AboutPaul E Expertise All questions on relationships both family and otherwise.
Experience Past/Present clients:
Many and various, never on a professional basis, as I consider the experience I have (along with my age) has given me wisdom and should be freely available.
"Freely receive, freely give"
I am married with two grown-up stepsons, one of which has his own family with four sons. I have been on counseling courses and have varied experience in the workings of the human psyche, been involved on different levels in supporting and helping others with problems, I can often operate on an empathic level.
Organizations I belong to: I attend a local church which has proved invaluable in continuing my experience in relationships.
Expert: Paul E Date: 5/17/2006 Subject: relationship break ups
Question i was with my girlfriend for seven years she turned round to me last week and asked me to move out she says she doesnt love me anymore and that she wants her own space because she feels trapped i love this girl very very much can you give me some advice on what i can do to save this relatonship
Answer Hi David, first of all , I must appologise for the delay in replying to u, I have been on vacation and I forgot to change my page to let people know I would be away for a week or so.
Now to your question, first and fourmost, you cannot force anyone to love u, you love because u feel loved, its a two way relationship, when one side breaks down, the relationship is in jeopardy.
The both of u need to sit down and talk about your "relationship" and be honest with each other.
There were probably warning signs that u failed to heed to, now the ultimate decision has been forced on u, as u see the reality of what u had and what u have got left know, if the both of u cannot sit and talk, its already too late.
Its now make your mind up time, carry struggling or just make a complete break while u can, to avoid hurting each other and more.
