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About Louise
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I can answer a variety of questions. I am not a fortune teller so I can not of course predict the future. I can however make an educated guess based on information received and from past experiences.

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I've been married for 18 years and I have three teenagers. One daughter and 2 sons. We've dealt with a variety of issues universal to most teens.

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Life that is an experience the ride is not always smooth but if you fall down you get back up and dust yourself off and do it all over again.

   

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In Category  Teenage Problems

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Mom - improper thoughts11/3/2008
  Q: I'm 15 years old and I have a big problem - I'm reaching out to you since you've got teenagers too ...
  A: Well I am sorry you are finding yourself in this situation. It isn't all that uncommon in divorce ...
Teenage son10/25/2008
  Q: I am the mother of a 18 yr old son that thinks he knows it all.Imagin that! His senior year, class ...
  A: I'm sorry you are going through a rough time with your son at the moment.... However, at 18 he ...
moving out at 1610/22/2008
  Q: my name is dominick and im 16. I live in Florida.my dad is a crackhead an acoholic and my mom is an ...
  A: Dominick Your parents need help that you cannot give them.......Your parents are not doing their ...
moving out at 1610/22/2008
  Q: my name is dominick and im 16. I live in Florida.my dad is a crackhead an acoholic and my mom is an ...
  A: I'm sorry to hear you are in a bad situation.... You need to contact your state social services to ...
Frustrating! Wrong e-mail address10/21/2008
  Q: oops sorry! I gave you the wrong e-mail address! plz answer soon, I'm going insane! my e-mail was ...
  A: I'm not sure how old you are but your gf sounds like she is stringing you along.....By telling you ...
My mom10/1/2008
  Q: When i tell her im haveing a problem with friends she has to do anypossible way to stop it. I DONT ...
  A: I don't know how old you are or what the laws in your state are..... I understand that you are ...
Divorce?10/1/2008
  Q: I was currently on the computer and found a saved document from my father which explained in ...
  A: I'm sorry that you discovered that your parents may be getting a divorce this way....One thing I can ...
My GF9/29/2008
  Q: My girlfriend has been having family problems and so she started self harming. She was doing it ...
  A: I am not an expert in self-mutilation AKA as "cutting" I do know though that you are not able to ...
Thank you9/26/2008
  Q: I just wanted to thank you tremendously for your insightful answer to my question. You really did ...
  A: Well I am glad you are starting to get involved in more positive activities....When you do things ...
Punishment and Self Esteem9/22/2008
  Q: My name is Ollie and I am a fourteen year old boy who has gone through quite a bit of crap in the ...
  A: Ollie, I'm sorry you feel life hasn't treated you so well..... Ollie as you get older you will ...
problems with moms boyfriend9/21/2008
  Q: my mom is like in love with her boyfriend but i hate him i cant go outside i have to study all day ...
  A: I'm sorry you are having such issues at your age. It is hard for me to give you any answers because ...
I hate my mom9/17/2008
  Q: I'm not stupid but I am incredibly bad at writing down my thoughts and feelings (this is why I'd ...
  A: Mack, I don't know why your mother does the things you say. All I have to really go by is my ...
I hate my mom9/16/2008
  Q: I'm not stupid but I am incredibly bad at writing down my thoughts and feelings (this is why I'd ...
  A: Sorry about the problems you feel you have...... You have to cut your mom some slack from the ...
smoking9/11/2008
  Q: i would like to have your opinion on smoking(like if it's bad or not) and why?
  A: Smoking is very bad in my opinion....I've had family members die of various types of cancers and all ...
idk what to do9/11/2008
  Q: i like this guy named alex. i have pretty much liked him ever since i met him which was a year ago. ...
  A: I think your friend has serious issues if he has such an interest in nude pix of girls.....Curiosity ...
MYY problem (blank)is my old bestfriend (L) is the other trouble maker9/3/2008
  Q: ok on my first day of school last year (Blank) & i were like bestfriends. she was the peanutbutter i ...
  A: Dionna, I'm sorry you've had problems socially BUT fighting does not resolve anything....If ...
Wayward 19 year old son8/29/2008
  Q: My 19 year old son is in legal trouble, primarily from getting caught smoking pot and skipping ...
  A: I'm sorry about all the problems you've had....Through it all you are truly a survivor! As for your ...
i have a crush8/27/2008
  Q: she told me that she loves me but i didn't tell her that i love her. she told her friends and they ...
  A: Wow your 12 and already like girls that's cute. I hate to break it to you kiddo but this girl you ...
convince my parents...?8/4/2008
  Q: so, i need to convince my parents that i'm responsible. i want contact lenses ( i have glasses but i ...
  A: Obviously your parents know what is best for you.....Just because your sister did or had something ...
20 year old son7/24/2008
  Q: I am a single mom of a 20 year old son. He is in college at a community college and is not living ...
  A: I can understand your situation.....Everything we buy comes with directions from a toaster to a car ...
20 year old son7/20/2008
  Q: I am a single mom of a 20 year old son. He is in college at a community college and is not living ...
  A: Well as a parent I can understand your dilemma....No parent wants to be told by others that their ...
Graduation6/9/2008
  Q: I'm having some problems. I'm a senior and graudating. I'm going to college in the fall (about an ...
  A: Congratulations on getting a head start in life. Well Vicky as far as your friendships go all I can ...
Asking her out5/26/2008
  Q: I want to ask a girl out but i have never had one before. Do i just ask her strait forward or do i ...
  A: Well you actually have to be friends with someone and get to know them before they can be your ...
confusion about me & my mom4/21/2008
  Q: concerning my question, i will have to tell you what happened first. i hope you won’t think it’s not ...
  A: Well Emilio from the way you articulate yourself you aren't an ignorant person....So obviously you ...
confusion about me & my mom4/20/2008
  Q: concerning my question, i will have to tell you what happened first. i hope you won’t think it’s not ...
  A: Well first of all your mother should dress more appropriately around you.....I'm glad you have a ...
dating an older man4/16/2008
  Q: Ohkay, I think I'm in love with my manager. =/ I'm not one of those naive girls who fall easily or ...
  A: Ok well I don't know either of you so I can only make a suggestion........If you care about each ...
sex/virginity4/11/2008
  Q: Well ima virgin. I plan to lose my virginity when im in a commited relationship or find that one. ...
  A: I don't know how old you are but remaining a virgin is very admirable. Olivia maybe you can think ...
help i dont kno what to do anymore4/2/2008
  Q: i am currently 16 and sophmore in high school. so far i dont have any dating problems or anything ...
  A: Amy, I don't know where you live and laws regarding attendance in school varies from state to ...
Me and my girlfriend3/31/2008
  Q: Me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex once and i did not ejaculate in her and i am worried that ...
  A: Having unprotected sex with anyone is not very wise....It is irresponsible and careless...Especially ...
Do you think you can give me some advice?3/26/2008
  Q: Hey Louise, I'm 16, and a sophomore in HS. There's this girl that I like and am also friends with ...
  A: Well at your age it's kind of difficult to give out dating advice to you. For the simple fact that ...
19 year old boy3/20/2008
  Q: my son started dating a girl that was 15 when he was 18. she comes from a broken home mother live ...
  A: I did not rush to judge....I can only answer based off information I have....At 18 your son had a ...
mom3/14/2008
  Q: Ok, first of my moms a whore? I mean, shes been married twice,neither of them have been my dad. My ...
  A: I don't have a whole lot of info so I can only make assumptions as to what may be happening..... ...
relatives prob3/14/2008
  Q: i'm not sure tht my question wud fall in this category but i cudn't find any other. i'm 17yrs ...
  A: Well as you say you are from India so there may be customs or laws that I am not familiar with....So ...
my rebellious preteen daughter2/12/2008
  Q: How can I reach her, she has been raised in a Christian home since she was born, she is sassy, rude, ...
  A: Thirteen is a strange age for the teen and the parent..Your daughter is growing up and as she does ...
LDR-->Please help!2/11/2008
  Q: . I was looking on the internet yesterday for some help for a LDR (Long Distance Relationship) that ...
  A: WOW I am shocked that your parents and her parents were ok to this whole dating situation to begin ...
Boys2/2/2008
  Q: I have a great boyfriend but this guy keeps flirting with me and we are friends but i dont like him ...
  A: Often times what a boy thinks is flirting and what a girl thinks is flirting are not the same ...
My Daugther (19)1/30/2008
  Q: briefly, my daughter is viole rude, wont listen, comes and goes as she please, smokes marjuana, ...
  A: I'm glad your daughter is going to graduate that's very important....You say your daughter is 19? If ...
ughh1/27/2008
  Q: ive been with my boyfriend for like two years and im 15 hes 18. hes planning on going far away for ...
  A: YES he can leave....You having a baby won't stop him. If people who are married with children that ...
ughh1/26/2008
  Q: ive been with my boyfriend for like two years and im 15 hes 18. hes planning on going far away for ...
  A: Caitiee, First of all you are 15 you haven't even finished your education! Secondly you are wanting ...
moving out1/8/2008
  Q: .. um, i turned 15 yesterday. i was wondering, when is the soonest i can move out? can i when i'm ...
  A: I don't know what the laws are in your area but usually until you turn 18 your parents are still ...
friend's crush problems1/1/2008
  Q: My friend likes this one boy in her class and she told me and her old friend and her old friend told ...
  A: Well the boy could be shy or embarassed. Your friend should confront the boy and apologize for her ...
i don't know what I'm thinking12/14/2007
  Q: Its hard to find people who really can answer what I think. I can't even figure out what is wrong ...
  A: Soely, The problems you are having involve a variety of emotions. What you are struggling with is ...
teenage boyfriends12/5/2007
  Q: I am 12 year old, in seventh standard, I had a boy friend but now i broke up with him, now we are ...
  A: I'm not sure I understand your question......However in 7th grade you really are too young to be ...
We are moving in a few months and teenage daughters are so upset?11/30/2007
  Q: I just want to hear from others or your advice. My husband got a job promotion to move to another ...
  A: Moving is never easy! Unfortunately for your twins Jr. High to High School is a HUGE transition and ...
Everything is going wrong11/29/2007
  Q: Hey im 15 my names Devin and theres a few things going wrong in my life right now lets start with ...
  A: Well I don't doubt that you are a "gifted" student. You can be incredibly "book smart" as in be an ...
teen age11/16/2007
  Q: i am 20 year and i don't have any problem but little bit of depresion. i have sister, she is 14 year ...
  A: Roy, instead of obsessing over your sister perhaps you should focus on getting a job and going ...
boys11/13/2007
  Q: I Haven't Been Out With A Boy For About 4 Years, Ive Been Asked Out But Ive Never Said Yes Because ...
  A: Teen girls and boys are still developing their social skills...Sometimes boys or girls will act ...
shiness11/10/2007
  Q: I have no idea why, but i am extremely shy. Last year i was new to a school, and had tons of new ...
  A: Well everyone is different. You could start by joining clubs on campus....You can also get involved ...
A Silent Observer10/29/2007
  Q: Hey. I'm Maria, and I am sorta attracted to this dude who is two years older than me. Well, now ...
  A: In high school boys and girls often think they are in love but it isn't love really that they ...
A Silent Observer10/27/2007
  Q: Hey. I'm Maria, and I am sorta attracted to this dude who is two years older than me. Well, now ...
  A: Well Maria boys are complicated so are girls..........But the thing is both act differently around ...
A Silent Observer10/27/2007
  Q: Hey. I'm Maria, and I am sorta attracted to this dude who is two years older than me. Well, now ...
  A: Maria, I'm sorry but I am very confused. Julius and Mark are brothers and you are friends with ...
belly button.10/17/2007
  Q: K, well i asked my mom to get my belly button pierced two weeks ago. She said yes and that she'd ...
  A: First of all let me start by saying at your age for your mother to even consider taking you to get ...
sex10/15/2007
  Q: My girlfriend is 13 and really wants to do it. I do to but i think shes too young, shes not ...
  A: Well you sound like a pretty smart young man. You are right a lot of young teens are engaging in ...
What do I do about this?10/9/2007
  Q: I've asked you a question a couple months earlier, and I liked the advice, so I decided to ask you ...
  A: Ok well lets see.........I'm not sure what your question is exactly...Is it that at 18 you are just ...
does he like me?9/22/2007
  Q: okay, im 14 and currently in high school. i have a crush on one of my classmates and im not sure if ...
  A: This boy may just be being nice and friendly trying to make friends...He may feel comfortable ...
hi9/7/2007
  Q: hey there i love a girl since 2 months ..she loves me 2. but she is still not in love with me its ...
  A: Well I don't know how old you or the girl you like are. Different countries and different states ...
Ah....love problems...8/14/2007
  Q: Ok im 18 years old and i have a girlfriend that i date for 2 years, she is 17 years old. Everything ...
  A: Hmmmm interesting situation you find yourself in. First off since this girl is just a girlfriend she ...
ASAP8/11/2007
  Q: But uvalde is the first town that i can say I grew up in even though I've only lived here for about ...
  A: Lots of families move for various reasons....I don't know what the reason is for your family is ...
shit is fucked up8/8/2007
  Q: Okay this probably isn't very serious compared to the stuff you deal with but I'm just so lost right ...
  A: I'm sorry you are feeling down......It happens to everyone from time to time especially when you a ...
memory loss?7/30/2007
  Q: Ok. It's like I'm starting to lose my memory. I don't know why. I don't drink, smoke, or anything. ...
  A: First of all I'd like to commend you for not using drugs or drinking thats awesome!!! It could be ...
ex boyfriend7/30/2007
  Q: well when i was in 7th grade me and this boy went out for 3 months, and then we broke up. 8 months ...
  A: Boys and girls at this age really don't know what they want. Generally boys like girls that other ...
Help!7/19/2007
  Q: I know that there is a section about teen pregnancy, but they were all maxed out with questions and ...
  A: It is always a little disconcerting to have an unusual discharge, but keep in mind that it could be ...
hand job7/18/2007
  Q: iv been going out with my bf for 6 months and im ready to give him a hand job, i kno how your ment ...
  A: Leanne, I'm not concerned by your "rating" you are very immature read your initial message it was ...
hand job7/17/2007
  Q: iv been going out with my bf for 6 months and im ready to give him a hand job, i kno how your ment ...
  A: Leanne, Your boyfriend has most likely been experimenting with his body for some time now...This ...
Confused...7/15/2007
  Q: I have a 15 y/o daughter who came to me and told me that her step-father (my husband of 7 years) had ...
  A: First of all if your daughter came to you kudos to you for establishing a relationship with your ...
Abuse7/15/2007
  Q: I'm 15 and my stepdad is sexually abusing me. What is the best way to go about telling my mom? ...
  A: I think you should be honest with her and tell her just what you said to me. If you can't talk to ...
hand job7/14/2007
  Q: iv been going out with my bf for 6 months and im ready to give him a hand job, i kno how your ment ...
  A: Leanne, You didn't mention what your age or your boyfriends age was. I think you and him could find ...
Sex7/13/2007
  Q: Louise, my girlfriend and i have been going out for a little more than a year and a half.we are ...
  A: If you love this girl to death why not do the right thing. Wait until you and her are both 18 and ...
teen age hand job7/10/2007
  Q: will it good or bad ANSWER: Sexual feelings can be very strong at your age, and the urge to ...
  A: In a male it is called Semen. What happens in a woman's body during a climax is very like what ...
teen age hand job7/9/2007
  Q: will it good or bad ANSWER: Sexual feelings can be very strong at your age, and the urge to ...
  A: handjob or hand job is a slang term referring to the sexual form of outercourse or non-penetrative ...
Kids!?!?7/3/2007
  Q: My boyfriend and I want to have kids we're both 16 at the time we've been together for 2 yrs. and ...
  A: Well lets put it this way you are only a virgin once. The first time you have sex should be with the ...
Kids!?!?7/2/2007
  Q: My boyfriend and I want to have kids we're both 16 at the time we've been together for 2 yrs. and ...
  A: Well as a parent myself. I can tell you that I'm glad you have high expectations and want a good ...
An7/1/2007
  Q: I have a little dating-issue here that most likely isn't your average-common question. Actually; a ...
  A: Hey Matt, Nursing well thats cool that's a very rewarding career. I have friends in that field. I ...
An "Uncommon Question"7/1/2007
  Q: I have a little dating-issue here that most likely isn't your average-common question. Actually; a ...
  A: OK Matt first off celebrity crushes or crushes on musicians singers whatever the case may be is ...
Sad6/27/2007
  Q: I'm sad because over the course of the year had a crush on a girl, Elizabeth. Before I liked her, ...
  A: Jeff, You have a lot of time to find a girl. Especially since you are going to be in 8th grade. ...
Sad6/27/2007
  Q: I'm sad because over the course of the year had a crush on a girl, Elizabeth. Before I liked her, ...
  A: Your situation is not that uncommon. Elizabeth sounds like a very bold girl and unfortunately those ...
Getting this guy6/27/2007
  Q: Ok, so there's this guy I met one day and I gave him my # and he never called. But 3 days later he ...
  A: Tarou, Well it's not very hard to find people on myspace all you need is a little bit of ...
DO WHAT AS I SAY 36/25/2007
  Q: A long time ago my dad always told me to get all my important things done first then I'll have time ...
  A: If you are told to do something over again or correctly. It is obvious that whatever task you were ...
jealousy6/25/2007
  Q: orita my name is alex nd im 16 live in wales(UK)nd iv bn goin out with my gf for 1year nd 2week we ...
  A: Alex, If your girlfriend has had other boyfriends and you knew this before you started dating her. ...
Reasoning6/25/2007
  Q: BELOW IS THE REASON WHY I ASKED THE FOLLOWING:WHY would a chunky girl tell a thin girl (who is ...
  A: Well I have no idea how Sandy feels. Sandy could be chunky yet be totally content with herself OR ...
Definition6/24/2007
  Q: What is your definition of skinny enough and is my mom saying that I was overweight before and now I ...
  A: Well different clothing and the way one wears their hair or does their make up or even how well ...
Reasoning6/24/2007
  Q: BELOW IS THE REASON WHY I ASKED THE FOLLOWING:WHY would a chunky girl tell a thin girl (who is ...
  A: Individuals suffering from eating disorders have restricted emotions and often cannot identify their ...
Reasoning6/24/2007
  Q: BELOW IS THE REASON WHY I ASKED THE FOLLOWING:WHY would a chunky girl tell a thin girl (who is ...
  A: These friends may have eating disorders Anorexia and Bulimia are often found among young girls and ...
Clerk6/24/2007
  Q: Ramona and the store clerk are the two people in the story. THERE ARE ABSOLUTELY NO SECURITY CAMERAS ...
  A: Females in general usually have negative body images they never see themselves the way others ...
DO WHAT AS I SAY 26/23/2007
  Q: A long time ago my dad always told me to get all my important things done first then I'll have time ...
  A: As an adult it is your fathers job to give direction to you. Your job is to follow his directions. ...
peggy6/20/2007
  Q: My friend Peggy was out sick for two days in a row with food poisoning. When Peggy came back to work ...
  A: Yes, I would have said the same thing. After an illness especially food poisoning it isn't unusual ...
My nutty friends6/20/2007
  Q: (1) My friend Kathy WHO IS THIN AND LOOKS GREAT IN CLOTHES AND BATHING SUITS) went for a massage ...
  A: Women usually have self-esteem issues. One negative remark can make them very self conscious. I ...
DO WHAT AS I SAY6/19/2007
  Q: A long time ago my dad always told me to get all my important things done first then I'll have time ...
  A: As a parent I can understand why your father told you to get important things done so you can have ...
help6/19/2007
  Q: i have fainted twice when i have had anal sex with my boyfriend. (i was talking about it with my ...
  A: When people become aroused, their breath shortens and quickens. For some,they hyperventilate. When ...

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