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| Best Friend Blocking me out | 9/21/2008 |
Q: I have a best friend that I've had since pre-k. We've gone through fights before, but now it's ...
A: Sounds like you need to have a proper talk with your friend and see what she wants to do. It sounds ...
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| Cutting | 9/3/2008 |
Q: I am a 17 year old girl who has been cutting herself on and off for almost two years. I don't ...
A: Believe it or not but a lot of people feel like absolute rubbish and hurt themselves without knowing ...
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| i dont like my mom | 8/14/2008 |
Q: My mom doesnt do a thing for anyone but herself and my older brother. I feel like hes her favorite. ...
A: Hey there. Sorry to pry but do you have a father or stepfather who you can talk to about it instead? ...
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| I do but i don't | 8/13/2008 |
Q: (So theirs this guy that i liked in 8th grade we were bff's and it looked like he liked me and i ...
A: Sorry for the delay, my internet was down the last few days. It sounds like you should just take ...
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| how to get a girl to like me and be my girlfriend | 8/12/2008 |
Q: how can i ask this girl to be my girl to be my girlfriend. Her name is Molly and she just turned 15 ...
A: The present was a really good start, and now that she knows you like her it will be a lot easier. ...
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| Just life really | 8/12/2008 |
Q: I chose you because you said you can answer pretty much anything, erm so im about to explain alot of ...
A: I'm really sorry for the delay in getting back to you, my internet has been down the past few days. ...
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| 17 year old daughter wants nothing to do with me | 8/10/2008 |
Q: I am a single mother of a seventeen year old daughter who is starting college this month. She has ...
A: I feel absolutely awful because I don’t actually know what to suggest. I’m a bit at a loss. The ...
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| 17 year old daughter wants nothing to do with me | 8/10/2008 |
Q: I am a single mother of a seventeen year old daughter who is starting college this month. She has ...
A: As you’re already aware you need to be more consistent with your daughter and continue with the ...
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| please answer | 8/9/2008 |
Q: My new(1) If you were Doreen would you say that yes my mom always thought I was thin and (2) she ...
A: I think that both people are overreacting. If Doreen is getting dizzy and knows what’s causing it ...
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| menstral cycle | 8/7/2008 |
Q: what do teenage females drink/eat when on their menstrual cycle?
A: Hey there. Most teenage females just eat/drink the same as they would the rest of the time, but some ...
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| dad | 8/6/2008 |
Q: im a17 year old male...my dad...gosh i dont know where to begin. my dad treats me like...i dont know ...
A: It sounds like your dad treats you pretty unfairly, and he shouldn’t push you around. I’m sorry but ...
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| teenagers | 8/5/2008 |
Q: I was wondering if you could give your opinion on teenagers being someone else (changing who really ...
A: Hey there. I think that almost everyone will do this at some point in their life, because nobody ...
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| Problems | 8/4/2008 |
Q: I'm 17 years old and I have a couple of problems that are really bothering me no mater what I try to ...
A: Hey Ana. Try keeping a diary of your thoughts, feelings, aspirations, etc. It might not feel likes ...
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| I HATE my stepdad | 8/1/2008 |
Q: MY step dad he is sooo stupid! HE smokes when I'm in the car and I am only 9! I could get sick! And ...
A: It is really unfair when parents appear to take someone else’s side and it must be really difficult. ...
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| can you give me some suggestions to help my boyfriends depression? | 7/31/2008 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend (ill call him bob in the letter) we are both 17 years old, we have been going ...
A: This sounds quite serious and I think your boyfriend really needs to get help. If things were easier ...
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| Paranoia | 7/24/2008 |
Q: my name is Sam and i'm a 16yr old girl. For about a year or so i've been becoming very suspecious ...
A: It sounds like you might have an anxiety disorder but you’d have to get it diagnosed properly. It’s ...
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| my boy friend wants to have anal sex im 15 and not a virgin | 7/23/2008 |
Q: im nervous about having anal sex with my boyfriend he says it wont hurt me and he will go slow i ...
A: The thing about any form of sexual activity is that you have to be sure you’re ready and you want ...
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| Depression | 7/21/2008 |
Q: I'm Meg and I am 15 years old. It probably sounds harsh but sometimes I really hate myself and my ...
A: Depression can be genetic so it’s possible you could have it. It might be a good idea to see someone ...
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| smoking tabacco | 7/20/2008 |
Q: im 16 years old and have been smoking for about a year now my mom constantly uells at me when she ...
A: I’m sure you’re already aware of the dangers of smoking and the health problems it causes so I don’t ...
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| What Happened? | 7/18/2008 |
Q: I've been best friends with this girl for the past 2 years, and about a year ago she moved to a ...
A: Try talking to her about it gently and let her know that you are concerned about her behaviour and ...
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| difficult moms | 7/18/2008 |
Q: let me start by saying that i like NEVER ask for advice over the internet, especially to people i ...
A: You don’t have to be really close to your mother and see her all the time, but it is certainly not a ...
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| Parents.. | 7/18/2008 |
Q: Hey,I'm only 17 but I really need someone to talk to,and I think a stranger can help me more than ...
A: It sounds to me like you should probably see a professional so you can talk about everything that is ...
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| My worst enemy is myself... | 7/12/2008 |
Q: I'm 15 years old, and suffer from depression, generalized anxiety disorder, and even suicidal ...
A: It’s good that you made the first step, getting help, and you’re right, you do need to do some ...
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| Somethings wrong am i going crazy | 7/11/2008 |
Q: I'm 19 years old and have had a troubling past with horrific results. But I'm now engage to a ...
A: It sounds to me like your past is really affecting you now and I believe you should get this dealt ...
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| Family Life | 7/11/2008 |
Q: I'm 15 years old. I have just finished year 11 and I am expecting good average GCSE grades in ...
A: Talking to her is the best way around this. Sit her down when she’s not busy and just the two of you ...
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| help me pls | 7/10/2008 |
Q: hi my name is brittany im seventeen yrs old i feel like my mom has no respect for me or and privacy ...
A: I think you should talk to her again and just calmly explain that you’d like her to trust you a bit ...
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| Devotions | 7/8/2008 |
Q: Hey i have to do a devotion for the youth at my church this thursday night! I am very excited and ...
A: It’s great that you are doing this. It’s probably best to just say it how you see it, that a lot of ...
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| Internet horror | 7/6/2008 |
Q: I am 11 years old and I feel like I want to die. Ever since I first started exploring the internet ...
A: It’s very easy to come across this sort of thing on the internet. I don’t believe that watching too ...
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| ... | 7/5/2008 |
Q: I've been cutting sense seventh grade, I'm in 11th grade now, and now I don't know what else to do ...
A: It’s definitely not easy to stop cutting, especially when you’ve been doing it for so long. You tend ...
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| molestation | 7/3/2008 |
Q: while on a school trip, i was molested by one of my best friend when i was sleeping. i feel like i ...
A: Were you considering reporting it? If so, do it sooner rather than later. If not, confront him about ...
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| My life. | 7/1/2008 |
Q: I feel like the answer i read is exactly like me. I have problems with people, i literally hate ...
A: I’m sorry things are so hard for you at the moment, and I don’t think you are crazy. I think what ...
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| moving out | 6/30/2008 |
Q: I hate living with my parents. I am a pretty responsible 15 year old with good grades, but my mother ...
A: I sincerely hope you aren’t planning on getting pregnant just so you can move out. Think of the ...
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| Shyness | 6/30/2008 |
Q: I'm 17 and I live in Turkey. I've been a shy and quiet person since I was a kid. I've had problems ...
A: Your mother might be a pharmacist but you should absolutely never take a prescription drug, ...
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| eating disorder and self harm. | 6/30/2008 |
Q: This summer started out wonderful. But in the past few weeks, a lot of things have been going bad. ...
A: Sounds like you need to find a way of distracting yourself from all those bad thoughts. Try doing ...
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| My son and i just don't relate to each other anymore | 6/29/2008 |
Q: I have a son who is 15 and a half. I have been a single parent since he was 5 months old and i have ...
A: It sounds like things are very tough for you at the moment. Can you think of a particular point when ...
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| How do you support your teenager after they have been "date raped"? | 6/28/2008 |
Q: My daughter (17) is visiting her mother for the summer. She called and left a message saying that ...
A: I don’t recommend you go over there and get her; her mother will obviously ask questions and your ...
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| My son is depressed and cutting himself | 6/27/2008 |
Q: We were a military family for all of 4 years, in that time we moved 5 times, the 5th time being to ...
A: Firstly, you mustn’t blame yourself for this. It has absolutely nothing to do with your love not ...
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| Moving out | 6/25/2008 |
Q: i am 16 about to turn 17. my family is having a really hard time and i want to forget about them and ...
A: It all depends on what country and what state you live in. The laws are different for every place. ...
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| girl problems | 6/22/2008 |
Q: Emily- I really like this girl and we dated for about four months but due to me being too ...
A: I don’t see how the counsellor can just tell you to move on without any other advice. Yes, that’s ...
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| Parents | 6/19/2008 |
Q: I'm not sure if you could answer this question, but my parents happen to drink very often. It's not ...
A: Have you tried talking to your parents about it and discussed how it makes you feel? Have you asked ...
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| It breaks my heart | 6/19/2008 |
Q: ever since the death of my father when i was 11 i have constantly been struggling with my mother. ...
A: I think you were right; your mother clearly does really need help. This is completely unfair on you ...
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| can't get over my girlfriend's past | 6/18/2008 |
Q: ..I'm in love....I'm so rediculously crazy about her....i have been for a long time...i havn't slept ...
A: You’re probably just a bit jealous, but you need to understand that everyone does things differently ...
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| i am not a teen but i am upset | 6/16/2008 |
Q: Can I ask you something am I reading into this and can I accept her answer when she said I am thin ...
A: To me it does sound a bit like you are reading too far into the comments that were made. She agreed ...
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| Dealing with braces... | 6/14/2008 |
Q: i have yet to tell my girlfriend about them she used to have them and has no taken them off and now ...
A: It probably would have been easier if you’d told her from the start that you were going to be ...
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| trying to locate former xpert | 6/12/2008 |
Q: i was corresponding with "Sarah" and would like to know how i could continue talking with her, even ...
A: I’d try looking at it from Julia’s point of view. She lost her mother and was too young to ...
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| kissing | 6/12/2008 |
Q: i am 16 nearly 17 and i have never properly kissed (made out) with a boy. ive been with my boyfriend ...
A: Kissing is completely natural so your instincts will probably take over. A bit of practise will also ...
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| trying to locate former xpert | 6/11/2008 |
Q: i was corresponding with "Sarah" and would like to know how i could continue talking with her, even ...
A: I’m really sorry but I honestly don’t know how she can be contacted. I’ve never corresponded with ...
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| Parents | 6/11/2008 |
Q: Hey emily, i have a really bad relationship with my mother and father and i cant deal with it ...
A: Have you tried sitting down with each parent individually and discussing these issues? Sometimes ...
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| Stepdad | 6/10/2008 |
Q: I am a sophomore in high school. My mom and biological dad are both doctors. My stepdad is a ...
A: Has your mother noticed this going on? Perhaps you should try talking to her about it and see what ...
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| paranoia. | 6/9/2008 |
Q: ive been feeling paranoid lately and i dont know why. i always feel like someones in the house or ...
A: Is there anyone else you can tell? A school counsellor? Or you could tell your GP and get a referral ...
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| help, am I ready? | 6/8/2008 |
Q: Hey, my name is Kristin and i need some help. I am sixteen years old and me a my girlfriend are ...
A: Firstly, are you one hundred percent sure you are ready for this? You are incredibly young to be ...
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| being me | 6/5/2008 |
Q: I am the 17 year old daughter of a controlling mother. Recently, I asked my mom if I could dye my ...
A: Try sitting her down and explaining that you’re just trying to be an individual and not go along ...
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| High School Problems | 6/5/2008 |
Q: Ive been through a lot starting high school and all.I met this guy thought he was nice and lost my ...
A: Just because he was smiling and stuff doesn’t mean he wasn’t hurt; I’m sure he was only trying to ...
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| confused... | 6/5/2008 |
Q: I am fighting with my parents alot about school and what i plan to do in my future. i'm 16 and i ...
A: Try sitting your parents down and explaining to them how the way they act makes you feel. Explain to ...
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| High School Problems | 6/3/2008 |
Q: Ive been through a lot starting high school and all.I met this guy thought he was nice and lost my ...
A: He probably only went out with these girls to get back at you. I think that if you two decide to get ...
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| My bf needs help telling his parents about cutting/sado-masochism | 6/3/2008 |
Q: I have a boyfriend who lives on the other side of the US from me, I'm 16, he's 15. Before we ...
A: Hey. Do you think it would be better for him to tell his mother himself? That way he can really ...
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| 19 and lonely | 5/30/2008 |
Q: I'm 19 and currently in 2nd year of uni. I still live at home- I'm asian, and my parents are quite ...
A: It’s just what they’re used to, probably from their own parents. Also they obviously really care ...
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| Mom | 5/29/2008 |
Q: Okay a few nights ago I was trying to talk to my mom about how I didnt like the fact she was ...
A: Hey Stephanie. You’re mother is probably already feeling alone and feeling as though she has no one ...
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| Dating | 5/29/2008 |
Q: I'm 14 years old and male. I always see people going out in school, then within a week, they break ...
A: It’s probably because these people aren’t spending enough time getting to know each other so, when ...
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| Summer.. =( | 5/28/2008 |
Q: well the past 6 months have been crazy!! I have had major panic attacks almost daily and never feel ...
A: What I think you should do is go and see your guidance counsellor ASAP and tell her exactly what is ...
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| My Parents vs. My Friends | 5/28/2008 |
Q: Hey, I am 17 and a rising senior in highschool. I play sports, go to church, and am all around a ...
A: So do your parents actually know that your new friends smoke and drink? If they already know then ...
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| pregnant on period?? | 5/27/2008 |
Q: i juz wanted to know. if a female has sex without a condom, but a few days later her period comes ...
A: Yes, it is possible for a female to be pregnant even if she has her periods. It isn’t all that ...
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| Teen Love/Sex | 5/25/2008 |
Q: I am 13 my boyfriend is 13 as of today(happy birthday nick). I have known him since preschool and ...
A: I just really want to say that you should be careful when you do this. You can get STI’s, even from ...
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| my ex | 5/23/2008 |
Q: I don't know if you can help me but my ex and I have been off and on for about a year. For some ...
A: Now that he’s going out with someone else it is probably best to try and distract yourself. I know ...
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| Him :( | 5/19/2008 |
Q: I feel a dickhead writing too youu .. i dnoo hu else to talk to like my friends all help me but ...
A: I think you need to talk to this boy. Just the two of you, because he’s less likely to open up in ...
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| teacher problem | 5/19/2008 |
Q: So Im 13, and right now it's 3rd trimester in my school and my science teacher hates me alot. I ...
A: I know how awful the idea sounds, but it’s probably a good idea if your parents talk to her. That ...
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| am i depressed | 5/18/2008 |
Q: I HAD A GREAT LIFE WITH MY SUPPORTIVE FRIENDS I USED TO COPE UP WITH EVERY THING BUT FROM PAST 3 ...
A: Please don’t use all capitals, use lowercase. I’m sorry, but this is an advice website. I’ve given ...
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| am i depressed | 5/16/2008 |
Q: I HAD A GREAT LIFE WITH MY SUPPORTIVE FRIENDS I USED TO COPE UP WITH EVERY THING BUT FROM PAST 3 ...
A: If you have tried to commit suicide then you should arrange to see a professional psychologist ...
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| just feel so overwhelmed | 5/15/2008 |
Q: My name is Abbey and I am 12 years old. I have anxiety (well, not confirmed, but it runs in my ...
A: Why not try talking to the psychologist? It’s often easier to talk to a stranger, and this would be ...
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| not so sweet sixteen year old | 5/13/2008 |
Q: My once responsible honor school driven daughter is now failing five out of eight classes, 34 ...
A: It is most certainly not up to her. She is a 16 year old girl, a minor, in your care. For them to ...
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| Feeling down | 5/13/2008 |
Q: I've been feeling so down recently. first my grandad died a couple months ago and we're a really ...
A: Have you tried talking to your mum about it? Just try talking to her one on one, explaining what she ...
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| i am so confused and lost | 5/11/2008 |
Q: i'm meredith and i'm 17. When i was six my parents divorced. then my brothers moved in with my dad. ...
A: It is absolutely not your fault that your coach hurt you, and I don’t see how your mother’s death ...
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| mom issues | 5/9/2008 |
Q: my mother is yelling at me for whatever i do- for example - i LOVE to eat frozen toaster waffles ...
A: Oh ok, I’m following you now. Yes, doing it slowly and bit by bit is a good way to start. Also a ...
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| mom issues | 5/8/2008 |
Q: my mother is yelling at me for whatever i do- for example - i LOVE to eat frozen toaster waffles ...
A: I’m not exactly sure what you mean here. You’ve said ‘can you please help me without telling me to ...
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| I needed someone to talk to | 5/6/2008 |
Q: I have found that i am going through many problems in my life and i can't figure it out on my own. I ...
A: Hey again Emily. I’m sorry to hear about all of that, it must be really hard for you. Your aunt ...
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| He wants her... | 5/6/2008 |
Q: I have this mate, Keith. He is really nice and helped me with problems etc. Then I started to feel ...
A: The first step to accepting this is trying to talk to him again. Perhaps you can ask your friend to ...
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| Relationships | 5/6/2008 |
Q: I don't know whether this situation is common or not, but being unable to find an answer anywhere ...
A: I honestly do not recommend you date a girl who you don’t feel much towards. It will only end up ...
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| Could this be the cause?.. | 5/5/2008 |
Q: im 16 now. Well when I was younger like 10-11 my cousin whos the same age touched me very ...
A: Hey again. I’m not actually sure, it depends on the school. You’d probably have to ask her whether ...
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| I needed someone to talk to | 5/4/2008 |
Q: I have found that i am going through many problems in my life and i can't figure it out on my own. I ...
A: It’s a good start that you know you need help. Accepting that is the first step, and getting it is ...
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| Cousins hurt me psychologically - HELP | 5/4/2008 |
Q: 4 years ago i visited my family in America and saw 2 female cousins. Back then i was 14 and was an ...
A: Just try to remember that they aren’t worth it. It was just a load of rubbish, and you know you look ...
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| Could this be the cause?.. | 5/3/2008 |
Q: im 16 now. Well when I was younger like 10-11 my cousin whos the same age touched me very ...
A: I’m sorry for what happened to you. In no way at all was it your fault. You were scared, so of ...
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| girl problems!! | 5/3/2008 |
Q: Ok, I have two topics I want to talk to you about. The first one is my breasts. I'm 14 years old, ...
A: Discharge is probably the main sign; the other one is the development of your breasts. If it really ...
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| Getting a boyfriend | 5/3/2008 |
Q: my name is Danielle and i am 15, i have never had a boyfriend and i only know of 2 guys that ever ...
A: If two boys that you know of have liked you then clearly it has nothing to do with colour and race. ...
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| girl problems!! | 5/2/2008 |
Q: Ok, I have two topics I want to talk to you about. The first one is my breasts. I'm 14 years old, ...
A: Everyone develops at different stages, and just because your friends are further developed than you ...
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| running with big boobs | 5/1/2008 |
Q: Age: 16 Bra size: 34D Height: 5'3 Weight: 134 hi emily =]] well i've been wanting to lose weight ...
A: Try buying a sports bra; these give you much more support and hold you in place a lot better. They ...
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| My Daughter in France | 4/30/2008 |
Q: I have a teenage daughter, age 15 turning 16 in august, in France for the year. She has been really ...
A: It might simply be that she is too young. She is after all only 15 years old and on the other side ...
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| writing | 4/27/2008 |
Q: i love to write, but my mother found my latest picec and read it. she was furious, because she ...
A: I personally believe that writing, reading and literature in general are some of the most important ...
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| DEPRESSION | 4/25/2008 |
Q: last febuary i was sent to a pratraical hospital thing for 7 month but i have been out sents august ...
A: You can’t really be cured until you’ve found out what the cause is, so you should try to find what ...
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| Son lies, steals has no respect | 4/24/2008 |
Q: I am at my wits end. My 18 year old son, Andy lies to us, he steals, he can't keep a job, has no ...
A: I know it’s hard but you have to try really hard not to blame yourself or your husband. Andy could ...
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| related to sex | 4/18/2008 |
Q: respected volunteer im from india n u know here talk abt sex or sex related thing not be ...
A: It would help if I knew how old you are and how much fluid is coming out, but you said it’s just ...
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| help | 4/17/2008 |
Q: i think im developing psychotic depression. which is starting to freak me out real bad. help me out ...
A: Why do you think you’re developing psychotic depression? Are you suffering from any of the symptoms? ...
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| I don't have any friends. | 4/17/2008 |
Q: This has been a problem pretty much throughout my life, but up to about now it never really bothered ...
A: I’d recommend you take up another activity if you have the time. I’m not sure why you had to drop ...
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| gf | 4/17/2008 |
Q: i am 16 and so is my gf. we've been together for 2 years. she is beautiful and smart. her only ...
A: Well I'm glad you talked to her and got your voice across, that's really good. Honestly, if she ...
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| am i a freak? | 4/16/2008 |
Q: sometimes my mom and i get in really big fights. when i was 10 i promised myself to never let her ...
A: Hey Kitty. No, scratching does not make you a freak, absolutely not. It’s a form of self harm and ...
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| gf | 4/15/2008 |
Q: i am 16 and so is my gf. we've been together for 2 years. she is beautiful and smart. her only ...
A: I think you need to sit her down and tell her how you feel about it, and point out that not ...
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| Sex | 4/15/2008 |
Q: me and my boyfirend had unprotected sex but he withdrew before he came. my period is now late my ...
A: You should have used condoms or the pill, or even both because no form of contraception is ...
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| Friendship Problem | 4/12/2008 |
Q: i never dreamed i would have this kinda problem.I'm 24 and doing my bachelors in engineering, ...
A: Hey again. I think you should just trust in her that something is going on and offer your support. ...
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| sex | 4/9/2008 |
Q: I lost my virginity for all the wrong reasons. I was only 14 and now i completley understand why ...
A: It is really hard to deal with losing your virginity when you know you weren’t ready, even if you ...
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| Friendship Problem | 4/8/2008 |
Q: i never dreamed i would have this kinda problem.I'm 24 and doing my bachelors in ...
A: I think perhaps you might have scared her with your question about being friends forever and talking ...
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| Everyone seems reluctant to touch this question.. | 4/7/2008 |
Q: I'm 18 years old and my boyfriend just turned 19. We've been dating for 1 year and having sex for ...
A: There isn’t anything wrong with your boyfriend, he’s just into a form of BDSM. BDSM is an ...
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| guy problems | 4/7/2008 |
Q: I met a guy that I didn't think I would end up liking but I do. The only problem is he has 2 kids ...
A: It’s pretty tough only hearing one thing from everyone, especially when it’s not necessarily what ...
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| confused and scared! | 3/27/2008 |
Q: Im 16 and i have really bad anxiety and panic attacks. Like its really bad, My parents are psycho! I ...
A: Okay, get help immediately!! I do not care that your mother said not to see the counsellor. Go and ...
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| age differences | 3/26/2008 |
Q: "I am a 16 year old girl and I work at an anonymous bussiness and in my state 16 is the legal age of ...
A: If the age of consent for sex is 16 then it is fully legal for you to both have sex, as long as you ...
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| Do you think you can give me some advice? | 3/26/2008 |
Q: Hey Emily, I'm 16, and a sophomore in HS. There's this girl that I like and am also friends with ...
A: So, getting more than just friends. The best way to get more than that is to act like a friend. That ...
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| inviting friends | 3/20/2008 |
Q: This weekend I was planning on having a four of my good friends over to my house to chill ...
A: It’s completely unfair of this friend to invite people over to your house without your consent. It’s ...
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| Confusing feelings | 3/16/2008 |
Q: My situation is that I have a boyfriend and we've been dating for about 6 months and absolutely love ...
A: It’s pretty normal to have feelings for other guys when you’re in a relationship, even in a loving ...
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| Mother Troubles | 3/14/2008 |
Q: Recently my mum and I have been fighting more because I feel that she just doesn't want to listen to ...
A: You could try getting her when she’s not busy and in a good mood and just saying “Mum, how come you ...
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| relatives prob | 3/14/2008 |
Q: i'm not sure tht my question wud fall in this category but i cudn't find any other. i'm 17yrs ...
A: I understand how you feel; I can’t stand my cousin’s husband. The thing is, he’s never done ...
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| hi | 3/10/2008 |
Q: I really hope you can answer this for me! I just started dating this guy who is 17 and I am 15. He ...
A: It depends if you're having sex with him. If you're just dating then its fine, but sexual ...
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| girl problems | 3/10/2008 |
Q: so this girls in my science class i really like. shes 15 and has a bf whos 19, yea mesd up right? im ...
A: Hey there. Obviously you can't progress things if she has a boyfriend, and if she doesn't fancy you ...
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| More Problems More Problems | 3/7/2008 |
Q: i been with my boyfriends for a year and half now... When we first meet everything was all good and ...
A: Just because you haven't been having sex doesn't mean that he's cheating on you. Boys don't ...
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| am i under weight | 3/3/2008 |
Q: i weight 70lb and i am 1m 60cm am i under weight because my friends have been calling me anorexic ...
A: If you meant 70lb aka pounds, then yes you are under weight. If you meant 70 kilos, then that's ...
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| Please help me, i cant do this anymore! | 3/3/2008 |
Q: Srry in advance for how long this is but i wanted you to know everything. I am 18 years old and I ...
A: You really shouldn’t be expected to pay all of that! Especially if you are pregnant, you’ll need all ...
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| religious abuse | 2/27/2008 |
Q: ok i dont know why but my parents thought it would be a good idea to choose a religion. they are ...
A: This is without a doubt the most unusual question I've ever encountered. You don't have to believe ...
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| My mom &* favouritism | 2/24/2008 |
Q: my sister is a really high achiever at school .. shes in like the top 2% out of 2500 kids .. and ...
A: A lack of good communication is one of the worst things, and makes life very difficult, as you've no ...
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| How to work through finding out my 15 yr old just lost her Virginity | 2/22/2008 |
Q: I was having a sit down talk with my 15 yr old daughter about rules and feelings and she ended up ...
A: I can imagine how shocked you must be, and must be having a pretty hard time coming to terms with ...
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| jb.nate steve.aaron ashley.kati | 2/19/2008 |
Q: Alright this is going to be so long. In liek september i met this kid nate by hanging out with him ...
A: It sounds to me like whatever you said to him on the phone (that he dared you to say again) offended ...
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| friendship | 2/18/2008 |
Q: i'm going about my friendship! lets say if one of my friends did something bad! what should i do?
A: It all depends on what they did. If it's something illegal then you should talk to your friend about ...
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| period | 2/18/2008 |
Q: my name is jessica and i have my period! i'm 11 yrs. old almost 12. i started about a month ago. i'm ...
A: The doctor can only give you an estimate, a guess, so its not certain that you'll grow to 5ft. 5in. ...
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| Monthly Periods | 2/15/2008 |
Q: I'm a 16 year old girl and I'm a bit confused really. I haven't had sex and haven't really gone ...
A: It could be a number of reasons. As long as you haven't had contact with semen then we can rule ...
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| teenage daughter | 2/14/2008 |
Q: My 14yr old daughter lies constantly and steals. She recently broke open her younger brothers piggy ...
A: You're doing the right thing with grounding and confiscating things she likes, and its a good sign ...
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| 12 Year Old Daughter | 2/11/2008 |
Q: My daughter always dresses like a boy and always wants to be the centre amongst her classmates. ...
A: I'm not sure what you mean by "correct her thinking". What issue do you see with her dressing like a ...
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| christian & GOTH | 2/9/2008 |
Q: i don't know if you've ever heard about chritian goths,well me myself didn't hear it that much,in ...
A: Christians can be goths. There are actually quite a few websites just for Christian goths, so just ...
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| I dont think its nomal | 2/6/2008 |
Q: Hey, for the past two days I have been getting this brownish discharge. Normally I would think this ...
A: No, it shouldn't be leftover blood, not from a month ago, especially as you said its only been the ...
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| I dont think its nomal | 2/5/2008 |
Q: Hey, for the past two days I have been getting this brownish discharge. Normally I would think this ...
A: Firstly, are you having any pain, particularly when you go to the toilet? Does the discharge smell ...
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| Teen menstral | 2/5/2008 |
Q: If a girl is 13 and has a cylcle and then has not had another in 7 months is this cause for concern
A: When you say 'cycle' do you mean a period? As long as you haven't had sexual intercourse then its ...
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| overbearing mother | 2/4/2008 |
Q: Hey Emily. My name is Max. I'm 15 years old, but will be turning 16 on the 21st of February. Also, I ...
A: That's really unfair of her to be doing this, and not actually explaining what her problem is. So, ...
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| :S ??? | 2/3/2008 |
Q: hey, well lyk all 14 yr old girls, i lyk a guy hes lyk.. 17 - in yr 12. and lyk i've never really ...
A: Okay well I still think you should meet him in person. Try to pretend you aren't shy and just get to ...
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| :S ??? | 2/3/2008 |
Q: hey, well lyk all 14 yr old girls, i lyk a guy hes lyk.. 17 - in yr 12. and lyk i've never really ...
A: Being Lebanese shouldn't matter. Maybe talk to your mum about why she has a problem, see if she'll ...
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| :S ??? | 2/2/2008 |
Q: hey, well lyk all 14 yr old girls, i lyk a guy hes lyk.. 17 - in yr 12. and lyk i've never really ...
A: Hey Amanda. Before you consider forgetting about him you should get to know him in person. Just ...
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| Im gay and not allowed 2 be | 1/24/2008 |
Q: Im Mormon and if u havn't heard of them it is a religion that does not allow homosexuality. ...
A: Yeah, I've got some relatives who are strictly Mormon, and they won't even drink coffee. No idea ...
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| i think i am staring to hate my friend | 1/20/2008 |
Q: i think i am stating to hate my friend chloe because she is going out with my friend tom and i like ...
A: You're obviously jealous of your friends because you like Tom. You can't let this ruin your ...
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| my mom | 1/15/2008 |
Q: just for some background, my mom and i have a terrible relationship. like the worst ever. i have ...
A: Unfortunately you can't do anything about her invading your privacy because you aren't a legal adult ...
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| diets | 1/11/2008 |
Q: Since middle school i have lost a lot of weight and i really want to keep it off but i have such a ...
A: The hardest part is always wanting to snack! Try to monitor your snacking, like tell yourself you'll ...
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| having a hard time chasing my admirer | 1/10/2008 |
Q: ..i am having such a hard time just to get my admirer to notice me.i just don't know how to get him ...
A: He's trying to tell you that he just wants to be friends. From the way he went offline so quickly I ...
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| tampons | 1/10/2008 |
Q: .. I'm 14 and just started using tampons afew days ago because I have to go swimming everyday. I ...
A: Hey Nicole. As long as you change your tampons every 2 - 3 hours, or depending on how heavy your ...
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| Im worried about my sister, please help. | 1/8/2008 |
Q: though my question is about my sister I am trying to give a little back history so you understand ...
A: Hey Allie, you are absolutely not overreacting, this is all very serious. Your mother technically ...
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| is it possible to get her back? | 1/7/2008 |
Q: im a chinese boy, age 15,from Brunei. I fell in love with this girl last June. She a malay girl, ...
A: Ok, she's giving mixed answers and its impossible to tell how she feels or what she thinks. You ...
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| I Need Help!! | 1/7/2008 |
Q: i love this girl and have done for 7 months she now fancies me after she got with and finished with ...
A: I'm glad it went well with the boys. Now, as for changing her mind. I think that the best way to ...
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| is it possible to get her back? | 1/6/2008 |
Q: im a chinese boy, age 15,from Brunei. I fell in love with this girl last June. She a malay girl, ...
A: Having that idea isn't stupid, not when you love someone that much. But definitely do not do it! If ...
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| I Need Help!! | 1/6/2008 |
Q: i love this girl and have done for 7 months she now fancies me after she got with and finished with ...
A: That's a difficult situation to be in. You need to get Zoe alone and just tell her you love her. ...
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| is it possible to get her back? | 1/5/2008 |
Q: im a chinese boy, age 15,from Brunei. I fell in love with this girl last June. She a malay girl, ...
A: I believe that you can get her back. You need to see her face to face and tell her how you much you ...
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| so scared | 1/5/2008 |
Q: I've been in a relationship with my "boyfriend" for four years, and im attached to him more than ...
A: Hey there, it must be really difficult for you. Some of the things you mentioned sounds like ...
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| Stressful New Years | 1/3/2008 |
Q: I'm 16 years old, a sophomore in High School and my name is Bill. I think my biggest issue is that i ...
A: Hey Bill. I think you should cut down on giving out advice and spend some time on you. You need to ...
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| I feel like giving up..! | 12/29/2007 |
Q: Me and my ex were together for nearly 10 months and we recently broke up and i dont know what to do. ...
A: Hey Tara. I don't know how you can tell him this without actually telling him, because it could ...
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| help me | 12/28/2007 |
Q: im a 13 year old girl and im really deppressed. I have been to the doctors and they have said that i ...
A: Young Peoples Service Southwick Annex (previously Carley Hill School) Emsworth Road Sunderland SR5 ...
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| help me | 12/28/2007 |
Q: im a 13 year old girl and im really deppressed. I have been to the doctors and they have said that i ...
A: Hey Laura. This must be really hard for you. Firstly, about people saying stuff. You need to tell ...
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| confused | 12/26/2007 |
Q: I really don't know where to begin. there's just been so much latly. I jsut had a fight with my ...
A: If you're feeling alone then you should just try to spend as much time with your friends as you can. ...
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| a friend | 12/21/2007 |
Q: SECOND PART): tonight at dinner Stacy wanted to clear things up since what her mother sad bothered ...
A: I think Stacy is overreacting because her mother just made a small comment and now Stacy has turned ...
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| rosie and her mom | 12/21/2007 |
Q: KEEP IN MIND THAT ROSIE’S MOTHER EVEN SAID THE 99 CENT JEWELRY IS GORGEOUS. STORY: about my friend ...
A: Rosie's mother probably just means that she doesn't want the coworkers thinking that Rosie can't ...
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| friend problems | 12/13/2007 |
Q: me and my best friends had a fight a few weeks ago and i made up with one of them but the other 2 ...
A: Hey Jess. Maybe you should ask the friend that you made up with if she's knows what's going on. ...
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| i think i lost touch with my best friend.... | 12/13/2007 |
Q: okay im a 9th grader at a huge highschool! when i was in 8th grade at my junior high i was quite ...
A: Hey Raphael, you need to talk to Sam!! You have to get her alone some time and just ask her straight ...
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| guys | 12/10/2007 |
Q: I'm 17 and had my first proper boyfriend this year and we were in love,we went out 4 half a year den ...
A: Hey Caroline. This sort of thing is common after a break up, especially your first real one. Its ...
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| friend issue | 12/10/2007 |
Q: i have a friend and last year we were very close. Although, i do feel that I, in particular, was too ...
A: Hey Chris. It's great that you and Kyle are friends again, but don't forget about Daniel. You're ...
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| Love | 12/7/2007 |
Q: I have known this guy for 2 years. And I have fallen in love with him, there just something about ...
A: Hey Gemma. Chances are you're only infatuated with him. Infatuation feels sooo much like love and ...
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| Why??? | 12/5/2007 |
Q: Well my name is Kim im 14 and i have a 16 yr old boyfriend. He is very kind and my parents have met ...
A: Hey Kim. Have you tried talking to your parents about this? You're right, its completely unfair ...
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| I just need someone to talk to :( | 11/30/2007 |
Q: First, I'm 19 years old, but I still consider myself a teen, and this upcoming whine-fest will ...
A: Far out, that sounds really hard. I'd hate living like that! It's completely unfair on you. Have you ...
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| helping a young mothers website | 11/30/2007 |
Q: My name is Samantha Graham and i am currently running a website for young mothers (like myself). My ...
A: Hey Samantha. I had a look at your website and I think its great. I'd love to be able to help out, ...
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| human stupidity | 11/30/2007 |
Q: im 18, going to military bording school, andlast year i tried to kill myself by drinking bleach. ...
A: Hey, that's a really tough situation to be in. You have to try your best to ignore them, no matter ...
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| stressed out | 11/29/2007 |
Q: I have a 12 year old step son who i have assisted in raising since he was 3 years old. the problem ...
A: Hey Angela. Ah dear, that's difficult. Okay, was he by any chance abused when he was younger, or any ...
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| moving out | 11/27/2007 |
Q: I am 16 years old and i cant stand my house anymore. I always get blamed for things i didnt do and i ...
A: Hey Amanda, it all depends on who you want to move in with, and where abouts you live. There are ...
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| STUCK IN DA MIDDLE...... = [ heeellp.. | 11/20/2007 |
Q: i am a 13 yr old girl and i jus recently had a MASSIVE fite wid my mum. my parents are devorced and ...
A: I understand why you don't want to leave your mum all on her own, but if it gets abusive then its ...
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| not sure | 11/19/2007 |
Q: At 7 i went to my friends house with all my friends and then 1 of them had to go home so there was ...
A: Hey Jade, you need to confront your friend when she's not with her new boyfriend and ask what is up ...
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| Guy Problems | 11/17/2007 |
Q: Hey! Ok. I don't know if this is the type of stuff you answer but here it goes... there is this new ...
A: Well try not to worry about going red, its normal. Ok, if you don't wanna go over and talk then wait ...
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| Guy Problems | 11/17/2007 |
Q: Hey! Ok. I don't know if this is the type of stuff you answer but here it goes... there is this new ...
A: Hey Coco. I had the exact same problem when I was in high school. I spent all my time trying to get ...
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| TEENAGE BOY SHOWS NO RESPECT | 11/16/2007 |
Q: He is a very quiet kind of person, but he shows no respect for his mother at all. I have been ...
A: Ok Santie, you need to explain to him that it worries you. Tell him that if he expects to be out ...
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| Friends | 11/16/2007 |
Q: I only have one friend that I want to hang out with afterschool and I am a junior in highschool. I ...
A: Hey Kelsey. Instead of leaving it to your old friends, how about you make the first move? Try ...
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| Living with a weak mother | 11/14/2007 |
Q: my name is Stacey and luckily I am senior in high school. I say luckily because I am not living in ...
A: Hmmm Stacey, this is really hard. Ultimately its your choice whether you stay or not, but it takes a ...
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| 14 year old son lies and steals | 11/14/2007 |
Q: Hi Emily hope you have some advice for me my son constantly lies about anything he will steal things ...
A: Hey Kevin. There is no simple answer on why he does this, or how to stop it. A common cause of this ...
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| parents,school and social life | 11/8/2007 |
Q: my name is caitlin and im 13. i find that my parents are very protective of me, and i know they're ...
A: Hey Caitlin. I think you should just have a talk with your parents, try to explain to them that you ...
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| Drinking 14yo | 10/30/2007 |
Q: I'm 14 year old boy in year 8 and live in australia in canberra. Recently there have been more ...
A: Hey Nick. It's really good to hear that you're sensible about drinking and stuff, and understand all ...
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| i couldn't find a better subject to post under... | 10/29/2007 |
Q: ...but I suppose it is somewhat of a psychological problem. I can't go to sleep at night after ...
A: Hey I'm not sure if this is the right section or not, but I'll try my best to answer it. Apart from ...
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| Tough times | 10/28/2007 |
Q: Hey, i am so sorry to bother you! I just feel a little confused at the moment. I'm 16 and i know ...
A: Hey Jenny, this is pretty much up to you but I really really encourage you to tell someone. Even the ...
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| studying problems | 10/28/2007 |
Q: whenever i start to study a lesson, i get all sorts of questions in my mind as to why is it like ...
A: Hey, nothing is normal in this life! You're entitled to think however you like, and those are really ...
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| Tough times | 10/26/2007 |
Q: Hey, i am so sorry to bother you! I just feel a little confused at the moment. I'm 16 and i know ...
A: Please tell someone. You ARE strong, whether you believe it or not. I know you can do this. Please ...
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| "Want to be friendly" | 10/24/2007 |
Q: and a kind of shy but am trying to get friends but its not working, i tryed to talk to others but ...
A: Hey Cesar. You probably shouldn't have told him not to talk to you. It makes you sound very ...
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| Tough times | 10/21/2007 |
Q: Hey, i am so sorry to bother you! I just feel a little confused at the moment. I'm 16 and i know ...
A: Hey Jenny, no way is bullying just for little kids. It happens to everyone, and it doesn't matter ...
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| family , a lot of stuff | 10/18/2007 |
Q: hey im ashli im a christain an i just came acressed this site an im glad i did cuz i need someone ...
A: Hey Ashli I think it'd be better if you stayed with your dad, but then you can still go and stay ...
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| Complicated Freind Problem (s) | 10/17/2007 |
Q: (This is going to be difficult to understand, Im sure) So I am a christian senior in high school, ...
A: Hey Annie. Wow, that's pretty complicated! Well from what you've said it doesn't sound like there's ...
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| please help me | 10/15/2007 |
Q: i had a major crush on this guy in my church. earlir this year he asked me for my number and started ...
A: Hey, I wish it were easier but the only real way to get over someone is time. I guess that the best ...
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| please help me | 10/14/2007 |
Q: i had a major crush on this guy in my church. earlir this year he asked me for my number and started ...
A: Hey, your brother sounds like a bit of a jerk. He shouldn't have done all that, but I suppose he was ...
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| I want to be a boy | 10/13/2007 |
Q: I seriously hate being a girl. I am 12 and you probably think i'm too young to be thinking like this ...
A: Hey Brooke. I just wrote a reply and then my computer went all weird and I lost it just as I was ...
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| What do I do about this? | 10/11/2007 |
Q: I'm a little confused on what to do, and I need some help here, so I hope you can. I am 18/Male/Sr. ...
A: Hey Matt. Someone's popular with the ladies lol. Ok, ask yourself. Who do you like more? Hard ...
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| What do I do about this? | 10/9/2007 |
Q: I'm a little confused on what to do, and I need some help here, so I hope you can. I am 18/Male/Sr. ...
A: Hey Matt. Ok well there is no way you should have to do all that stuff. If you don't wanna drink, ...
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| please im lonely | 10/7/2007 |
Q: im 16 and about to graduate i cant account for a rally good friendship and social life in school. ...
A: Hey Vicki, I say stuff them. Those people from your school sound like total idiots who aren't worth ...
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| moving away | 9/30/2007 |
Q: I hope you can answer this question that I am about to ask... should i commit suicide? i have been ...
A: Hey again, I'm glad you decided against suicide. The idea of the nice dinner and anniversary is ...
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| Im feeling like Im goind crazy... | 9/27/2007 |
Q: I am 17 and going through school. I don't do the best in school but I try. I have many friends and ...
A: Hey Ryan, I definitely think you should go and see a doctor. Your family dont need to know about it ...
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| moving away | 9/26/2007 |
Q: I hope you can answer this question that I am about to ask... should i commit suicide? i have been ...
A: Hey Alex I really don't think suicide is the option. But we've all thought about it at times. School ...
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| why do we need love? | 9/23/2007 |
Q: Love. Why do we need it? Other than relatives'/friends' love, why do we fall in love with other ...
A: Hey sorry it took me a couple of days, I tried to do this yesterday but the computer went all dodgy. ...
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| does he like me? | 9/22/2007 |
Q: okay, im 14 and currently in high school. i have a crush on one of my classmates and im not sure if ...
A: Hey, boys make no sense at times! It sounds to me like he really likes you, but then when you said ...
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| Is my mom being too strict? | 9/18/2007 |
Q: I'm 17 and will be going off to an in-state college next year that is 3 hours away. I live with my ...
A: Sounds like your mother just really cares about you and doesn't want her little baby growing up. Try ...
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| Don't know.. | 9/17/2007 |
Q: One of my main supports in life, is in the hospital, and is in horrible condition.. and I've ...
A: Hey Michelle, maybe try and return the favour? You say this person is in hospital in a bad way. Go ...
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| i know its wrong. | 9/15/2007 |
Q: i think about killing my self and i cut alot. i'm a christian and i know that christians don't ...
A: Hey Shannon. You're right about Christians not approving of it, but still a lot of people who think ...
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| fighting with my mom | 9/13/2007 |
Q: i have a question. what should i do when my mom won't listen to anything i say? whenever we get in a ...
A: I know its hard, but try not to point out what she did wrong. Just bite your tongue and go along ...
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| I don't know what to do. | 9/12/2007 |
Q: I have a boyfriend, aka my best friend that i really like a lot. He finally asked me out a few weeks ...
A: Hey Charlotte, I think you need to sort out what part your friend has in this. You and your ...
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| Love problems... | 9/9/2007 |
Q: ..I fell in love with a girl thats a best friend of mine. We kissed just 2 days ago. Now the ...
A: Hey Jan, its really sweet that you guys love each other. I reckon you should talk about it with her, ...
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| paranoia | 9/3/2007 |
Q: I'm Ant and I'm a 15 year old girl. For ages now i have been having these crazy paranoid delusions ...
A: Hey Ant, I don't think you're crazy, or a freak. Just a possibility, has something happened to you ...
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| bullies | 8/30/2007 |
Q: Most of my life people have spreaded rumors about me and tried to hurt me physically and ...
A: Ok sorry, I think I'm following where you're at now! Finally lol. Okay, just try these three tips: ...
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| bullies | 8/27/2007 |
Q: Most of my life people have spreaded rumors about me and tried to hurt me physically and ...
A: Hey, sorry but I think you should involve adults. I've been bullied before and it never would've ...
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| my boyfriend | 8/25/2007 |
Q: hea Emily i go with this boy name drew and we been dating for a month and overtime he's at his grand ...
A: Hey Jasmine I think you need to talk to your boy and ask him what's going on. Tell him you don't ...
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| Shaving Facial Hair | 8/20/2007 |
Q: I'm 15 and my facial hair is growing and I feel that everyone can see it so I want to shave it but ...
A: Hey, it's hard to say without seeing it, but your Dad probably knows what he's talking about. After ...
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| friendship | 8/20/2007 |
Q: well i used to be best friends with this one girl named meggan. untill one party when she ditched me ...
A: if Meggan is threatening to kill you then you need to tell an adult immediately! Whether it be your ...
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| constant arguing | 8/16/2007 |
Q: me and my girl friend are both 15 and we have been goin out for about 5 mounths i want to know is it ...
A: Yeah its normal to be at each other's throats in a relationship. The time out is a good idea, but ...
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| Love problems.... | 8/14/2007 |
Q: Ok im 18 years old and i have a girlfriend that i date for 2 years, she is 17 years old. Everything ...
A: Hey there. I don't believe you have anything to worry about. She obviously loves you heaps, and the ...
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| Life Goals and Holding on | 8/13/2007 |
Q: I was wondering if you could help me understand myself. I've been institutionalized for four weeks ...
A: Okay, first thing I'll say is: you've obviously changed heaps, and for the better, since you were ...
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| my boyfriend | 8/6/2007 |
Q: ok i have this boyfriend and i love him a lot and he does too..i think. you see, everything was fine ...
A: Hey Tiffany, sounds like you need to have a chat with your boy. If he's only replying to his friends ...
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| eating | 8/6/2007 |
Q: Im 16 years old and weight 9stone 5 pounds, I am a gymnast and runner. Most of my friends are like ...
A: don't panic! You are not fat, your weight is normal. The reason your friends are skinny without ...
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| help... | 8/6/2007 |
Q: My best friend (shes also my cousin) And i are gotinto a fight. She asked me a queston and i got ...
A: Hey Jacks (sorry, I love that nickname!). Sounds like your cousin is pretty upset with the whole ...
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| i hate myself | 8/5/2007 |
Q: well. ever since gr9 ive jsut been a mess. in grade 8 i was bullied every single day about whether ...
A: Ohh Hayley, I really want to give you a hug right now! The first thing I'll say is that your so ...
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| family issues | 7/29/2007 |
Q: im 14 years old.my mom has divorced with my dad a long time ago. she just separated from my stepdad ...
A: Hey Erin, Okay, your mother has obviously been unhappy in past relationships, and maybe having a ...
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| my mom | 7/20/2007 |
Q: hey, I'm 15 and ever since i can remember my mother has ignored me. i will tell her things going on ...
A: Hey Dee, Your mother probably regrets a lot of stuff she did, and maybe she can see herself in you ...
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