ... | |
| shyness | 12/1/2008 |
| Q: i m a 20 yr old guy.Awkwardly I have become introvert since past few years n never felt to talk much ... A: Joy, since you are a medical student you should have access to physicians where you are going to ... | |
| pimple | 11/27/2008 |
| Q: i have pimples on my face and when they slowly get dissapear,, at that time time they again grow up ... A: Well pimples in the teenage years are usually due to acne which comes about during puberty. There ... | |
| depression | 11/26/2008 |
| Q: I'm 13 and from the UK. I think I suffer from child depression and I have only told one of my ... A: Sophie I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting. ... | |
| Mom cheated on Dad on our vacation - how do I handle this? | 11/24/2008 |
| Q: I'm 18 years old, and live with my parents. My dad is 44 and mom is 38. They were always doing ... A: I will make some cmments in capital letters so you will easily see my answers. Im not shouting. ... | |
| Feeling unpretty | 11/22/2008 |
| Q: I am a sixteen year old female. I had many crushes on guys, but they never like me back. They date ... A: Don't worry Anna. Its not your glasses or being ugly. And do not feel heart broken. We all feel ... | |
| Loneliness and Relationships | 11/20/2008 |
| Q: I am 17 and I have put a considerable amount of effort into to trying to make myself happy, but ... A: I meant to include the lyrics to a song which Im sure you can look up on the internet. I sent it ... | |
| Overstepping the line? | 11/19/2008 |
| Q: I'm 17 years old, and live with my parents - Dad is 40, Mom is 38. I'm very close to my Mom, and I ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Imnot shouting. I'm 17 ... | |
| Sex | 11/16/2008 |
| Q: Heeeeeey=] im 13 and my friend is to she has been suspended recently due to her attitude but Im ... A: Your friend should not be having sex period. Next she should not be having sex with someone older ... | |
| im male and my nipples produce a liquid if squeezed | 11/15/2008 |
| Q: i am a male 13 year old if i squeeze any two of my nipples hard enough, a tiny amount of liquid ... A: Yes its normal. Breasts and nipples are really modified sweat glands in both males and females. In ... | |
| mum´s issue | 11/14/2008 |
| Q: well here is my problem. my mum is always protecting my brother, he can do what ever he want. if he ... A: Mums sometimes devote more attention to a son than they do to a daughter. He is like a mamas boy as ... | |
| How do I tell my parents? | 11/12/2008 |
| Q: I am 17 years old, and an honour roll student, i am really involved in school and have lots of ... A: First of all your dad is not going to harm him and your mom will still speak to you. Your parents ... | |
| a gals problem | 11/11/2008 |
| Q: .......im hasini from bangalore....im 14yrs... first of all i dont have my mother & im living in a ... A: You are in a tough situation. Im not a mother but what kind of questions do you have? If possible ... | |
| School | 11/10/2008 |
| Q: I am not sure what i should do about school because i am being bullied for being gay (even though i ... A: You did not state your age or if you are in the US or the UK. But what you describe is like sexual ... | |
| my best friend | 11/4/2008 |
| Q: I've been friends with Tyler since 7th grade and just recently i realized how amazing he really is. ... A: I suggest you say to Tyler "Tyler theres this movie showing at (fill in the blank) and I'd like to ... | |
| emancipation | 10/29/2008 |
| Q: Today was the big day and i was very nervous in court.Well if you remember me i asked if you thought ... A: Cleopatra Well congratulations. You are one of the fortunate few who actually succeed in gaining ... | |
| erection | 10/26/2008 |
| Q: is it normal to keep getting erect for most of the day when around my girlfriend A: Yes its completely normal or usual or common. Especially around your girlfriend and especially when ... | |
| mum | 10/24/2008 |
| Q: my mum had a nervous breakdown when i was little and went into hospital she is out now and had a 3 ... A: I suggest you try to spend time with her and try to get her out of the house and go somewhere ... | |
| engagement | 10/20/2008 |
| Q: i am 18 years old and i have been dating my girlfriend for 23 months and i really think we are ... A: Lewis What a nice question you have written. You can propose marriage to your girlfriend anytime ... | |
| Im sad... | 10/19/2008 |
| Q: im mai, 16 form essex and recently my friends have started to notice that im not really the same ... A: all of the things you have described are indeed stressors. They are not just hassels. Your best ... | |
| how do i prove it. | 10/16/2008 |
| Q: ive been liking this guy for about a while now & he has a girlfriend, but he still flirts with me & ... A: Tell him that if this is the kind of person he is or if this is the kind of boy he is then he is not ... | |
| Depression. | 10/15/2008 |
| Q: Hey, I have been out of high school now for about 2 years. I started in colledge for a trade right ... A: feeling down and depressed much of the time is related to some kind of loss. Other times no such ... | |
| moving out at 16. | 10/14/2008 |
| Q: my dad is in iraq and i live with my mom. my parents are divorced. and me and my mom dont get along ... A: (pretty name) I will make a few commments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not ... | |
| predictable | 10/7/2008 |
| Q: im wiil and im 15, so how can i become less predictable? My friend told me this, "its nice that you ... A: I have been meaning to send you the lyrics to a song that Im sure will help you. Its one formerly ... | |
| 2 QUESTIONS : MASTURBATION AND HEIGHT GROWTH ? | 10/5/2008 |
| Q: 1st Question : I want to ask you that how many times masturbation in a week will be suitable at this ... A: There is no set number of times. Some guys do this once a day and some twice a day and some three ... | |
| questions | 10/3/2008 |
| Q: 28.My legal parent died in 2006 I have been living on my own since 2007.Now I have 2 kids 1 & 1 on ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see my answers. Im not shouting. ... | |
| My Boyfriend | 10/2/2008 |
| Q: When my boyfriend and i make out he gets these erections and i don't know what to do about it. I ... A: its perfectly normal for him to have ab erection while he is kissing you or just being around you. ... | |
| Help, please!! | 10/2/2008 |
| Q: Well to start, I'm a 12 year old boy. At one point of this I felt suicidal, and I'm being serious, ... A: First of all i will answer in capital letters so you will easily see my answers. Im not shouting ... | |
| UNCONTROLLED ERECTION | 10/2/2008 |
| Q: iam jordan and i am 12 years old. my penis uncontrollably becomes erect. what should i do about this ... A: At this age it is completely normal for this to happen to you. This can happen up to 20 times a day ... | |
| Help! We are losing our son. | 10/1/2008 |
| Q: My son is almost 18 and began dating our neighbor about 1 year ago. This was his first and only ... A: this may be his one and only first love. He sees you as trying to interfere with something he may ... | |
| 16 son has girlfriend | 10/1/2008 |
| Q: My son has been dating this girl for 6 mths. He spends every waking hour with her or on the phone ... A: its obvious he is in love with this girl. Be grateful he is interested in a girl given what some ... | |
| My Staring Problem | 9/29/2008 |
| Q: Ok so i have a huge problem.. I like to stare at guys' you know whats.. i really want to stop this ... A: Leah, Im assumming thats through clothing. Its common to look at guys and check them out and guys ... | |
| mastepbation | 9/25/2008 |
| Q: is jackin off a sin im a christian age 14 and cant help but to feel bad when I do it P.S. dont lie ... A: James, throughout history every religion has said that masturbation is a sin. I used to see it ... | |
| My Relationship | 9/25/2008 |
| Q: Ohkay. I am a female. I have a fiance. I love this person so much I can't even get it all into ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see my reply. Im not shouting ... | |
| I'm having trouble getting my penis in | 9/21/2008 |
| Q: me and my girlfriend tried to have sex for the first time a couple nights ago. let me tell you she ... A: Chris, if your penis is erect and you have a condom on it all you need is a lubricant such as KY ... | |
| Kids | 9/19/2008 |
| Q: My son lied and does not go to school; appears depressed. you i put him under counseling? A: Kids as well as adults might not be able to identifyif they are depressed. If they are they are ... | |
| Dry sex but not "fully" clothed | 9/19/2008 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I are long-distance. We've been talking on the phone about all we want to do when I ... A: Christina, You and he are getting closer and closer to actually having sex. There is little chance ... | |
| Mothers | 9/10/2008 |
| Q: so, i read a previous message to you about a girl who was having problems with her mom, and im also ... A: Tim, its time you broke away from this attachment you seem to be holding onto with your mother. I ... | |
| lost | 9/8/2008 |
| Q: i met a girl on holiday and we spent every second with each other, now were back in england shes ... A: Graham, I hate to use tired overworked phrases but in this case I will. "ABSOLUTELY NOT". You do ... | |
| Lads. | 9/6/2008 |
| Q: Ok Im Stacey Im A Girl, Im 13 Years Old.. Ive Really Liked This Boy For Just Over A Year Now, He ... A: Stacey, A lot of boys are immature at this age. Boys tend to be sight oriented while girls tend to ... | |
| Facing failures with teenage son | 9/5/2008 |
| Q: I am so very depressed, its my son who just turned 20 last month. He has been a failure from his ... A: Sush, First of all you and your wife need to let him know that you both love him and want the best ... | |
| Teenage daughter | 9/4/2008 |
| Q: We immigrated a year ago and my daughter (17) don't have any friends and she also don't know how to ... A: Anneke, Do all you can to immerse her in english. Encourage her to watch television and you can ... | |
| amsipated | 9/3/2008 |
| Q: i am 17 girl. me and my parents dont get a long very well in fact we get into arguments just about ... A: Amy, in many states in order to get emancipated you need to be self supporting so you need a job and ... | |
| lost | 8/29/2008 |
| Q: i met a girl on holiday and we spent every second with each other, now were back in england shes ... A: Graham, If you have the means (money) to go with her and if she wants you to go with her then of ... | |
| how do i tell? | 8/6/2008 |
| Q: i met this guy (16) at my climbing club a few months ago and hes really nice and funny and we get on ... A: Alice, it sounds like he is testing the waters to see how receptive you are to the personal things ... | |
| ex-boyfriend. | 7/18/2008 |
| Q: it's Nikki i am 17.I just had my first boyfriend last year and we lasted almost 2 months but i broke ... A: tALK TO HIM IN PERSON AND TELL HIM YOU ARE SORRY FOR THE WAY YOU ACTEDOR SORRY FOR NOT BEING THERE ... | |
| Masterbation | 7/17/2008 |
| Q: Im a 15 year old boy, but am afraid to masterbate/wank. I am aware that my friends do it but i just ... A: Every teenage boy masturbates even if they say they do not. Most start long before your age . You ... | |
| I'm in love with her and i want to ask her out, but i can't. | 7/14/2008 |
| Q: I'm a 15 year old male and I'm very depressed. I'm in love with this girl called Sophie she's my age ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see them. Im not shouting I'm ... | |
| It breaks my heart | 6/19/2008 |
| Q: ever since the death of my father when i was 11 i have constantly been struggling with my mother. ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see my answers. Im not shouting ... | |
| Confused about my sexual orientation :S | 6/14/2008 |
| Q: erm.. this is really kind of embarassing.. im 16yrs old and its been quite a long time now that i'm ... A: You are at an age when you have many conflicting feelings and many of the friends of yours have ... | |
| Problem with parents | 6/12/2008 |
| Q: i suppose it would be better to start about 6 months ago. My mum was sleeping around and dad found ... A: You are 15 and just left school does that mean for the summer or what? Don't you have to go to ... | |
| girl problem | 6/11/2008 |
| Q: I'm 15 years old, and i have a problem about a girl. well there is a girl that i really like, but ... A: Glad things are better. Be sure to tell her if anyone says anything about you all she has to do is ... | |
| Problem with parents | 6/10/2008 |
| Q: i suppose it would be better to start about 6 months ago. My mum was sleeping around and dad found ... A: I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily seen my words. Im not shouting and ... | |
| after our situation | 6/9/2008 |
| Q: what should i do if my girlfriend wants a baby but im not ready for a kid yet and she cant accept ... A: I wish i knew what your ages are. If you are not teens thats ok, i will still give you my opinion. ... | |
| girlfriend problem | 6/6/2008 |
| Q: what should i do if my girlfriend wants a baby but im not ready for a kid yet and she cant accept ... A: Brandon, if you are both teenagers and she wants to have a baby, where is the money and job supposed ... | |
| Me being myself | 6/5/2008 |
| Q: I am a 17 year old daughter of a controlling mother. Recently, I asked my mom if I could dye my ... A: Shayda, your mother cannot understand why you wish to look like a . This is rather funny to me ... | |
| how to stop masturbation | 6/4/2008 |
| Q: i am 21 year male from india. i have a problem, that is i am not able to control masturbating. even ... A: Rajesh, There is nothing wrong with masturbation. Its the most common practice in the world among ... | |
| PRIVACY | 5/29/2008 |
| Q: I was wondering would you please tell me: why do my parents just walk into my room if I'm working ... A: Cameron, you did not give your age but i am guessing you are a recent teenager maybe 13 14 or ... | |
| My Mother | 5/24/2008 |
| Q: I turned 18 almost 2 months ago and I'm still in high school and I have summer school to attend to ... A: Stephanie, At 18 in most places you are usually quite free to do as you please. You do not need ... | |
| moving out in MA | 5/13/2008 |
| Q: how can i move out at 17 in ma? there has to be sum way right??? A: Adina, you have to be declared emancipated which is a legal term and it means you have to go before ... | |
| girlfriend | 4/30/2008 |
| Q: 16. i feel like my girlfriend does not want to spend time with me. she has ambitions to be a ... A: James. Your "girlfriend" in quotation marks does not appear to have the desire to have a boy-girl ... | |
| Girl problem | 4/28/2008 |
| Q: Ok i met this girl at shcool and we would talk. Every 2nd per we would talk about work and wat n0t. ... A: I ask people to give their age but im guessing you are both teens . You have to get up the courage ... | |
| im very strange | 4/17/2008 |
| Q: hey wass up dude. i wanted to ask you a few questions.im hoping you can provide me with good ... A: Colin, I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see my answers. Im not ... | |
| Friend Question | 4/13/2008 |
| Q: and thanks for taking the time to read my question. I'm a 19 year old college freshman (a girl). My ... A: Terri, I will make some comments in capital letters so you will easily see my comments. I'm not ... | |
| sexuality | 4/9/2008 |
| Q: please help me... im basically feeling really confused at the moment. theres this girl called ... A: Katherine, in the teenage years we all have many different feelings. Its not uncommon to think ... | |
| concerns regarding my 12 year old son | 4/8/2008 |
| Q: rude to me, cant ask or say anything to him. moody A: As he approaches adolesence its not unusual for a 12 or 13 year old to be moody. Their body is ... | |
| alot! | 4/7/2008 |
| Q: im in all the top classes at school and in my last year before 6th form. i've been accepted into a ... A: Mai, This is probably just your age youre in. You are in the midst of puberty so naturally you will ... | |
| my exboyfriend | 4/2/2008 |
| Q: my name is morrigan and i am 15 years old and a girl. Last summer i dated the popular boy. We were ... A: well about shyness its something you have to get over by being asserive to other people for example ... | |
| Wicked Step Mom | 3/27/2008 |
| Q: I am girl and I am almost 17. My parents separated (they were never married) when I was only 1 year ... A: Cho, this is a classic case of the stepdaughter being a "Rival" in the stepmoms head. She sees you ... | |
| urges | 3/26/2008 |
| Q: I have these urges of wanting to have sex like any other teen, see I know this girl that is decent ... A: Kion, first of all delete all the porn and delete all the sites. Theres always an internet trail ... | |
| Home Arrangements | 3/24/2008 |
| Q: My parents divorced two years ago when I was 14 and we had recently moved to a new home. My mom ... A: Emily, a change in living places is quite a change plus living with your mom and not your dad is ... | |
| relatives prob | 3/14/2008 |
| Q: i'm not sure tht my question wud fall in this category but i cudn't find any other. i'm 17yrs ... A: This is the year 2008 now and its 2008 no matter where in the world you live. If you are asking me ... | |
| torn | 3/10/2008 |
| Q: i met this boy a while back now he is 19 and im 16 but from the first day i saw him i havent been ... A: You are still in high school and he is probably not. This means he has been out in the world and ... | |
| I am findng it so hard to make friends | 3/6/2008 |
| Q: at an unusual time of year and i am finding it so hard to make friends. making friends is usually ... A: Isabella, you seem to have come upon a dorm hall where the relationships have already been formed. ... | |
| friends | 3/5/2008 |
| Q: i want to end a friendship with my friend. but she is in several of my classes so i dont want her to ... A: You call her a friend? Yet you no longer want to be friends with her? If she is obnoxious or nosy ... | |
| guys | 3/3/2008 |
| Q: i haven't known him long but hes at my school what should i do help A: If you really want to know then ask some of the gals he has been out with. He might be a player who ... | |
| Parental Trust | 2/20/2008 |
| Q: my name is Kristen and I am 15 years old. I decided to write you after an incident that happened ... A: I will answer in capitals so you will easily see my comments. I'm not shouting. Parental TrustHi, ... | |
| question to expert | 2/11/2008 |
| Q: why boys attract us?i'm 19 years old. A: Its because of the hormonal changes brought about by puberty. When you were younger you preferred ... | |
| I Want To Move School | 1/30/2008 |
| Q: i really want to move to a differnt school because i am gettin bullied by some boys iv tried to ... A: Katie, I usually hear this from boys but sometimes its girls bullying other girls. In your ... | |
| I'm getting sad | 1/20/2008 |
| Q: I am not interested in anything apparently a normal 13 year old would like. Yes, that means I ... A: Brooke, my email is scussetbeach@hotmail.com and it is also msn instsnt messenger. I think you need ... | |
| I'm getting sad | 1/16/2008 |
| Q: I am not interested in anything apparently a normal 13 year old would like. Yes, that means I ... A: Brooke, first of all you have a very pretty name. No one is more crueler to a child than another ... | |
| love triangle-ish. | 1/15/2008 |
| Q: i have fallen for a lad who is has a friend who is a girl, thats in love with him, he had feelings ... A: I do not believe in giving people ultimatums like if you want me or her then choose. He is liable ... | |
| love!!!!!!!! | 1/10/2008 |
| Q: i am 16 yrs old and i love a girl who is 14. she knew from the beginning of our friendship that i ... A: John, when you ask a girl out three times and she declines each time or makes some excuse why she ... | |
| my boyfriend | 1/9/2008 |
| Q: Hey I'm back, Ok, I broke up with my boyfriend last night but I got back together with him. He is ... A: He is also the kind that will stock his ex-girlfriends. I do not understand that phrase. If you ... | |
| my boyfriend! | 1/8/2008 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. Every now and then he gets a text from ... A: Tamara, the answer is simple. He does know them or they would not be able to call him on the cell ... | |
| love!!!!!!!! | 1/4/2008 |
| Q: i am 16 yrs old and i love a girl who is 14. she knew from the beginning of our friendship that i ... A: John, you may have moved into the "friend zone" without being aware of it. This is when you ... | |
| Boyfriends. Technically a lack there of.... (Pathetic, right?) | 1/1/2008 |
| Q: I'm Alex. Anyway, I've picked you to talk to because you mentioned you had a Tennis Clinic. Very ... A: Alex, I do not think you are doing anything to scare any guys away. I think its more likely that ... | |
| boyFriend/sex | 12/25/2007 |
| Q: I have a ? my boyfriend is acting strange. He is doing pot and i am afried that the drugs are ... A: First of all buy an EPT early pregnacy test and use it. If yo do not know how then call a planned ... | |
| 17 year old son | 12/23/2007 |
| Q: Our 11th grade son has already scored a 27 on the ACT. His last report card had 4 D's 2 C's and a B. ... A: You can do nothing or do a little or do a lot. 4 D's is very poor and shows he is not really into ... | |
| mum | 12/15/2007 |
| Q: i dont get on with my mum she pays more attention to my sister who is 8 years old than she does ... A: Floyd, for five years you were the only child and all attention was lavished on you. Then your siter ... | |
| moving out at 17 | 12/13/2007 |
| Q: hey.i'm 16 but i'll be 17 in 2 months and a junior in high school.i've been dating this guy for ... A: Emily, long distance romances do not have a good record. You are also at a time inyour life when ... | |
| cant get over a girl | 12/12/2007 |
| Q: I have a HUGE crush on this girl. She is drop dead gorgeous. She is in one of my classes. I have ... A: Its obvious you are obsessed or infatuated or both. Neither of these are love. Instead of ... | |
| Miss him, but see him every night | 12/9/2007 |
| Q: I'm a fourteen year old girl, so you know. A year and a half ago, on the second to last day of ... A: You can please some of your friends some of the time but you cannot please all your friends all of ... | |
| Junior High Dating | 12/7/2007 |
| Q: I am in 11th grade (junior high) and i really like this girl in 9th grade, who is so pretty. I don't ... A: Kinan, the best approach is the most direct one. But first you need to do your homework. By this i ... | |
| Fitness | 12/5/2007 |
| Q: I am a boy and twelve and quite fat but I am losing weight because of my badminton practice. I have ... A: Carlos, You need to start right now to alter your weight. First off look up on the internet under a ... | |
| im not sure what to do | 11/27/2007 |
| Q: hey ,my name is brittney,im 15 and i need help! so,this past summer i moved from newfoundland to ... A: Brittney, I will answer in capitals and also ask a few questions. Im not SHOUTING. hey ,my name is ... | |
| these things are getting me down | 11/25/2007 |
| Q: and greetings to u. i have so many problems. there getting me down more than ever before. this is ... A: you must be from the UK or australia. Being shy and being a teen is very common and is not unusual. ... | |
| Im 16 and I want to move out | 11/19/2007 |
| Q: Im 16 and I dont like where i live. I live with my grandparents b/c my mom is gay and they got ... A: Ashley, It is possible if your grandparents agree. This can be what is called a "gentleman's ... | |
| my parents are getiing divorce!! | 11/17/2007 |
| Q: my parents are getiing divorce!! I'm a fourteen-year old second year student. I'm czeska, and my ... A: There really is an answer as long as you are not put off by where it is found. You cannot look to ... | |
| What to Do on the first kiss on a girl | 11/15/2007 |
| Q: friend I have been dateing her all year long And i have never kissed her. Her sister And friend ... A: Randy, you should watch the movie "Man In The Moon" with Reese Witherspoon as a young girl. She ... | |
| helpp | 11/12/2007 |
| Q: ! im so confused because i still like him alot plz help xx danika A: Danika, being online and in person are vastly different. He may be just shy in person or he may ... | |
| 17 year old son | 11/11/2007 |
| Q: I am a bit concerned with my 17 year old son and his social or lack of life. He is a good kid that ... A: Bud,I wrote you an answer a while ago but the computer would not work to send it so i am trying ... | |
| am i too available? | 11/10/2007 |
| Q: !! down to business. My ex and I went thru the trouble of not being able to see eachother when we ... A: Renee, No you did not push him away. It seems obvious that he did not wish to continue the ... | |
| my mom is annoying! | 11/8/2007 |
| Q: my mom is almost always in a bad mood maybe because she is tired or she hates me or she just hates ... A: Milena, first of all do not try to harm yourself. You are in an age where you have feelings and ... | |
| Moving out | 11/7/2007 |
| Q: I am 16 and I live at home and I hate it here my mom constantly complains about everything I do and ... A: Brooke, it sounds like you have a stepfather and of course he has become first in her life now. Its ... | |
| Teen Masterbation | 10/30/2007 |
| Q: I too, have a 13 year old son that can't let the moment pass him by. I have read that it is doing ... A: How is he wasting time? And how is he forgetting? Its totally common or usual or normal for teen ... | |
| does he like me? | 9/30/2007 |
| Q: okay, im 14 and currently in high school. i have a crush on one of my classmates and im not sure if ... A: Melissa, how far from you does he live? 5 miles, 10 miles, 20 miles??? There has to be a way for ... | |
| 17 year old | 9/24/2007 |
| Q: I recently found out from my son (Senior) that he doesn't talk to anyone at school. When we moved ... A: If he is feeling depressed then you must take him to your family or primary care physician. He or ... | |
| does he like me? | 9/22/2007 |
| Q: okay, im 14 and currently in high school. i have a crush on one of my classmates and im not sure if ... A: Its obvious he likes you but may be afraid to ask you out or let you know. In a case like this if ... | |
| What's up with my friends' parents? | 9/21/2007 |
| Q: I just have a question with a problem that I think has gone on long enough. My friend and I are ... A: If you are 18 you are practically an adult. Unless you have a past you are not telling about it ... | |
| Moving out | 9/15/2007 |
| Q: I'm 19 years old and as you probably know, it's pretty difficult and stressful to get used to the ... A: Everyone has to make the move out of the family nest but some do so after going to college and then ... | |
| masterbation | 9/5/2007 |
| Q: Please can you give me some advice as i have no one else to ask. Iam a 15 year old girl and i wanted ... A: Sara, no it is not a fetish. A fetish is something a person needs or uses to generate sexual ... | |
| I cant make friends | 8/20/2007 |
| Q: I'm an 18 year old guy and I just moved into my dorm room in college a couple of days ago and I ... A: Patrick, first of all never wait for people to come up to you and introduce themselves. You need to ... | |
| My Boyfriend | 8/16/2007 |
| Q: I am 14 & hav been goin out wiv my boyfriend for 3 months, but we dont talk at skool or go out & ... A: He is just being shy and you are shy too and he has probably not had a girl friend before. you can ... | |
| moving away from home | 8/11/2007 |
| Q: Through my life I was raised in small towns. I'm now in the middle of my highschool years and my ... A: Athena, I will answer in CAPITALS so you will easily see my answers. Im not SHOUTING. Through my ... | |
| my parents do not trust me. | 8/8/2007 |
| Q: well, i guess i need some help with my parents. i'm a girl, and 16 years old and they don't trust ... A: Well, they still see you as you were two years earlier and the fact that a 13 yo friend of yours ... | |
| i need help | 8/7/2007 |
| Q: Well im really scared that i could be pregnant cause if i am its my xbf and me and my xbf are both ... A: Stacie, I wish you had given me your age. But I'll skip the sermon and not tell you "You should ... | |
| sex | 8/6/2007 |
| Q: hey jonathan! my name is alex and im 17 years of age. first of all how old are u..haha. anyways im a ... A: Its hard to believe you do not already know this if you are really 17. As to the uncle this could ... | |
| resistance | 8/5/2007 |
| Q: I am an 18 year old male, just graguated highschool, going to college this fall. I have an odd ... A: Paul, most people are happy to be in love with someone. But the state of being In Love is kind of ... | |
| i fill alone with my trichotillamnia | 8/2/2007 |
| Q: i know I'm not the only one out her with this problem but its so hard to stop pulling my hair out ... A: Tiffany before you keep this up you need to level with a primary care physician who will refer you ... | |
| WAKE UP | 7/16/2007 |
| Q: My name is Cameron Barwick and I'm a 25 years old male Would you please explain to me: whenever I ... A: You may have been having a sexual dream and at the point of orgasm it causes a release and you ... | |
| depression | 7/13/2007 |
| Q: my life is bascially down the drain right now. for starters i got hit by or hit a truck 2 weeks ... A: Kaite, I will answer in CAPITALS SO YOU WILL EASILY SEE MYA NSWERS. Im not shouting by the way. my ... | |
| I don't know how long I can hold on to us. :'( | 7/9/2007 |
| Q: I am 18 and my girlfriend, Holly is 17. We've been together for almost 4 months and things are ... A: Matt, If you are in love you know you are. There is no doubt about it. If she is in love with you ... | |
| growth | 6/26/2007 |
| Q: im 14 years old but going to be 15 this december. i started my period when i was 12.. i hear a lot ... A: The answer is you will still grow. Reaching puberty and going through it is a time of physical ... | |
| jealousy | 6/24/2007 |
| Q: orita my name is alex nd im 16 i live in wales(uk)nd iv bn goin out with my gf for 1year and 2 weeks ... A: You just have to never ever ask her about any previous boyfriends. If you do and act jealous you ... | |
| I'm sick of pessimists. | 6/18/2007 |
| Q: I'm 18 years old, and I've been dating the same guy for eleven months. I've had three other ... A: Kali, Nat King Cole had a song titled "Too Young" about " they try to tell us were too young, too ... | |
| boyfriend problem? | 6/17/2007 |
| Q: I recently asked Amanda, a different person on this site a question and tried to ask a follow up ... A: Lindsay, I think Arthur has his head in the clouds. You cannot afford to waste your time on people ... | |
| I don't have any pubic hair. | 6/11/2007 |
| Q: I'm 14 and i'm a boy..Should i have pubic hair? A: Bryan, All guys develop at different rates. If you have the other secondary sexual characteristics ... | |
| teen masterbation | 6/4/2007 |
| Q: I have a 13 year old son, lately when i walk into his room, he is masterbating under the sheets, he ... A: He is just learning about human sexuality and is learning what feels good to him. Most parents or ... | |
| hi ya | 5/31/2007 |
| Q: i am 15 and i am a virgin and what does it feel like for the girls and do girls bleed after sex or ... A: Since you are 15 and a virgin the first thing I would tell you is to stay that way . You are ... | |
| Football | 5/21/2007 |
| Q: Ok im am 17 and recently my mom and i had been in an arguement, and she told me to pack a bag and ... A: David, first of all she cannot tell you to pack a bag and get out. She is legally obligated to ... | |
| i dont know if it was me | 5/11/2007 |
| Q: he is 15 and im 13!!!!!ok so i was with my bf for only 2 weeks and everything seemed perfect we ... A: Things that arent very suitable for a thirteen year old? Im not sure what that means. But since he ... | |
| His Eyes... | 5/5/2007 |
| Q: Sup? I am a Christian teenage girl, and i have a crush on this christian guy who likes me back! ... A: Youre getting too wrapped up in one person. Besides hes two years older than you are and will be ... | |
| masturbation | 4/30/2007 |
| Q: i think i have may started masterbating to early in my life because honestly since i have been ... A: You did not start masturbating too soon. And there is nothing wrong with this activity. Its how you ... | |
| girlfriend | 4/25/2007 |
| Q: please take this seriously as it's quite embarrasing "Hi, i have a problem that there is a girl ... A: You ask her out and forget about any other issue. At your age this should not even be discussed. ... | |
| I am becoming so insecure that i change my looks ! | 4/19/2007 |
| Q: i am a 17 yr old guy. now lately i have began 2 get so self-concious of my look. i dont know why, ... A: AS YOU PROGRESS THROUGH PUBERTY ITS NORMAL TO BECOME MORE CONSCIOUS WITH HOW WE LOOK AND HOW WE ... | |
| Girlfriend (Problems?) | 4/16/2007 |
| Q: .. I'm 16, currently studying my A-levels, and have a wonderful girlfriend (also 16 but studying her ... A: This is very long. I will make some comments in capitals so you will easily see my comments Hi... ... | |
| rebiuld friendships | 4/13/2007 |
| Q: This year I found out that no one really likes me and have stopped trying to be my friend, because ... A: Its not true that noone likes you. We all feel like that sometimes. About rebuilding relationships ... | |
| i dont understand!!! | 4/12/2007 |
| Q: right... theres this guy.. hes 4 years older then me.ive known him for about a year now, we've been ... A: 4 years is too much of a difference for someone your age. What does someone 4 years older than you ... | |
| i want my life back.. | 4/7/2007 |
| Q: Im in a deep mess right now I don’t know what to do. I need help.. Im 18 yrs old this year, and I ... A: I WILL ANSWER IN CAPITAL LETTERS SO YOU EASILY SEE MY ANSWERS. IM NOT SHOUTING BY THE WAY. Hi. Im ... | |
| Spring Break | 4/3/2007 |
| Q: I want to do something fun and special over spring break, but I have nothing to do. My parents are ... A: You ca surely find someone from school who is not going away and hang out with them. Since you are ... | |
| Boyfriend problems | 4/2/2007 |
| Q: I am 17 almost 18 and I need a little bit of advice in what I should do with the situation I am in. ... A: You need to establish trust in any relationship. Teen relationships are difficult to do because of ... | |
| i need to know | 3/25/2007 |
| Q: really need to know if he does so should i ask him what would happen if i died or what do you think ... A: Megan, no do not ask such a question of anyone. if someone loves you they will make it known to you ... | |
| help | 3/23/2007 |
| Q: in caracas my 14 years old son had an argument at the catholic high school he atends with other boy. ... A: I WILL ANSWER IN CAPITAL LETTERS SO YOU WILL EASILY SEE MY RESPONSE.. in caracas my 14 years old ... | |
| what should I do? | 3/18/2007 |
| Q: well your a guy right well i want to no why do guys hide there feelings? im going through tough ... A: Michelle, guys have always been taught to hide their feelings. They may be hurting on the inside , ... | |
| net frnd | 3/4/2007 |
| Q: your answer was very good.it really helped me. one thing though,is having net friends something bad ... A: No net friends are not bad unless you have someone who seems to be obessed with meeting you. Watch ... | |
| net frnd | 2/21/2007 |
| Q: i wanted to discuss some things abt this net friend that i have.i'm 15 and he's 16. he's frm my ... A: The latest information Ive seen is that its probably not a good idea to have a steady boyfriend for ... | |
| masturbation | 2/20/2007 |
| Q: i understand that i will get spontaneous erections during my teenage years but just the other day i ... A: Yes its normal. You are nearing the peak years of your budding sexuality. Its completewly normal ... | |
| Argument | 2/18/2007 |
| Q: I really want to get an account on MySpac* (I'm 14, by the way), but my parents won't let me because ... A: YOU MOST LIKELY HAVE PLENTY OF FRIENDS YOU MEET AND SEE EVERY DAY SO YOU DO NOT NEED TO GET MIXED UP ... | |
| I am in so deep! | 2/17/2007 |
| Q: Okay, I may have sent you the question regarding how to ask this guy that I like if he wants to ... A: No he likes you. Boys are terribly shy and they will resist their friends attempts to push them ... | |
| school dance | 2/15/2007 |
| Q: Ok, well, I am 13 (7th grade) and so is this guy that i like... He is really nice, cute, athletic, ... A: Sorry Im late but the best approach is the most direct approach. Just ask him for his email address ... | |
| Confused and worried.. | 2/4/2007 |
| Q: I really need assistance and advice here please.. Here's the basics,ect. I'm 17(18 in 7 ... A: Matt, I really do not see a relationship here, at least not yet. If you are 18 in 7 days you must ... | |
| 123333 | 1/30/2007 |
| Q: well when i masterbate cum doesn come out im 13 but my freind who is 12 masterbates and cum comes ... A: Jony, everyone is a little different. Your friend may be slightly more advanced in his puberty. He ... | |
| confused about self and friend | 1/19/2007 |
| Q: Well, me and my best friend started of great. We would always go over to each thers houses and hang ... A: I would stop using the text messaging just because its available. You need to see down with her and ... | |
| Moving out | 1/17/2007 |
| Q: Hey, everytime me and my mum have an arguement she tells me to move out she doesnt want me living ... A: Bad idea, you are looking at more trouble and you may end up doing the paying rather than your ... | |
| help | 1/14/2007 |
| Q: i'm 15(female) and terribly depressed.reasons?here u go 1)since the past two years i've been losing ... A: The first thing you do is make an appointment with your primary care physician or your gyn doctor if ... | |
| boyfriends drama | 1/5/2007 |
| Q: !! and my friends told me to come in i got quite nervous but he came to the back of the shop where ... A: You are going to have to learn to face him yourself. You need to learn the answers you are seeking ... | |
| Concerned about a 14 yr old | 1/3/2007 |
| Q: yet rather some advice on a problem that my friend Ana is having with her daughter; below I am ... A: Well, Sasha is a cutter, a term that applies to a lot of young people today. They cut themselves ... | |
| hello | 12/31/2006 |
| Q: i have a problem. First of all, a couple years ago my friends started distancing themselves from me ... A: Well its always comfortable around those you have been around all your life and that is your family ... | |
| boyfriends drama | 12/29/2006 |
| Q: ok i know this guy nd we used to go out but than we broke it of as fo he was moving a bit to quickly ... A: He was trying to show you he still likes you in an indirect way. And since you seem to be thinking ... | |
| love | 12/19/2006 |
| Q: i am 15 years old and i am finally going out with the boy that i liked for so long, we both love ... A: Why not just let him kiss you and enjoy it. You will get used to it. Perhaps you had a bad ... | |
| Friend | 12/14/2006 |
| Q: My name is lisa. Hi could you please help me. About 4 months ago me and my parents had this fight ... A: My name is lisa. Hi could you please help me. About 4 months ago me and my parents had this fight ... | |
| a little off topic... | 12/13/2006 |
| Q: Well, lately i have been getting told that i "need to know what i want to be when i grow up." i have ... A: Jay, you did not give you age but I will try to give you some ideas. First of all I have ... | |
| So Complicated! | 11/16/2006 |
| Q: Hey, my name is Dan and I'm a senior in high school. For the past few months, I've started to ... A: It certainly sounds as if she is as attracted to you just as much as you are attracted to her. You ... | |
| Boy problems | 11/1/2006 |
| Q: Hi I am 17 years old I like a boy but he don't like me I told him that my cousin is a boy and I told ... A: Never ask anyone else to ask someone out for you. You need to do this for yourself. If the boy ... | |
| help | 10/26/2006 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I recently took a break in our relationship... A few days ago things were going ... A: If she is in high school and you are not then don't try to persuade her to give up any of her high ... | |
| is this normal | 10/22/2006 |
| Q: ..im 15 and dont no whether i am doing something rite... wel i have wet dreams which i know are ... A: what does your semen look like? it looks whitish colcor but may be clear and it becomes clear if ... | |
| Problems With Parents | 9/30/2006 |
| Q: my name is Rachelle and I am 16. I am in Grade 11 right now and I have this problem with my parents. ... A: Rachelle, you seem to know exactly what you want to do in life and your parents seem determined to ... | |
| about teen suicide | 8/25/2006 |
| Q: what is the common reason why a teenager well comminte suicide? A: There is no common reason but many. It can be due to drug use or a loss that has occurred such as ... | |
| need to know if i may have OCD | 7/16/2006 |
| Q: i allso have to take down some papers in my room and i am always checkin myself to see if i have ... A: Cerissa, Only a doctor of psychiatry should make the determination of whether you have OCD or not. ... | |
| OCD | 12/26/2005 |
| Q: hey im ray,im 14 and i would like to ask a question regarding OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder), ... A: Ray, OCD ers seem to fall into a few categories . Checkers like checking if they did something ... | |
| Problems with son | 10/27/2005 |
| Q: I regularly do not do this but my family is going through a crisis right now and I could really use ... A: I do not think you did anything wrong. The worst thing a kid can feel is to be left out of a group ... | |
| ANAL SEX N PENIS | 9/20/2005 |
| Q: ..! This is PAUL.M a 23 yr old man.My problems are:- 1> Whenever am having sex with my gf,my ... A: I WILL ANSWER IN CAPITALS SO YOU WILL SEE MY ANSWERS EASILY This is PAUL.M a 23 yr old man.My ... | |
| pregnet | 8/18/2005 |
| Q: i was 15 when i lost my first baby, the doctor says i will have a vary hard time having babys after ... A: I think the best thing you can do is visit a doctor. If not then the fact that you missed a period ... | |
| Addiction | 7/22/2005 |
| Q: I want tell you about a dangerouse addiction i have with mountain dew it consumes my life i drink it ... A: YOU ARE AFTER THE HIGH QUANTITY OF CAFFEINE IN THE DRINK. DO NOT SUBSTITUTE COLA DRINKS FOR THAT. ... | |
| Plz help! | 6/28/2005 |
| Q: Hey sweetie,I hope u can help me.I need your advice.I hope you can help me.I worry about my mom ... A: YOU MAY SEE YOURSELF AS A PARENT AS IF YOUR ROLES ARE REVERSED. SHE SHOULD BE LOOKING OUT FOR YOU ... | |
| You see, I cry over everything.... | 4/3/2005 |
| Q: You see, I cry over everything. Like, if I get frustrated, I'll cry, or if we have group projects in ... A: ALANA, I WILL ANSWER YOUR QUESTION AND TRY TO HELP YOU. I WILL ANSWER IN CAPITALS SO YOU WILL SEE ... | |
| trichotillomania | 3/31/2005 |
| Q: i think i might have trichotillomania, i constantly pull out my eyelashes and eyebrows. the more ... A: It is an example of trichotillomania which has caused some people to lose all the hair on their ... | |
| A friend named Kari | 3/23/2005 |
| Q: I have a friend named Kari. I've known her for about 3 years, and one of my best friends has known ... A: She may lie out of habit or out of insecurity about something. If she annoys you then you have to ... | |
| sex | 2/25/2005 |
| Q: girls always look at me but i am to scared to talk to them i dont even go to clubs. is society ... A: I WILL ANSWER IN CAPITALS hi ive been told that woman are just as visuall as men (sexaully) and ... | |
| . | 2/24/2005 |
| Q: my name is Angelina and i'm a 17 year old (18 in a few months) from California. The problem i have ... A: I WILL ANSWER IN CAPITALS SO YOU WILL SEE MY ANSWERS my name is Angelina and i'm a 17 year old ... | |
| love | 2/7/2005 |
| Q: on valentine's day there's going to be a valentines day dance. I have a girlfriend named jessica. ... A: Kevin, I can't dance either except slow dance which everyone can do. You can too. Because you ... | |
| Am I going crazy? | 1/24/2005 |
| Q: I talked with a pyschiatrist over the phone and set up an appointment...Obviously, I'm feeling a bit ... A: Don't forget to keep your apointment with the psychiatrist. The next time you are under a lot of ... | |
| Am I going crazy? | 1/22/2005 |
| Q: I'm 17 and think I might be losing it. I've been a perfectionist all my life, but this year, my ... A: Mike, I will answer in capitals so you will see my answers. Am I going crazy?NO NOT ... | |
| I need help moving on..... | 1/15/2005 |
| Q: Hey This is going to be long, but i hope you read it all. thanks.... ok here is my problem. Me and ... A: Yours was not a match made in heaven from your letter. You will get over him for sure. But right ... | |
| Social Anxiety | 6/23/2004 |
| Q: Its me again... thanks for being clear and answering fast. I want to clear up some things that I ... A: Ok, I see you added me to msn messenger. What I think you may have a problem with is the shaking or ... | |
| Social Anxiety | 6/22/2004 |
| Q: I have heard that a lot of psychological ilnesses like depression or social anxiety start at ... A: Jason, I will answer in capital letters so you will see my response. I also do not quite understand ... | |
| boys | 6/11/2004 |
| Q: if have ihave sex witha boy and he is not my bf does that make a whore A: NO. It does not. A whore is a woman or girl who sells her body to strangers for sexual purposes. ... | |
Teenage Problems
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I have dealt with many young people in a teaching environment as well as in teaching young people at tennis clinics. Since younger people have seen so little of the world their view of the world should not be shaped by the confines of what happens within their family unit. Its natural to be shy about developing relationships outside the home but young people need to know the other person is also probably just as shy as they are. If you havea problem then remember you are in good company. There are no new problems. Someone else has also had the same problem. If you need ideas on how to handle them or some choices to consider feel free to ask. I will answer questions about moral issues and how to handle such issues when they come up in your life. Continue reading about the issue of bullies which can be physical, emotional or sexual as well as bullies who use the internet to spread stories about you. You do not have to be teenager to ask a question here on how to handle this. If you are a pre-teen or tween you may also ask a question here.
Experience
I have taught children from 7th through 12th grade. It is all too common for young people to be shy or hesistate because they fear rejection from someone of the opposite sex. You do not have to be a teenager to ask a question here. If you are a pre-teen or "tween" as is commonly used now and are being "bullied" by someone and bullies can be other kids who hit you or as is becoming more common sexual bullying by name calling or spreading stories about you feel free to ask a question about what to do about it. There is also cyber bullying by people who may know you and there can be people who are pretending to be someone they are not who may insult you and try to destroy your self esteem. When you run into people who insult you its best to just block them and delete them or at the very least close down the messenger you are using. If anyone taunts you by calling you names or racial slurs or any slur that involves a persons sexual orientation you need to understand that the person doing that is trying to project their own questions about their own sexual orientation that they are questioning. This may sound complicated and it is. The people who are the most hateful in reality hate themselves and hate what they are desperately trying to convince themselves they are not (for example being gay or lesbian).
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