AboutPaul E Expertise All questions on relationships both family and otherwise.
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Many and various, never on a professional basis, as I consider the experience I have (along with my age) has given me wisdom and should be freely available.
"Freely receive, freely give"
I am married with two grown-up stepsons, one of which has his own family with four sons. I have been on counseling courses and have varied experience in the workings of the human psyche, been involved on different levels in supporting and helping others with problems, I can often operate on an empathic level.
Organizations I belong to: I attend a local church which has proved invaluable in continuing my experience in relationships.
Expert: Paul E Date: 7/5/2006 Subject: Is there still hope to get my ex boyfriend back?
Question Me and my ex were togetehr for just over 18 months, and we broke up last wednesday. It was awful, the desicion was mutual, we broke up 'cos we spent far too much time together, got bored, irritated, argued over little things. It's been a week now and I have done nothing but think about him and I really want him back. I love him and I knew he still loves me too. I have called him everyday since we broke up, which is stupid I know and is just pushing him awya but I'm too weak. Just called him to see how he is, if he wants to meet up or anything. I saw him once too and we hugged and I didn't wanna let go. He's being so cold about it all, and I need to stop acting like this if i'm gonna get him back I know, but I can't help it. Breaking up was a big mistake, I realise that, and it was me who started the conversation about breaking up. We could have and should have worked things out.If anything I am just pushing him away. Do you think there is any hope? or how should I get him back?
Answer Hey Girl, do ya really want him back, whydu wanna a man with a cold heart, to love a warm person, be honest girl with yourself, whats the reason you really want him back, is it the sex, huh, can u see your self growing old with this coldhearted person.
Get real with yourself girl, ask yourself some difficult questions, you might surprised with the answers.
Ok you were getting bored with each other, cos you spent too much time an that, but aint that what marriage is for, "companionship" and all that stuff, and you got bored after only 18 months, what would happened if you were married and had some kids huh, get some advice from some of your friends and family, whats your folks think about what happened, I gotta leave it there, you got enough to think about anyway girl.
Let me know what happens
Paul
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