About Natasha Wallis Expertise If someone is experiencing problems with their gender and wishes to develop coping strategies to move forward, stay still or cope without changing gender, I should be able to provide some help. Also anyone who needs advice on how to pass, transition, have surgeries and live successfully as a woman will get valid sensible advice
Experience I am a postoperative ts woman who has been involved in personal development, motivation, life coaching and mentoring all my life. I have had extensive FFS and SRS surgery and am a senior moderator on some well known support sites. Designed and led "Why me? Am I transsexual" and Employer/employee Diversity Training Workshops.
Publications Msn & Yahoo Support Groups on matters relating to transsexual people.
Education/Credentials BA Biology; Personal Motivation Trainer; Qualified Mediator. Mentor
Awards and Honors Small Business Award Winner 1995
Question Hello my name is jeremy and I have always loved women but lately I have found that I also like transsexuals. Mostly the girls that still have there penis. I was wondering if this makes me gay or that I just like girls with dicks. I don't mean to sound rude if I do I'm sorry I have nothing against transsexuals. I would also like to know what is it like having boobs and a penis at the same time. If you can tell me everything about what it is like it would help me a lot. Thank you for your time.
Answer Hi Jeremy
I first of all must apologise since I am sure I had replied to your message a lot earlier but anyway i am doing so now.
Transsexual women are the most actively growing sector of the adult services industry and as such it must therefore be a great demand which now includes you.
Many observers of this phenomenon have found that men who profess to be very much heterosexual guys find preoperative transsexual women and transvestite men quite a turn on because it sort of "excuses" them from thinking they are gay or bisexual. Clearly most women do not have a penis and many of the women on these websites only do this sort of work to help them fund their SRS when they will be complete and will no longer have any attraction as what the industry rather rudely calls "she-males".
Most preop ts women live full time and do NOT expose themselves on the internet and in fact most are very ashamed and upset to possess a penis so you can imagine they would be highly unlikely to be part of your fantasy.
The women who are on the websites are therefore very transitory people and there are not that many of them that succeed. To achieve any level of success they undergo quite a lot of facial feminisation surgery and also have boob jobs, in fact anything to make them look female with the sole exception that their penises must stay.
The presence of a penis is therefore critical and it is this you allude to in your question. It is not so much them looking female but more that when it comes to the money shot it is the presence of her penis that turns you on.
It therefore follows that for you, you are having a homoerotic experience looking at such women and most men who seek out this sort of pornography are in many cases gay/bi men in denial. They find penises erotic but only on what is to them, a man looking like a woman. From the ts woman's perspective the hormones they take to feminise reduce their libido and erectile potential and so they take things like Viagra to make them hard.
There is nothing wrong with feeling as you do and many normal preop ts women would like to have a boyfriend who does not worry about what is in her knickers until such time as she has had her SRS i.e. has a vagina. Most preop ts women do not see anyone when they are in this state since both male and female suitors only want you for your penis whilst that is the most reviled part of their body and often ts women will forbid anyone seeing her genitals as a result.
You did ask what it is like to have breasts and a penis and for most it is an awful time where the girls are counting the days when it can be converted to a vagina after which time many women just blossom into wonderful girlfriends where their past has no relevance to anyone they go out with.
If you ever get an opportunity to meet or go out with a ts woman who is not working in adult services, you will find her to be no different to a woman who was assigned as female at birth.
I hope this is of some help to you. Just do not feel guilty about it - enjoy your feelings and sexuality - it might one day lead you into a wonderful relationship with someone that you can love.
