About Natasha Wallis Expertise If someone is experiencing problems with their gender and wishes to develop coping strategies to move forward, stay still or cope without changing gender, I should be able to provide some help. Also anyone who needs advice on how to pass, transition, have surgeries and live successfully as a woman will get valid sensible advice
Experience I am a postoperative ts woman who has been involved in personal development, motivation, life coaching and mentoring all my life. I have had extensive FFS and SRS surgery and am a senior moderator on some well known support sites. Designed and led "Why me? Am I transsexual" and Employer/employee Diversity Training Workshops.
Publications Msn & Yahoo Support Groups on matters relating to transsexual people.
Education/Credentials BA Biology; Personal Motivation Trainer; Qualified Mediator. Mentor
Awards and Honors Small Business Award Winner 1995
Question Hello Jenifer..Let me start by saying that I am a 42 year old man, married now for 22 years with 3 children...I love my wife and kids..I have been crossdressing now for almost 19 years..and for all those years I have wondered and asked why my..why do i get these feelings..feelings to want to dress...feelings of feeling femme...and why does it bring me so much pleasure to dress...why does it feel so natural...why over the years have the feeling grown stronger...stronger to dress more often..to go out...to be more and more femme and be a female more often....am I a cd..a transgender???what am I...so confused....I have been to doctors..shrinks that is..and it has got me nowhere...can u shed some light
Answer Hi Kristie
I do not know how old this question was but I seem to recall someone with the same name, age and partner profile asked a question or two back in late May 07.
If this is indeed you, I am sorry to read you are still having issues that seem unresolved.
Perhaps you might find doing the Cogiati Test of some help to you? :
It is clearly not an absolute test though it might help to reassure you of your feelings, but trying to deny those feelings is not a good thing at all and it could make matters worse.
