Hi Trey,

I just wanna ask what are the countries that ts would most likely to find love???

Hope to hear from you soon....

Hi there, Paula!

This question might as well be asked 'What are the countries where a person is most likely to find love?'. A TS is not some otherworldly creature that has to 'find love' only in specific location. A TS is simply another type of human being who, like other human beings, can find love anywhere. As with all people, it depends on their interests, their preferences, their lifestyle (TS included or otherwise), their priorities, et cetera. 'Love' cannot be boiled down to a certain location. 'Love' has to be found with a whole variety of other criteria. In the end, you would be better off looking for love right where you are, using the usual criteria one would look for love.

Is it more difficult to find a partner as a TS? Certainly, in the same way it is more difficult to find a partner in any fringe. However, finding it, unfortunately, doesn't take the magic wand of one specific country.

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I am able to answer questions about transexual and transgender issues of many kinds, but in particular those tilted toward the FTM (Female-To-Male) transgender. I can offer tips for dressing, passing, binding, packing, behavior, and the like for both drag and full lifestyle/gender transition. I may also be able to offer some help with finding local peer groups, should you be interested in peer counseling. Sexuality issues, MTF (male-to-female), and other gender issues can also be touched on and I may be able to help, and for those who may be concerned, I am kink-friendly, and while I recognize that transgender and cross-dressing are two different things, am well aware of how they can intersect.

I am not a professional (I repeat: I AM NOT A PROFESSIONAL!) but I can also offer some general peer counseling suggestions and help with finding groups for all branches of gender identification and sexuality. If you are in need of finding a professional, I may be able to find a name in your area to help.


I am personally FTM transgender, living full-time and accepting of my gender identity. I am nonsurgical, and have no desire to have them done (so am unable to offer personal experience these) though I have been on testosterone as of January 2012. I am well-accepted, well-supported, and have been a support for many individuals through the years.

I have been part of a number of groups, though moving has kept discussions to long distance since then. I am well-studied for a great many years in this area, having begun reading up on it when I first identified and having kept up on it since then. I have no medical credentials in the area of gender counseling but have been part of multiple peer counseling groups and to this day help educate where I can, having not only helped with offering information on the subject to fellow transgender individuals but educated professionals along the way through my personal experience.

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The Transgender Project (!trey-mcgowan) Not writings, but videos. Part of a half-hour episode which will be airing on iChannel and OutTV.

I have completed grade school, some high school, and my GED.

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