AboutVaughn Gardner Expertise I can't think of any questions that I can't answer. However, I've learned over the years that I hardly hold all the answers in the world. So, if questions arise that I can't answer, first I'll check the Net to see if there are any, and then pass it on the questioner, second if I can't find any I'll refer them to someone who can.
Experience I, myself, am a 51yr old FtM, currently pre-op, who began on my own transgender journey in 2000, so I'm familiar with what brought me to the realization that I was/am transgender and the trials and tribulations that can come along the way
Organizations APA (American Psychological Association) Undergraduate Student Afiiliate Member ACA (American Counseling Association) Undergraduate Student Member I'm a co-founder of the community college PRISM club (People Respecting Individuals and Sexual Minorities); served as one of two Co_Chair positions in 2007.
Education/Credentials I'm pursuing a degree in psychology (A.A. awarded in 2007, now pursuing my BA - 2009, MA and/or PsyD - a year or two later) and my focus will be with the gay/bisexual/lesbian/trans, particularly in the trans, areas. Other I've spoken on college campuses on being transgender as well as every quarter during my time at CC I spoke to the Human Sexuality class as well as the Gender and Society class when it was offered. I am a licensed ULC minister and have served as a high priestess for an online coven prior to my beginning the trans journey. I was a pentecostal for 25yrs before leaving the church and now follow an eclectic Wiccan path.
Question Respected sir,
i'm here to ask u a question that i'm a gay.so there is no erection when i was with a women.i want to know can gays have a great sex with women.
shall i marry a women.my dick measures only3.5inches in erection.can gays produce a child.pls answer my question.
thank u sir
Answer Mahesh,
Thanks for writing.
Can gay men have great sex with a womyn? Not usually. If they do have sex with a womyn it's usually no more passionate or exciting than doing a choreographed dance with someone. Does that mean a gay man can't orgasm with a womyn? Depends on the guy - I mean rub the right bits together like a hand job or oral sex, maybe, but as a rule? No.
Can a gay male produce a child? Yeah. Viable sperm is potent as long as there are no medical reasons that would interefere with the sperm's health.
Btw, while size does matter to some people that's not always the case. Satisfaction is much more than putting the sexual genitalia bits together. It's been said that our largest sex organ is between our ears and in most cases that's true because ingenuity, imagination, intution and sensitivity to our partner's needs can make things sastifying for both parties... providing the attraction is there to start with. Otherwise, as I said, it's nothing more than a choreographed dance.
