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| Subject | Date Asked |
| abuse | 3/13/2011 |
| Q: I am 14 years old and my dad was abusive towards my brothers and i when we we were growing up. i can ... A: You need to get child services involved asap. I don't know the state you are in, but you need to do ... | |
| im 16 and i want to move out. | 9/21/2010 |
| Q: im 16 about to be 17 and i want to move out of my grandparents home. I have lived with them most of ... A: I hope you reported this rape, and abuse. I recommend talking to your doctor and a trusted teacher. ... | |
| teenage incest practised | 8/3/2010 |
| Q: i m 25 yr old male. i m a very good ,honest, religious person with an excellent reputation ... A: I receive questions like this from time to time. I recommend due to how you are feeling to see a ... | |
| signs of teenage girl depression | 6/6/2010 |
| Q: I am 15 years old....my mom used to be my best friend i would talk to her about anything and ... A: This is my coworker. He is a parenting teen expert. He is one of my best coworkers and I highly ... | |
| signs of teenage girl depression | 6/5/2010 |
| Q: I am 15 years old....my mom used to be my best friend i would talk to her about anything and ... A: Legally I can't label anyone here. I highly recommend you talk to your doctor and trusted teacher. ... | |
| bankruptcy?? | 5/28/2010 |
| Q: help ;_; what do I do?? I have no more money.. no rent money, all utilities about to get ... A: I am so sorry to hear about this. I recommend you to talk to your college about payment plans. I am ... | |
| I Just Dunno.... | 5/28/2010 |
| Q: To start with let me introduce myself. My name is Nicholas and I'm 18 years old and just last week ... A: I recommend parenting teen expert James Windell here. I am worried about the sexual acts you did. ... | |
| I think my 16 yr. old son is smoking pot | 4/20/2010 |
| Q: while I do not have hard evidence, I am 99% sure my son is smoking pot. I have noticed this this ... A: This is a very serious issue. I recommend speaking to his doctor, the school, and also parenting ... | |
| reporting being molested | 2/7/2010 |
| Q: I was molested when I was younger and i know the pervert could still hurt other kids. It was really ... A: How old are you? Reporting this is needed, but can the police use your information due to when it ... | |
| My family is making threats because im moving out. | 2/7/2010 |
| Q: My name is melissa, I am 19 years old. I told my family that I am going to move out with my ... A: As I am not a lawyer, I can't give you legal advice. I will say any threat/s needs to be reported to ... | |
| SAVE ME !!!!! | 2/2/2010 |
| Q: I am a boy of 16 years. I am good in studies. One of the best students in our school. I don't know ... A: Porn addiction is a serious issue. I want to help you out, but I highly recommend you to see a ... | |
| My son wants to meet his online friend in person with us... | 1/15/2010 |
| Q: I'm a 45-year-old woman from Staffordshire, United Kingdom. The other day our 19-year-old son said ... A: My advice is don't have him meet this person that he met online if possible. I have had too many ... | |
| My son's obsession with studying... | 1/13/2010 |
| Q: I'm 45, my husband's 47, and our son's 16. We live in the United Kingdom. He's doing well at school ... A: I recommend my coworker Parenting Teen expert James Windell. To be honest I am glad he is taking a ... | |
| High school transfer | 1/11/2010 |
| Q: I'm very upset and disappointed cause I feel like I may never get the "true high school experience". ... A: If you want I can give you a contact in the human service area of the Florida government. Maybe they ... | |
| Yiffy | 1/10/2010 |
| Q: I believe my 17 year old son is a pretty "typical" teen with regards to his social and "sexual" life ... A: I said "most" teenage males do masturbate, I just don't promote it. As for the internet, it's good, ... | |
| addicted to facebook and other hacking | 1/9/2010 |
| Q: i am a hacker.... ive hacked into alot of peoples accounts, people that i know of and people that i ... A: This is a very common problem, believe it or not. Hacking or as I like to call it "cracking" is of ... | |
| Moving out | 1/9/2010 |
| Q: My friend is 15 and she is turning 16 n a few months but her mother and her whole family put so much ... A: I am sorry to hear about your friend's issues. There is not much I can say as I am not a lawyer, ... | |
| teenage problems | 1/8/2010 |
| Q: I have been mentally and physically abused by my step dad from age 4 when my mom moved in with him. ... A: Can I ask your state? Legally and ethically you need to report this abuse and also you may need to ... | |
| Yiffy | 1/7/2010 |
| Q: I believe my 17 year old son is a pretty "typical" teen with regards to his social and "sexual" life ... A: I am worried about his online social life, but that's for you to talk to him about online safety. As ... | |
| Sex | 1/7/2010 |
| Q: I am a 16 year old girl and havent really been in a serious relationship therefore i am still a ... A: First you need to talk to a doctor about sex risks. I don't recommend masturbation. I understand why ... | |
| Talking to sons about oral sex, condoms, shaving, and masterbation | 1/5/2010 |
| Q: First, I'm sorry this is so long! This has been building up for a while! I am a 48 year old mother ... A: Oh wow. OK first I recommend as always their doctor for health information. Second oral sex and ... | |
| Stress | 1/3/2010 |
| Q: I am 16, going on 17 in February. I have a boyfriend, who I've been having the most trouble with. ... A: I recommend our online safety experts and your parents about Facebook risks. I don't promote such. ... | |
| i m in dought | 12/29/2009 |
| Q: why do guys/boys touch their pubic area again and again is their any reason behind it ? A: I am confused by your question. You mean their "privates" in public? In America I believe doing so ... | |
| Spain | 12/22/2009 |
| Q: I have been staying with my Spanish host family for about a month now. I am a 15 year old girl and ... A: What you are telling me is wrong. Tell him to stop and keep track of this. Report this to his ... | |
| hey =) | 12/14/2009 |
| Q: I'm 15 and lately I'm just feeling really down. I don't feel like doing anything I did before. This ... A: Due to the threat you may need to contact the police. Talk to a trusted teacher and your parents ... | |
| self esteem/self confidence | 12/10/2009 |
| Q: my name is Mariette, I'm 15 and I live in the US in Pennsylvania. Lately I haven't been as happy as ... A: I am happy you trusted this teacher to talk to, however she is not a psychologist and maybe ... | |
| excessive masturbation | 12/8/2009 |
| Q: im now an 18 years old teenager boy,and a juniour student in the university. i face a serious ... A: Oh wow. OK this is a very complex question. First masturbation in public could be "illegal" so speak ... | |
| my pussy gets wet | 12/7/2009 |
| Q: i really need some help! i'm a 14 year old girl and i'm in grade 9 in high school and my pussy gets ... A: You need to talk to your doctor about the above. I am worried that you think about sex a lot. I am ... | |
| Problem at home | 12/3/2009 |
| Q: I have a friend who has a lot of trouble in her life.Her father is extremely strict and if she does ... A: If it's abuse, child services may be required. Now I am not sure what is going on. I recommend the ... | |
| threesome with my boyfriend's best friend | 11/30/2009 |
| Q: i'm a 13 year old girl in grade 8 and my boyfriend's also in grade 8. we're both waiting until we're ... A: I highly recommend you to not do such. I recommend you to talk to your doctor asap and also if ... | |
| Regarding maturbation | 11/30/2009 |
| Q: I am doing masturbation for 5 years.I am unable to give up it.Cos I have addicted to it.My height ... A: I don't know if the height stopped for the reason you said. I'm not a doctor and cannot answer any ... | |
| I can't stand my parents any more... | 11/26/2009 |
| Q: First you should know I'm 14 and my parents are divorced. This summer I got into a new group of ... A: I would talk to you about drug risks, but I know you know they are bad. I want you to talk to a ... | |
| my teenange son just angers me so much - I sometimes feel like I can just........... | 11/18/2009 |
| Q: My son just recently turned 15. Generally he is okay, but at times he just seems to bring out the ... A: I emailed my friend in your country and he recommended something, however while his idea was good, I ... | |
| 14 yr daughter planning sex | 11/16/2009 |
| Q: I just learned (she did not close out her Facebook chat) that my 14 yr old daughter is planning on ... A: I highly recommend you talk to our online safety experts about Facebook risks. I don't promote such. ... | |
| Girlfriend | 11/14/2009 |
| Q: I love this girl and I think she likes me. But I’m too scared to go out with her because of my size. ... A: Why are you speaking about sexual stuff here? You do not want to have intercourse with her. It would ... | |
| Cutting/Self Harm. | 11/14/2009 |
| Q: I saw how it was not only hurting me, but my friends. So I stopped. But recently, more things have ... A: Just checking to see how it went with talking to this person at school. Please ask follow ups. Hope ... | |
| ?!!?!?!?!?! | 11/9/2009 |
| Q: im a 15 year old girl bout to be 16 in dec.26 anywayz my question I want to ask you is, oo and im ... A: This is a good question. I recommend you to talk to your doctor about sex risks. I highly recommend ... | |
| sex issues | 11/6/2009 |
| Q: my name is Lilly I am 14 I am looking for help with some stuff I can't tell my parents about yet. I ... A: Here is the third party hotline website: www.nineline.org/ You are telling me you had intercourse ... | |
| my friend is freaking out | 11/5/2009 |
| Q: My friend has been texting me like crazy for the past couple of days trying to get his hands on some ... A: I am not up to date with my safe sex information. This is why I recommend to ask your doctor. Both ... | |
| Big family problems | 11/5/2009 |
| Q: I'm 15 years old guy, and I have big problems. 15 years ago, when I was born, my parents had ... A: If you are in danger of your self or others you need to mention this to your parents, and the ... | |
| my teenange son just angers me so much - I sometimes feel like I can just........... | 11/4/2009 |
| Q: My son just recently turned 15. Generally he is okay, but at times he just seems to bring out the ... A: Can I ask your state? This worries me very much as you speak about hurting him or your self. I ... | |
| Son | 11/4/2009 |
| Q: my son was recently excused of take someone wallet on the bus he was taking into custody and charged ... A: I talked to a mental health professional who I am somewhat friendly with down there. He told me to ... | |
| Son | 11/3/2009 |
| Q: my son was recently excused of take someone wallet on the bus he was taking into custody and charged ... A: How old is he and what state? I think I have an idea, but I am worried about his recent action. Has ... | |
| OCD (Cont) | 11/2/2009 |
| Q: You wanted to know my age. I am 14, and I don't mind you asking me questions, thats fine. Hi, I ... A: Legally and ethically I cannot label you, nor will I really try to. But, I do want to ask you some ... | |
| Precocious Child of 12 | 11/1/2009 |
| Q: I am a teacher from Kerala,India. I need your expert advice to solve a problem. One of my students- ... A: I sense something bigger. I question if she was abused when she was younger or knew someone who was ... | |
| OCD-Obsessive Compulsive Disorder | 11/1/2009 |
| Q: I was wondering whether anyone could help. I have these thoughts which pop up in my head. These ... A: Based on the above I can't tell you if you have OCD. Also as I am online I can't tell you if you ... | |
| 14 yr old | 10/30/2009 |
| Q: My wife has a 14yr old brother and all he wants to do is play computer games in game outlets and ... A: I am wondering if it's what we call "Internet addiction" or "video game addiction". This is a ... | |
| 12yr old daughter. | 10/30/2009 |
| Q: My wife and I are currently having trouble with our 12yr old daughter. Well she is my step daughter. ... A: Fred, the more you tell me the more I look at "stressors" and "depression". It's just a theory and ... | |
| confused | 10/30/2009 |
| Q: I'm a lady of 20yrs, going out with a guy of 30yrs.We understand each other and in his presence i ... A: Due to your age, this is the wrong area on the site. I mean we handle Teenage problems and you are ... | |
| 12yr old daughter. | 10/30/2009 |
| Q: My wife and I are currently having trouble with our 12yr old daughter. Well she is my step daughter. ... A: Does she still see her biological father? Was it a bad divorce? When did it happen? Did she like the ... | |
| Im depressed | 10/27/2009 |
| Q: Well im 13 and i am really depressed when i shouldnt be the other day i found out my nan has cancer ... A: Please talk to your doctor ASAP. They can help with this depression. If you feel you are about to ... | |
| family issues | 10/27/2009 |
| Q: so im 17 years old i turn 18 in april, i have just had a son, and hes now 6 weeks old, my mom and i ... A: Besides talking to a lawyer and a doctor, you should also talk to children services. The lawyer is ... | |
| Family Issue | 10/25/2009 |
| Q: I am 16 years old, and my parents and I have not been getting a long for a while now. we got in a ... A: I wonder if child services can help you out. Based on the above, I don't know. Here is their ... | |
| What am I supposed to do? | 10/22/2009 |
| Q: Hey Cat, I'm an 18 guy and my dad just passed away two months ago and my mom's really not taking it ... A: What will child services do? It depends on your state and exactly what you report to them and what ... | |
| HEARTBREAK | 10/15/2009 |
| Q: My name is Danielle. I am 14 years old. I have the biggest crush on this guy named Brett, but I'm ... A: I think you need to talk to a trusted teacher and your doctor about "depression". We need to check ... | |
| Sex | 10/12/2009 |
| Q: My name is teeghan and i am 14 years old. This extremely embarrassing to say but i love rude things. ... A: What you are talking about may be illegal. I recommend to follow the law. Now, I also ethically must ... | |
| is this weird? | 10/11/2009 |
| Q: I am a 15 year old girl and my best friend is a 15 year old guy. We talk about everything. Is it ... A: This is a complex topic. I'm questioning how to answer such. Is it normal to have talks like this ... | |
| Teenage stuff. | 10/11/2009 |
| Q: Well I'm 13, and lately I've noticed that around my male genitalia that I've been "sweating?" a lot. ... A: Good question. I think it's better that you talk to your doctor about such. This is because of the ... | |
| Shy guy and starting a conversation | 10/5/2009 |
| Q: So there is a shy guy that liked me last year and I liked him too. However, we were both too shy to ... A: No ages. Try our Expressing your self to others experts. It's possible you can talk to him and get ... | |
| Classed as 'Sexual activity',but isn't it ok if I know I wont have sex? | 9/28/2009 |
| Q: I just want to say in advance that I know I am young and you may think I'm aweful for asking these ... A: I don't know Ireland law, but I know in the US(I think all states) any "sexual activity" such as ... | |
| Sex | 9/22/2009 |
| Q: My neighbor showed up at my door with her 15 year old daughter to say that she had been sneaking ... A: Can I ask your state? I recommend you to check the laws in your area. I also recommend Parenting ... | |
| my son - 16 yrs old | 9/22/2009 |
| Q: My 16 yr old son is currently a Jr in high school. Prior to high school he easily received A's and ... A: Just checking to see that you got an answer from James Windell. If you need anymore help, let me ... | |
| Help with a lot of things | 9/22/2009 |
| Q: A little about me: I'm a 16 year old boy I'm on the dance team at my school I love to play music and ... A: Let me know if there is anything else I can do to help you. I recommend you to speak to a lawyer and ... | |
| please, i cant take this anymore | 9/21/2009 |
| Q: my names fidel, I'm a boy, and I have this heavy problem since I was a little kid. (I'm 15 now). I ... A: You need to contact the police and child services ASAP. They should be able to help you. If they ... | |
| The Smell And Taste Of My Pussy | 9/20/2009 |
| Q: I am 17 years old and my boyfriend is also 17. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for several ... A: I highly recommend you to learn about sex risks. I am not only talking about STIs, STDs. I'm talking ... | |
| The Smell And Taste Of My Pussy | 9/20/2009 |
| Q: I am 17 years old and my boyfriend is also 17. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for several ... A: I have heard some people like the smell and taste, however honestly the way he did this to you, is ... | |
| my son - 16 yrs old | 9/20/2009 |
| Q: My 16 yr old son is currently a Jr in high school. Prior to high school he easily received A's and ... A: Please if possible keep me up to date with this. I can offer you more websites if this is depression ... | |
| my son - 16 yrs old | 9/19/2009 |
| Q: My 16 yr old son is currently a Jr in high school. Prior to high school he easily received A's and ... A: I have to recommend parenting teen expert James Windell here. I also recommend your doctor. If you ... | |
| The Smell And Taste Of My Pussy | 9/19/2009 |
| Q: I am 17 years old and my boyfriend is also 17. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for several ... A: Legally and ethically I have to recommend to speak to a doctor about sex risks and get tested. Now ... | |
| I sent you I want a baby | 9/18/2009 |
| Q: 1.How often recently within the last few months have you felt depressed for two weeks or longer? ... A: I am glad I am helping. I wish I can help more, but I have my limits. This is why a psychologist is ... | |
| I sent you I want a baby | 9/18/2009 |
| Q: 1.How often recently within the last few months have you felt depressed for two weeks or longer? ... A: Follow-up limits I assume. 1. This is clearly a sign of depression. Tell your doctor this and they ... | |
| i want a baby | 9/18/2009 |
| Q: I really want a baby. and at 14 i am no where old enough or in the right position to support myself ... A: My questions were regarding a scale system, however the good news is I can also go by "yes" and "no" ... | |
| Help with a lot of things | 9/18/2009 |
| Q: A little about me: I'm a 16 year old boy I'm on the dance team at my school I love to play music and ... A: So you live in Ca? Can I ask when this sex happened? At what age were both of you? Did you talk to a ... | |
| blunder by me | 9/15/2009 |
| Q: ..i`m 15years old 1st i`ll give background of my problem and then go ahead.the thing is 2years ago i ... A: I have to ask your state. I also have to ask have you talked to a doctor about the above? I ... | |
| i want a baby | 9/15/2009 |
| Q: I really want a baby. and at 14 i am no where old enough or in the right position to support myself ... A: Legally I have to say talk to your doctor about the above. I also legally have to say wait with ... | |
| What am I supposed to do? | 9/11/2009 |
| Q: Hey Cat, I'm an 18 guy and my dad just passed away two months ago and my mom's really not taking it ... A: Talk to your doctor about depression. Get your mother professional help asap. I recommend a family ... | |
| My dad | 9/11/2009 |
| Q: I am 18 years old. I am having trouble comprehending with what my dad did. To make a long story ... A: It was not your fault what your father did to you. You enjoyed it because you were forced into it ... | |
| lost.. | 9/9/2009 |
| Q: First thank you for listening. My name is alissa I am 16. I really need an answer to a problem that ... A: Before I answer those questions I need to ask the following: 1. When did the sex start? 2. Who was ... | |
| lost.. | 9/9/2009 |
| Q: First thank you for listening. My name is alissa I am 16. I really need an answer to a problem that ... A: I highly recommend you STOP doing this. I cannot stress this enough. Can I ask where you are ... | |
| lost.. | 9/4/2009 |
| Q: First thank you for listening. My name is alissa I am 16. I really need an answer to a problem that ... A: Legally and ethically I need to tell you to speak to a doctor and get tested asap. Also legally I ... | |
| looks | 9/1/2009 |
| Q: ok so i'm 15 and i've figured out im not the best looking kid on the block but i think it is ... A: This is a tricky topic. I can be funny, but some women don't like this. Some women don't like when I ... | |
| i'm in a rut | 8/29/2009 |
| Q: I'm a freshmen at a community college. I'm in a rut all my friends are moving away to college and ... A: I recommend that you join some local college clubs. Be safe.. be careful at college as some clubs do ... | |
| Mother/Daughter Disagreements | 8/29/2009 |
| Q: :] First off i'd like to say thank you for your time in answering my question. Im Izzy. Uhm Im ... A: First legally you should check to see if you can be dating him in your location. Some locations, the ... | |
| Does he like me? | 8/26/2009 |
| Q: Okay so there is a guy that goes to my church that i think likes me. We went on a church trip to New ... A: I am sorry I didn't answer your question. I can't answer a question that is posted in the wrong area ... | |
| mom problems | 8/23/2009 |
| Q: I love my mom but most of the times she can be a pain. I help her around the house every single day ... A: You shouldn't end your life. I can tell you are a very smart, caring, good person. And the world ... | |
| watching other people have sex | 8/21/2009 |
| Q: i'm a girl in grade 8 and my age is 13 and i have an important question that i really want answered! ... A: This is a question I sometimes do see posted online. I recommend talking to your doctor. You should ... | |
| watching other people have sex | 8/21/2009 |
| Q: i'm a girl in grade 8 and my age is 13 and i have an important question that i really want answered! ... A: This is a question I sometimes do see posted online. I recommend talking to your doctor. You should ... | |
| trust | 8/19/2009 |
| Q: hey so i wanted some help with gaining my parents trust back.i've lost their trust plenty of times ... A: Can I ask how come you smoked weed and also had intercourse? How did you even meet that person and ... | |
| Have i got depression problems? | 8/19/2009 |
| Q: i'm fourteen years old, since ive became a teenager, ive had so many worries, as in; peer pressure, ... A: Legally I have to say talk to your doctor ASAP. This problem is very common and your doctor can ... | |
| Brother's smoking issues | 8/18/2009 |
| Q: I'm writing about my 19 year old brother. we live in the middle east, and a couple of years ago, my ... A: I don't do this for a rating, however wondering how come such a rating? How can I improve here? ... | |
| my step dad | 8/18/2009 |
| Q: hay! well my step dad just came into the pic and is always yelling telling me i suck! and that every ... A: Can I have your age and your state? If it's emotional abuse, CPS in your state may be able to help. ... | |
| HELP ME CONTROL MY EMOTIONS. | 8/17/2009 |
| Q: I m 19. i had tried to sustain my relationship in the past but i always failed and it hurts me a ... A: This is a complex topic. I cannot replace a psychologist and do recommend one. I do also recommend ... | |
| I hate my stupid senseless uncle | 8/16/2009 |
| Q: I hate my uncle. He gets on my nerves. I've noticing that he's been trying to et am attention in ... A: Please email me at: Batmancatdog@yahoo.com ASAP. Again it's Batmancatdog@yahoo.com . The subject ... | |
| Teenage son, no girlfriend | 8/15/2009 |
| Q: My son will be 18 in a few days. I am worried about some emails that I have read on his computer. ... A: I don't do this for feedback, however I am wondering why such a low rating? I'm wondering how to ... | |
| teenage mom out of control | 8/14/2009 |
| Q: I have a 17 year old sister, who will be turning 18 soon. I live a few hours from my parents and my ... A: You may want to contact family services in your state and see if they can be involved with her. I ... | |
| Teenage son, no girlfriend | 8/14/2009 |
| Q: My son will be 18 in a few days. I am worried about some emails that I have read on his computer. ... A: This is a complex question and again I highly recommend James Windell here. But, I will be glad to ... | |
| moveing in with my real dad | 8/13/2009 |
| Q: hay my name is josh im 16 and i live with my mom and my step dad and i cant get alone with my mom ... A: Does your father have a lawyer? Did the judge ask you what you wanted? I am not going to give you ... | |
| Teenage son, no girlfriend | 8/12/2009 |
| Q: My son will be 18 in a few days. I am worried about some emails that I have read on his computer. ... A: Two sides to this question. One the girl friend issue. I am not worried that he has not dated yet. I ... | |
| need ur opinion badly | 8/11/2009 |
| Q: i just got back together with my ex and she was with a man 2 days ago and they showered together and ... A: I don't give medical advice. She needs to talk to a doctor about sex risks. It could be some type of ... | |
| Stress | 8/5/2009 |
| Q: hey, basically, i don't know what wrong with me, whether i am depressed, or just stressed. i spend ... A: Are you from the UK? Just need to ask. It appears your family is making you depressed. This is very ... | |
| 17 year old daughter | 8/4/2009 |
| Q: i need help with my 17 year old daughter. She stays out all night saying see is staying with ... A: I don't like how you hit your daughter. This may be child abuse and may be illegal in your area. ... | |
| Feels good but not masturbation. | 8/4/2009 |
| Q: Since I was very little, I have hade the urge to lay face down, put my hands over my penius, and ... A: Due to the law, I really can't get too involved with answering this. It appears to me like you are ... | |
| Obsessed with death? | 8/2/2009 |
| Q: !! I'm 14, if that makes a difference. It may be a common situation with teenagers of my age, but ... A: I've been doing online advice for a while now and I have seen such questions before and I've seen ... | |
| Obsessed with death? | 8/1/2009 |
| Q: !! I'm 14, if that makes a difference. It may be a common situation with teenagers of my age, but ... A: Ok I am not a psychologist and it's clear to me you should talk to a psychologist for at least one ... | |
| PLEASE HELP ME | 7/31/2009 |
| Q: OKAY SO HERE IT GOES.... I am 13 years old and I`m a very very very pretty and attractive girl. ... A: Your mother is right not to rush into dating. He is not the right person for you. He might have ... | |
| parents don't let me do anything | 7/29/2009 |
| Q: my parents don't let me do anything. they dont let me have my own e-mail, facebook, myspeace, ... A: Do you understand that I cannot help you put your life in danger. I just had a case where a 12 year ... | |
| Moving Schools | 7/28/2009 |
| Q: ii Really Want to Move Schools i know you may give the normal answer ''you may want to think about ... A: Ok email me at Batmancatdog@yahoo.com, again it's Batmancatdog@yahoo.com and I'll send you some ... | |
| i feel selfish. | 7/28/2009 |
| Q: i have been feeling very selfish latly. whenever i talk about myself i feel that i am. it's driving ... A: Well you think you have a problem. Maybe it's not selfishness, but attitude as calling people such ... | |
| Swimming. | 7/27/2009 |
| Q: I have a problems that is really hard for me. I am 14 and I am a swimmer. Swimmers shave their legs ... A: If he can't help you you can ask a follow up here, but he is known for teaching parents how to have ... | |
| my 11year old son has started caving things into his legs | 7/27/2009 |
| Q: i am really worried about my son he starts high school in september he got kicked out of primary ... A: James Windell Parenting Teen expert should be asked this. Your doctor needs to be called in. Ity ... | |
| i feel selfish. | 7/26/2009 |
| Q: i have been feeling very selfish latly. whenever i talk about myself i feel that i am. it's driving ... A: I am wondering if it's some form of depression, but based on the information you gave me I really ... | |
| Depression and loss. | 7/22/2009 |
| Q: I'm nineteen years old, when I was twelve i fell in love with a wonderful girl and we wed at ... A: Can I ask what state you live in? In a few US states I have connections with a few psychologists who ... | |
| Depression and loss. | 7/22/2009 |
| Q: I'm nineteen years old, when I was twelve i fell in love with a wonderful girl and we wed at ... A: It's normal when you loose someone to go into depression. I had the exact same reaction when I lost ... | |
| my parents fighting | 7/9/2009 |
| Q: I am 13 and my parents just came out of a terrible financial crisis. We have a lot of money now ... A: If you think he is in danger contact the police for help. I recommend a family psychologist for your ... | |
| SEX | 7/8/2009 |
| Q: Im nearly 16 and I was on 'Chat-Avenue', where if you do not know its about ten different chat ... A: Ben meeting someone online from a chat room is super risky. You are putting your self in danger by ... | |
| confused | 7/5/2009 |
| Q: hey, so i'm 15 and i've been going out with a lad who is just 2 years older than me and we've been ... A: If you have intercourse with him someone may be breaking the law. Follow the law. It's clear to me ... | |
| misunderstanding | 7/5/2009 |
| Q: Hello I am Alex Myers age 16 and I have a slight problem see the thing is I'm a pacifist I hate the ... A: Try this website also for help: www.covenanthouse.org/nineline I want to know where those thoughts ... | |
| Me and my parents | 7/3/2009 |
| Q: They treat me like i am 15 years old, by telling me that i cant do alot of things even though i am a ... A: If you are going to flip out or do harm to anyone legally I must say contact the police and a ... | |
| Is this deppression. | 6/24/2009 |
| Q: My name is john doe and I'm 21 years old with a teenage mind at least until I had my first child. Ok ... A: I am not a psychologist so I cannot honestly say. This appears to be a form of depression. If this ... | |
| Am I crossing the line with my son? | 4/25/2009 |
| Q: I am 37 and my son is 13, i am wanting to follow up to a question that was answered by Jonathan, who ... A: OK lots of comments and lots of questions. I rather send you to our Parenting Teen expert James ... | |
| teen behavior | 4/24/2009 |
| Q: I am a father of 3 teenage children (2 girls 18 & 16, and a son 14-1/2). My question is regarding ... A: OK two things. One teens find out about their body from their friends, internet, parents, and ... | |
| Im A little Scared about this | 3/24/2009 |
| Q: My name is Kendel and im 16 years old. Ive been having the suspision of being insane, but i never ... A: I am required to tell you to talk to your doctor and speak to a psychologist. I wouldn't say you are ... | |
| depression | 3/11/2009 |
| Q: "hi my name is lily i am 12 years old. just last month i confessed to my teacher that i was abused ... A: I would talk to your trusted teacher about this ASAP. I would also talk to your doctor about ... | |
| Cummed On | 2/19/2009 |
| Q: I'm a girl and I'm 16 years old and I was recently molested. It was pretty minor but it's still ... A: Wow. I am so sorry about this. I recommend talking to your parents and their parents and also the ... | |
| school/career | 1/17/2009 |
| Q: my name is Emil and I am a sophmore in highschool. I am having problems with my grades. Last year I ... A: I don't know of Fordham University, however I do believe in trying to follow your dreams. I do think ... | |
| Need help | 1/10/2009 |
| Q: hey im 16 years old i live alabama . Im am try to move out of my parents houre. I am so unhappy i ... A: You need to speak to a lawyer for legal issues and also speak to the police and child services ... | |
| I need to know if this was just a normal phase that I grew out of. | 12/31/2008 |
| Q: When I was about 12 or 13 years old I was babysitting this 1 year old boy. I still had not fully ... A: Ok I highly recommend to talk to our Parenting Teen expert James Windell about this. I am not a ... | |
| sucking a boy's dick | 12/31/2008 |
| Q: .. i'm a girl and i'm 12 years old and i'm in grade 7. i was molested a year ago but i didn't know ... A: You need to talk to your doctor, your parents, and the police. Them getting you to do this is ... | |
| need help proving friend's innocence | 12/23/2008 |
| Q: I'm 15 years old and so is my best friend. we both live in Colorado, in America. His mom is ... A: I would love to help you, however I have no say in your state. Speak to a lawyer and child services. ... | |
| Teenage son saw me naked | 12/8/2008 |
| Q: I'm 39 years old, and live with my 15 year old son. I divorced his father many years ago, and we ... A: I do know teenage sons can get aroused by their mothers even without seeing them nude. That's not ... | |
| My School work. | 12/2/2008 |
| Q: i am in year 11 going into year 2 and i a, currently doing an community and family studies ... A: Wow. I really would like to help you here. However I have to be careful due to privacy reasons. I ... | |
| Mutual Masturbation | 11/27/2008 |
| Q: I'm a 13 year old girl and my brother is 14 years old. Me and my brother are very comfortable with ... A: I don't want to get into this topic too much, however in my location what you are telling me is ... | |
| My Boy-Crazy Little Sister | 11/27/2008 |
| Q: I'm an 18 year old girl and I have a 13 year old sister. Recently, I caught my sister watching porn ... A: I didn't view the video above due to my policies. I am very much against porn. And I am very much ... | |
| Mom cheated on dad on our vacation - do i tell him? | 11/20/2008 |
| Q: I'm 18 years old, and live with my parents. My dad is 44 and mom is 38. They were always doing ... A: WOW. I am so sorry to hear about this issue. On one side I recommend talking to your mother first ... | |
| Am I a lesbian now? | 11/2/2008 |
| Q: Please do not delete this question,I seriously and desperately need help.I'm only 13 and I need a ... A: I cannot tell you your sexuality. However I do think right now you are acting like a normal teen. ... | |
| Am I a lesbian now? | 10/28/2008 |
| Q: Please do not delete this question,I seriously and desperately need help.I'm only 13 and I need a ... A: This really is a too long question for me. This may be good to ask in our psychology area. However ... | |
| Shyness and Depression | 8/22/2008 |
| Q: For a lot of my life,(I'm 16 BTW) I've been an extremely shy person. I didn't interact with anyone, ... A: Jack, I highly recommend talking to your doctor. Your problem is very common. I cannot treat it ... | |
| How to keep my teenage brother safe | 5/20/2008 |
| Q: My 17 year old brother, who is a openly gay, has a history of meeting guys online. This i find to ... A: I'm not sure if I am the expert for you as I am not an internet safety at this time. I do warn ... | |
| i really need help | 4/15/2008 |
| Q: my name is brittney. i am 15 years old and currently in a bad predicament....and it's extremely hard ... A: Can I ask your state? Suicide is clearly not the answer. I recommend you to speak to a psychologist. ... | |
| Tennis | 4/9/2008 |
| Q: I have a full tennis scholarship to a division one school. However I have been playing for 16 years ... A: A good idea is to talk to a trusted teacher. I had a problem like yours, yet with chess instead of ... | |
| age difference | 3/26/2008 |
| Q: I am a 16 year old girl and I work at an anonymous bussiness and in my state 16 is the legal age of ... A: Legal advice varies for each state. I cannot give legal advice as I am not a lawyer in your state. I ... | |
| relatives problem | 3/14/2008 |
| Q: i'm not sure tht my question wud fall in this category but i cudn't find any other. i'm 17yrs ... A: Stuti I have a similar problem here in the states. I dislike a few of my relatives, yet my family ... | |
| Hey--> Me again. | 3/4/2008 |
| Q: how are you? I haven't spoken to you for a few days now. I thought that I'd let you know that ... A: Matt please please please don't commit suicide. It is not a solution. Your mother cannot bear to see ... | |
| I don't think i love him anymore | 2/19/2008 |
| Q: I have been with my boy friend(who is 19) for 2 years. For almost a year now i have been feeling ... A: Rene I cannot act like a psychologist for your above problem. A psychologist should be the one to ... | |
| i have many problems in my life | 2/12/2008 |
| Q: n m 16. i am frm india delhi. i have no control over myself i do things i really dont want to n ... A: Mohit, India is nice I heard. I have a few friends who came from there or live there. How many hours ... | |
| Dan, it's Matt-->Long-time, no-talk..? | 2/2/2008 |
| Q: . Oh my god.. I just had a lot said, stuff explained, story told, etc., and was going to send a ... A: If ever you need my help, I will try to help you yet I must follow the law. I at this time feel no ... | |
| Love Problem | 1/27/2008 |
| Q: HEy Dan Iam from karachi,Pakistan. Iam fifteen years and 8 months and Iam about to appear in My ... A: Daaneyal Pakistan is so nice this time of year I heard. Sadly I have to agree with her parents that ... | |
| teen love | 1/16/2008 |
| Q: do long distance relations can work?? A: How old are you? And where did you meet this person? I recommend our "Internet safety area" and also ... | |
| my boyfriend | 1/10/2008 |
| Q: I have a boyfriend, but I like this other guy and he likes me. My boyfriend will try to commit ... A: I recommend our "suicide area" for advice as well as your doctor. I also would like to help you by ... | |
| age differences | 12/28/2007 |
| Q: If a 15 year old boy is going out with a 13 year old girl, will he go to jail if they have any type ... A: This totally depends on the location, and not being a lawyer I can't really answer this with a legal ... | |
| my sons | 12/6/2007 |
| Q: howdy. im a 34 year old father of 2 teenage children and i just cant seem to understand them. i mean ... A: I am going to recommend our Parenting Teen expert James Windell with you. I just feel he may be ... | |
| meeting girls and dating | 11/27/2007 |
| Q: I need help, I am twelve and I study in a all boy school, some friends of mine ask me if i have a ... A: OK this is a different question. I recommend our experts in our "Places to Meet People". State your ... | |
| school and family | 11/22/2007 |
| Q: ok here it goes im 16 and well everything is a bit messy i mean my school life is a joke any work i ... A: Happy Thanksgiving. Your problem is a very common problem. I had the exact same problem. It has to ... | |
| life | 11/20/2007 |
| Q: My name is Ja'mie King and I am 17 years old. I have glasses and have short brown hair. At school, ... A: You need to talk to a trusted teacher about this. Those people who are bullying you probably have ... | |
| teen problem | 11/20/2007 |
| Q: Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 5 months. Last weekend we hung out over ... A: Your relationship could be illegal right now. Removing your shirt at your age(done by him) could be ... | |
| Hurt and confused | 11/19/2007 |
| Q: for the first time I really can say I'm hurt and confuse, I don't know my 17y daughter. Last week ... A: I wanted to see how this has changed after Thanksgiving. I am wondering if this has improved and if ... | |
| Legal age | 11/18/2007 |
| Q: I am 17, and I live in Texas. Can I legal move out, even though my mom doesn't want me to? ANSWER: ... A: From someone who has went to college, I can tell you that you shouldn't rush into college. This was ... | |
| Legal age | 11/18/2007 |
| Q: I am 17, and I live in Texas. Can I legal move out, even though my mom doesn't want me to? A: I cannot offer legal advice as I am not a lawyer. I also don't live in your state and don't know ... | |
| Freshman son and failing grades. | 11/16/2007 |
| Q: I would appreciate any help or input on my issue because I am at my wits end with my son. He 14 ... A: Vicki I recommend James Windell Parenting Teen expert for cases like this. He is well one of my best ... | |
| Hurt and confused | 11/15/2007 |
| Q: for the first time I really can say I'm hurt and confuse, I don't know my 17y daughter. Last week ... A: Our Parenting Teen expert James Windell is a good expert here. I recommend him. Please understand ... | |
| I want to transfer to a different school... | 11/13/2007 |
| Q: My mom made me go to an all-girl catholic school, because she said that since my sister went there ... A: I was trying to check on the law in your state. Kind of having problems with this as I am not in ... | |
| teen problem | 11/13/2007 |
| Q: Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 5 months. Last weekend we hung out over ... A: I want to repoint this out, if he did anything illegal, legally you should report this. I feel you ... | |
| my mother | 11/12/2007 |
| Q: i am constantly finding myself hate my mom more and more as each day passes. she does whatever she ... A: How old are you? Why should you hate anyone? What makes you hate people? That's my question. Do you ... | |
| Gahh!!! | 11/8/2007 |
| Q: I am in middle school and recently the bus driver has taken our privileges to talk because of a ... A: I need to ask your state. Please create this post as private in the future. I do not give legal ... | |
| please help | 11/5/2007 |
| Q: Hey thanks in advanced coz dis is very long sorry..... i am 16 years old and really like my a mate ... A: Exactly what are you wondering: If he likes you? "How to know if he or she likes you area" How ... | |
| Alone | 11/4/2007 |
| Q: Hey, i'm Emmaline and i'm 16 and this stupid problem has been running my life for a good two years. ... A: Sorry about the delay. Overloaded here. Please however feel free to ask follow ups. Your art hobby ... | |
| Screwed up home. | 11/4/2007 |
| Q: I am a 16yrs old grade 12 student turning 17 in December this year. My mother is a Polish Catholic ... A: Can I ask your country/state? Ok religious questions, I feel may be better with a coworker of mine. ... | |
| Teenagers | 11/3/2007 |
| Q: starting fronm the eldest Girl 17, Girl 16, Boy 9, Boy 8. Todays question is about the youngst ... A: Paul expert James Windell(author) our Parenting Teen expert can probably help you here. However, I ... | |
| My daughter's behavior | 10/28/2007 |
| Q: My daughter is 15 1/2 and has changed her behavior recently. Last night I came home from work while ... A: Expert Dan here. I recommend James Windell Parenting Teen expert here. If you need more help, please ... | |
| How to keep him happy? | 10/27/2007 |
| Q: I have been dating my boyfriend, Chris M., for 8 months now and things are only ok. It seems like I ... A: By the way you wrote the first few posts, I thought he was one of those controlling people. How come ... | |
| How to keep him happy? | 10/26/2007 |
| Q: I have been dating my boyfriend, Chris M., for 8 months now and things are only ok. It seems like I ... A: First I would like to recommend our "How to Strengthen Your Relationship" area. Second I would like ... | |
| I have the mind of a nine year old | 10/21/2007 |
| Q: I am a bit worried because I am 12, almost 13 and I still like Barbie, toy ponies, pollies, dolls, ... A: As I'm not a doctor I cannot tell you if there is anything wrong with you. If you want talk to your ... | |
| friend who don't want to be friend with me any more | 10/20/2007 |
| Q: I have a friend who use to be best friend with me, but after the summer vacation, he was like ... A: Why would you do his homework? What types of drinks do you buy for him? Ages? Why does he not want ... | |
| penis problem | 10/11/2007 |
| Q: Handjob effect on body weight???? A: Handjobs? You mean with another person or by your self? You should ask your doctor about this, and ... | |
| My boyfriend | 10/11/2007 |
| Q: We have been going out 4 months last Friday although I was just recently allowed to date on Sunday. ... A: Just checking up to see how you are doing. Let me know if you need anymore help. Thank you for ... | |
| My boyfriend | 10/11/2007 |
| Q: We have been going out 4 months last Friday although I was just recently allowed to date on Sunday. ... A: I don't know Ca law, so I won't say anything about the law here. You should talk to a lawyer with ... | |
| mom .. and hate | 10/9/2007 |
| Q: i really dont know how i developed this hate for a person that gave birth to me. i think it started ... A: Is she still dating this person who abuses her? How old are you? You are still living with your ... | |
| Hi Dan, I need some help here. | 10/9/2007 |
| Q: We haven't talked in just about forever, and I'm sorry about that. How are you? I'm decent, but I ... A: I am so overloaded here it's not even funny. But, don't worry about me. I am going to help you the ... | |
| moving out at 18 | 10/9/2007 |
| Q: i am going to be moving out of my house in feb. of 2009 on my 18 birthday.i plan on moving into an ... A: I highly recommend to speak to a lawyer in your area about the laws. I pulled up some information ... | |
| moving out at 18 | 10/5/2007 |
| Q: i am going to be moving out of my house in feb. of 2009 on my 18 birthday.i plan on moving into an ... A: I understand. I just don't think it's right for you to marry someone at this age because of this. ... | |
| moving out at 18 | 10/5/2007 |
| Q: i am going to be moving out of my house in feb. of 2009 on my 18 birthday.i plan on moving into an ... A: I am sorry your living area right now is not good. Can you explain why? Has the law been involved? ... | |
| dating | 10/2/2007 |
| Q: my boyfriend is turning 18 in 7 days and I'm turning 15 in January is it illegal to date still? A: You ask a good question. The simple answer is that laws vary per location. I know in some locations ... | |
| My boyfriend | 9/30/2007 |
| Q: We have been going out 4 months last Friday although I was just recently allowed to date on Sunday. ... A: Happy late birthday. It appears to me like he doesn't respect you. Trying to push you into something ... | |
| she took pictures. | 9/30/2007 |
| Q: so i went to a batmitzvah where all of my friends i hadn't seen since camp (a year and a half ago) ... A: Shalom, Why do you feel people are horrible to you? And why do you think they are kind to her when ... | |
| 14 y/o son | 9/23/2007 |
| Q: I am a nurse and have concerns about my 14 y/o son, i know the issue isn't drugs or alcohol. He ... A: Do you live in the US and do you want me to try to get this book sent to a work address or a PO box? ... | |
| 14 y/o son | 9/22/2007 |
| Q: I am a nurse and have concerns about my 14 y/o son, i know the issue isn't drugs or alcohol. He ... A: As I am not a psychologist I will have to recommend talking to your doctor, and a in person ... | |
| Moving Out | 9/21/2007 |
| Q: I am almost 17 years old and my parents were never married. They have not been together since i was ... A: I'm not a lawyer so I cannot really provide legal advice. I ran a fast search online and it turns ... | |
| Moving Out | 9/21/2007 |
| Q: I am almost 17 years old and my parents were never married. They have not been together since i was ... A: Include the question above and contact me on this email address: batmancatdog@yahoo.com--- Subject ... | |
| Depressed? | 9/16/2007 |
| Q: Hey, for the past 2 weeks i have been really really bored. I dont know why! Then somehow the thought ... A: I'm just checking to see how you are doing. It's possible it's just boredom(possible right now minor ... | |
| communicating | 9/13/2007 |
| Q: I’m a 15 year old male in the 10th grade. My problem is communicating with other males and females. ... A: Can I ask your state? I wouldn't recommend you to rush into dating right now. I recommend our "self ... | |
| Mother's that don't trust their children | 9/12/2007 |
| Q: I am 15 year old sophomore high school student and am having difficulty with my mother. Our ... A: Is there a teacher or someone you can talk to in person about this as a middle person? Would a ... | |
| Depressed? | 9/11/2007 |
| Q: Hey, for the past 2 weeks i have been really really bored. I dont know why! Then somehow the thought ... A: Can you include ages and a basic breakdown of your day for the last few days? I will also be ... | |
| disinterest in driving | 9/11/2007 |
| Q: I am a senior in high school, I am 18 years old, and I do not have a drivers license. I have never ... A: That's a very common problem. How come you don't want to drive? Any theories? Are you afraid of the ... | |
| my boyfriend LIKES to smoke and it eats away at me inside... | 9/7/2007 |
| Q: my boyfriend likes to smoke. he used to smoke weed, cigarettes, cigars, and smoke pipe tobacco. my ... A: Did you date him at first knowing about this? RESPECT IS super important and if a relationship does ... | |
| body issues | 8/31/2007 |
| Q: well im 17 and im kinda hate myself cuz of the way i look im bout 280 pounds 6,0 and have bad acne ... A: ANY AND ALL MEDICAL QUESTIONS MUST BE ASKED TO A DOCTOR. I CANNOT ANSWER ANY MEDICAL PROBLEMS. A ... | |
| On behalf of my teens/ School blanket policies | 8/31/2007 |
| Q: I am writing to you on behalf of my teens who are both 17 and will soon be turning 18 in just a few ... A: Paul is one of Allexperts best experts. He can answer certain legal areas that I cannot. However him ... | |
| On behalf of my teens/ School blanket policies | 8/30/2007 |
| Q: I am writing to you on behalf of my teens who are both 17 and will soon be turning 18 in just a few ... A: I really can't give legal advice and basically the above is not legal advice. There is a chance you ... | |
| On behalf of my teens/ School blanket policies | 8/30/2007 |
| Q: I am writing to you on behalf of my teens who are both 17 and will soon be turning 18 in just a few ... A: My job here is not to be any one's lawyer. I have no legal degree and each state has it's own laws. ... | |
| On behalf of my teens/ School blanket policies | 8/29/2007 |
| Q: I am writing to you on behalf of my teens who are both 17 and will soon be turning 18 in just a few ... A: One question before I attempt to answer this, did they get a student handbook, and if so what does ... | |
| body issues | 8/28/2007 |
| Q: well im 17 and im kinda hate myself cuz of the way i look im bout 280 pounds 6,0 and have bad acne ... A: You shouldn't hate your self for your looks. You should talk to a doctor about a fitness plan. Your ... | |
| my past is making things hard | 8/24/2007 |
| Q: okay this is a very hard thing for me to talk about. i'm currently 15 and about 2 year ago i was ... A: Taking it slow is important. I know how hard it is to talk about such things to people. In person is ... | |
| my past is making things hard | 8/23/2007 |
| Q: okay this is a very hard thing for me to talk about. i'm currently 15 and about 2 year ago i was ... A: If you tell them, should you tell all or start off with only one? And why that one? You ask a good ... | |
| my 12 year old | 8/21/2007 |
| Q: My daughter turned twelve in July. She was diagnosed with juvenile diabetes in December 2005. I ... A: It's important to have a parental control on your computer and make sure no one besides you know the ... | |
| why me? | 8/21/2007 |
| Q: why is it always that you help everybody in need. but you are always left alone when you need ... A: I asked the same question. I work my butt off here helping others in need, yet my friends don't let ... | |
| Sexual Abuse | 8/19/2007 |
| Q: I recently found out that someone very close to me was sexually abused at age 7 and I can't believe ... A: Expert Dan here. It was not her fault what happened. I recommend our rape area, depression area, and ... | |
| teen dating | 8/16/2007 |
| Q: she is 14 years old and i would like to know if this is legal or illegal? when will it be illegal. i ... A: You would really need to ask a lawyer in your state for this advice. As a policy I am not allowed to ... | |
| Overbearing Mother | 8/13/2007 |
| Q: I'm 16 in Jersey and I have some major issues with my mother. My dad and I get along great, but my ... A: Just checking to see how you are. Really let me know if I can offer anymore help. I can give you my ... | |
| Overbearing Mother | 8/13/2007 |
| Q: I'm 16 in Jersey and I have some major issues with my mother. My dad and I get along great, but my ... A: Ok so you think it's because of menopause or such. Being a guy I don't know much about that. Only ... | |
| Overbearing Mother | 8/13/2007 |
| Q: I'm 16 in Jersey and I have some major issues with my mother. My dad and I get along great, but my ... A: Good question. I recommend parenting teen expert James Windell. I also recommend us to talk for ... | |
| my past is making things hard | 8/13/2007 |
| Q: okay this is a very hard thing for me to talk about. i'm currently 15 and about 2 year ago i was ... A: I am so sorry about the rape. I understand how this did hurt you. It was not your fault. I recommend ... | |
| I'm moving away | 8/11/2007 |
| Q: Through my life I was raised in small towns. I'm now in the middle of my highschool years and my ... A: "Is there any way to prevent from moving?" This may not prevent the move, yet it could. See a ... | |
| Daughter's friend kicked out of home.. | 8/7/2007 |
| Q: I have been reading the responses made to other concern adults. I'm in the same situation. My ... A: I am Expert Dan. I cannot give legal advice, yet in my state 18 year olds are allowed to be kicked ... | |
| i want a bby | 8/5/2007 |
| Q: elo.. im 14.. well 15 in novmeba im from bham (england).. i hav a frend dat has a 7 week old baby ... A: Having a child at age 14 is very very very hard work. It is also illegal in many locations. I ... | |
| 16 year old broken heart | 8/5/2007 |
| Q: My 17 and a half year old daughter had a boyfriend that she was involved with for a year and a half. ... A: James Windell is located under Parenting Teen on this site. His website is www.jameswindell.com . ... | |
| need help on how to ask this girl out | 7/31/2007 |
| Q: I like this girl name Venessa and she is hot to me and i know she likes me but i am scary to ask her ... A: We need more information including ages. This question was put in the question pool maybe because it ... | |
| Me and an Ex of mine. | 7/27/2007 |
| Q: My name is Danielle and I started dating this guy named Brock in the early part of June. I've known ... A: Expert Dan here from the question pool. I will say right now I don't promote Myspace and be careful ... | |
| Boys? | 7/18/2007 |
| Q: I'm 17 going to be 18 in less than two months, and I have NEVER had a boyfriend. I've been on one ... A: I know a lot of people who do not date until 18 or even until older. Happy Birthday first off. ... | |
| Denial | 7/17/2007 |
| Q: Um, I am a Christian teenager, and I feel like my seventh grade year was some kind of soap opera for ... A: "...I am pretty sure that I would not do anything dumb or risky. I am not one who is easily fooled ... | |
| Denial | 7/16/2007 |
| Q: Um, I am a Christian teenager, and I feel like my seventh grade year was some kind of soap opera for ... A: "make out with Troy"<---- It may be biology you want to, yet you shouldn't do this. Also we don't ... | |
| Denial | 7/16/2007 |
| Q: Um, I am a Christian teenager, and I feel like my seventh grade year was some kind of soap opera for ... A: How to act near another guy needs to be asked in our "expressing your self to others" area. Now, I ... | |
| Denial | 7/16/2007 |
| Q: Um, I am a Christian teenager, and I feel like my seventh grade year was some kind of soap opera for ... A: How old are you now? How old are they now? Grades? You still know them pretty well(you said you ... | |
| how to quit a job | 7/12/2007 |
| Q: I recently startyed working at a new department in my grocery store, and they asked me when I would ... A: Ah... OK first off I cannot give any legal advice online. There is a law that restricts me from ... | |
| incest | 7/12/2007 |
| Q: I have sexual feeling towards my aunt my sister and my cousin and you help me with them ANSWER: ... A: Think of your sister as fat(or ugly to your standards I mean). Take a picture of her and put it on ... | |
| Can't Follow-Up. | 7/9/2007 |
| Q: Hey Dan. I tried following up with a question; yet it's being messed up right now.. About your ... A: I'll try to keep some of your posts private from her, but of course if I am the middle person for an ... | |
| Can't Follow-Up. | 7/9/2007 |
| Q: Hey Dan. I tried following up with a question; yet it's being messed up right now.. About your ... A: If she wants to contact me, she can. If you want me to contact her, I'll send out one email. There ... | |
| Can't Follow-Up. | 7/9/2007 |
| Q: Hey Dan. I tried following up with a question; yet it's being messed up right now.. About your ... A: I understand about the errors on the site. It sometimes happens. There are certain ways to handle ... | |
| I'm lost.. | 7/9/2007 |
| Q: You know me; but I just copied/pasted this question here from someone else I asked. I need some ... A: "She's hyper"<--- I won't label anyone here. I'm not for pushing the label of ADD or ADHD. Some ... | |
| SPLIT! | 7/7/2007 |
| Q: All my life my dad has drank and hit my mom, and i was always the one to protect my sisters and my ... A: I understand. Anyways had to offer. So do you want to talk about your relationship with your ... | |
| awkward / shy / lonely / depressed | 7/7/2007 |
| Q: I have serious social problems. its hard to explain. basically i dont know how to really be myself ... A: "How do u mean more of a problem than what im telling you?"<--- I feel you have a form of ... | |
| awkward / shy / lonely / depressed | 7/7/2007 |
| Q: I have serious social problems. its hard to explain. basically i dont know how to really be myself ... A: Such issues usually do not disappear without treatment(the one you explained above). A psychologist ... | |
| SPLIT! | 7/6/2007 |
| Q: All my life my dad has drank and hit my mom, and i was always the one to protect my sisters and my ... A: Ok here is my private email address: Batmancatdog@yahoo.com I do see you love your parents, yet ... | |
| My boyfriends evil step mother | 7/5/2007 |
| Q: Ok so here it is...My boyfriend lives about an hour away. He is 18, and i tun 18 in aprox 17 days. I ... A: If you live with someone you loose some freedoms per se. The parents have more control of him in his ... | |
| SPLIT! | 7/4/2007 |
| Q: All my life my dad has drank and hit my mom, and i was always the one to protect my sisters and my ... A: When did this divorce happen? You are 15? You didn't have a lawyer? Why do you call your mother a ... | |
| depressed / lonely / shy / awkward | 7/4/2007 |
| Q: I have serious social problems. its hard to explain. basically i dont know how to really be myself ... A: There is nothing wrong with being gay. It's biology that created you this way. I do feel you have ... | |
| Depression | 7/4/2007 |
| Q: I'm 14.Every single moment i feel left out though i'm surrounded by my friends.I get very depressed ... A: I'm just wondering why under helpful you put down 3? That's kind of low. How could I improve? ... | |
| Depression | 7/3/2007 |
| Q: I'm 14.Every single moment i feel left out though i'm surrounded by my friends.I get very depressed ... A: By the way this is a public board. If you want you can post some of your work here so I can read it ... | |
| depressed | 7/2/2007 |
| Q: I am 20 from india. I am doin my bachelors in engineering. I see a lot of students from my college ... A: John using drugs can make you loose your smarts. Not having a girl friend at age 20 is not odd. I ... | |
| Depression | 7/2/2007 |
| Q: I'm 14.Every single moment i feel left out though i'm surrounded by my friends.I get very depressed ... A: I studied to be a teacher and I know many teachers. They may appear busy sometimes, yet they want ... | |
| depressed | 7/2/2007 |
| Q: I am 20 from india. I am doin my bachelors in engineering. I see a lot of students from my college ... A: I would like to talk to you more about the depressed feeling over grades. Please ask follow ups ... | |
| dating | 7/1/2007 |
| Q: i met this really cute guy on myspace hes my age and he lives in medford and he wants me to call him ... A: You met him on Myspace? How old are all of you? I recommend to be extra careful with Myspace. I've ... | |
| My mom's crazy | 7/1/2007 |
| Q: My mom won't believe anything I say, and thinks that because I don't like to clean my room, or do ... A: Can I ask for your state? I am glad you don't do drugs, swear or drink. I am glad you were a top ... | |
| paranoia | 6/30/2007 |
| Q: I'm Ant and I'm a 15 year old girl. For ages now i have been having these crazy paranoid delusions ... A: To be honest I never did talk to my parents about "paranoia". So my advice is not from the first ... | |
| paranoia | 6/29/2007 |
| Q: I'm Ant and I'm a 15 year old girl. For ages now i have been having these crazy paranoid delusions ... A: I'm not an expert on "paranoia", however I will try to help you anyway I can. I will say it's not ... | |
| emancipation | 6/29/2007 |
| Q: if you are 17 and have fathered a child which is not yet born can you legally be emancipated just by ... A: Ok I am not a lawyer, so I recommend asking a lawyer in your state. I also recommend Paul in our ... | |
| paranoia | 6/29/2007 |
| Q: I'm Ant and I'm a 15 year old girl. For ages now i have been having these crazy paranoid delusions ... A: I am not a doctor and cannot give medical advice online. I do recommend our psychology area and our ... | |
| My mom's crazy | 6/26/2007 |
| Q: My mom won't believe anything I say, and thinks that because I don't like to clean my room, or do ... A: My name is Expert Dan. Can I ask how old you are and why does she ground you? Have you ever talked ... | |
| i dont know wat im going to do | 6/26/2007 |
| Q: This all started maybe in the start of October in my sopmore year, When i decied ima change up a ... A: My name is Expert Dan. Can you ask a follow up with your private email address and I will be glad to ... | |
| Dating. | 6/21/2007 |
| Q: Okay well heres the dilemma theres this guy i met over the Internet and i really like him and he ... A: You are age 13 and he is 18? You should not be attempting to date online. I doubt with a recent ... | |
| Boss | 6/21/2007 |
| Q: Help. I wish Tania would quit. Tania is the Branch Manager and lives two an half hours away - she ... A: I don't want to jump on this one, yet it's not uncommon that when you give someone power, they will ... | |
| Posting | 6/21/2007 |
| Q: "How can someone stop posting the same questions over and over again especially when they are given ... A: If I understand this correctly, someone is posting the same question over and over again on many ... | |
| Mom | 6/21/2007 |
| Q: My mom is 81 years old. My mom doesnt think people should ask for advice online, but I think people ... A: Advice giving is a hard thing to do. Some advice givers here are not good at their jobs. One must be ... | |
| I need help | 6/20/2007 |
| Q: Im 16 yrs old caint move out or stay with relatives other than my father( who last febuary put me in ... A: My name is Expert Dan. Your father put you in the hospital for what reason? You were recently ... | |
| Kicked out | 6/16/2007 |
| Q: I am a 16 year . old Augusta Teenager well My life may seem like it is all good one major problem I ... A: Augusta , Maine? If you make this post private I will post my private email address for you. Are you ... | |
| i fucking hate her | 6/15/2007 |
| Q: My mom has four kids, and every single day she comes home from work and the first thing she always ... A: I understand anger towards parents. Our Parenting Teen expert James Windell can maybe help here. I ... | |
| It's all abt love!!! | 6/7/2007 |
| Q: Am an 18 yr old girl now.A yr ago when i was doing my schooling I met a guy thro chat n met n fell ... A: OK can you tell me a drop about this jerk you dated? The thing is in cases like this it's important ... | |
| parental issues | 6/6/2007 |
| Q: well about 10-ish months ago i had my first real boyfriend, and i am not allowed to have one, ... A: One last thing, he must respect your parents for receiving approval from them. He cannot rush ... | |
| need help | 6/4/2007 |
| Q: I've got this boyfriend that i have been going with for almost 2 years now and come to find out he's ... A: I do recommend to be careful near a cheater. I would never date a cheater, yet that's your choice. I ... | |
| im 16 yr old lookin after my sister all the time | 6/3/2007 |
| Q: 30ish till 10ish which means when i get home i have bout 1 hour to do what i wont with no sister ... A: How old is your sister? Can you tell me about her? Where your father? Have you asked in our "Brother ... | |
| help | 6/2/2007 |
| Q: I was normally a really carefree girl until recently, where i have been getting really negative ... A: Be careful of Myspace. I do not promote it. I think you have a small case of teenage depression. It ... | |
| Depression | 6/1/2007 |
| Q: I'm 14.Every single moment i feel left out though i'm surrounded by my friends.I get very depressed ... A: I recommend thinking about the hotline above. I also recommend to buy a book about the problem you ... | |
| OVERPROTECTIVE | 6/1/2007 |
| Q: Would you please tell my why that some families are overprotective and some families aren't? ... A: You ask a good question. Sadly there is not a simple answer there. Each case is different. I assume ... | |
| How can I reastablish my relationship? | 6/1/2007 |
| Q: Matt sent me to ask for your advise, here goes... I am a 20 year-old and have been a professional ... A: My coworker Matt recommended me. That's cool. "stressful and unhealthy environment "<--- Have you ... | |
| Hello Dan, it's Matt (Question included) | 5/30/2007 |
| Q: how are you? I'm very sorry about the lack of e.mails, and instant msgs I've sent you. I get ... A: I am fine. Overloaded however. So sorry we don't talk much anymore.I do want to, yet we are both ... | |
| myspace | 5/29/2007 |
| Q: I have never really felt the need to get myspace or other such sites because i dont think they are ... A: I do not promote Myspace as a safety concern. Now, 15 is a tough age to be at. It's not uncommon to ... | |
| WHAT DO I DO??????? | 5/27/2007 |
| Q: I've got this boyfriend that I have been going with for nearly 2 years now and come to find out I ... A: Sorry for the delay. Handling a number of things. I am sorry you had to find the truth this way. I ... | |
| WHAT DO I DO??????? | 5/26/2007 |
| Q: I've got this boyfriend that I have been going with for nearly 2 years now and come to find out I ... A: "What category do I find message sent by body language? "<--- That is the category. Just do an ... | |
| WHAT DO I DO??????? | 5/26/2007 |
| Q: I've got this boyfriend that I have been going with for nearly 2 years now and come to find out I ... A: Ask also in our: "How to Breakup/Deal With Break Ups" "How to Work Out Arguments With a Loved One" ... | |
| WHAT DO I DO??????? | 5/26/2007 |
| Q: I've got this boyfriend that I have been going with for nearly 2 years now and come to find out I ... A: I am not going to say what you should do. I am going to just say that you want the truth. You want ... | |
| WHAT DO I DO??????? | 5/25/2007 |
| Q: I've got this boyfriend that I have been going with for nearly 2 years now and come to find out I ... A: " I was kind of rushing "<--- That's one thing I don't recommend to do. I think you knew that was ... | |
| WHAT DO I DO??????? | 5/24/2007 |
| Q: I've got this boyfriend that I have been going with for nearly 2 years now and come to find out I ... A: It's important to talk, yet be kind with talk and not flood him. You maybe rushed too fast with ... | |
| WHAT DO I DO??????? | 5/24/2007 |
| Q: I've got this boyfriend that I have been going with for nearly 2 years now and come to find out I ... A: You have a gut feeling he is cheating. "Love is blind". Pull apart the words you see and find the ... | |
| WHAT DO I DO??????? | 5/23/2007 |
| Q: I've got this boyfriend that I have been going with for nearly 2 years now and come to find out I ... A: This is not love. You want to love him. Gut feeling? Heart feeling? Do you really think those people ... | |
| driving privileges | 5/23/2007 |
| Q: I am 18 years old and have become increasingly frustrated with my parents' refusal to let me drive. ... A: I remember the driving problem. My parents gave my brother a car at age 16. It took them a lot lot ... | |
| WHAT DO I DO??????? | 5/21/2007 |
| Q: I've got this boyfriend that I have been going with for nearly 2 years now and come to find out I ... A: A relationship needs trust and talk. It also needs people to be honest. They may have a reason to ... | |
| My Sister | 5/17/2007 |
| Q: Lately my sister has been acting really annoying lately. She's always lecturing me about what to do ... A: I recommend talking to your doctor and our Teen Health area as well as our Men's Health area about ... | |
| adding jesus into my relationaship | 5/15/2007 |
| Q: i'm Margaret, a 17 yr old african american from detroit. The odds are already against me. Where im ... A: All you can do is talk under my religion. You cannot force someone to join my religion. And for ... | |
| life | 5/13/2007 |
| Q: ok my problem is on prom night i went with the girl of my dreams. i really liked this girl and i ... A: I recommend our "How to know if he or she likes you area". I also want to talk to you about the ... | |
| adding jesus into my relationaship | 5/10/2007 |
| Q: i'm Margaret, a 17 yr old african american from detroit. The odds are already against me. Where im ... A: My coworker Pastor Don in Teenage Problems would like to help you. Let him know I recommended him. ... | |
| please help | 5/9/2007 |
| Q: please i need your help,its about my son hes 16 and he is very depressed hes very overwieght has ... A: Ok as of right now, no replies to any of my emails. No opening of the card. No approval of talking ... | |
| ???? | 5/9/2007 |
| Q: is it right for me to be friends with a guy that i plan to go out with even if my parents say no...i ... A: Most religions do not promote dating below at least age 16. Some religions promote no dating until ... | |
| ???? | 5/8/2007 |
| Q: is it right for me to be friends with a guy that i plan to go out with even if my parents say no...i ... A: You have your own mind. Your parents are here to protect you and guide you. My parents will say I ... | |
| please help | 5/8/2007 |
| Q: please i need your help,its about my son hes 16 and he is very depressed hes very overwieght has ... A: I can contact him on MSN if you want. We can talk live and I can see if I can help him if you want. ... | |
| Help with feelings towards boyfriend | 5/7/2007 |
| Q: Hey. My name is Simone and I have a boyfriend named Davo and we have been going out for 2 months. I ... A: Who says dump him? "But I know he never goes out with a girl twice so im scared if I dump him then ... | |
| adding jesus into my relationaship | 5/6/2007 |
| Q: i'm Margaret, a 17 yr old african american from detroit. The odds are already against me. Where im ... A: I'm sorry still no reply from this coworker. Unless it was lost. My religion teaches me that I ... | |
| please help | 5/6/2007 |
| Q: please i need your help,its about my son hes 16 and he is very depressed hes very overwieght has ... A: I thought I would post those sites here(third party websites are not related to me and are out of my ... | |
| sex and my boyfriend | 5/6/2007 |
| Q: okay my boyfriend (lets call him Derek) has chosen this girl (Kayla) over me twice before and i have ... A: 14 year olds should not be dating. MOST 14 YEAR OLDS DO NOT DATE. Sex is a big big thing to do. It's ... | |
| My best friend is in trouble! | 5/4/2007 |
| Q: ..My best friend is lyk my sister thats why i need advice...This Past October her father killed ... A: How old is she? Can she talk to me here? Has she been seeing a psychologist? You should go to a ... | |
| ???? | 5/3/2007 |
| Q: is it right for me to be friends with a guy that i plan to go out with even if my parents say no...i ... A: You admit that sex is wrong at your age. Is he really the type of person you want? My theory is no. ... | |
| help, right away | 4/27/2007 |
| Q: i am a 15-year old girl and i like to wear revealing clothing. i feel that it empowers me and shows ... A: I have to ask you a few questions. First can I recommend a coworker of mine for your question? ... | |
| my girlfreinds perents hate me | 4/27/2007 |
| Q: My girlfriends mom hates me. What happened is this girl (well call her x i guess)i met her when i ... A: Tell me about your girlfriend?"place very drunk"<--- Please talk to AA about this."having suicidal ... | |
| please help | 4/26/2007 |
| Q: please i need your help,its about my son hes 16 and he is very depressed hes very overwieght has ... A: 3 psychologists. Ok I am going to recommend James Windell in our Parenting Teen area. He is an award ... | |
| friend | 4/24/2007 |
| Q: My name is lisa. Hi could you please help me. About 4 months ago me and my parents had this fight ... A: Can you talk to your parents about their friends when they were your age? You like being home ... | |
| I'm gay and I think I'm depressed | 4/22/2007 |
| Q: well I'm 13 and I'm gay. I'm pretty sure this feeling started last summer. That was a terrible ... A: It's OK being gay. There is nothing wrong with being gay. I am worried about your depression. I ... | |
| please help | 4/21/2007 |
| Q: please i need your help,its about my son hes 16 and he is very depressed hes very overwieght has ... A: I am Expert Dan. Can you tell me a drop more about him. When did this depression start? Ever seen a ... | |
| hello | 4/20/2007 |
| Q: First of all, a couple years ago my friends started distancing themselves from me and i eventually ... A: Have you talked to a psychologist, doctor, and your parents about this? Talk to a trusted teacher? ... | |
| Confused On All The Wrong Things In My Life | 4/18/2007 |
| Q: im 13 years old n im going through alot of pressure. since 6th grade ive been feeling unconfident ... A: Can I ask for your state to give you a hotline for FREE advice on the phone? Have you talked to any ... | |
| Confused On All The Wrong Things In My Life | 4/18/2007 |
| Q: im 13 years old n im going through alot of pressure. since 6th grade ive been feeling unconfident ... A: So you're having parent problems? Do you have brothers or sisters? A close uncle or aunt? Can I ... | |
| Girlfriend (Problems?) | 4/16/2007 |
| Q: .. I'm 16, currently studying my A-levels, and have a wonderful girlfriend (also 16 but studying her ... A: I cannot promote Myspace, so be careful. Ok I am worried on a number of topics here. UNI where is ... | |
| Girlfriend (Problems?) | 4/16/2007 |
| Q: .. I'm 16, currently studying my A-levels, and have a wonderful girlfriend (also 16 but studying her ... A: In any depression case a psychologist needs to be called in. Please ask follow ups if you want to ... | |
| I doubt that any woman will accept me | 4/14/2007 |
| Q: I am a 13 year old guy with a growing suspicion that no girl that I find attractive, both inside and ... A: Many psychologists, and religious people feel 13 is too young for dating. In fact many parents agree ... | |
| I doubt that any woman will accept me | 4/14/2007 |
| Q: I am a 13 year old guy with a growing suspicion that no girl that I find attractive, both inside and ... A: Ok I am working with a few people up in Canada this week. Someone told me they think dating is not ... | |
| Having Sex | 4/11/2007 |
| Q: I'm 15, and I've been thinking about sex a lot recently. I had a girlfriend last year, and the ... A: Third party websites are not related to me. Use at your own risk: http://www.iwannaknow.org/ The ... | |
| SEX | 4/1/2007 |
| Q: !!!! ANSWER: 11? You really serious with this question? 11 is too young with sex. In fact in all US ... A: Please state the state in the future. 15 is an illegal age in most US states for sex. I would say ... | |
| SEX | 3/31/2007 |
| Q: !!!! A: I saw on a post that was public something about a letter from a boyfriend about rape. If you state ... | |
| really down... | 3/30/2007 |
| Q: Hey, I'm 14 years old, and I've just been really down lately. I just keep thinking about all the ... A: 14 is really the hard year in life. Can I recommend a hotline for you to call? State your state. I ... | |
| want to be with someone | 3/27/2007 |
| Q: ok i have a problem im 16 almost senior in high school but im home schooled and i really want be ... A: You are too young to know what love is. Now, 16 is really the beginning of the dating game. In fact, ... | |
| I'm too smart..... and it makes me feel dumb | 3/26/2007 |
| Q: Okay, so, I was wondering how to deal with overbearing parents. See, I am a straight A student, I ... A: I am glad the weather isn't bad there. Today is is very wet here. I didn't know we were going to ... | |
| Depression | 3/26/2007 |
| Q: I'm 14.Every single moment i feel left out though i'm surrounded by my friends.I get very depressed ... A: I recommend seeing your doctor and a psychologist. Because you did not state your state I am giving ... | |
| broken up | 3/25/2007 |
| Q: Me and my Girlfriend had been going out for 6 months, then we broke up, we had done everything ... A: Because you had sex with her, I highly recommend to talk to a doctor and get tested for STIs and ... | |
| Thought he was my friend | 3/25/2007 |
| Q: I am 16 and live in Ireland. My problem is wrecking my head, making me lose sleep and feel sick. I ... A: Just because people at your school drink does not mean it's right. Also I am sure it's not 90 ... | |
| I'm too smart..... and it makes me feel dumb | 3/25/2007 |
| Q: Okay, so, I was wondering how to deal with overbearing parents. See, I am a straight A student, I ... A: I hope all is well with you right now. I just want to say Happy Easter. Keep me up to date. My ... | |
| Thought he was my friend | 3/25/2007 |
| Q: I am 16 and live in Ireland. My problem is wrecking my head, making me lose sleep and feel sick. I ... A: I am going to post a 3rd party website that I am not related to. This has free hotlines that you can ... | |
| I'm too smart..... and it makes me feel dumb | 3/24/2007 |
| Q: Okay, so, I was wondering how to deal with overbearing parents. See, I am a straight A student, I ... A: Right as I said your first sentence, I recalled a similar case I had before. I am going to tell you ... | |
| help | 3/23/2007 |
| Q: in caracas my 14 years old son had an argument at the catholic high school he atends with other boy. ... A: I question if you are handling this correctly. I work with a world class author. He handles parent ... | |
| Jealousy | 3/20/2007 |
| Q: I'm 14 years old and live in Indiana. I have a little problem. I have a boyfriend named AJ and he's ... A: Mind if I ask what part of Indiana, I know the As. Principal to Caroll, and I also know some people ... | |
| teen problems/boys | 3/18/2007 |
| Q: My sister and I are trying to get guys to notice us. What should do we do? We're not really popular ... A: The question are: Should you be going out to get guys to notice you? Should you be dating? Should ... | |
| two kinds of pressure | 3/15/2007 |
| Q: my dad doesn't live with us, but he has a PhD in chemistry. My mom has a B.S in Biology and an ... A: Ok I have four brothers. I am the youngest one in my family. Being the youngest my parents knew ... | |
| two kinds of pressure | 3/13/2007 |
| Q: my dad doesn't live with us, but he has a PhD in chemistry. My mom has a B.S in Biology and an ... A: I am going to highlight a few statements you made: -"my dad doesn't live with us" -"PhD in ... | |
| two kinds of pressure | 3/12/2007 |
| Q: i know my family loves me and wants teh best from me, but i feel like they're pressuring me on what ... A: About your parents problems I would like to talk to you more about this. Mind if I ask what colleges ... | |
| broken up | 3/7/2007 |
| Q: Me and my Girlfriend had been going out for 6 months, then we broke up, we had done everything ... A: How old are you? Have you ever seen a psychologist? Did you have sex with her? Can I recommend a ... | |
| grades | 3/2/2007 |
| Q: The text above is a follow-up to ... -----Question----- (i'm really having troubles describing this ... A: One last thing. I'm sorry about this. I think it's important for you to be tested by the school. ... | |
| Grades. | 3/2/2007 |
| Q: (i'm really having troubles describing this at this point. Basicly my grades are falling and i dont ... A: Ok so yes to being stressed--- I understand your reason. We will talk about this soon. Yes to ... | |
| help | 2/26/2007 |
| Q: ok sorry. i didn't send this to you because you already knew of it and i wanted other people's ... A: I thought so. I thought this was you. The thing is whenever a question is not answered, it could be ... | |
| Hi Dan, it's Matt | 2/24/2007 |
| Q: I hope things are better for you than myself, which is most likely correct.. I messaged you earlier ... A: I wish I can talk to you online as much as I did before, yet my bosses are overworking me. I will ... | |
| net frnd | 2/21/2007 |
| Q: i wanted to discuss some things abt this net friend that i have.i'm 15 and he's 16. he's frm my ... A: My friend just checking to see how you are. Questions unanswered end up sometimes on my desk, and I ... | |
| help | 2/20/2007 |
| Q: i wanted to discuss some things abt this net friend that i have.i'm 15 and he's 16. he's frm my ... A: You met this person online? I am wondering if he is really 16. It's known many people online lie ... | |
| what is wrong with me? | 2/19/2007 |
| Q: I'm 11, and i don't know what is going on. I don't know if I'm weird or this is something that every ... A: Any health related question you need to ask a doctor. I recommend talking to your doctor about what ... | |
| Argument | 2/18/2007 |
| Q: I really want to get an account on MySpac* (I'm 14, by the way), but my parents won't let me because ... A: Keep me up to date on this problem. Dan I'm going to be honest I don't promote Myspace. I had a ... | |
| Im forgetful | 2/17/2007 |
| Q: I have a problem where i seem to hide stuff from my self and say stuff which i cannot remember ... A: Good question. I need to ask your age. I also need to ask are you stressed out. I also want to ask ... | |
| school dance | 2/15/2007 |
| Q: Ok, well, I am 13 (7th grade) and so is this guy that i like... He is really nice, cute, athletic, ... A: Is this problem still at hands? I recommend to become friends before dating. I also cannot recommend ... | |
| Legal Relationships | 2/11/2007 |
| Q: I'm dating a guy that is eighteen, and I'm fifteen. I was wondering if there was anything illegal ... A: You didn't need to. OK here is something I found online: "Is Dating Legal If You're Different Ages? ... | |
| girls | 2/6/2007 |
| Q: But, fortunately its not as bad now but if m feeling low again i'll contact you and ask for help yeh ... A: Here is a website that has help lines I believe. I know nothing about this place, so double check ... | |
| girls | 2/6/2007 |
| Q: yeh i mean thers no point in worrying over the past it happened but the thing is I m not normally ... A: If you use Yahoo Mess. we can talk on this live if you want for 30 minutes free. My advice is do ... | |
| girls | 2/6/2007 |
| Q: yes hinduism, and what should i do I'm feeling really low i feel like hurting myself i took ... A: Ok I am not an expert on the Hindi religion, but I will start off a new topic for you. You cannot ... | |
| Confused and worrie.. | 2/4/2007 |
| Q: you're co-worker Dan has referred you to me a couple times if there's anything I need help with and ... A: This is Dan. I am just cleaning up the question pool. This question is old. If you have any new ... | |
| Decisions | 2/2/2007 |
| Q: Is the age 13 old enough to make your own decisions? Answer ASAP please. A: One last thing I should add and this is copied from: ... | |
| hello i have a question | 1/21/2007 |
| Q: im an 18 year old female, and over the past couple weeks i have to the conclusion that god hates me ... A: G-D does not hate you. I know this. "ever since then things keep going wrong"<--- Is this really ... | |
| im so much in love with the girl who already been taken... | 1/12/2007 |
| Q: I'm so much in love with the girl name maldita. i really don't believe in love at first sight but ... A: You don't love her and you admit this. You should be her friend, yet if you cannot be because of ... | |
| Helpp! | 1/5/2007 |
| Q: Well....I'm really upset right now. I keep making people mad at me, but I don't know why! I really ... A: Take a deep breath. " I really want people to like me"<--- Please tell me a drop about your self. ... | |
| please help | 1/5/2007 |
| Q: I am a 14 year old girl, in year 10 at school who has always wanted to succeed in exams, and my ... A: My name is Expert Dan. I saw your question on the question pool. I am wondering if you still need ... | |
| Concerned about a 14 yr old | 1/3/2007 |
| Q: yet rather some advice on a problem that my friend Ana is having with her daughter; below I am ... A: Let me review your question... Mariano while I will offer you advice, Ana should contact us. I ... | |
| help! | 1/3/2007 |
| Q: hey my problem is very simple but yet very big. i have bad breath how can i loose it because mouth ... A: You should contact youd Dentist and he can give you a special program to use. I however also ... | |
| sex | 12/31/2006 |
| Q: I'm 17yrs old, I'm still a virgin and i want to lost my virginity but when i got close with my ... A: You are 17 years old and are way too young for sex. My advice is have him keep his thing in his ... | |
| my life | 12/26/2006 |
| Q: What if the person you live around sort of can't live without cigarettes? my grandparents smoke in ... A: Second hand smoke can cause a lot of health problems. Now, I am not a lawyer, yet some legal experts ... | |
| boy trouble | 12/18/2006 |
| Q: ive been going with this boy since this summer but the problem is that i dont even know what he ... A: How old are you? You been seeing this person for a few months and you do not know what he looks ... | |
| moving out | 12/18/2006 |
| Q: At what age in West Virginia can I legally move out? Life here has been hell since I lost my brother ... A: Can we talk more about this? I recommend asking your local DA and library for the age information on ... | |
| Moving out | 12/13/2006 |
| Q: I am 18 years old and have not yet gotten my highschool diploma. I am still a senior in highschool, ... A: Legal questions should be asked in our legal area. However, as you know online experts do not know ... | |
| parents | 12/12/2006 |
| Q: what you said is what i was worried about too... but i didn't want to jump to conclusions, because ... A: How is it going? I'm just checking to see if you have found out a way to handle this problem. I hope ... | |
| parents | 12/11/2006 |
| Q: i'm 14, he's 50, and he's a lawyer, and please recommend anyone who might know what to doyesterday, ... A: Right as I saw your question, I said hey I think I know an expert who I can recommend. He's a ... | |
| headache | 12/6/2006 |
| Q: for the past 2 days i've been feeling really lightheaded and i dont know why can u help me. A: What do you eat? Weight? Male or female? I am not a doctor and for this I cannot give medical advice ... | |
| teenage crush | 11/29/2006 |
| Q: I'm with a guy for about 3 weeks he's a little flirting but i am really interested in him. i am ... A: I will tell you right now, if you think he is a player do not date him. I will also say I recommend ... | |
| pregnancy | 11/23/2006 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a few months and we have had sex a few times and last night our ... A: I do not promote sex at your age. I cannot tell you if you are pregnant or not. I highly recommend ... | |
| Question. | 11/21/2006 |
| Q: My boyfriend seems to have a hard time staying up whenever he puts a condom on. Do you know why?.. ... A: IT IS NEVER SAFE TO HAVE SEX WITHOUT PROTECTION. EVEN WITH PROTECTION IS RISKY. I HAVE TO ASK YOU ... | |
| Telling her I like her | 11/21/2006 |
| Q: alright. thanks. so i should just stay her friend, and try to get closer, to gain her trust? that ... A: The thing is it will take time for you to gain her trust past the friendship level. It is wise not ... | |
| Telling her I like her | 11/20/2006 |
| Q: I've known this girl since like 9th grade. I'm in 12th this year. We were never really close, but we ... A: "Now, she told me that she dosen't want a bf, she just wants to have fun."<--- That's due to the ... | |
| friends | 11/20/2006 |
| Q: ok ill try to make this short. i have 4 bffs. 2 of them recently sent me nasty emails saying that ... A: BTFS? Best Friends? In theory some experts only say one can really be a best friend. However, people ... | |
| MY PARENTS | 11/17/2006 |
| Q: my parents are driving me insane! i never get any time with my friends, they are always going ''we ... A: One thing I learned is that friends rarely last forever. Families do however. I may recommend you to ... | |
| Hey | 11/9/2006 |
| Q: My ex girlfriend is thinking about going back out with me.. We had been dating for almost 2 ... A: All I will say is just be you and have her like you for you. Don't make her jealous. If you want to ... | |
| Tennage Issue | 10/19/2006 |
| Q: Okay, so me and my ex boyfriend now dated for about 3 months, And then he decided to break up with ... A: It doesn't matter who cheated. Cheating is not right. If you cheat, you are not ready for a ... | |
| Questions | 10/16/2006 |
| Q: No i am actualy from Canada, lol your so called little brother, lol. I hate verbaly talking to ... A: The psychology topic : "Need to belong" has come up in our talk. It's a neat psychology topic, ... | |
| Questions | 10/13/2006 |
| Q: Is it weird that I always have to like a girl, I have been rejected a few times, (gone on a few ... A: Hmm. You're asking theYou date a girl. The girl leaves you. You find another girl fast and try to ... | |
| Help me!!!I'm breakin' down.... | 10/12/2006 |
| Q: My very 1st time to mail you and asking for your help.Hope you can give me some advice cuz I can't ... A: Your question reminds me of a story. I had a friend who drove a car and was afraid to make right ... | |
| feelings | 10/9/2006 |
| Q: I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year now and we've done mostly everything ... A: Because you had sex I recommend seeing a doctor ASAP. Be tested for STIs, AIDs, and to see if you ... | |
| College | 9/27/2006 |
| Q: I'm 19 years old and have somewhat of an eccentric mind thought, I've also been know to lean more ... A: I recommend asking in our distance relationship area for advice. I also recommend talking to a ... | |
| family | 9/25/2006 |
| Q: I have a 14 yr. old daughter who only wants to be with her friends. She is mean to her father and ... A: Because of the anger issues and also the sex, and drug issues you really need to bring her over to a ... | |
| READ | 9/21/2006 |
| Q: WELL I AM 16 YEARS OLD AND I HAD SEX WITH MY BF WE BEEN HAVING SEX MANY TIMES AND WE HAVENT USE ANY ... A: You are too young to be having sex. I recommend seeing a doctor ASAP. You should be tested to see if ... | |
| is he using me? | 9/14/2006 |
| Q: my question is how can i tell wheather he is using me and playin with my emotions or really cares. ... A: You are dating other people. Both of you are dating other people, yet you are seeing eachother. That ... | |
| Why he left! | 9/5/2006 |
| Q: Me and thi guy was dating for almost three months and he was really sweet and stuff and then he ... A: I recommend this hotline for advice. It's a 3rd party website so double check more into this for I ... | |
| Girlfriend's Stress | 8/27/2006 |
| Q: No, her parents don't pressure her more than any other parents would. She is 18 with a 14 year old ... A: I asked a number of those questions to learn more about her. For an example she could be stressed ... | |
| MY MUM IS A CONTOL FREAK! | 8/27/2006 |
| Q: I am 16 years old and this has been going on since I started comprhensive school. I dont live with ... A: I am not happy you are living with this boyfriend of yours. Yet, onto your question." I was 12 and ... | |
| Girlfriend's Stress | 8/27/2006 |
| Q: Im 18 and with my girlfriend of 5 months. I know this may seem like a short amount of time but we ... A: Your problem is not rare: Let me state what I do know about her from what you told me. You like her ... | |
| Liking someone | 8/13/2006 |
| Q: i have a friend who likes a guy and she likes him alot okay and she said she needs to know how to ... A: Is she this person's friend? Usually I recommend asking them out in person. And to become friends ... | |
| how do i stop my suicide thoughts? | 8/10/2006 |
| Q: i keep on thinking about commiting scuicide. but at the last minute i chicken out. how do i stop the ... A: Thoughts like this need professional help. Our suicide area is only so good. I want to talk to you ... | |
| how do i masturbate | 8/1/2006 |
| Q: i would jus like to ask, how do i masturbate, i am a 15 yr old male and wen i 'wank' nothing but ... A: I don't endorse doing this, however I cannot stop you. I recommend asking in our Masturbation area ... | |
| development and pubic hair | 7/27/2006 |
| Q: Well I think I am what people consider a late bloomer. I'm 15 and only recently started getting ... A: About your penis, I cannot answer that question. You should ask your doctor those questions. I ... | |
| 18 yr old depression/lonliness | 5/13/2005 |
| Q: I am the mother of an 18 yr old, very depressed, Special Needs young man. My son just graduated ... A: I know he is very smart. The thing is some of those programs are there to help people learn to speak ... | |
| stupid friend | 4/18/2005 |
| Q: I have a friend who was stupid, and gave her full name and phone number out of the internet. Well, ... A: Part of what I do online is report abuse. If you use AOL, you can send a report to them. I recommend ... | |
| My 2 young boys | 3/7/2005 |
| Q: Dan, I don't even know where to begin. I have 2 boys (8 and 9 years - 11 months apart). Both have ... A: You asked the right person in theory for I deal with a lot of kids and will keep dealing with them, ... | |
| problem | 2/21/2005 |
| Q: Dan There is this annual dance and at the dance i dance and madeout with this girl, i dont know ... A: You mean your girl friend found out you cheated on her? First your going to need to find out why you ... | |
| Hi | 1/14/2005 |
| Q: I am 15 years old and i am 16 in 3weeks. I dont know if you can help me with this question and i do ... A: I was watching TV the other day instead of reading a book and they said the average person starts ... | |
| Scared | 12/9/2004 |
| Q: I asked another person too, maybe with two answers I can find some help. I know it's not ... A: I would need to know more about you to say anything yet I do think you have a phobia and I do think ... | |
| Letting someone go....Why can't I? | 11/18/2004 |
| Q: Hi. Ok here is my story. I went out with this guy for about two years. He was the nicest guy to me ... A: A women should not lie about having his child when they are not pregnant, so my question here is are ... | |
| dealing with troubled teens | 10/13/2004 |
| Q: I will start by telling you a bit about my son.....he is 14,he has has behaviour problems since he ... A: Using an reward and punishment idea is how many people deal with this, yet it may be to late. I ... | |
| friends | 10/12/2004 |
| Q: I have two friends. They are always disagreeing on something. one makes avery good effort with being ... A: Your a too good person. My advice may be as simple as spending time with both of them. Being the ... | |
| Guy | 8/18/2004 |
| Q: Ok I went out with this guy named Kevin.We lasted 8 months.We told eachother we loved eachother.we ... A: This person needs mental help. If he says he will kill him self if you ever leave him, you must ... | |
| My Dad | 4/26/2004 |
| Q: A few years ago, maybe about 3 or so.. My brother, his girlfriend, and I came across some "gay" ... A: You put up a question that I do not know if anyone fairly knows how to answer. We can say you were ... | |
| Help me plz | 4/11/2004 |
| Q: how's everythin goin out there ? well i 'm gonna tell u wht is my problem ? sometimes i feel ... A: It looks as though you could have some type of teenage depression. It is not as bad as the name ... | |
| Bullying | 2/15/2004 |
| Q: My name is Bobby and I am a freshman in high school. I am not very big physically but I have never ... A: OK first take a big breath. Second, go to your parents and explain the problem. With them go to the ... | |
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