AboutPaul E Expertise All questions on relationships both family and otherwise.
Experience Past/Present clients:
Many and various, never on a professional basis, as I consider the experience I have (along with my age) has given me wisdom and should be freely available.
"Freely receive, freely give"
I am married with two grown-up stepsons, one of which has his own family with four sons. I have been on counseling courses and have varied experience in the workings of the human psyche, been involved on different levels in supporting and helping others with problems, I can often operate on an empathic level.
Organizations I belong to: I attend a local church which has proved invaluable in continuing my experience in relationships.
Expert: Paul E Date: 8/25/2006 Subject: My GF and Me
Question The other day my girlfriend of a year turns round to me and says, i dont want a boyfriend anymore i want a man. in this one instant i lost all pride, self esteem, self confidence everything, my world in my mind collapsed and i was left paralysed, i didnt know what to say.
She doesnt want to break up with me, but i dont know what she means, can you help?
Answer Well....Jamie, it means she wants out, for whatever reason.
She sounds like she's bored with you, you surely do not live your life based upon her opinion of you ("in this one instant i lost all pride, self esteem, self confidence everything, my world in my mind collapsed and i was left paralysed, i didnt know what to say") do you?.
You need someone who can appreciate your qualities, your humour, your strengths as well as your weaknesses.
Thats it Jamie, "seek an ye shall find", sure dont sound like shes the one for you.
Let me know what you decide, as thats what men do, they make decisions.
