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I am 29 years of age. From 3 years I am suffering from sexual problem.My penis is not getting excited even if I watch or think any sexual thing. I need to touch my pen..s and need to rubs it to make it strong and harder but when leave the hand on it it goes very quickly normal and soft...My nocturnal emission has benn kept off from occurs 1 times within a year. and the amount of semen is very low. I am very anxious about my future sex life...will i able to that or will i be able to become a father...!!! My pen..s size was 5 inchi but now i observed its 4 and half inchi when it gets too hard.
Is there any permanent solution of ED or Premature ejaculation.Is herbal useful?
I am worried.
Please help me. I am very much ashamed of going to see a doctor..


Like it or not, you will need go see a local physician.  We see this type of problem all the time. The exact cause of your problem is not clear from your statement but it is clear there is at least some anxiety related issues.  Treatment is usually very successful but no herbal remedies.have been proven to be effective.

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QUESTION: Thnks for ur kind reply,
Sir a doctor suggest me that every day in bathtub keep myself into warm water. it will increase sparm...does it really work?


Use of the hot tub can help with prostate inflammation and prostatitis but will not help with all of your issues.

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1)Actually I have bad habit of excessive masturbation. Though I have these types of problems that mentioned previous but I can't leave it. Its just like addiction.If I leave it then will it fix my problems?

2)I want to ask a question is there any permanent solution for ED ,Premature ejaculation,impotence?

3)What should have to do if penis nerves are damaged? Will it be able to recover by medicine without surgery?


Excessive masturbation really isn't any real medical condition.  However more normal activity may help.

There is no permanent cures for ED with the exception of purely psychogenic. Premature ejaculation can be cured.

There is no median all or surgical cure for nerve damage. Most of the time it slowly heals by itself.


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Stephen W. Leslie, MD


Questions concerning erectile dysfunction, kidney stones and prostate disorders including prostate cancer. I have a special interest in kidney stone disease prevention.


Full time practicing urologist with 30 years experience. Associate Professor of Surgery and Chief of Urology at Creighton University Medical Center. Editor in Chief of eMedicine Urology internet textbook. Author of only NIH approved book written for patients by a urologist on the subject of kidney stones "The Kidney Stones Handbook". Inventor of the "Parachute" and "Escape" kidney stone baskets and the "Calculus" stone prevention analysis computer program.

American Urological Association, Ohio State Medical Association, Sexual Medicine Society

Men's Health, Journal of Urology, Urology, Healthwatch Magazine, Emergency Medicine Monthly, eMedicine, "The Kidney Stones Handbook", and numerous articles in various newspapers. He is also the editor of the Urology Board Review by McGraw-Hill used by urologists to study for their Board Certification Examinations.

Graduate of New York Medical College with residencies completed at Metropolitan Hospital New York, Albany Medical Center and University of Wisconsin-Madison.

Awards and Honors
Thirlby Award of the American Urological Association. Rated as one the country's Best Urologists by the Independent Consumer's Research Institute

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