| Subject | Date Asked |
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| not allowed to date | 10/10/2008 |
Q: My parents don't believe in teens dating and want me to wait until I'm 18 before making such ...
A: Rhia - If you continue sneaking around, eventually you're going to get caught. It's best to be up ...
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| What is my next step? | 9/12/2008 |
Q: I got 2 big major problem. Firstly concerns my boyfriend, he is super sensitive but i love him, he ...
A: Celeste - It sounds like your boyfriend is trying to control you which is NOT healthy. You need to ...
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| Jealous Girlfriend | 9/8/2008 |
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for a while, two years next month, but i'm still insecure with things. ...
A: Rachelle - If he's never cheated on you or given you any reason to doubt him then you need to be ...
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| help please | 7/26/2008 |
Q: i was babysitting a few months ago and the kids dad came home and was complimenting me on my figure ...
A: Chloe - What he did was inappropriate and definitely crossing the lines. I would tell someone you ...
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| Please at least read this. | 4/24/2008 |
Q: This summer a boy, who is 16, asked to have sex with me. I said no. It was the last night of camp ...
A: Hayley - You need to tell someone you care about what happened. He pressured you into having ...
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| guy problems | 3/8/2008 |
Q: Alright, so I'm a sophomore and I sit next to this guy in my english class. He's constantly teasing ...
A: Lena - It sounds like this is his way of showing you he likes you. Boys are immature and just like ...
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| Should I tell her? | 2/29/2008 |
Q: Hey Ashley I'm 16 and a sophomore in HS. I don't want you to think I'm a perv or anything, but ...
A: Paul - I think you probably should point it out to her but I've been trying to think of a tactful ...
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| asking out | 2/25/2008 |
Q: I'm 16, a junior in high school, and have never had a girlfriend. Lately, there is a girl at my ...
A: Matt - Just go up and start talking to her. Find out what you two have in common and go from there. ...
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| kissing | 2/8/2008 |
Q: ok, so i have a boyfriend (we just started to go out) my friends say that he has liked me for a ...
A: Lisa - Most of your kissing skills come naturally actually. Some tips I have are don't shove your ...
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| So my girlfriend is thinking about leaving me...for another girl.. | 1/11/2008 |
Q: Ok, so my name is Coty, I'm 16 years old, and me and my girlfriend have been together for a little ...
A: Coty - First of all, pressuring her won't win you the case. It'll only make her push away from you ...
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| love and best friend ??? | 12/18/2007 |
Q: okay so here is how it all goes down ... so me and this guy A have been friends for a while now and ...
A: Kay - If you guys are truly happy, then I say you keep going with the relationship. You have no ...
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| friendz | 12/17/2007 |
Q: Ok so theres this boy jordan in my 5th period.I've recently began to develope a crush on him except ...
A: Have you tried talking to your friend about this? Your friend might be more understanding than the ...
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| my gf | 12/3/2007 |
Q: hey Ashley im 13 years old and ive asked you like 3 questions before this related to girlfriend ...
A: Gary - I think you should try talking to your girlfriend. Let her know that you're there for here ...
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| Surgery and parents | 11/25/2007 |
Q: I'm 17 and a senior in high school. I'm an A cup and have always been insecure about it. I feel ...
A: Rachel - Once you're 18 you don't need your parents permission or really have any obligation to ...
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| boys | 11/14/2007 |
Q: okay my best ffriend likes this guy who shes really close with and i hun gout with him at thsi ...
A: Taylor - You should probably talk to your friend and ask her what she said to your friend. She's ...
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| eating disorders | 11/6/2007 |
Q: i'm 16, and a few years ago, I used to go dancing and did some modelling, so i was always quite ...
A: Kat - There's a difference between wanting to be thin and healthy and wanting to just be thin. ...
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| His sister... | 11/2/2007 |
Q: Ok pretty much....I have a friend that I hang with alot. Well one day at his house I left my phone ...
A: Brian - I think it's something you should definitely discuss with your friend before attempting ...
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| I wasn't really sure were to ask this, heh heh. | 11/1/2007 |
Q: Hey Ashley, I'm 14 (my birthday's in May) and I'm currently in a rock band and I'm the ...
A: Ellie - First of all, props to you for being a female drummer. The world need smore girl rockers ...
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| drinkingand drunk | 10/30/2007 |
Q: Your question was "Hello. I'm 14 year old boy in year 8 and live in australia. Recently there have ...
A: Bob - I know how you feel. I'm 23 and I don't drink, smoke, do any of that stuff and I never have. ...
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| My mom | 10/4/2007 |
Q: I'm 17 and I'm pregnant. I need to leave the house because my mom isn't creating a comfortable or ...
A: Violett - I suggest you try to find some kind of legal counselor who can help you move out. I can't ...
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| please help me cos i dont think i can still cope | 10/2/2007 |
Q: i just turnesd 16 and my life has just been kind of terrible. i have 3 younger siblings and they ...
A: Victoria - I suggest you see a counselor to sort through your feelings and get help. What your ...
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| jealously issues | 9/27/2007 |
Q: I have major jealously problems. I know that I do and I am willing to change that. but I am a senior ...
A: John - I think you have a reason to be jealous and suspicious of this guy. I think you should ...
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| could i be pregnate?? | 9/12/2007 |
Q: Sorry if this like too much detail but i figured it'd be alot easier for you to answer if you knew ...
A: Jackie - I don't know if you're pregnant or not because I'm not a doctor but I would say if he kept ...
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| how to ask a girl out? | 8/21/2007 |
Q: I have never had a girlfriend before and I was wondering how to ask a girl out, I know she likes me ...
A: Ask her if she'd like to hang out sometime and get her number so you can call her and come up with ...
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| My boyfriend | 8/9/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend is John and he is 13 years of age. We have been dating for almost 3 months but now all ...
A: Rachel - I guess first you should try talking to him about his behavior and see how he reacts and ...
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| girl problems | 8/7/2007 |
Q: i like this girl but she likes my friend and all my friend wants to do it have sex and what not and ...
A: Joe - If she doesn't like you there's really nothing you can do and she'll probably have to realize ...
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| friends/highschool/boysss | 8/6/2007 |
Q: Hey im anna and im 13. ill be 14 in the begining of the school year. im going to be a freshman and i ...
A: Anna - High school is hard. You'll learn that a lot of cattiness and back stabbing goes on among ...
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| I'm becoming jealous of my bf's female friends! | 6/29/2007 |
Q: Help! I'm starting to become jealous of my boyfriend's female friends! One friend of his that I got ...
A: Ana - That's really upsetting that he's not taking your side of the matter. As your bf, he should ...
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| my life. | 6/12/2007 |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for the best part of two years and i love him to bits. I am 16 and he ...
A: Steff - Unfortunately since you're under 18 and still living at home your parents CAN control what ...
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| rape | 4/13/2007 |
Q: I was raped 4 years ago. I am now 15. 4 years ago it happend. a month later i told a teacher i ...
A: Marcella - You need to go to the police because they're the only people who can help you press ...
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| socializing | 4/12/2007 |
Q: Ok, i'm 14 and i'm totally anti-social. I almost never go out and do something with my friends. I ...
A: You're whole attitude needs a makeover. Who wants to hang out with someone who thinks they're no ...
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| Help! | 2/20/2007 |
Q: I am 15 years old and i have a problem. I go to a small private school so there is alot of drama ...
A: Rachel - First thing's first, you can't MAKE anyone like you. Either they do or they don't. ...
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| school dance | 2/15/2007 |
Q: Ok, well, I am 13 (7th grade) and so is this guy that i like... He is really nice, cute, athletic, ...
A: Mariah - Just be like "hey you wanna dance?" or go up with a group of your friends so you're not ...
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| so theres this boy.. | 2/12/2007 |
Q: so i like this boy..but he has a girlfriend who i used to talk too and i was friends with her. i ...
A: Halley - You should talk to the guy and let him know how you feel but you shouldn't intend to break ...
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| Crushe's | 12/10/2006 |
Q: oh please help me, I have a cush on this one boy and he knows that I like him, I for some resson I ...
A: April - If you like him then you should probably talk to him. Start a conversation with him some ...
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| we dont have the same "spark" | 12/8/2006 |
Q: I am a 15 year old boy, and i have been dating a girl i really, really like for about a year now ...
A: Josh - Well it sounds like maybe you should break up. You're very jealous and she's naturally ...
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| my relationship/ feelings | 11/20/2006 |
Q: but is that really what he deserves? i love justin. yeah...i made a mistake cheating on him, but i ...
A: But what you're also telling me is that you want to be with other people and you can't have it both ...
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| So Complicated! | 11/16/2006 |
Q: Hey, my name is Dan and I'm a senior in high school. For the past few months, I've started to ...
A: Dan - It's almost like she's doing this to torture you because she knows how much you like her. I ...
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| Eating Disorder -Belima | 10/4/2006 |
Q: My x-best friend, told me once when we were really close that she had started throwing up like right ...
A: Larisa - Eating disorders can strike anyone. It's usually people that didn't have a weight problem ...
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| jitters | 10/2/2006 |
Q: am jai,rather than beating around the bush i would like to shoot the problem straight away, my ...
A: Jai - You're not the only person with this problem. A lot of people come to me asking this same ...
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| girl problems | 7/23/2006 |
Q: ashley, i am 15 years old and i live in millry alabama.i have liked a certin girl for about 5 years ...
A: AJ - Maybe you should step up the flirting a bit so she doesn't think you're kidding around. Tell ...
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| My friend is driving me crazy | 4/8/2006 |
Q: I am 16 and I have a problem with a friend of mine. We've known each other for about three or four ...
A: Alicia - Your friend seems to have problems that are deeper than anything you can help her with. ...
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| Weight | 3/6/2006 |
Q: Ashley, I was wondering if you coul help me. I am 14-years-old and i'm 5ft 1". I used to weigh ...
A: Lizzy - Waiting until 3pm to eat isn't healthy at all. Your body needs energy to burn so you can ...
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| my 14 year old son | 1/19/2006 |
Q: My son has slowly gone down hill since 7th grade. He is now in 9th grade and hangs around a group ...
A: Amy - Of course he has the chance to turn his life around. It's never too late, especially since ...
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| What Should I Do? | 1/18/2006 |
Q: So, I'm kind of confused about the whole "Chasing" game. Chasing, meaning coming after her? calling ...
A: Michael - The pursuit of obtaining her as your girlfriend. You putting in all this effort to try ...
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| help | 1/16/2006 |
Q: I met this girl about a week ago and we hit it off and we had went out everynight for 5 days and ...
A: Justin - You pretty much dug your own grave by sleeping with someone you barely knew therefore ...
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| dealing with crushes | 1/12/2006 |
Q: Okay, let me give you the short version of the story. Girl meets boy. Girl fall for boy. Boy ...
A: Alana - First of all, I think you should ask jesse out before someone else does. If you wait to get ...
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| Acceptance | 1/7/2006 |
Q: Hey! Your profile said you help with homosexuality. I got a problem. My mom don't understand that ...
A: River - You should tell your mom that gay isn't something you chose to be, it's the way god made ...
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| heart cooks brain. | 1/5/2006 |
Q: A while ago, a good friend of mine that is 100% sure of her sexuality (which is heterosexual) told ...
A: Mouse - I can only imagine the emotional pain you're going through right now. When your friend is ...
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| grooming and stuff (pls. read & reply) | 1/3/2006 |
Q: if you can't answer this problem it's ok..well a lot of the times i feel sad and depressed.. i don't ...
A: Dominique - At 13 I wouldn't be worrying so much about marriage right now. Do you wear deoderant? ...
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| Talking to Mom and Dad | 1/2/2006 |
Q: I need a lot of help. I am due in two weeks and my family situation is putting a lot of stress on me ...
A: Marissa - I'm not a parent so I can't help you out there but I figure that most of the hostility is ...
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| A friend | 12/19/2005 |
Q: i am 17. i have become very close to a friend who i have known for a couple of years. she has poured ...
A: Chris - You have to get over her on your own. It'll be hard but it's not impossible. Try not to ...
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| Crazy girlfriend? | 12/12/2005 |
Q: I am a junior girl in high school. There is a guy in my science class that me and my friend talk to ...
A: Amy - Of course, but not all girls are as secure in their relationships as you are. Just ignore ...
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| theres this girl.... | 12/6/2005 |
Q: hey laura, i'm stephen, i'm 14 years old and i've got a bit of a problem. to start from the ...
A: Stephen - Kissing someone on the cheek doesn't fall into the category of cheating. Lots of people ...
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| Struggling | 11/22/2005 |
Q: I've tried another site many times about problems teenagers have and i haven't had any replies, so i ...
A: Zoey - First of all, you're not fat. Anyone who would think that you're fat is insane. I'm the ...
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| homosexuality | 11/21/2005 |
Q: Followup To Question - I have a 17 year old daughter. She is a straight A student and attending ...
A: In short of getting into a political debate, I know that not all people are gay but being gay isn't ...
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| sex | 11/21/2005 |
Q: i need your advice on a sex matter.i am 17 and been with my girlfriend 2 years and we have always ...
A: Jason - I think you should break up with your girlfriend so you don't hurt her. Be honest with ...
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| Confidence | 10/24/2005 |
Q: Hey! I don't really know what my problem is but every few weeks i do a reading in church and im ...
A: Dan - A lot of people get nervous when presenting or talking in front of others. Imagine that ...
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| Band Camp Thing | 8/1/2005 |
Q: Okay. I just got back from camp (it was a week long band camp). And getting right to the point, I ...
A: Alana - I understand where you're coming from and your reason for not wanting to kiss him. You ...
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| eating disorder | 7/26/2005 |
Q: I'm 13 yrs. old , 5'4, and I weigh around 117 lbs. The doctor told me I was at a normal weight, but ...
A: Asha - Not all models starve themselves. You can eat healthy and still plan to be a model someday. ...
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| I don't know why, but i keep... | 2/28/2005 |
Q: I don't know why, but i keep thinking that by using the same towels or soap as my dad or cousin ...
A: Amy - There is a slim to none chance of you getting pregnant from sharing towels with males in your ...
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| Talking | 1/18/2005 |
Q: Hey Ashley, i really hope you can help me! It's not a serious thing that i have goin on but it ...
A: Kay - The best thing I can tell you is to stop making up stories. I mean, that sounds easy but I'm ...
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| Approaching girls | 1/12/2005 |
Q: Hey Ashley My names hugh and im 17 a year old guy from Australia. It's summer currently and ive been ...
A: Hugh - First of all, don't listen to your friends. They're morons. You should approach whoever ...
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| VAGINAL TASTE | 12/6/2004 |
Q: ..! Let me first thank you for replying back.Well getting back to our discussion.....I have had ...
A: Paul - 1. Every girl is different so regardless of diets and lifestyles, it's possible that she'll ...
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| VAGINAL TASTE | 11/25/2004 |
Q: ..! Am a 23 yr old guy.Am eager to know about female sexuality.I have had 4 girl friends uptil ...
A: Every girl tastes different, just like every guy tastes different. A lot of it has to do with the ...
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| weight | 9/17/2004 |
Q: now that i have had a kid i have been really depressed and think that i am fat so i barely eat any ...
A: Keli - Eat healthy and exercise regularly. Did you just recently give birth? If you did I'm sure ...
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| please can i ask...:) thanxz | 8/23/2004 |
Q: you see a while back i shaved my pubic hair and well, there weren't any problems but it was annoying ...
A: Melanie - What do you mean by "spiders legs"? If you're referring to those unsightly bumps that ...
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| Orgasms | 7/18/2004 |
Q: this is very embarassing but it's doing my head in so I feel I have to ask someone, is it possible ...
A: Liz - Yes, it's possible that you may not be able to orgasm by masterbation, but are you SURE ...
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| I am scared and confused | 7/1/2004 |
Q: Hey, I am hoping that you can help me. My ex boyfriend ( i have known for 3 uears)has been ...
A: Katherine - It is very important that you go to the cops because what he's doing is illegal. You're ...
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| idk...do i hav 2 put sumthin here? | 6/24/2004 |
Q: i rote here b4 ab the same friend im going 2 ask u ab right now. her problem b4 was she was A.)had ...
A: Leah - Unless your friend is 18 she can't legally get away from her parents unless they sign away ...
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| Am i th wrong one ? | 6/9/2004 |
Q: Hey Ashley, im a junior in high school and ive had a serious relationsip with my boyfriend for a ...
A: Kaitlyn - If you trust your boyfriend then you have no reason to be jealous that he hangs out with ...
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