About Natasha Wallis Expertise If someone is experiencing problems with their gender and wishes to develop coping strategies to move forward, stay still or cope without changing gender, I should be able to provide some help. Also anyone who needs advice on how to pass, transition, have surgeries and live successfully as a woman will get valid sensible advice
Experience I am a postoperative ts woman who has been involved in personal development, motivation, life coaching and mentoring all my life. I have had extensive FFS and SRS surgery and am a senior moderator on some well known support sites. Designed and led "Why me? Am I transsexual" and Employer/employee Diversity Training Workshops.
Publications Msn & Yahoo Support Groups on matters relating to transsexual people.
Education/Credentials BA Biology; Personal Motivation Trainer; Qualified Mediator. Mentor
Awards and Honors Small Business Award Winner 1995
Question What do you think about a guy that loves sex and all with girls, but has a thing for pre-op transexuals. He has no attraction to men. He likes receiving anal sex, being a sex toy to a actual ts. Is he 'GAy' or bi or ?.
thanks
Answer Dear kris
If you are expecting a preop ts woman to use her penis on you, then the act itself is the use of a male sex organ on you and if she is being compliant in this regard, almost certainly it is a gay act.
This means you are bisexual and you might find if you investigate it further that you are what is often referred to by transpeople as a homophobic homosexual in that you wish to be anally penetrated by a man's penis but you cannot bring yourself to allow a manly man to do it, so you have sought out a preop ts woman, who looks female to do it to you.
If your desire is to be seen as a "sex-toy" to a ts woman it raises the question as to whether you have a need to be "forced" into having gay sex "against your will"? I am happy to discuss with you further if you wish to but you would not be alone since society still frowns on being gay.
Whereas this sort of behaviour is commonplace for preops and nonops who are in the adult services market, as in Shemales, a preop who is working towards her SRS might be grossly offended by being asked to use what se sees as her hated donor material on you.
A non-adult-services preop ts woman generally would not wish to use her penis on anyone or even have it touched or seen since she would perceive it to be incongruous to her body image.
Perhaps you might find a better fit for you interests to seek out bisexual TVs who would have fewer problems in this regard.
